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kaiarose
04-23-2008, 02:46 PM
^^ I was referring to msonyxorb's post :)


Oh. Ok! Sorry it just seemed that all of the sudden everyone was assuming I wanted to break up with him. Miscommunication, my bad!

iambonbon05
04-23-2008, 03:36 PM
You do agree though, that blowjobs every morning like clockwork (suggested in this thread) is the opposite of spontaneous?
True, I do think that's a bit much along with looking put together ALL the time. I try not to look like ass all the time but I think I'm entitled to look grubby once in a while when at home. Besides I think a guy may not notice makeup but he WILL notice a blow job :P

Waking him up that way every morning is a bit much. Doing it a couple times a week is a pleasant surprise.

That, and the more you have sex, the more you want it. And if you're regularly, er, relieving him he'll be able to last better and all that good stuff when you're actually having sex.

cherry_sin
04-23-2008, 04:03 PM
Hate to offend your feminist sensibilities, msonyx, but my opinions may be a bit of the sex slave variety since I AM a sex slave.

But I digress. I agree daily bj's are not spontaneous. But the more sex you have, the more sex you get. And very few guys can have a raging hardon and just say, nah, I'd rather go make some cereal. So - sex. Or at least sexy play. More you have, the more you'll get.

The reason I suggest in the mornings is because it's before all the daily stresses, before your mind gets on other things, before you're super tired or grumpy.

My own personal opinion, Ms O, is that I could NEVER be in a relationship where a man never wanted me to dress up or, indeed, didn't prefer when I did. I like a man who appreciates me taking care of myself. Who wants me to look and feel my best. Who knows that taking time to do something for myself makes me re-affirm that I am sexy, beautiful, and WORTH taking care of. If I had a man who was content to let me swim in my old gray sweatpants and look ratty all the time I would question why he wasn't interested in my self worth and potential.

But of course, I'm a sex slave. So there you have it.

I do know I get laid at least once a day. Usually twice. That every effort that I make is appreciated, and cherished. That I always end up getting what I want and need in bed, as often as I need it.

But hey. God forbid I do something sweet for my Master like blow him in the mornings or make sure I look nice. Jeez.

Jenny
04-23-2008, 04:25 PM
Cherry - that sounds like it works great for you; but many - I daresay most - women are not full time submissives and might not find your lifestyle as well suited to them, you know?

Relationship are give and take; there is a sense in which strapping on a bra and some lip gloss seems like a small thing to make a guy happy. But I know for damn sure that I would feel resentful and bad about myself if I had a boyfriend who was only attracted to me when I was "gussied up". I would also not love the idea of waking up and giving a blow job every morning just so that he'll want me - not because I dislike oral sex, just because it would feel to me like I was setting up a situation in which he gets to decide when I'm sexy enough for him and I'm constantly jockeying for his approval. I get that might sound super for you, but it might not sound so good to a lot of people.

Anyway - I'm glad that the OP's plan is working out for her. Because ultimately relationships are about what works for the people in them.

cherry_sin
04-23-2008, 04:30 PM
^I totally agree my lifestyle is not for everyone. I just felt like Ms O was being pretty dismissive and insulting by letting me know how disgusting she thought I was when I was just making a suggestion to the OP (that didn't in any way say she should go subby).
Just sharing part of what works for me that I thought might be a viable way to help spice things up.
:)

Jenny
04-23-2008, 04:34 PM
People draw from their own experience when giving advice; there is nothing wrong with your experience, and it is entirely possible that miss kairarose has a preference closer to yours than mine. I don't think that your suggestion was disgusting at all.

Jenny
04-23-2008, 04:36 PM
^^
did that sound condescending? If it did, I didn't mean it to. Please take it as not being condescending.

cherry_sin
04-23-2008, 04:40 PM
Totally not. :) You're one of the few people on here I don't feel like they are baiting me/being hateful when they disagree, esp. in re: my lifestyle. *highfive*

VegasPrincess
04-23-2008, 05:12 PM
^^^

You're a full time sub? Explain!! Does that mean it carries out of the bedroom into like other stuff?? (I'm totally curious, NOT trying to be a weirdo by asking lol!!)

I think it's great to go the extra mile for your man....I'm just saying my bf isn't big into the whole make up, super dressed up look at all. Ever. Don't get me wrong, I shave my legs every day & other body maintence knowing I will probably be getting laid, and nasty prickly legs arent hot lol.

I personally also prefer not to wear make up during the day, and I am casual at home. Even tho I'm bartending right now I work somewhere where I have to get very dressed up.....and it's like, for me, when I'm chilling at home before work, I just want to be comfortable....

cherry_sin
04-23-2008, 05:25 PM
^i'll PM you. I would hate to threadjack her. ;) And it usually turns into a threadjack.

VegasPrincess
04-23-2008, 05:26 PM
^^

Thanks!! ;)

PuertoRicanPinup
04-23-2008, 05:50 PM
I'm all about dressing up for the SO. But mostly it's for myself, *I* feel better/sexier when I look pretty.

msonyxorb
04-24-2008, 03:41 AM
Hate to offend your feminist sensibilities, msonyx, but my opinions may be a bit of the sex slave variety since I AM a sex slave.

But I digress. I agree daily bj's are not spontaneous. But the more sex you have, the more sex you get. And very few guys can have a raging hardon and just say, nah, I'd rather go make some cereal. So - sex. Or at least sexy play. More you have, the more you'll get.

The reason I suggest in the mornings is because it's before all the daily stresses, before your mind gets on other things, before you're super tired or grumpy.

My own personal opinion, Ms O, is that I could NEVER be in a relationship where a man never wanted me to dress up or, indeed, didn't prefer when I did. I like a man who appreciates me taking care of myself. Who wants me to look and feel my best. Who knows that taking time to do something for myself makes me re-affirm that I am sexy, beautiful, and WORTH taking care of. If I had a man who was content to let me swim in my old gray sweatpants and look ratty all the time I would question why he wasn't interested in my self worth and potential.

But of course, I'm a sex slave. So there you have it.

I do know I get laid at least once a day. Usually twice. That every effort that I make is appreciated, and cherished. That I always end up getting what I want and need in bed, as often as I need it.

But hey. God forbid I do something sweet for my Master like blow him in the mornings or make sure I look nice. Jeez.

i dont get the morning thing. i am super moody tired and feel stinky and gross in the morning. if anything its when im most stressed. i prefer nighttime after ive brushed my teeth and preferably showered. the idea of doing anything sexual in the morning grosses me out. maybe you wake up with fresh breath and powdery fresh body in the morning just bursting with energy? idk. id rather fall asleep after an orgasm, not have to wake up and have the rest of the day ahead of me. but maybe thats just me.

"If I had a man who was content to let me swim in my old gray sweatpants and look ratty all the time I would question why he wasn't interested in my self worth and potential."
So do you expect the same thing from your man? or is he allowed to go around looking like a slob. Thats one of the things that pisses me off the most. Men dont have to wear makeup or dress up, women do. its fucked. Are you interested in YOUR man's "self worth and potential." I am sorry you measure your self worth on how you look really. Another thing women seem to do that men don't. Are you only worth taking care of if you look good? That's kind of a fucked up way of thinking. But I notice you seem to be a submissive so thats where our thinking may be completely different. I will never understand or accept your lifestyle, it just seems counter respecting yourself, counter human. We worked for years to free ourselves from slavery and you bring it on yourself. It just makes no sense to me.

ivygrl
04-24-2008, 04:19 AM
I'm all about dressing up for the SO. But mostly it's for myself, *I* feel better/sexier when I look pretty.

This is how I feel too. I like the way I look when I have my face on - and pay attention to myself.

Of course I have sweats and t-shirt days... and I need to watch my pores, too... but I enjoy being a girl and looking the part.:D

cherry_sin
04-24-2008, 09:18 AM
"If I had a man who was content to let me swim in my old gray sweatpants and look ratty all the time I would question why he wasn't interested in my self worth and potential."
So do you expect the same thing from your man? or is he allowed to go around looking like a slob. Thats one of the things that pisses me off the most. Men dont have to wear makeup or dress up, women do. its fucked. Are you interested in YOUR man's "self worth and potential." I am sorry you measure your self worth on how you look really. Another thing women seem to do that men don't. Are you only worth taking care of if you look good? That's kind of a fucked up way of thinking. But I notice you seem to be a submissive so thats where our thinking may be completely different. I will never understand or accept your lifestyle, it just seems counter respecting yourself, counter human. We worked for years to free ourselves from slavery and you bring it on yourself. It just makes no sense to me.

I certainly do expect my Man to take care of himself. I won't submit to a man I don't respect. It's a gift I don't give lightly, and certainly not to a slobby bummy man who won't shower.

I'm not only worth taking care of if I do my makeup; doing my makeup reaffirms to myself that I'm worth taking time out of my day to do something special for myself and my body. It could even be picking out a new lotion or putting my feet in my foot spa; it has nothing to do with walking around the house looking like a slut and everything to do with taking time out to do something nice for myself and my body because I DESERVE IT.

Women worked to get out of oppression so I had the right to CHOOSE. In choosing to submit I take a path that is more freeing and takes more strength of will and heart than many women I know.

Since you are so blatantly attacking me and calling me and my life choices names even though I am not responding in that manner to you; I could very well tell you what I think self-entitled women like you are doing to this country, to our men, and to our relationships. I'm going to take the high road though, especially as my asterik key isn't working. If you have something else to say to me I encourage you to feel free to PM me so we stop threadjacking.

kaiarose
04-24-2008, 09:23 AM
i dont get the morning thing. i am super moody tired and feel stinky and gross in the morning. if anything its when im most stressed. i prefer nighttime after ive brushed my teeth and preferably showered. the idea of doing anything sexual in the morning grosses me out. maybe you wake up with fresh breath and powdery fresh body in the morning just bursting with energy? idk. id rather fall asleep after an orgasm, not have to wake up and have the rest of the day ahead of me. but maybe thats just me.

"If I had a man who was content to let me swim in my old gray sweatpants and look ratty all the time I would question why he wasn't interested in my self worth and potential."
So do you expect the same thing from your man? or is he allowed to go around looking like a slob. Thats one of the things that pisses me off the most. Men dont have to wear makeup or dress up, women do. its fucked. Are you interested in YOUR man's "self worth and potential." I am sorry you measure your self worth on how you look really. Another thing women seem to do that men don't. Are you only worth taking care of if you look good? That's kind of a fucked up way of thinking. But I notice you seem to be a submissive so thats where our thinking may be completely different. I will never understand or accept your lifestyle, it just seems counter respecting yourself, counter human. We worked for years to free ourselves from slavery and you bring it on yourself. It just makes no sense to me.


I know that my man does take the time out to look good. He's in the same business as most of us here and I swear he is more worried about what he looks like then I am! Anyways, I see nothing wrong with dressing up for your man and showing him that you still care what he thinks. There's nothing wrong with keeping him visually interested. I think most of us can agree that it makes us feel good when our men take a double take at us or get a hard dick when we put the effort into ourselves.

msonyxorb
04-24-2008, 09:30 AM
I know that my man does take the time out to look good. He's in the same business as most of us here and I swear he is more worried about what he looks like then I am! Anyways, I see nothing wrong with dressing up for your man and showing him that you still care what he thinks. There's nothing wrong with keeping him visually interested. I think most of us can agree that it makes us feel good when our men take a double take at us or get a hard dick when we put the effort into ourselves.

eh if he liked you hed be visibly interested whether you wear makeup at all. though him being a stripper explains a lot about why he probably has a low sex drive.

and to the submissive slave- i never said anything about not showering. but when was the last time your man put makeup on or had a manicure?

PuertoRicanPinup
04-24-2008, 09:36 AM
So do you expect the same thing from your man? or is he allowed to go around looking like a slob. Thats one of the things that pisses me off the most. Men dont have to wear makeup or dress up, women do. its fucked.



No one is forcing you to wear makeup or dress up. In fact, there are many men that hate it just as much you do. There are also men who wouldn't even casually date someone that wasn't all done up (hair/nails/etc.) and that's okay too! Just date the former, and leave the latter to girly girls that enjoy the primping like me!



But I notice you seem to be a submissive so thats where our thinking may be completely different. I will never understand or accept your lifestyle, it just seems counter respecting yourself, counter human. We worked for years to free ourselves from slavery and you bring it on yourself. It just makes no sense to me.

Feminism is not about choosing one lifestyle over another. Feminism is about equality and respect. Just because you don't approve of her being a sub does not mean that she is setting back the woman's movement.

cherry_sin
04-24-2008, 12:33 PM
Ms Onyx, my man always has a manicure so as not to hurt my delicate bits. He hot oils his hair and stays in good shape. As I said - I do not beleive in looking good for someone who will not respect the gift you are giving by doing so.

++Edited++

Starfire
04-24-2008, 02:41 PM
eh if he liked you hed be visibly interested whether you wear makeup at all. though him being a stripper explains a lot about why he probably has a low sex drive.

OMG kaiarose, I hope you are not taking what msO is saying seriously. Just because your boyfriend has a low sex drive right now, at this moment, doesn't mean he doesn't "like you" or doesn't find you attractive without makeup on.
it sounds to me like you are just trying to do a little extra to add some spice back to a long relationship, and there is nothing wrong with that, and i think we should all be supportive.

Nini Nieb
04-24-2008, 07:37 PM
Totally not. :) You're one of the few people on here I don't feel like they are baiting me/being hateful when they disagree, esp. in re: my lifestyle. *highfive*

I for one don't think you are weird or something :-*

I think all women to some degree like being submissive, and for many good reason !? Or else the missing out some very good fun ... I like but only parttime.

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Giving blowjob everyday is overdoing it IMO. At least for me ... I like to think of my self as a BJ/queen. I would like to do it 1-2 times a week. I'm gotting lazy. Doing it 3-4 times a month :-[ I have to improve here !!

BJ is fun but not that funny }:D

Maybe it depends on how you define a BJ. I don't define it as a part of foreplay.

A BJ is all the way ... start to finish ... no strings attatched ... just focussing on him ...

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Being submissive for your own good and giving BJ for your own good doesn't NOT in anyway contradicting being a kinda feminists ... IMO ...

charlie61
04-24-2008, 08:31 PM
We worked for years to free ourselves from slavery and you bring it on yourself. It just makes no sense to me.

Isn't this the exact same kind of judgment we get for being strippers? People who look at our choices and say that we're destroying the feminist standpoint?

I personally know a few lifestyle subs, and I aspire to be as open-minded as they are. We should all support each others' choices (as long as they aren't hurting anyone else)...otherwise, women will eat each other alive. And then where will we be?

kaiarose
04-25-2008, 09:38 AM
OMG kaiarose, I hope you are not taking what msO is saying seriously. Just because your boyfriend has a low sex drive right now, at this moment, doesn't mean he doesn't "like you" or doesn't find you attractive without makeup on.
it sounds to me like you are just trying to do a little extra to add some spice back to a long relationship, and there is nothing wrong with that, and i think we should all be supportive.


No worries! I know he loves me but after awhile you have to spice things up again or you'll be like an old married couple.

austinatalie
04-26-2008, 12:58 AM
Isn't this the exact same kind of judgment we get for being strippers? People who look at our choices and say that we're destroying the feminist standpoint?

I personally know a few lifestyle subs, and I aspire to be as open-minded as they are. We should all support each others' choices (as long as they aren't hurting anyone else)...otherwise, women will eat each other alive. And then where will we be?

QFT. I can't believe the ignorance displayed here.

TigersMilk
04-26-2008, 03:08 AM
women will eat each other alive. And then where will we be?
There will be a bunch of cocks wondering around. :D

msonyxorb
04-26-2008, 03:30 AM
No one is forcing you to wear makeup or dress up. In fact, there are many men that hate it just as much you do. There are also men who wouldn't even casually date someone that wasn't all done up (hair/nails/etc.) and that's okay too! Just date the former, and leave the latter to girly girls that enjoy the primping like me!



Feminism is not about choosing one lifestyle over another. Feminism is about equality and respect. Just because you don't approve of her being a sub does not mean that she is setting back the woman's movement.

You do know that these men who wont date a girl who isnt primped are all assholes and abusive right?

msonyxorb
04-26-2008, 03:33 AM
Isn't this the exact same kind of judgment we get for being strippers? People who look at our choices and say that we're destroying the feminist standpoint?

I personally know a few lifestyle subs, and I aspire to be as open-minded as they are. We should all support each others' choices (as long as they aren't hurting anyone else)...otherwise, women will eat each other alive. And then where will we be?
A stripper would only be in a submissive position if money was not involved. The fact that we need the money in order to do this shit puts us in power of the situation. We arent doing it because it's our "womanly duty" we are doing it because we can and we can profit off it, whereas very few man can profit off being "sexy."
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Partly why submissives disturb me is because i used to kind of be one. In highschool i would let guys take advantage of me, i would feel its my duty to serve them and i would even call my guy master and call myself his little slut. Its not something im proud of and i realize now how little respect i had for myself and how degrading it was. I guess if you have never acted like that yourself and haven't grown out of it you wont understand my viewpoint but its really a disgusting way to see yourself and treat yourself and i see it as a sign of really ridiciously low self esteem.

PuertoRicanPinup
04-26-2008, 03:36 AM
You do know that these men who wont date a girl who isnt primped are all assholes and abusive right?

Riiiight. And all strippers are drug addicts.

ivygrl
04-26-2008, 03:43 AM
Riiiight. And all strippers are drug addicts.

We aren't?:shhh:

Lysondra
04-26-2008, 07:20 AM
Riiiight. And all strippers are drug addicts.

*sniff* What? I'm *sniffle* not a freaking *sniff* drug addict you *snorf* bitch.

cherry_sin
04-26-2008, 08:13 AM
Ms Onyx, it's only wrong if you get manipulated into it.

Your ignorance is dazzling.

Part of why submissives bother you is because you obviously can't be arsed to do shit for anyone and claim what you think of as feminism as a cause. I feel so sorry for you. When it boils right down to it I have the happiest, most drama free, loving relationship of anyone I know. And apparently I'm a lot more liberated that *you*, regardless of whether I get tethered to the bed at night or not.

I'm staying the fuck out of this thread. I refuse to have a battle of wits with someone who is clearly completely unarmed.

msonyxorb
04-28-2008, 03:07 AM
Ms Onyx, it's only wrong if you get manipulated into it.

Your ignorance is dazzling.

Part of why submissives bother you is because you obviously can't be arsed to do shit for anyone and claim what you think of as feminism as a cause. I feel so sorry for you. When it boils right down to it I have the happiest, most drama free, loving relationship of anyone I know. And apparently I'm a lot more liberated that *you*, regardless of whether I get tethered to the bed at night or not.

I'm staying the fuck out of this thread. I refuse to have a battle of wits with someone who is clearly completely unarmed.

Youre right, i cant be bothered to do anything because im worth more than that and therefore have people to do it for me. I'm a princess whereas you are a slave and you will forever be serving people and giving up all you have for them whereas i will always be pampered and spoiled because i dont allow people to treat me like shit. Seems like my situation is a lot nicer :-)
I have the happiest sweetest most loving relationship out of anyone i know too, and i am by far not a submissive nor would i ever allow myself to be taken advantage of like that anymore. If you're using your own relationship as proof of what you are doing as healthy then I have the right to use my own too, and my guy treats me like a freaking queen, not a slave.

Flick6
04-28-2008, 04:14 AM
I have been biting my tongue but I just have to say you are incredibly ignorant in this area. Just because you were in an abusive situation as a young teenage girl does not negate the lifestyle choices of a grown woman.
It didnt work for YOU, how the fuck do you know what works for others???

I am not a submissive, but I have had submissives, let me say they were cherished and well respected. Most Maters/Mistresses work hard to keep their subbies happy, to play games with them and nurture them. Coz um a sexy young female subbie is like GOLD, and at the end of the day they knw it.

Being degraded by some teenage boy is not being a lifestyle submissive.
I dont think you have any experience of the lifestyle, I think you were a young girl that was taken advantage of. Direct your disgust to your abuser, not an entire group of often happy, well loved people.

Sorry to contribute to threadjacking, I just get so tired of opinionated ignorance.



Youre right, i cant be bothered to do anything because im worth more than that and therefore have people to do it for me. I'm a princess whereas you are a slave and you will forever be serving people and giving up all you have for them whereas i will always be pampered and spoiled because i dont allow people to treat me like shit. Seems like my situation is a lot nicer :-)
I have the happiest sweetest most loving relationship out of anyone i know too, and i am by far not a submissive nor would i ever allow myself to be taken advantage of like that anymore. If you're using your own relationship as proof of what you are doing as healthy then I have the right to use my own too, and my guy treats me like a freaking queen, not a slave.

ellebelle
04-28-2008, 04:19 AM
You do know that these men who wont date a girl who isnt primped are all assholes and abusive right?

WTFever. Some people just have standards in which appearance is one of them. I know my boyfriend is partly attracted to me because of my looks, but I know there is a whole bunch of other stuff that makes him attracted to me too. That doesn't make him an asshole, that doesn't make him abusive, it just means he wants someone who is the whole package.

CherryonTop
04-28-2008, 04:31 AM
Bloody hell... I'm amazed how this went from one girl asking for ideas on how to spice up her rxnship (which is why I came here, I too need to do something!) to one girl stating that a woman making effort is akin to taking back the feminist movement...

If someone is happy in the relationship they're in, who are we to judge it?

Lysondra
04-28-2008, 04:36 AM
WTFever. Some people just have standards in which appearance is one of them. I know my boyfriend is partly attracted to me because of my looks, but I know there is a whole bunch of other stuff that makes him attracted to me too. That doesn't make him an asshole, that doesn't make him abusive, it just means he wants someone who is the whole package.

On the flipside, I'd hope to G-D my partner dressed nicely and looked good for me!

VegasPrincess
04-28-2008, 04:58 AM
eh if he liked you hed be visibly interested whether you wear makeup at all. though him being a stripper explains a lot about why he probably has a low sex drive.

?

Uhh.....what???


Partly why submissives disturb me is because i used to kind of be one. In highschool i would let guys take advantage of me, i would feel its my duty to serve them and i would even call my guy master and call myself his little slut. Its not something im proud of and i realize now how little respect i had for myself and how degrading it was. I guess if you have never acted like that yourself and haven't grown out of it you wont understand my viewpoint but its really a disgusting way to see yourself and treat yourself and i see it as a sign of really ridiciously low self esteem.

Okay, I don't really think that enjoying submissive sex makes you a person with low self esteem. I like to be dominated in the bedroom and the little slut talk makes me hot and bothered. There isn't anything wrong with that!

msonyxorb
04-30-2008, 04:58 AM
WTFever. Some people just have standards in which appearance is one of them. I know my boyfriend is partly attracted to me because of my looks, but I know there is a whole bunch of other stuff that makes him attracted to me too. That doesn't make him an asshole, that doesn't make him abusive, it just means he wants someone who is the whole package.
when did i ever ever say that someone being attracted to someone because of their looks makes them an asshole?
I said men who require their women to be PRIMPED all the time tend to be assholes, and its true. No man should be able to tell a women how she should look and dress.
My bf likes me cuz I'm beautiful too, and he thinks I'm most beautiful when I have no makeup on. There is a difference between a guy having high standards for physical appearance and a guy requiring his girl to be high maintenance.

msonyxorb
04-30-2008, 04:59 AM
Uhh.....what???



Okay, I don't really think that enjoying submissive sex makes you a person with low self esteem. I like to be dominated in the bedroom and the little slut talk makes me hot and bothered. There isn't anything wrong with that!

The person posting is a submissive in every aspect of her relationship, not just sex. That is what creeps me out, but whatever. Maybe in 20 years she will get over it and see where I am coming from.

Jenny
04-30-2008, 05:12 AM
ms.onyx; I can see that this topic has a lot of personal significance to you. And i think we can all see why you would be bitter and angry and suspicious of these relationships. But the relationship cherry is talking about is highly ritualized and consensual. It cannot be compared to systemic social discrimination, like not being allowed to work or vote. It's a ritual that, to be crude about it, gets her off. She is not really legally a slave and both she and her husband know that. It's not a lifestyle I would want for myself either, but neither of us needs to hold her in disdain for it.

PuertoRicanPinup
04-30-2008, 09:42 AM
Ms. Onyx, one day you will read what you wrote here and realize that how closeminded and judgmental you are once were.

Starfire
04-30-2008, 09:49 AM
Youre right, i cant be bothered to do anything because im worth more than that and therefore have people to do it for me. I'm a princess whereas you are a slave and you will forever be serving people and giving up all you have for them whereas i will always be pampered and spoiled because i dont allow people to treat me like shit. Seems like my situation is a lot nicer :-)
I have the happiest sweetest most loving relationship out of anyone i know too, and i am by far not a submissive nor would i ever allow myself to be taken advantage of like that anymore. If you're using your own relationship as proof of what you are doing as healthy then I have the right to use my own too, and my guy treats me like a freaking queen, not a slave.

I've been biting my tongue throughout this thread, but I can't help myself anymore. Your behavior in this thread (and in others) is completely out of control. If kaiarose wants to dress up for her man to help spice things up, who cares? It's her relationship. Same with cherry and her submissive relationship. Who are we to judge? You are being completely unfair by judging both of these grown women for their choices, when we can all see that your real problem lies with yourself and your own issues.
ps. I remember in another thread about fake vs. real designer clothes that you were knocking on women who wear knockoffs, and then said you were just as poor as they are. Obviously you are not a pampered princess if you are a poor stripper. Just saying...

Zinaida
04-30-2008, 10:33 AM
Different people like different things.

fancygirl
04-30-2008, 11:56 PM
update on the experiment?

BrunetteGoddess
05-01-2008, 02:28 AM
i dont get the morning thing. i am super moody tired and feel stinky and gross in the morning. if anything its when im most stressed. i prefer nighttime after ive brushed my teeth and preferably showered. the idea of doing anything sexual in the morning grosses me out. maybe you wake up with fresh breath and powdery fresh body in the morning just bursting with energy? idk. id rather fall asleep after an orgasm, not have to wake up and have the rest of the day ahead of me. but maybe thats just me.

"If I had a man who was content to let me swim in my old gray sweatpants and look ratty all the time I would question why he wasn't interested in my self worth and potential."
So do you expect the same thing from your man? or is he allowed to go around looking like a slob. Thats one of the things that pisses me off the most. Men dont have to wear makeup or dress up, women do. its fucked. Are you interested in YOUR man's "self worth and potential." I am sorry you measure your self worth on how you look really. Another thing women seem to do that men don't. Are you only worth taking care of if you look good? That's kind of a fucked up way of thinking. But I notice you seem to be a submissive so thats where our thinking may be completely different. I will never understand or accept your lifestyle, it just seems counter respecting yourself, counter human. We worked for years to free ourselves from slavery and you bring it on yourself. It just makes no sense to me.

Since when did we say this thread was about you? Narcissistic much?

Vyanka
05-01-2008, 06:55 AM
There's a lot of gibberish yapping in here.

Most importantly Kaiarose, are you getting some? ;D

msonyxorb
05-01-2008, 09:08 PM
Not being rich doesnt mean a guy cant treat me like a princess, and I'm a little offended that you took the whole princess bit seriously. How dumb do you think I am? He treats me like a princess, but I am by far not a pampered spoiled princess. It was mostly a joke, a very obvious one. wow.

kaiarose
05-02-2008, 09:40 AM
There's a lot of gibberish yapping in here.

Most importantly Kaiarose, are you getting some? ;D

I am, I am! He's finally taking to the whole non-hobo look :)

cherry_sin
05-02-2008, 09:41 AM
I'm so glad for you! Go get some girl!

Vyanka
05-02-2008, 09:57 AM
I am, I am! He's finally taking to the whole non-hobo look :)

yay! :)