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BohemianSiren
05-10-2008, 02:06 AM
Unfortunately, in some areas, if you want to keep your job, and not get arrested by the police, you will not kick/punch/whatever a customer. The law and the clubs, are not on our side. And, in plenty of clubs around my area, the customer may not get thrown out for behaving inappropriately if they are spending money, because clubs are desperate for money, but feel that the dancers are disposable. That's just how it is.

QFT.

The reality of the situation isn't as simple as most dancers would like it to be.

Daisa
05-10-2008, 02:11 AM
that happened to me once....I was so freakin' pissed , then I thought of a better way to get him back, I leaned over in his ear and whispered "go ahead, the AIDS is gonna kill me anyways..."

nothing to joke about, I know, but I figure if the guys gonna be that much of a douchbag, I may as well freak him out a bit.

TheTempest
05-10-2008, 06:53 AM
Oh sweetie we dont like trolls here , you wont last long on this site talking that way to our girls .

I love you for that response. So... polite and scathing.

thisunrest
05-10-2008, 08:15 AM
Why would it be considered "the stripper's fault?" You were doing your job!

TBE
05-10-2008, 01:55 PM
Sorry this happened (feeling attacked here and getting your chocha licked). Hope you figure things out.


Seriously. I don't know how men can lick strange pussy like it's nothing.

I have yet to figure that out myself. :eek: Most guys don't even know what a dental dam is.

PuertoRicanPinup
05-10-2008, 02:04 PM
Honestly, this is one of the reasons I am glad that my city has a 6 ft rule. As a dancer you always have to be on your guard about customers, but being completely naked right in front of some dumb drunk guys scares me!

Corgan
05-10-2008, 02:10 PM
bottom line is... some of you SAY what you would have done, but in reality, you don't know what you would do until it happens to you.

i had a guy one time put his hand IN my panties when i was onstage. i just grabbed his hand out and slapped it like he was a kindergartener. no kick in the face, nothing else besides a hand slap. i feel for vera because some of the responses here upset me as well.

SilkSet
05-11-2008, 03:02 AM
Personally, cause I have a flair for the dramatic, I would have asked him for a photocopy of his driver's lisence and his phone number because he would be recieving the bill for my full STD panel, including HIV. I also would have told him that I would consult my laywer for suing him for mental distress over the fear of potentially being infected with HIV. The stress of waiting on the results. Ad the stress of being raped.
Although it's probably not a bad idea to get the STD tests, it probably isnt nesessary. But I like scaring people and being dramatic and it would have felt good t see the look on his face and knowing he will live in fear of being served lawsuit papers. That would give me great pleasure to know he's sittin gat home worried and suffering.

Most intelligent guys wouldn't have even batted an eyelash to that. Probably due to the rarities of transmitting HIV through saliva and knowing it. I'm sure the dumbasses are scared stupid though.

Miss Jessica
05-11-2008, 03:23 AM
bottom line is... some of you SAY what you would have done, but in reality, you don't know what you would do until it happens to you.



i had a guy one time put his hand IN my panties when i was onstage. i just grabbed his hand out and slapped it like he was a kindergartener. no kick in the face, nothing else besides a hand slap. i feel for vera because some of the responses here upset me as well.


Screw that. I would have walked off stage, demanded he was kicked out, if he wasn't I'd pack my shit and leave. No ifs ands or buts about it. I've had a guy lick my boob onstage, and did just that. Plus a nice HARD slap in the face... that was being nice too, in my opinion. I don't need to wonder "what if" in this situation, regardless of it not happening to me before to this extreme. That's me though, I'm not saying my way is the only way. Everyone's different, and have different tolerance levels. I just don't agree w/letting some asswipe off the hook that easily.

Dottie Rebel
05-11-2008, 03:25 AM
Most intelligent guys wouldn't have even batted an eyelash to that. Probably due to the rarities of transmitting HIV through saliva and knowing it. I'm sure the dumbasses are scared stupid though.

Most intelligent guys? Really? How many people who would lick a stripper's vulva on stage would you classify as "intelligent"?

Man. Lame trolls this time around.

Gabrielle MB
05-11-2008, 03:30 AM
Don't hit a customer. He can HIT you back faster than your bouncer can get to him. I've known a handsy girl or two to be punched by a man in the club. Not worth it. Pick your battles. Scream at him that he's a fucking pig asshole or whatever.

This kind of thing can happen to any dancer. Just like 'get your money upfront' is a good rule of thumb, I always 'dance on the defensive'. I never do a head stand in thier lap or reverse straddle or any other position I can't jump away from them before they get where I don't want them. At least you know better for next time someone asks you to bring your bare cookie closer. :)

Miss Jessica
05-11-2008, 03:48 AM
I'll take my chances. I have been hit by a man (not in the club) and can take the blow. I just flash, I will not tolerate that level of disrespect. But over the years I have become a very good "defensive" dancer myself and I'm very good at avoiding getting put into these situations now, thank goodness.

Lilah29
05-11-2008, 04:18 AM
Aw yuck. Sorry that happened to you :(

LittleDancer
05-11-2008, 06:03 AM
Once a guy grabbed me down there when i had finished dancing for him,i was so anrgy and shocked i felt like smacking him but i swore and shouted at him and then got him chucked out by a bouncer.

Corgan
05-11-2008, 06:45 AM
Screw that. I would have walked off stage, demanded he was kicked out, if he wasn't I'd pack my shit and leave. No ifs ands or buts about it. I've had a guy lick my boob onstage, and did just that. Plus a nice HARD slap in the face... that was being nice too, in my opinion. I don't need to wonder "what if" in this situation, regardless of it not happening to me before to this extreme. That's me though, I'm not saying my way is the only way. Everyone's different, and have different tolerance levels. I just don't agree w/letting some asswipe off the hook that easily.

whatever you say sweetheart. ;D

ihearthepole
05-11-2008, 11:36 AM
:O
ugh! i serioulsy think i would have kicked him in the throat. that is fucking disgusting. some people's children....

I would've totally kicked his fucking throat in. Bastard.

Kaiyla
05-11-2008, 03:09 PM
bottom line is... some of you SAY what you would have done, but in reality, you don't know what you would do until it happens to you.

I agree with that statement wholeheartedly. I also think that Vera was in shock when the event occurred and still possibly so when she began this thread. People handle shock differently. I am sure she was not trying to send the wrong message to other customers by not taking actions that others say they would/or actually have. Vera was just probably conducting herself (in shock) the only way she knew how to. As many of you girls are aware, certain moments in life are very very scary and sometimes it is just about surviving them.
Being a model stripper for other patrons was probably the last thing on her mind at that moment...geez.

I am sorry that happened to you, Vera.:hug:

jessica_rabbit
05-12-2008, 01:04 AM
^^^ I agree. I'm so sorry this happened to you. We all react differently to assault. You have to do what is best for YOU and I think you did. <hugs>

Miss Jessica
05-12-2008, 03:17 AM
whatever you say sweetheart. ;D

Don't be condescending. As I said, I have been in similar situations (some not as bad, some worse but not in a club environment) and am confident in my response to those situations. BUT I try to understand that someone else may have a different approach that feels better for them. The opening of my initial post was perhaps a bit harsh towards you (my apologies), but many of things I read in this thread including yours triggered me a bit. I did get your point, it pertains to some but not me.


^^^ I agree. I'm so sorry this happened to you. We all react differently to assault. You have to do what is best for YOU and I think you did. <hugs>

Yes, I agree with you. As you said, we all react differently to assault.

As for the OP, I in no way judge you for your reaction to the situation. It just enrages me that you had to go through that, and felt there was nothing you could do. I'm truly sorry this happened to you, and I hope that douchebag gets whats comming to him.

jaizaine
05-12-2008, 03:31 AM
ummm.... WTF???? IBI is completely correct... This is sexual assault and you can technically sue the fucking club for complaining to management and not having anything done about it.

How can you be so casual???? Fuck stereotypes/complexes/societal whatevers, this is assault plain and simple... the fact that you AREN't dealing with it will just let it happen again to some other girl. Go to management and get that SHIT taken care of. If they can't give the bouncers a good talking to at LEAST then I would seriously consider taking other action. If someone did that to me, not only would he be smacked HARD, but if he wasn't kicked out I would be up in management's face in a heartbeat.

By not doing anything you're as complicit as anyone. Teach people that this is NOT ok... just because you're a dancer doesn't mean you invite assault.


(edit... pb & ibi posted at the same time... glad to see this is being taken more seriously here.)


Agreed 100% u were assaulted and wow way to make light of a serious situation people! shheessh.

This happened to a girl at my club by a female customer who was being egged on by her male friends. The dancer didn't even report it (prob coz it was a female custie) she just complained in the dressing room and was told by other dancers to wash her pussy with some half empty pre mixed vodka that was sitting in there in case the custie had something ::)

Jenny
05-12-2008, 06:37 AM
I'm going to repeat the same thing I said last time: girls react this way because it makes them feel safer and more in control; like if it is your fault, or not even necessarily "fault", but if you could have avoided it or done something different, it won't happen to them. (At least I think that because I tend to react the same way, and I'm pretty sure that is why. I do it on the inside, though, because I know it is a wrong reaction). As odd as it sounds, it is not personal; nobody wants you to feel bad or "to blame". It's just a way of dealing with unpleasant feelings of vulnerability. I realize it doesn't make everything anyone says "okay", but I hope it maybe provides a little... perspective?
I hope you are okay.

VeraLynn
05-12-2008, 11:02 AM
Thanks a ton for all of the support.. :hug: Seriously, I am okay. I did end up speaking to the head manager on the phone that day everyone upset me over their responses. He took me very seriously, and I'm *100% sure* something was done about it.

There was another time a couple of months ago when a young customer kept asking me to go home with him.. of course I kept refusing. Later in the night I did (desperately) try to sell him a 2 for 1. That night I had on a longer classy red dress. As I was trying to convince him to do the 2 for 1 he literally took my breast OUT OF MY DRESS and licked it before I could stop him. I immediately told a bouncer and he was kicked out ASAP. On his way out he happened to walk by me and told me I was "a whore anyway." Yah, because I won't go home with you and because I won't accept you fondling and licking my breast I'm a whore? LOL Right.

This other incident where it was taken care of right away is another reason why I didn't make a big scene about the most recent licking. I assumed it would have also been taken care of, especially since it was, in some ways, a worse offense that my pussy was licked and not my breast this time.

Djoser
05-12-2008, 11:15 AM
It varies from club to club, the tolerance level for this kind of behavior from customers. Unfortunately it happens in all clubs, though naturally it happens more in those where nothing is done about it.

I am happy to say in my present club we have a Zero Tolerance policy in effect. Saturday night I wound up taking the glass out of the hand of some fuck who thought we weren't serious that he had to leave after grabbing the ass of a dancer that walked by him. She was really cool about it, too--she offered him the chance to give her a dollar, or get thrown out.

I also agree with the fact that saying you will kick their ass, etc., if it happens to you is one thing, doing it when it happens is quite another. Maybe the poster who said that would, but I have known a lot of people who wouldn't. My old friend Chase Morgan kicked a guy in the face for doing that, and broke his nose. But she was unusual, and she also knew the club would back her up.

SilkSet
05-12-2008, 12:26 PM
Most intelligent guys? Really? How many people who would lick a stripper's vulva on stage would you classify as "intelligent"?

Man. Lame trolls this time around.

I never said I condoned their behavior, but do you honestly think saying something like that to half the doctors, cops, and lawyers I see come in are really gonna get scared at someone paraphrasing legalities? No, they won't. However someone who doesn't know anything about common laws and finds doorknobs challenging, well yes, they'll probably get a little intimidated.

TheTempest
05-12-2008, 01:58 PM
Most intelligent guys? Really? How many people who would lick a stripper's vulva on stage would you classify as "intelligent"?

Man. Lame trolls this time around.

Have I told you lately that I love you? lol


I agree with that statement wholeheartedly. I also think that Vera was in shock when the event occurred and still possibly so when she began this thread. People handle shock differently. I am sure she was not trying to send the wrong message to other customers by not taking actions that others say they would/or actually have. Vera was just probably conducting herself (in shock) the only way she knew how to. As many of you girls are aware, certain moments in life are very very scary and sometimes it is just about surviving them.
Being a model stripper for other patrons was probably the last thing on her mind at that moment...geez.

I am sorry that happened to you, Vera.:hug:


^^^ I agree. I'm so sorry this happened to you. We all react differently to assault. You have to do what is best for YOU and I think you did. <hugs>

This made me feel better with all the yelling and disagreeing going on about how others would have handled the OPs situation. This thread is about what happened to Vera and her need for support.


I never said I condoned their behavior, but do you honestly think saying something like that to half the doctors, cops, and lawyers I see come in are really gonna get scared at someone paraphrasing legalities? No, they won't. However someone who doesn't know anything about common laws and finds doorknobs challenging, well yes, they'll probably get a little intimidated.

Dude, someone who licks a stripper on stage is NOT that smart. And there is a lot of incorrect information about STDs that perfectly reasonable people will believe.

chi_sam
05-12-2008, 02:04 PM
How can you be so casual????

Because it ain't the end of the world, and she obviously is not the hypocritical, self-absorbed, self-delusional virtual virgin the rest of you twats pretend to be.

She didn't ask for it, she'll watch for it next time time. Find something else to get your twats all twisted up about.

I would never do that on to a girl on stage, and I have never asked for DATY during a LD. But I have had a number of strippers put their pussies right in my mouth. And I God-damned loved it.

Go ahead and respond with your typical 'get Aids and die' bullshit. I would never wish that on the skankiest stripper, but I'm not a hysterical cunt.

Before your Queen of all Vaginas Holy and Pure kicks my laughing ass out, I hope some number of you get to read this.

She's a stripper and sometimes that sort of thing is gonna' happen. The rest of you are a bunch of whores.

velvet
05-12-2008, 04:39 PM
i'm closing this. thanks for every ones participation. this thread is to much of a troll magnet and i'm tired of cleaning it up.