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Cyril
06-21-2009, 04:30 PM
That reminds me of:

Girl, you will be a woman soon.

longshooter
06-21-2009, 04:55 PM
I know this is for customers asking dancers questions but I have a question for the customers. When you meet some1 for the very 1st time & you find out the girl is a stripper, is that a turn on or turn off? I know some people are all like ECKKK but others are fascinated. How you guys feel?

In my opinion its a major turn on as long as there classy. Strippers are more sexual apealing to me than your every day good looking girl. They know how to be sexy and turn a guy on better than your typical girl. I have played around with a few strippers in the past and to be honest they were more loyal and made better girl friends than other girls who were not in the bussiness.

I have dated some very good looking girls in the past and married a drop dead gorgeous blonde bombshell . A hot stripper who knows how to be sexy blows them away any day of the week.

JayATee
06-21-2009, 05:21 PM
I am assuming strippers are easy to spot. But even if it were not the case, people do ask questions. Example: What does she do? How did you two meet?

Then you have to lie. Some people are uncomfortable doing that.

WTF??? Why would we be easy to spot? What planet do you live on?? Do you honestly think we walk around in stripper heels and micro minis all the time?

No, YOU would have to lie. Big difference.

Golden_Rule
06-21-2009, 06:17 PM
That reminds me of:

Girl, you will be a woman soon.

It shouldn't. It applies equally to men.

JayATee just happens to be female so in speaking directly about her it would apply to a woman, but the premise of experience being required to take learning and turn it into practical knowledge [some might say wisdom] is non-gender specific.

Cyril
06-21-2009, 06:28 PM
It shouldn't. It applies equally to men.

JayATee just happens to be female so in speaking directly about her it would apply to a woman, but the premise of experience being required to take learning and turn it into practical knowledge [some might say wisdom] is non-gender specific.

I did not mean that it applied to women only. Although my post gave that impression. I was just trying to be lighthearted.

Golden_Rule
06-21-2009, 06:30 PM
I did not mean that it applied to women only. Although my post gave that impression. I was just trying to be lighthearted.

Got it. Tres cool. :)

Cyril
06-21-2009, 06:38 PM
WTF??? Why would we be easy to spot? What planet do you live on?? Do you honestly think we walk around in stripper heels and micro minis all the time?

No, YOU would have to lie. Big difference.

I live on the same planet as you do.

There is nothing wrong with a stripper wearing her stripper shoes outside the strip club, especially if she is proud of her profession.

Although it is rare but I have seen girls in stripper shoes and racey attire frequenting public places. I am assuming those girls were strippers. Or else, why would they be dressed like that?

Cyril
06-21-2009, 06:42 PM
Got it. Tres cool. :)

Actually, I was going to write a similar post but I decided against it. She is very intelligent but she just does not have those years.

Elvia
06-21-2009, 06:46 PM
Although it is rare but I have seen girls in stripper shoes and racey attire frequenting public places. I am assuming those girls were strippers. Or else, why would they be dressed like that?

I'd actually guess they're not strippers. I've never known a stripper to do that. Party girls who like to go have a wild night with just a bit of "stripper style" thrown in are the types to do that.

And no, strippers in general cannot be easily identified on the streets. We look and dress just like other girls, in the whole range of personal styles that that encompasses.

Perry
06-21-2009, 07:33 PM
WTF?? Stripper shoes on uneven pavement, sidewalks and grass?? They'd be filthy, ruined shoes unfit for dancing. Or a snapped ankle waiting to happen.

JayATee
06-21-2009, 07:48 PM
I live on the same planet as you do.

There is nothing wrong with a stripper wearing her stripper shoes outside the strip club, especially if she is proud of her profession.

Although it is rare but I have seen girls in stripper shoes and racey attire frequenting public places. I am assuming those girls were strippers. Or else, why would they be dressed like that?


Obviously you do not, otherwise you wouldn't assume that you could tell a stripper just by looking at her.

For attention. I would almost guarantee they're not strippers.

JayATee
06-21-2009, 08:46 PM
Actually, I was going to write a similar post but I decided against it. She is very intelligent but she just does not have those years.

You don't know me so you can't possibly say this about me.

vmurphy252
06-21-2009, 08:47 PM
<Insert clever retort>

Golden_Rule
06-21-2009, 09:06 PM
You don't know me so you can't possibly say this about me.

Jay, here there are no physical features to enhance or detract from presence or sway opinion one way or the other. Just pure intellect.

Your words and just your words. So if your words are truly what you think, then it is possible to get to know someone quite well. Especially over time.

Of course there are people practicing various levels of subterfuge and obfuscation. If you know what to look for they make themselves known in relatively short order and the WYSIWYG types just as readily.

JayATee
06-21-2009, 09:51 PM
This is absurd.

/end threadjack.

Golden_Rule
06-21-2009, 09:59 PM
This is absurd.

/end threadjack.

???

How is it absurd, if what you are referencing is the point I made right above your post?

The very best, and the very worst, thing about forums such as these is that people are reduced to their words. Either the words carry merit in the court of public opinion within the specific forum's community or they don't.

The community measures, judges, rates the value of one's words and one just has to deal because that can't be changed. So while anonymity may bring out the clowns, it becomes readily apparent in short order who is being sincere and who isn't.

For instance, even if you and I disagree I think we have both identified each other as people who are being honest with their opinions. I trust neither thinks the other is jerking anyone about.

The value in these exchanges, if they have any at all, is when it works it becomes the great level playing field.

vmurphy252
06-21-2009, 09:59 PM
^Not specific enough.

vmurphy252
06-21-2009, 10:00 PM
^Not specific enough.
^Referring to J's statement. Too many things, so her "This is absurd" was not specific enough.

jack0177057
06-22-2009, 12:06 PM
This is absurd.

/end threadjack.

Why did you guys piss her off? Now she's gone and I miss her...

Give her credit,... she puts up with a lot of shit from the guys on this forum, yet she comes back again and again to argue her case.

Almost Jaded
06-22-2009, 12:15 PM
Nobody took the bait a' la' the OBGYN/Plastic Surgeon comparison. Too bad.

Commander you re wrong, I had a sponsor, over 80 years old, 7 PhD's in physics, studied under and later with Einstein at Princeton, who's name shall remain out f this. Upon interviewing me said - and I quote - "The world of physics is worse off because you're not in it, we need to fix that". I was to be put on a fast track that was to span 4 schools in 4 years taking specific courses from specific professors, all "superfluous" credits not directly related to math and hard physics stripped from the curriculum, to get me my doctorate in 4 years. Believe me, I know what an opportunity that is, and I regret to some degree not going through with it. However, the BS and hypocrisy I came across very early - and that I was laughingly informed would only get worse as I progressed - was simply too much to take. And it wasn't nearly as ad as that which I encountered in my studies of the soft sciences before all this went down;l I have ZERO respect for anyone who completes a degree in Psychiatry especially. It is impossible to read the texts and information they are fed and not realize it's the biggest load of shit ever conceived. [/rant]

Mynxxx and I play "spot the former or off-duty stripper" all the time, lol. Not all dancers have the "former or off-duty stripper" look, but nobody who ISN'T one has that look. But Cyril or Earl wouldn't know it if they saw it. It takes a trained eye. :P

jack0177057
06-22-2009, 01:08 PM
Nobody took the bait a' la' the OBGYN/Plastic Surgeon comparison. Too bad.

I didn't take the bate because its not the same (there is no sexual arousal involved in providing health care services)... nor are there sex services being offered in this scenario...

But, I'll tell you what: No GF or wife would approve of me being an OBGYN... I love pussy WAY TOO MUCH to remain neutral if a hotty comes in to be examined... I've got a super-high sex drive and would have a hard-on most of the time,... at least with all my attractive patients.

Plus, any GF or wife would suspect that the only reason I became a OBGYN was to see pussy all day... and that would probably be true...

I bet most OBGYNs are perverts. Urologists are even more scary... who the hell picks a profession that requires them to look at assholes (literally) all day.

JayATee
06-22-2009, 01:41 PM
I didn't take the bate because its not the same (there is no sexual arousal involved in providing health care services)... nor are there sex services being offered in this scenario...

But, I'll tell you what: No GF or wife would approve of me being an OBGYN... I love pussy WAY TOO MUCH to remain neutral if a hotty comes in to be examined... I've got a super-high sex drive and would have a hard-on most of the time,... at least with all my attractive patients.

Plus, any GF or wife would suspect that the only reason I became a OBGYN was to see pussy all day... and that would probably be true...

I bet most OBGYNs are perverts. Urologists are even more scary... who the hell picks a profession that requires them to look at assholes (literally) all day.

Any dr you said this to would tell you you're out of your mind. Guys don't become OBGYNs to "look at pussy" all day. There is nothing sexy or arousing about shoving a metal speculum up a woman's vagina in order to check her cervix or feel her ovaries for cysts, or anything else. This is the sickest thing I've ever heard.

And urologists don't look at "assholes" all day either. Urology deals with the urethra. You're thinking of a gastroenterologist which deals with the digestive system ie. the colon.

Earl_the_Pearl
06-22-2009, 03:39 PM
We've already established what kind of clubs you go to so your opinion is void.

Then why did you ask this?


How much contact is involved in your dances?
This is fresh from another board; not my posts by the way.
$ = $100

Stopped on Friday. Paid 5 to get in. There were about 7 girls all sizes and shares. Was offered takeout for $ but did not go. Got a handy at the bar from Bev (I think that was her name) for 15 and left. Spent a total of 30 with a beer entrance fee (5) and tips.This from a PL's first visit to this club.
.2 = $20
.3 = $30
.5 = $50

Well after reading this thread i decided to give it at try. First and foremost the place is a hole in the wall. There were two women working and I just sat there as I watched HJ after HJ being given right at the bar.

I usually like to survey the landscape before joining in the fun but it was getting kind of late. I was already about three drinks in when this one older russian woman sat next to me. You could tell she once was a looker in her younger years. anyway we chatted for a bit, had two drinks together, tipped her .2 and she started with the HJ. Now i can do that myself so that usually does not work for me. so we stepped it up. I gave her another tip of .3, she puts a cover on and starts dancing on me right at the bar.

There were only 2 dancers, one other customer and me so I figured on a busy day this might not happen. Anyway, i got mine. It was a well spent .5 and I will go back.Bold emphasis added by me.

Remember you asked. :reporter:

JayATee
06-22-2009, 03:51 PM
Then why did you ask this?



I didn't. If you're going to answer a post at least know what you're talking about.

Earl_the_Pearl
06-22-2009, 03:53 PM
I think I want the real thing. So, the solution seems like continuous one nightstands.

God, this thing is not easy.
The only thing that makes it difficult for you is you want it for free; it is extremely easy otherwise.

Earl_the_Pearl
06-22-2009, 03:58 PM
Although it is rare but I have seen girls in stripper shoes and racey attire frequenting public places. I am assuming those girls were strippers. Or else, why would they be dressed like that?

To beguile men.

mediocrity
06-22-2009, 04:05 PM
I didn't take the bate because its not the same (there is no sexual arousal involved in providing health care services)... nor are there sex services being offered in this scenario...

But, I'll tell you what: No GF or wife would approve of me being an OBGYN... I love pussy WAY TOO MUCH to remain neutral if a hotty comes in to be examined... I've got a super-high sex drive and would have a hard-on most of the time,... at least with all my attractive patients.

Plus, any GF or wife would suspect that the only reason I became a OBGYN was to see pussy all day... and that would probably be true...

I bet most OBGYNs are perverts. Urologists are even more scary... who the hell picks a profession that requires them to look at assholes (literally) all day.

Are you out of your damn mind?!

First of all, urology deals with kidneys, bladder etc. Not "assholes" and really, I guess hanging out on this board must make me a urologist by your standards cuz man, do I see a lot of assholes here.

OBGYNs often become so because they love the reproductive health and birth process. They don't "look at pussy all day". Ask my mother, who is obstetrics, if that's why she went into the field. She loves mothers and babies. And there is absolutely nothing perverted about a man who goes into such a field.

Seeing as I am going to be an endocrinologist, does that mean I want to do such so I can look at pancreas all day? Christ on a bike.

Earl_the_Pearl
06-22-2009, 04:08 PM
Mynxxx and I play "spot the former or off-duty stripper" all the time, lol. Not all dancers have the "former or off-duty stripper" look, but nobody who ISN'T one has that look. But Cyril or Earl wouldn't know it if they saw it. It takes a trained eye. :P
I have always said that dancers like to dress down when not working so they won't be hit on. This involves covering up.

If they show some skin older dancers can be spotted by the wrinkled tattoos from over exposure to tanning booths.

Earl_the_Pearl
06-22-2009, 04:10 PM
I didn't. If you're going to answer a post at least know what you're talking about.
Correct you are; you just interjected.

Golden_Rule
06-22-2009, 04:14 PM
But, I'll tell you what: No GF or wife would approve of me being an OBGYN... I love pussy WAY TOO MUCH to remain neutral if a hotty comes in to be examined... I've got a super-high sex drive and would have a hard-on most of the time,... at least with all my attractive patients.

That isn't the way presence in relationship to desire usually works.

Ever work in a candy factory? Let me tell you the last thing you want at the end of the day after working in one is a piece of candy. Unless it was a particularly fantastic piece of candy.

So what happens is that if you are around something all day you lose taste for the ordinary in that particular venue. However, the extra-ordinary is sufficiently unique that even though it is of the same category it retains its cache, or desirability.

I've found that during time periods I've worked in clubs or private parties I hang out a lot less in S-Cs and my desire for the things to be found in S-Cs goes way down as well. If I bump into a dancer that is particularly good at her craft or unique in some way it may [operative word being may] push a button.

commanderadama
06-22-2009, 04:54 PM
Commander you re wrong, I had a sponsor, over 80 years old, 7 PhD's in physics, studied under and later with Einstein at Princeton, who's name shall remain out f this. Upon interviewing me said - and I quote - "The world of physics is worse off because you're not in it, we need to fix that". I was to be put on a fast track that was to span 4 schools in 4 years taking specific courses from specific professors, all "superfluous" credits not directly related to math and hard physics stripped from the curriculum, to get me my doctorate in 4 years. Believe me, I know what an opportunity that is, and I regret to some degree not going through with it. However, the BS and hypocrisy I came across very early - and that I was laughingly informed would only get worse as I progressed - was simply too much to take. And it wasn't nearly as ad as that which I encountered in my studies of the soft sciences before all this went down;l I have ZERO respect for anyone who completes a degree in Psychiatry especially. It is impossible to read the texts and information they are fed and not realize it's the biggest load of shit ever conceived. [/rant]


Again, not credible. Candidates for science doctorates don't take many courses. They may teach some for their sponsors because their work (the sponsor) is mostly about producing research, journal articles and books. But most of the candidates time is spent furthering the sponsors research and developing a unique discovery in the discipline.

It might have been believable if you said you were a high school prodigy and this professor took an interest in you and persuaded you to attend Princeton. Then, while pursing your BS, you became disillusioned with Academia.

I know some people who've gotten a Phd in 8 years, Undergrad in Physics then the idea for their MS thesis was so good the professor just said, lets just base your PHd candidacy on this and skip the MS.

So if you're saying that you were going to get a Phd in 4 years from High School, I'm saying bullshit.

I say this because it's the only way I can interpret your post because you said you were going to take courses from specific professors stripped of all superfluous credits. Yeah right, I'm sure string theory misses your contributions. LOL I suppose you have a bridge to sell me too no doubt.

You seriously expect us to believe that Princton agreed to wave the core and give you a doctorate in Physics in 4 years? If you were as smart as you say, surely you would know noone will believe you.

JayATee
06-22-2009, 05:00 PM
Correct you are; you just interjected.

To quote GR : "That's the way open forums work".

If you don't like it, I guess it sucks to be you.

mediocrity
06-22-2009, 05:06 PM
To beguile men.

I'm trying to decide if I can tell you you're right without losing my lunch.

But yeah, girls who do that are just attention whores. I can not think of a single stripper I have met in the last seven years who wore her shoes outside of work.

Earl_the_Pearl
06-22-2009, 05:55 PM
Ever work in a candy factory? Let me tell you the last thing you want at the end of the day after working in one is a piece of candy. Unless it was a particularly fantastic piece of candy.

So what happens is that if you are around something all day you lose taste for the ordinary in that particular venue. However, the extra-ordinary is sufficiently unique that even though it is of the same category it retains its cache, or desirability.


You are correct; I frequent a clothing optional beach and I only check out the women I would check out if they had cloths on. In fact when an overweight unattractive women walks by :covereyes.

Earl_the_Pearl
06-22-2009, 06:11 PM
It might have been believable if you said you were a high school prodigy and this professor took an interest in you and persuaded you to attend Princeton.
Q. What do Princeton, Einstein and Earl_the_Pearl have in common?
A. New Jersey


Say Al; what did you used to do in the VIP at Cheeks?

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v17/earlcamembert/albert-einstein-1.jpg

Earl_the_Pearl
06-22-2009, 06:18 PM
To quote GR : "That's the way open forums work".

If you don't like it, I guess it sucks to be you.
The reason I attributed the question to you was I was speed reading the posts and I only read the j; your interjection was my explanation.

OMG GR is now being quoted by dancers. :O

Cyril
06-22-2009, 06:48 PM
No, YOU would have to lie. Big difference.


So, strippers go to great lengths to hide their profession once they are out of the club. I gathered that by reading posts of strippers who responded to my comment. This leads me to conclude that majority of you (if not all of you) are not comfortable with your profession.

Am I correct in my assessment?

So, it does not really matter who lies, the guy or the stripper, the fact is, a lie has to be told to conceal her true identity. That is the point I was driving home.

Cyril
06-22-2009, 06:51 PM
The only thing that makes it difficult for you is you want it for free; it is extremely easy otherwise.

The thing I am looking from a stripper cannot be bought. Therein lies the tragedy.

JayATee
06-22-2009, 10:50 PM
The reason I attributed the question to you was I was speed reading the posts and I only read the j; your interjection was my explanation.


Yeah, and it was your interjection I was responding to in the first place. So what's your point exactly? That you need to learn to read? Ok, learn to read.

vmurphy252
06-22-2009, 10:51 PM
^You know, the more you feed them the longer they stay.

JayATee
06-22-2009, 11:04 PM
So, strippers go to great lengths to hide their profession once they are out of the club. I gathered that by reading posts of strippers who responded to my comment. This leads me to conclude that majority of you (if not all of you) are not comfortable with your profession.

Am I correct in my assessment?

So, it does not really matter who lies, the guy or the stripper, the fact is, a lie has to be told to conceal her true identity. That is the point I was driving home.

It depends on why you're lying. You would be lying because of how "detrimental" it would be to your imaginary social standing and reputation. That is not why dancers lie about their profession. I have no problem being a stripper at all. So that means you're completely wrong in your assessment (shocker).


^You know, the more you feed them the longer they stay.



I doubt he's going anywhere truthfully...

mediocrity
06-22-2009, 11:05 PM
So, strippers go to great lengths to hide their profession once they are out of the club. I gathered that by reading posts of strippers who responded to my comment. This leads me to conclude that majority of you (if not all of you) are not comfortable with your profession.

Am I correct in my assessment?

So, it does not really matter who lies, the guy or the stripper, the fact is, a lie has to be told to conceal her true identity. That is the point I was driving home.

I don't hide it, I just don't flaunt it because it's such a small part of who I am. When I become a Dr, should I walk around with my stethoscope on 24-7, even in public? Should JayATee walk around with a work briefcase wearing a suit in all of her off time? Of course not. But if a peer or someone I am interested in asks what I do for a living, I don't lie.

jack0177057
06-23-2009, 11:19 AM
Any dr you said this to would tell you you're out of your mind. Guys don't become OBGYNs to "look at pussy" all day. There is nothing sexy or arousing about shoving a metal speculum up a woman's vagina in order to check her cervix or feel her ovaries for cysts, or anything else.

I was being facetious.

jack0177057
06-23-2009, 11:26 AM
Are you out of your damn mind?!

First of all, urology deals with kidneys, bladder etc. Not "assholes" and really, I guess hanging out on this board must make me a urologist by your standards cuz man, do I see a lot of assholes here.

OBGYNs often become so because they love the reproductive health and birth process. They don't "look at pussy all day". Ask my mother, who is obstetrics, if that's why she went into the field. She loves mothers and babies. And there is absolutely nothing perverted about a man who goes into such a field.

Seeing as I am going to be an endocrinologist, does that mean I want to do such so I can look at pancreas all day? Christ on a bike.

I was being facetious.

But, a male OBGYN is a man, after all... Does he not find at least a modicum of pleasure in seeing sexy young women disrobing for him... If he has lost his ability to appreciate the vision of the nude female body, this is a true tragedy...

mediocrity
06-23-2009, 11:29 AM
I was being facetious.

But, a male OBGYN is a man, after all... Does he not find at least a modicum of pleasure in seeing sexy young women disrobing for him... If he has lost his ability to appreciate the vision of the nude female body, this is a true tragedy...

No, he separates himself to have something called PROFESSIONALISM. And that whole sentence kind of made me want to throw up.

jack0177057
06-23-2009, 11:37 AM
But yeah, girls who do that are just attention whores. I can not think of a single stripper I have met in the last seven years who wore her shoes outside of work.

Stripper-chic is in. Go to the bebe store nearest you and check out the little mini-dresses and high-heel shoes. I've even seen famale lawyers in court wearing stripper-inspired platform shoes.

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Almost Jaded
06-23-2009, 11:39 AM
Funny, all the talk about the OBGYN/Plastic Surgeon thing went a different route than I had originally intended.

Commander - I don't give a good Goddamn if you believe me or not, lol. I certainly didn't make it up! I also never said Princeton agreed to give me that deal; I said the program was to span 4 schools in 4 years and END at Princeton. And yes, I was... The equivalent of a HS prodigy I guess you could say, lol. Actually I dropped out my sophomore year out of boredom and pursued what education i required on my own whilst entering the world of work. A 3rd party who thought I was wasting my talent set up an interview, and at the end of that 3 1/2 hours (which was supposed to be 30-60 minutes) he said what he said. And string theory misses me more than you - or they - know, LMAO. That wouldn't have been my focus however. ANyway, as I said before I really don't care if you believe me or not, you're not high on any "need to impress" list, lol.

Earl - covering up isn't it. Like I said, it takes a trained eye. Sometimes they're covered up, sometimes dressed up for a nice dinner. There's a particular... Style, and a way of presenting oneself, that if you know what you're looking for, you can spot. It's subtle. You'd need to spend a LOT of time with dancers off work in different environments to get it. You're quotes form those other boards are both disturbing and irrelevant; one can always find that kind of attention if one wants it. Most of the girls on this board wouldn't be caught dead on those places. It's images like that that create the stigma that is the focus of this discussion, and that's sad.

jack0177057
06-23-2009, 11:43 AM
No, he separates himself to have something called PROFESSIONALISM. And that whole sentence kind of made me want to throw up.

"Professionalism" only means you hide your true feelings and act according to certain high standards of respect for the patient... But, the feeling are still there hiding behind the veneer of "professionalism"... If you could hear what the male OBGYNs say when they are in the "boys club" (i.e., all-men country club)...

Otoki
06-23-2009, 11:52 AM
^You know, the more you feed them the longer they stay.
Seriously.

Everyone, stop wasting your intelligent arguments on attention whores. Just let them die along with this thread.

JayATee
06-23-2009, 12:33 PM
I was being facetious.

No you weren't. You were being completely serious til someone called you out.


I was being facetious.

But, a male OBGYN is a man, after all... Does he not find at least a modicum of pleasure in seeing sexy young women disrobing for him... If he has lost his ability to appreciate the vision of the nude female body, this is a true tragedy...

I retract my previous statment in which I said you're not stupid. You're truly an idiot. There is nothing attractive, erotic, sexual, or arousing in being an OBGYN, even if it's the most gorgeous woman standing in a paper gown in front of you. They are health professionals. They are there to care for their patients, not get a hard on for them like a 12yr old boy (which I'm beginning to believe that you are). The fact that you think this, and justify it by saying the above sentences only proves that you are in fact a moron.


Stripper-chic is in. Go to the bebe store nearest you and check out the little mini-dresses and high-heel shoes. I've even seen famale lawyers in court wearing stripper-inspired platform shoes.


So? The women wearing them aren't strippers and that was point made to Cyril.


"Professionalism" only means you hide your true feelings and act according to certain high standards of respect for the patient... But, the feeling are still there hiding behind the veneer of "professionalism"... If you could hear what the male OBGYNs say when they are in the "boys club" (i.e., all-men country club)...

Bull shit.