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loveandluxury
05-18-2008, 04:56 PM
Oh you and just about all the other dancers save a few who were nice to her could have fooled me, you might as well have used a gun on her... ::)
Well in that case your clubs should have signs that read "No females or couples allowed only drunken pervs..."
Used a gun? WTF? Are you reading the same posts I'm reading? Just go away.
VertigoVirgo
05-18-2008, 04:57 PM
if you were asking for a dance, why would they say they'd come back? were you saying you might get one later? i probably wouldnt go back to a female customer in that case, either. only time i dance for chicks is if they want it then and there.
They did the lap dances in this separate back area that was like a catacomb of high-back sofas. I actually approached them, as no one had asked me. Although thanks to the responses I got here I did have some insight as to why. One said she had promised another dance to the customer she was with and she'd find me later. And the other I forget what she said but I didn't see either of them again. No big deal, I'll make my husband buy 'em for me ;)
And I do appreciate the people jumping to my defense but I also understand as the new person I have more to prove to you than you do to me. So I'm not too offended. besides, to some extent, you're all right. i wouldn't be likely to spend as much as a single guy. That's not to say I wouldn't spend ANYTHING, but no, probably not as much as they would. I did, however, help myself to a chunk of the bachelor parties' tip money to assist them in distributing because I didn't think they were passing it out fast enough! i'm perfectly fine with spending OTHER people's money.
loveandluxury
05-18-2008, 05:02 PM
Vertigo, I wouldn't mind you coming to my club. I don't think you have anything to prove to anybody, you seem respectful and thats all we ask :) I hope you and your husband enjoy your next SC trip!
RJLCyberPunk
05-18-2008, 05:13 PM
Vertigo, I wouldn't mind you coming to my club. I don't think you have anything to prove to anybody, you seem respectful and thats all we ask :) I hope you and your husband enjoy your next SC trip!
Is too bad most of the dancers that posted here treated her like crap...
i.breathe.in
05-18-2008, 05:27 PM
You know it really doesn't matter anymore the posts you people made probably scared her off along with all potential female and couple clients you could have had for the next 10,000 years... I would much rather take a girlfriend of mine to a theater than to any of SC you gals dance in even if she were into that stuff knowing the treatment she would receive...
uhhh, i think in my six years of dancing i have made less then 400 dollars of female customers. not even worthwhile.
Madcap
05-18-2008, 05:33 PM
You know it really doesn't matter anymore the posts you people made probably scared her off along with all potential female and couple clients you could have had for the next 10,000 years... I would much rather take a girlfriend of mine to a theater than to any of SC you gals dance in even if she were into that stuff knowing the treatment she would receive...
I don't know what shocks me more, the fact that he seems to think a post on the internet is going to scare off all female and couple clients everywhere or the fact that this guy has a girlfriend.
I'd like to get a look at her if he actually does have one...
http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/2/25/Smalfut.jpg
i.breathe.in
05-18-2008, 05:36 PM
i bet hes the type that takes his gf to the sc to try and find a stripper to take home, and his wife dont wear panties with her dress, lol.
Madcap
05-18-2008, 05:41 PM
i bet hes the type that takes his gf to the sc to try and find a stripper to take home, and his wife dont wear panties with her dress, lol.
Or the guy who's grossly obese wife/gf keeps trying to get on stage... :yuck:
i.breathe.in
05-18-2008, 05:44 PM
Or the guy who's grossly obese wife/gf keeps trying to get on stage... :yuck:
but sheez so sexee and can make me sum good monies heheheheh!:bullwhip:
I have never heard of dancers turning down money to a good cash carrying customer and frankly those girl with female customer issues can keep trying to scare away all female customers all they like. Me, I'ld take yr money gladly the same way I'ld take the money of any other customer even old fat smelly 1's I really try to avoid as my personal stripper gripe cuz not for nothing, but it grosses me out so bad. Still money is green and if they don't disrespect me and play by my rules I'll dance for them.
I really don't know why online dancers would take out all thier bad experiences out on all female customers (while they still keep dancing for them), but atleast you cared to ask. Glad you had fun. I think it was un called for to discourage you.
Stripper Bliss soo rocked, 650+ heads paying $45 per couple cover plus bottles and tips (sorry but that's good money coming in). Yes they let us use the poles!! What did the dancers care it was like they got a break cuz they were already paid booked for the nite (as was the VIP rooms) and they probably made more just being there chilling with us shaking thier ass and showing off abit being flirty having fun w/us. We took over the club and I didn't hear 1 complaint about any rudeness on either side of the story.
I do go alot to other clubs and it's always a fun experience never have I experienced as a female customer nor would any girl that danced for my friends and I ever have 1 of these horror stories to share as we know how to act and I don't play with tipping the girls that's a must.
OK I did once have a dancer give me a dirty look, but she obviously was homophonic and cost herself money as my friend/customer wanted to watch her give me a dance and I said maybe we should find a more friendly girl who did score a room w/him after while I waited 2 get a few from a girl I had worked with cuz I wanted nothing more then 2 hook her up-plus she was the hottest there. Damn I almost paid out of my own pocket to go into the room w/her, but she looks to much like 1 of my exes plus as a friend I really didn't want to be turned on any more by her. It was a good tease and I see why she banks so much I really had 2 wait 1/2 the nite for her to get out of the rooms/dances she was busy back 2 back with. Still she chilled out some drinking w/ me after that and I even went out and brought her dinner just cuz we are cool like that. I know she gets hungery and what she likes to eat.
RJLCyberPunk
05-18-2008, 05:49 PM
Or the guy who's grossly obese wife/gf keeps trying to get on stage... :yuck:
Umm... I think you have watched one too many Jerry Springer shows...::)
i.breathe.in
05-18-2008, 05:50 PM
Umm... I think you have watched one too many Jerry Springer shows...::)
how would you know you have only went a couple of times lol ::)
RJLCyberPunk
05-18-2008, 06:05 PM
how would you know you have only went a couple of times lol ::)
Well for all that I've read the environment and atmosphere at SC now is downright nasty and dangerous with all those drunken guys around. I bet fights ensue about every minute... What else can one expect of a drunken mob in an enclosed space with a few dancers on a stage?
i.breathe.in
05-18-2008, 06:08 PM
Well for all that I've read the environment and atmosphere at SC now is downright nasty and dangerous with all those drunken guys around. I bet fights ensue about every minute... What else can one expect of a drunken mob in an enclosed space with a few dancers on a stage?
wow this is too easy. you dont go to strip clubs? why are you on this board to begin with? did you pop on over from the SA forums?
and your so right theres fights every minute, the girls give blowjobs for 20 dollars out in the open and do cocaine of of each others asses! its chaos!
plus we all have aids! zomg!!!
:O sheesh. this thread has run its course i would say.
Madcap
05-18-2008, 06:08 PM
Don't wanna go to stripclubs? .
RJLCyberPunk
05-18-2008, 06:12 PM
Don't wanna go to stripclubs? Click here (http://www.disboards.com/forumdisplay.php?forumid=26).
Not to the ones that most of the dancers that have posted here are in anyway...
Aubreyyy
05-18-2008, 07:09 PM
Is too bad most of the dancers that posted here treated her like crap...
Who the fuck are you? Her boyfriend or something?
Its a little fishy that you are so quick to come to her rescue when she really looks like she can handle herself.
xfatrabbitx
05-19-2008, 02:04 AM
wow this is too easy. you dont go to strip clubs? why are you on this board to begin with? did you pop on over from the SA forums?
and your so right theres fights every minute, the girls give blowjobs for 20 dollars out in the open and do cocaine of of each others asses! its chaos!
plus we all have aids! zomg!!!
:O sheesh. this thread has run its course i would say.
seriously, why is he here on the board.. he's been to a strip club twice..he's obviously not a stripper... and the only thing he contributes to these boards are absurd questions like, "who works harder, the lesbian licker, or the lickee cummer..."
pathetic
jaizaine
05-19-2008, 02:20 AM
I hate female custies and a group of pole dancing female custies sheeessh. IMO clubs should not let groups of customers in. There was a group of attention whoring little sluts in my club the other week, dressed like tarts. Then they come up and are like "oh some of the customers thought I was a dancer hehehe". Well yeah when your showing more flesh than we are it's no wonder.
ETA: a while ago some stupid bitch patron was there with her boyfriend but she was flirting with my regular so I just stood in between them then looked over my shoulder at her and said "what do u want?" LOL. She went back to her boyfriend and my regular told me that she asked him if he thought the dancer on stage (my best friend) was fat!!!!!! I wanted to fucking beat the shit out of her. Stupid bitches.
loveandluxury
05-19-2008, 07:33 AM
and your so right theres fights every minute, the girls give blowjobs for 20 dollars out in the open and do cocaine of of each others asses! its chaos!
plus we all have aids! zomg!!!
:O sheesh. this thread has run its course i would say.
Umm, speak for yourself. I give BJ's for $5, but I do it free if the guy is wearing sweatpants or gym shorts for easy access and I can feel his boner, or if he just whips it out and asks. I also choose to do coke off of the female custie's moo-moo's when they don't wear panties. :P
britt244
05-19-2008, 01:25 PM
i especially hate when pole dancing classes come in because they tend to only tip the girls who are doing pole tricks.
Aubreyyy
05-19-2008, 01:29 PM
^^^^
Some guy came into my club the other night with $200 in ones and was doing this. He acted like such a stud too, giving each girl that would so tricks for him like $20 in ones.
I wasn't impressed lol... He came to me and flashed his stack and said "What are you going to do to impress me?" and I just rolled my eyes. I hate that whole trick pony game.
RJLCyberPunk
05-19-2008, 02:26 PM
Somebody spends entirely too much time on www.stripclubexposed.com and is entirely too gullible. Not sayin' who. Somebody.
Actually that site paint strupclubs in a very positive light this is where I got the negative aspect of then such as this for example:
Laid in the middle of a bunch of strangers who are a hairs' breadth away from sexually assaulting you, barking orders and nitpicking your body, as you had to pretend to be a porn star complete with tacky lame fake vocals?
Although I do not believe for a second that this is how it is on all stripclubs, I sincerely hope it isn't...
Any way in regards to the post that someone else made about girl customers storming the pole that sounds a lot alike that zany commercial that shows a Tennis proffesional tour about to being when everybody storms the court with rackets trying to hit the ball! It would probably be just as humorous as well as ridiculous off course...
Hmm... Maybe that should be their next commercial...:P
Madcap
05-19-2008, 03:03 PM
Actually that site paint strupclubs in a very positive light this is where I got the negative aspect of then such as this for example:
That is a porn site. It's about as realistic as Snow White. There's a club around here that does what they call shower shows, only if that's a shower i'm the King of Katmandu. Guys chip un for it and then crowd around the damned thing screaming their heads off. It's the loudest thing you've ever heard (Especially because this particular club is about as big as a shoebox, anyone who dances or junkies in Saint Louis knows the club i'm talking about, it's called Roxy's). All this time they only thing you hear is these guys going apeshit and the DJ prattling on and on. Doesn't do a thing for me, i don't see the draw. But whatever floats your boat.
Good thing about it is that the songs they play during the shower shows are nice and long and usually pretty sexual so it's an optimal time to grab a dancer and take her back to private. Haven't been there in years, so i'm not sure how it is NOW but that's my experience.
Although I do not believe for a second that this is how it is on all stripclubs, I sincerely hope it isn't...
They've gotten pretty wild in every club i've been in with this stuff going on. I dunno how the dancers feel about it, but to me it's an annoyance. Just get it over with and get the chicks back on stage. Like i said, G/G does nothing for me.
Any way in regards to the post that someone else made about girl customers storming the pole
That's annoying. It's triple annoying when it's some potato shaped housewife. The local Hustler club here seems to do a decent job of keeping the fatties off the stages the times i've been in there when it's happened. When it happens there it's usually some cute college student or secretary up there freaking out at being naked. I'd still rather it be left to the pros, though.
RJLCyberPunk
05-19-2008, 03:51 PM
That is a porn site. It's about as realistic as Snow White. There's a club around here that does what they call shower shows, only if that's a shower i'm the King of Katmandu. Guys chip un for it and then crowd around the damned thing screaming their heads off. It's the loudest thing you've ever heard (Especially because this particular club is about as big as a shoebox, anyone who dances or junkies in Saint Louis knows the club i'm talking about, it's called Roxy's). All this time they only thing you hear is these guys going apeshit and the DJ prattling on and on. Doesn't do a thing for me, i don't see the draw. But whatever floats your boat.
Hmm... Sounds like really, really bad crowd control going on there. In the 2 times I have gone to clubs they were a bit bigger than a shoebox and they only allowed a certain number of patrons in at a time. Something that is really wise because the larger a crowd is the harder is to reign in order if it goes out of control and trust me you do not want to be in the middle of a crowd when it turns into a mob, it is not a pleasant experience by any stretch of the imagination...
Good thing about it is that the songs they play during the shower shows are nice and long and usually pretty sexual so it's an optimal time to grab a dancer and take her back to private. Haven't been there in years, so i'm not sure how it is NOW but that's my experience. Well at least there is that, still having large crowds in small enclosed spaces is inherently dangerous...
They've gotten pretty wild in every club i've been in with this stuff going on. I dunno how the dancers feel about it, but to me it's an annoyance. Just get it over with and get the chicks back on stage. Like i said, G/G does nothing for me.
I would not be able to enjoy a G/G show anyway with such a rowdy crowd around...
That's annoying. It's triple annoying when it's some potato shaped housewife. The local Hustler club here seems to do a decent job of keeping the fatties off the stages the times i've been in there when it's happened. When it happens there it's usually some cute college student or secretary up there freaking out at being naked. I'd still rather it be left to the pros, though. Hmm... Maybe the dancers should film the "potatoe" shaped housewife and post the thing on the internet labelled "Potatoe at the pole" LOL!:D
gingerlee
05-19-2008, 09:37 PM
Hmm... Maybe the dancers should film the "potatoe" shaped housewife and post the thing on the internet labelled "Potatoe at the pole" LOL!:D
Hi there Mr. Quayle, how have you been?
(Sorry, I couldn't resist.)
Madcap
05-19-2008, 10:42 PM
^^LOL!
lotsoffun201
05-20-2008, 02:56 AM
My wife and I go to clubs all the time. She is a former dancer there and usually wears a skirt, but always has something on underneath. She is very respectable to their limits and NEVER initiates anything. Every time something "happened" it was always the dancer who started it.
Starfire
05-20-2008, 05:36 AM
I know this is a slight threadjack, but I've been in other clubs when that poledancing group comes in and usually they represent themselves quite poorly. They come in, dressed like strippers. Beg to go on stage. Don't tip anyone, unless the club allows one of them to go on stage-then it's all hooting and hollering and dollar showers. They usually do not tip the waitresses/bartenders very well. Also, they critique all the dancers, and act like bitches if the customers mistake them for actually working there, even though they are usually dressed in school girl outfits and stripper heels, with more skin showing than the girls that work there. No, they're not strippers-they're *better than that*. Some of them "teach strippers how to dance".
If you want to feel cool and risque by stealing stripper moves to work out, that's fine and dandy but there's no reason to go to the strip club and act like an ass. I am not at the club to be critiqued on my moves-it is my job, my livelihood, the way I pay all my bills. not just a fun lark. (ps what's so fun about slutting it up in public for free anyway.)
OP sounds like you behaved yourself-but did the rest of your group?
sorry guys that turned into a long rant but this kind of thing really pisses me off!!!
loveandluxury
05-20-2008, 06:09 AM
^ Well said.
VertigoVirgo
05-20-2008, 06:55 AM
I'm a little embarrassed that a thread I started has devolved in this way, probably not the best foot to get off on. I do just want to be clear that while I'm sure there are TONS of obnoxious girls who come to your clubs and give you every reason to want to kick their asses, there are some girls who might not be dancers themselves but are dancer-friendly and only there to enjoy themselves and hell, maybe pick up a sexy move or two to bust out at home. I'm a massage therapist and sure, I'd like people to come and pay me to get massages, but I'm also willing to show them techniques to use themselves.
To be honest, I don't really know what most of the rest of my group did, I was a little drunk and I don't know most of them anyway. I suspect most of them stayed upstairs in the reserved VIP (which is the only place they were allowed to dance, fully clothed only and only for the other people in the party. No tipping customers were diverted.) I know some weren't comfortable with tipping the dancers but they either stayed upstairs or at least stayed away from the stages. I did not hear anybody making disparaging remarks about the club employees and if I had, I would have admonished them.
So, again, I'm sorry, I didn't mean to be a shit-stirrer. I'm just going to....back away slowly now....
loveandluxury
05-20-2008, 07:20 AM
^ You're alright Vertigo. I don't think it was anything you said, for a lot of dancers, female customers are a sore subject and the thread just sort of went off in a tangent. I don't think any of the ladies that posted here think you did anything wrong or were specifically going off on you, just females that come in and try to steal the spotlight and get jealous and don't spend. No need to run off :)
charlie61
05-20-2008, 02:07 PM
I think this thread quickly moved away from your particular situation into a more general discussion of our experiences with wanna-be strippers/female custies.
Don't worry 'bout it, Virgo. Even if you had acted like bitch, which you didn't, you'd still be way ahead of most female custies on our stripper hierarchy simply b/c you cared enough to check this site out.
Madcap
05-20-2008, 06:07 PM
So, again, I'm sorry, I didn't mean to be a shit-stirrer. I'm just going to....back away slowly now....
It just kind of went off topic, Vertigo. Didn't have anything to do with you.
iambonbon05
05-21-2008, 02:11 PM
^^^^
Some guy came into my club the other night with $200 in ones and was doing this. He acted like such a stud too, giving each girl that would so tricks for him like $20 in ones.
I wasn't impressed lol... He came to me and flashed his stack and said "What are you going to do to impress me?" and I just rolled my eyes. I hate that whole trick pony game.
I had one of those, same words, ack! Now I'm decent on the pole but when this happened I'd only been dancing for about a month. He actually said that I didn't put in much effort. Right, if pole dancing is such an art, it obviously takes more than a month to learn ::)
Sounds like you did ok vertigo. It's a good idea for female custies to make the first move if they want a dance or something because I think most of us don't go to the girls first. Admittedly they're sort of my last resort when it's slow, along with groups of young guys, because they're rarely good for a stage tip let alone drinks or dances.
VertigoVirgo
05-22-2008, 06:59 AM
Well, since this thread's gone all everywhere anyway, I have another question. I might possibly make another trip to a different club with my husband and I'm sure he won't mind my getting lapdances but I'm also sure he thinks I am not okay with him getting dances. Now, he's a fairly shy guy (think Clark Kent and you're on the right track). So I figured I'd really shock the hell out of him and buy a dance or two for him. So do you think I should just sit there while he gets the dance or excuse myself, find a dancer and send her over, and stay away while he gets the dance(s)? I want him to be comfortable and enjoy it.
Starfire
05-22-2008, 07:41 AM
Well, since this thread's gone all everywhere anyway, I have another question. I might possibly make another trip to a different club with my husband and I'm sure he won't mind my getting lapdances but I'm also sure he thinks I am not okay with him getting dances. Now, he's a fairly shy guy (think Clark Kent and you're on the right track). So I figured I'd really shock the hell out of him and buy a dance or two for him. So do you think I should just sit there while he gets the dance or excuse myself, find a dancer and send her over, and stay away while he gets the dance(s)? I want him to be comfortable and enjoy it.
Well, in most clubs around this area, the dances take place in a separate area. So it's not really a question of just sitting there, it's a question of getting up and going with them. Honestly, you know your husband. Do you think he would feel too nervous having you watch him get a dance? Or would it maybe be a turn on for him? if he's nervous, you can just hang out at the stage while he's getting a dance off somewhere else.
jennahoff
05-31-2008, 06:55 AM
Lets see one time i went in a really cute guess top that looked totally hott. but then i just wore jeans so i didnt look too over the top.
Another time i wore a skirt, and tank top and boots.
I never try to take attention away from dancers. One time when i was there, one of the girls i was with tried to show off by going to a pole and doing a little dance. She looked ridiculous and got yelled at by management anyways!
Just go have fun and remember to tip :)
solanas
06-16-2008, 12:48 AM
Wow, a lot of girl customers sound like complete assholes. I'm gay and when I got to SC's, I am there appreciating the lovely bodies and showing my appreciation through whatever tips I can afford to give. I think it's just about common sense and respect for the girls as a customer. Some people are just dickfaces.
cinammonkisses
06-16-2008, 10:28 PM
and dont pull your boobs out just becuase we do, lol
Good grief! You can say that again. For some reason when girl customers see my boobs, they are like, "OMG you'rz are like the same size as mine" while pulling out their tired sloppy tits.:(
Sperkzy
08-11-2008, 01:26 PM
Me and my GF are planning on going in a few weeks for our anniversary with 2 other guy friends. It would be my GF's first SC, and she's very excited. She is bi, but she's never been with a woman but she is very attracted to females. She's very cute and nice and she definitely doesnt ever say shes better then other girls.
When we go, i'm not allowed to touch any of the dancers (which is fine! I'm going to make her happy.) but i'd like to be with her when she gets a private lap dance. Is that acceptable behavior to ask if I may sit in with my GF when she gets one?
And is there anything we should know before hand? (I've been to one before)
Aubreyyy
08-11-2008, 02:10 PM
^^^
Most girls are fine doing couples dances, but some charge double...
solanas
08-11-2008, 02:10 PM
When I go to a club, I feel like a kid in a candy store and pretty much give all my money to the first dancer.
I don't understand people who don't tip. It's like, hello, you're here to see beautiful girls on parade, show a little respect.
I just dress quite normally when there. Jeans, sweet top. Pretty low key.
i.breathe.in
08-11-2008, 03:24 PM
Me and my GF are planning on going in a few weeks for our anniversary with 2 other guy friends. It would be my GF's first SC, and she's very excited. She is bi, but she's never been with a woman but she is very attracted to females. She's very cute and nice and she definitely doesnt ever say shes better then other girls.
When we go, i'm not allowed to touch any of the dancers (which is fine! I'm going to make her happy.) but i'd like to be with her when she gets a private lap dance. Is that acceptable behavior to ask if I may sit in with my GF when she gets one?
And is there anything we should know before hand? (I've been to one before)
in my experiance actual lesbians are much better behaved then the straight and bi curious ones in the club.
im sure a double dance would be fine.