View Full Version : I'm kinda fat...but I don't care.
NinaDaisy
04-15-2008, 10:16 AM
so why do you feel the need to be negitive?
You must have obviously quoted me by accident, since in the post I talked about celebrating women's bodies as they are and to not make the assumption that being very thin involves self-abuse of any kind. I also told Alexxa that I think it's great that she's accepting of herself as "thick" even though she looks pretty damn good ad shouldn't be down on her looks, especially since her new body is from bringing a new life into the world.
It's okay though. I forgive you. I'm not one to hold grudges against people for silly little things.
velvet
04-15-2008, 08:48 PM
oops you were misquoted. this was even the wrong thread. sorry.
dollyrocker
04-15-2008, 11:00 PM
Your bod is bangin'!
Delilah27
04-16-2008, 12:05 AM
To the OP I love your ass...it's so sexy when a woman has nice soft thighs, hips and ass...not just a skinny chic with legs then an ass. (Skinny chics don't flame me just my preference)
AlexxaHex
04-16-2008, 08:46 AM
Is there a smiley for :girlorgy:? lol
scarlet_is_yummy
04-16-2008, 09:25 AM
Fuck. Yeah. I needed to hear a girl who is happy with her body. i love mine yay!!
zxcire
04-16-2008, 09:30 AM
me too! i'm sexy and woman-like with softness in the right places and muscles to kick ass.
PleasureVictim
04-16-2008, 01:36 PM
Fuck. Yeah. I needed to hear a girl who is happy with her body. i love mine yay!!
I love mine also- and I'm glad Alexxa has jumped on board. We certainly need more women to join in this revolution!
holiday
04-16-2008, 08:50 PM
Alexxxa you look awesome!!! And your attitude is great. We all have issues with our bodies. At least I think we all do. And it is really weird how our perception is. Like you feeling fat, I know from day to day I can swing from one end of the spectrum to the next. One minute I'm staring at my gigantic thighs in the mirror cringing and the next minute I'm giving a lap dance to a guy who tells me I'm skin and bones and I see my ribby back in the mirror and think that looks frightening :sigh: :-\ Your thread is great. We all need to be proud of all of our different shapes. And it isn't a competition, even though it feels like it sometimes. Because we all have those insecurities. Fat girls, skinny girls, anorexic girls, whatever.
london
04-16-2008, 09:32 PM
Alexxa,
I think you look fantastic! Many women would do anything to have a body like yours.
muladoll
04-16-2008, 10:31 PM
Thank you Alexxa for this post/thread. I'm a mother too, and experienced a permanent change in my body that I need to be proud of. I struggle constantly with the changes and it seems to depend on what side of the bed I wake up on. Sometimes I think I look pretty damn good and sometimes I'm completely disappointed and can't get myself into work. I guess I always go back to remembering what I looked like when I was narcissistic and prebaby. I suffer from body dysmorphic disorder. I need to remind myself that I'm beautiful and have the perfect amount of curves on a daily basis.
So.... I'm saying, "Fuck it. I don't care. I'm perfect the way I am!"
Thank you
Chrissy68
04-16-2008, 10:53 PM
whoaaaa just saw this thread. well, im not goign to echo the other ladies in saying how thin you are (ok cant resist, you dont look fat, but you look like i look before i lost weight, and shiiiit i was banking then :P), but I am goign to say how your confidence is what really makes me so attracted to your personality. I firstly have to apologize for not calling last weekend, i'm so incredibly busy it's unreal, but when i come back from Spain, evil cunt, you's gettin called.
This thread.. is.. awesome. period. yup. thanks twin!
southstbabe
04-17-2008, 11:26 AM
Is there anyone else who is sick of being a slave to an unnecessary weight loss epidemic? Are you tired of being told that you are not thin enough? I say 'fuck it'. Be proud of every inch of you. You are a beautiful woman and you have every right to claim that title.
*raises hand*
I am! I am!
I've accepted that I will never EVER have the body that I once did 20something years ago. It's physically impossible. I've had a child, I've gotten older, I've gained weight and lost it and gained it again and lost it again. My focus is to be fit and healthy. I eat right and I exercise. I love my curvey shape and as long as I stick with a healthy and fit lifestyle, I think I'll be lovin' it for quite some time. This is the body God gave me. I'm thankful for it. It could have been a lot worse.
I like your attitude and you look beautiful too.
AlexxaHex
04-17-2008, 12:51 PM
whoaaaa just saw this thread. well, im not goign to echo the other ladies in saying how thin you are (ok cant resist, you dont look fat, but you look like i look before i lost weight, and shiiiit i was banking then :P), but I am goign to say how your confidence is what really makes me so attracted to your personality. I firstly have to apologize for not calling last weekend, i'm so incredibly busy it's unreal, but when i come back from Spain, evil cunt, you's gettin called.
This thread.. is.. awesome. period. yup. thanks twin!
I think you were hot before you lost weight too. Obviously your customers thought the same! In the end it's not really about how much money you make. It's how you feel about yourself, and if that's all good it will help you bank. So yeah I agree confidence is really important in ALL areas of life. If I don't believe in the "product" (me) that I'm selling then I won't be able to sell it as well. On all fronts I had to stop beating myself up for my physical self being different than it was pre-baby.
It's ok about the not calling. I worked Saturday instead of Friday and of course I am always busy like you are. So no sweat. I'm sure we'll talk again soon. :)
Starfire
04-19-2008, 12:19 AM
This thread is awesome. it's nice to see a thread about being confident and feeling good!You go AlexxaHex!!
Great thread, being in the new mommy club and working again I can really relate. I dont feel fat at all except at work. "real world" fat and "stripclub" fat are two different things. In my everyday life I feel gorgeous and confident.I'm working hard to lose a little more weight, I'm doing right by my body. Whatever. But in the SC world I'm made to feel less than. Not so much by customers , but by dumbass managers that try to put me on wack shifts becuase I'm not a size 4 and assume I can't make money. Fuck it, there so much more to life.
AlexxaHex
04-19-2008, 08:48 AM
^^YES! Real world fat and SC fat are definitely two different things.
TheTempest
04-19-2008, 09:47 AM
^Good point!