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loveandluxury
05-20-2008, 05:20 PM
I'm not being cynical, I'm speaking the truth from my POV (a point of this forum last time I checked) so anyone of us can hear other ladies' POV's to help with whatever situation we're in. Isn't "Yes there are different circumstances involved in every situation and emotions, too. But you've got to think with your head, not your heart, find your strength from within and move on." -- a supportive statement???

She's getting tons of support, sound advice,well wishes and some coddling from this thread, which is great, but at times, you need to add a kick-ass attitude into the mix to come up w/ a formula for success for the future, that's my point. Sorry you're offended.

I just don't think it was an appropriate thing to say right now. That being said, I'll shut up about it because the most important thing is Lucki right now and I also don't want to bring a negative vibe to the thread. So, let's just let it go, k? :)

BrunetteGoddess
05-20-2008, 05:33 PM
She doesn't need an asskicking anymore, she's out of there for crissakes, now let's make sure she stays that way!

greenidlady1
05-20-2008, 05:40 PM
Ok you guys. Sorry I haven't posted. Every time I have a chance to get online it's only for like a split second. Basically I am at a friends right now, but all my shit is still in the apartment. I have alot of support from people at my job.
Right now I'm just chillin...still in shock.
Some people at work today asked me what happened to my eye and I had to make up some lame excuse. I can't even wear short sleeves (it's not as hell in Atl) because one of my arms is all black and blue. I'm gonna get my friend to take pics for me and I'll have them developed soon.
Right now I'm worried that I might have damage in my back. It's like a sharp pain when I move suddenly or breath wrong.
*Deep sigh*...This is bull shit man.

The pain when taking a deep breathe could be a broken rib. I am so sorry to hear about someone abusing you like this. I think you should go to the doctor though just to make sure everything is okay and get a copy of everything for your records. As a victim of domestic abuse I am sure there is some way you can get some assistance with those bills if need be.

More importantly, please stay away from him. If you go back it will get much worse next time and it'll be even harder to break away. Take the hands now of those who are reaching out to you.:hug:

Callyish
05-20-2008, 05:57 PM
Lucki I am so happy you are okay!! You should get to a doctor and have those injuries properly documented and a proper report. You really need to talk to the police. You can't let him get away with this or he will think he can keep doing it.

Take care of yourself *hugs*

KamrynAnne
05-20-2008, 06:16 PM
glad your ok, just know that we all are thinking and hoping for the best.. sounds like your on the path to a great future, and one that doesn't involve a vile human being like him....

sparkleeyz
05-20-2008, 07:58 PM
File a police report asap! DO NOT WAIT! My best friend just went through this, he hit her, she didn't file, he hit her again, she didn't file, he beat the shit out of her, she still didn't file. Then he threated to hurt her 2 yr. old daughter and kill her....he said this in front of the cops, but because she never filed a complaint against him, now she can't get a restraining order. GET HIM ARRESTED NOW!

Sindi
05-20-2008, 08:00 PM
OMg , whew .....yeah Lucki , I sent you some IMs , I dont know if you got them !!

Stay strong sweetie and you know you still can call the police and they can have someone look you over and they can take pictures too ...just saying .


I am only in Florida if you need a place , ok !?

Electrum
05-20-2008, 11:38 PM
If it is the same in your state as it is mine, all of your medical bills, even therapy if need be, is paid for. I'm not sure if you would have to go to court or not. In my state you don't have the choice of pressing charges, the state automatically presses charges for domestic violence (at least physical abuse).

iambonbon05
05-20-2008, 11:38 PM
Only found this this morning thank goodness you're all right. Please continue updating if it's safe.

pookie
05-20-2008, 11:54 PM
Im glad you are doing better.
What step have have you taken against your ex?

BalletBaby
05-21-2008, 12:39 AM
I'm so glad to hear that you are ok and doing better:hug: Stay safe.

scarlet_is_yummy
05-21-2008, 12:57 AM
welldone lucki! i'm so glad you left, thats so inspiring! take care of yourself and make sure you get to a doctor for that pain. i was really worried about you

Polekitten
05-21-2008, 04:00 AM
I'm so glad to hear your safe! Good for you for getting out of there and protecting yourself. DO NOT GO BACK WITHOUT THE COPS! He may call you and says hes sorry and that he loves you and wants you back, don't buy it. Abusers can be manipulative and he may be geniunely sorry but that doesn't mean you should go back to him. He needs serious, serious help, and not from you.
Take photos now before things start to heal, go to a doctors and have yourself checked out, go to the cops, have him arrested and have them go with you to get your stuff.
I'm so happy and proud of you that your ok and you got yourself out of there but don't stop now. Make sure he doesn't get away with what he did to you.

Nini Nieb
05-21-2008, 04:20 AM
^^ What she said !! And go to the hospital to check your ribs !! Please !!

Best wishes ...

jasmine
05-21-2008, 06:10 AM
I'm so glad you are ok! Definitely get those ribs and your back looked at. And please don't go back there without an escort. He escalated soooo fast, I worry he could hurt you much worse than he has.

((((HUGS))))

JustJayda
05-21-2008, 07:45 AM
Jayda- That cell doesn't work anymore. I still have your number though and I'll call or text when I get a new phone.

k, babes. Glad to hear from you, cuz I can't find my old celly for shit!

Just so you and anyone else knows, if you don't have a cell phone, but have email access, you can always teleflip me. It is just like a regular email, but addressed to the phone [email protected] example [email protected], and the person will get your message directly on their celly. No costs, no need to subscribe.

Starfire
05-21-2008, 08:17 AM
I have been anxiously following this thread. Luckicharm, I am glad to hear you got out of there and are staying with friends. You had us all worried there for a second.

Glamazon
05-21-2008, 11:03 AM
Glad to hear you're safe, Lucki. You're in my thoughts. :hug:

Mily
05-21-2008, 02:33 PM
So glad you are okay, Lucki. Please, please, PLEASE take legal action on this fucking piece of shit.

virgoamm
05-21-2008, 02:51 PM
I'm so glad that you got yourself out of there. Still, you need to file charges against him. He deserves to be in jail for what he did to you as well as have a permanent record as an abuser. Plus, the cops can escort you to his apartment so you can get your things without having to worry about anything happening.

exotica17
05-21-2008, 05:52 PM
Yaaayyyy, good for you for getting out! Don't tell him where you are and don't turn back. Don't wait for those pictures to develop--go to the police station as ASAP while you still have the bruises and such and file a report! I agree with the other young lady about getting your ribs and all checked out. We are all proud of you, keep it up! : )

Fionaver
05-22-2008, 11:35 AM
I've been in your shoes before. If you ever want any help/support, I'm in Atlanta. You are always welcome on my couch.

Feel free to pm.

Hello_Kitty27
05-22-2008, 05:02 PM
so glad you're OK!! At least so it seems til you get to a dr, which you definitely should!!

Please also file a report ....like NOW. He's a disgusting person, and you obviously deserve better, and you need to put him in his place.

Good luck!!! Take care and be safe!

Toki
05-23-2008, 11:54 AM
Glad to hear you're ok! Just please please please get the cops involved asap. Remove that douchefuck from your life, and NEVER, EVER, EVER look back!

ahmeerah
05-23-2008, 12:21 PM
Yay! You're OK. That is a relief. ALthough we don't really know eachother, I've been in a similar situation and was worried. Kepp us updated when and if you can. And please get the authorities involved -- for your own safety and for other women.

seraya
05-23-2008, 01:09 PM
Wow I just found this! Thank god you are OK.

Sweetie i'm so sorry about what happened to you.. what a vile piece of shit.

Please press charges and seek some medical attention.. your ribs could be broken.

Please take care and keep us updated.

*Hugs*

exotica268
05-23-2008, 01:26 PM
What everyone else said, since they pretty much covered it! And please take care of yourself. Best wishes.

Clara_M
05-23-2008, 04:00 PM
This is the worst dom violence story I've heard in a long time: it takes a particular kind of lowlife to sustain "anger" over a long enough period to come home and "do something about it." This is WAY WORSE than someone who throws things in a fit of anger or anything like that.

This guy will eventually KILL YOU if you don't get out of there. Don't "work on getting out" - get OUT NOW. Call the cops for help in getting your stuff out if you need. The homeless shelter is better than this: it's safer. ANYWHERE is.