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Allice
05-24-2008, 10:56 AM
^^^ No shit, right? I'll be sure to tell K and all my customers that they don't really find me attractive even though they think they do, because at 5'1" and 130# with a 27" waist and 37" hips, I'm obviously not carrying my weight well. Penthouse Said So, after all. ::)

Yekhefah your measurements/height are real close to mine!

And as Lysondra said, I've also felt too fat and too skinny in the same shift. Go figure.

Corey
05-24-2008, 02:06 PM
Damn it! I haven't read all the posts, but I did read the first page. I WISH I had some of that extra weight because I would make WAY more $$$ at my club.

I am not anorexic by any means, 5'2", don't own a scale but go from roughly 102-107 depending on the time of the month.

I work in a sea of voluptuous latinas in which their average size is most likely an 8....shit, I don't know!

But that guy who said you were too 'fat' is fucking crazy and should stop by my club sometime to see who is making $$$! The bigger the ass, the more $$$. For real.

Now, I am going to say something that just baffled me the other day. I was out w/ some GF's celebrating my B-day. One of them, an actress, I will guess, 5'7", maybe 115, and nice boobies, complains that she can't loose that last 5lbs. I told her I was actually trying to gain about 3 or 4 because I want a shelf butt. This is what she said to me, word for word, "Corey, nobody actually tries to GAIN weight".:O

I was just stunned. Also, a customer at work guessed my weight pretty much right at 106. He then said to me, (as if I had like a disease) that it is OK and I shouldn't be ashamed of being too thin!!! WTF???

To the OP: You sound gorgeous! Rock what your Mom gave you. Or just move to LA and work your curves over here!

Jeska
05-24-2008, 02:54 PM
If a size 2 is fat then I'm a fucking whale (size 9)

McLurkey
05-24-2008, 05:59 PM
:o Guy is trying to run a business. It's not personal, he just thinks his clients are looking for a different body type.

Don't feel so bad about it :)

hot4ablackchick
05-30-2008, 08:33 AM
^^Agreed.^^ I wouldn't call your weight fat, but uh I don't know I am 5'9", weigh a 135 lbs and I think I could stand to lose a few, and I don't really see how you are a size 6 when I wear a size 6, but whatever........Everyone does carry weight differently, look differently so what may look good on one may not look good on another. Perhaps your look does not sell at that club. We have a really skinny girl at my club, I'm talking scary skinny. I'm not trying to make light of eating disorders but nobody that ate food could be that thin. I'm talking waayyyy past kate moss thin. Gross wtf skinny. She banks and she is ugly as sin, cant dance, with horrible fake bolt on implants. She is NOT a hustler either. She usually just walks around and waits to get called over unless she knows you already, so we're not talking about a girl with game. We have a girl who is, I'll admit a bit fat. Not super fat at all and pulls it off well. Still doesn't look bad, and is real HOT in the face. Usually only makes money off regulars and doesn't really get tipped onstage. Sad, because I would never in a million years buy from that ugly thin broad. The larger girl at my club is 50 times hotter. They hire those ugly broads over hot bigger girls because the ugly twigs sell.

cutey5032
05-30-2008, 08:48 AM
I would just like to say I am one of the biggest girls at my club(s) and I do awesome, always a high earner! Woo Hoo

Optimist
05-30-2008, 08:52 AM
^^Agreed.^^ They hire those ugly broads over hot bigger girls because the ugly twigs sell.

There was a club in Manhattan that had a girl who was clearly anorexic and she banked! I was baffled that anyone would pay to be "entertained" by a woman in such obvious distress but many guys are not drawn to the club to see women at their best. They want to see them at their worst--miserable, desperate, lost. The fish rots from the head and so does the company. The ownership and management want things that way for their own personal reasons. Let them stay in their own crazy world. Definitely focus on working elsewhere.

made_of_sequins
05-30-2008, 04:12 PM
There was a club in Manhattan that had a girl who was clearly anorexic and she banked!

I believe it. :( When I was actively anorexic, I was making a grand at least once a week, and at least coming close most nights. Selling dances was as easy as walking through the club; I didn't even have to work for it. And the quality of my customers was a hell of a lot better then too. :(

It's like as soon as I got above 110, my money just TANKED. Now I'm a low earner, broke, and it is hard as hell to make money. I work five times as hard, have to sell myself with so much more effort, and for about 1/5th of the money. Nothing has changed except my weight...I work in the same clubs, keep up the rest of my appearance even MORE now b/c I feel like I have to compensate...and I'm not even overweight at 115. Just no longer anorexic-looking. And guys just aren't going for it anymore. I seriously am frustrated and want to flat out starve myself until I start making that easy money again. I don't know WHY guys love seriously emaciated strippers, but I see it happen day in and day out in both of my clubs--the anorexic-looking ones bank effortlessly. And I'm jealous.

I have nothing but admiration for anyone who is a top earner without the whole eating-disordered look...because I can't pull it off. :-[

hot4ablackchick
05-30-2008, 04:28 PM
^^^Thats really unfortunate sequins, but thank you for being honest. Please remember to keep yourself healthy and take care of yourself. I'm definetely gonna drop a few pounds myself (I don't exercise and I eat CRAP, currently 5'9" and weigh 135) I would like to see how my money goes!

VegasPrincess
05-30-2008, 04:34 PM
I believe it. :( When I was actively anorexic, I was making a grand at least once a week, and at least coming close most nights. Selling dances was as easy as walking through the club; I didn't even have to work for it. And the quality of my customers was a hell of a lot better then too. :(

It's like as soon as I got above 110, my money just TANKED. Now I'm a low earner, broke, and it is hard as hell to make money. I work five times as hard, have to sell myself with so much more effort, and for about 1/5th of the money. Nothing has changed except my weight...I work in the same clubs, keep up the rest of my appearance even MORE now b/c I feel like I have to compensate...and I'm not even overweight at 115. Just no longer anorexic-looking. And guys just aren't going for it anymore. I seriously am frustrated and want to flat out starve myself until I start making that easy money again. I don't know WHY guys love seriously emaciated strippers, but I see it happen day in and day out in both of my clubs--the anorexic-looking ones bank effortlessly. And I'm jealous.

I have nothing but admiration for anyone who is a top earner without the whole eating-disordered look...because I can't pull it off. :-[


Here, here. Maybe our perspectives are skewed and our minds are messed up because of our EDS, because I constantly see girls WAAAAAAAYYYYYYYYYYY fatter than I am that do way better than me. I know personally, it's a daily struggle to look in the mirror, esp in work clothes.

The time I made the best money in my life, I swear I weighed between 87-92lbs for two years. Now, this was the only time in my life I didn't ever feel fat, but beyond that guys would CONSTANTLY tell me I had the perfect body, etc etc. Things stayed swell and equally good until I hit about 108lbs (in recovery) and I swear my money declined. The thing is too a lot of the guys that dig uber thin chicks are the rich ones...

There is NO WAY for me to maintain a weift of less than 108-110 lbs that would be healthy for me. I'm 5'2" with a pretty large frame. At 120, I feel like a disgusting fat pig....which is also shooting down my confidence I'm sure. It's very frustrating.

made_of_sequins
05-30-2008, 04:42 PM
^^ i hope I'm not triggering you or anyone else here by posting that. :( I'm just really, really, REALLY super-frustrated about this and needed to vent it out.

VegasPrincess
05-30-2008, 04:45 PM
^^^

Oh trust me, I'm beyond being triggered lol. It's something that I've struggeled for years to overcome, and I'm not going back to that. That said, the disease has moved out of my body and just into my head... the thoughts, for me, I doubt will ever go away. I just don't act like them anymore.

cutey5032
05-31-2008, 12:41 AM
The thing is too a lot of the guys that dig uber thin chicks are the rich ones...



Whats up with this LOL? I've noticed that too! Usually the older ones go for REALLY young-looking chicks (who are usually the real skinny ones too).

Corgan
05-31-2008, 06:50 AM
healthy = sexy to me.

if you're naturally rail thin but it looks good on you, that's sexy. if you're chubby but it looks good on you, that's sexy too.

ediblecrayonz
06-09-2008, 09:07 AM
Yeah, I'm 5'3" and 135. My measurements are 35-26-40. I'm not fat, not skinny. I can see my hip bones and my collar bone, I have a 4 pack, and I can clearly see each muscle on my body. Except my butt, my butt is chubby. Anyway, I'm glad I weigh that much because that means that my bones are really dense. Yay for no osteoporosis.

i.breathe.in
06-09-2008, 09:19 AM
5'6 135-138 depending on the time of day here.

i could eat better and work out more. im too lazy.

im also a top earner. we have lots of skinny girls at our club and as much as i miss being skinny with no boobs, what i have going on right now is making me money just fine.

Ava Jadore
06-09-2008, 09:36 AM
I had to laugh the other night when one custie told me he liked me because he thought "skinny girls were over-rated" and he liked a woman "with some meat on her bones". Then later that VERY SAME night another custie told me he liked me because "I didn't have an ounce of fat on my body". I was still the same size when I gave both of them their dances...LOL. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder...I don't care what men say...as long as the cash in flowing. I am happy with my size now...I feel like I am healthy and my weight suites my body type. I am by no means perfect but "perfection" is over rated anyways. I find those "perfect" type people are not as good in bed }:D !!

ediblecrayonz
06-09-2008, 10:57 AM
I personally don't understand why women who can't give birth without C-sections would be sex objects. Now, I'm not an expert on psychology, and this will probably offend at least one person, but I think the men that go for women that are that skinny have some psychological issues with sex...

Samba
06-09-2008, 12:47 PM
There was a club in Manhattan that had a girl who was clearly anorexic and she banked!


The time I made the best money in my life, I swear I weighed between 87-92lbs for two years. Now, this was the only time in my life I didn't ever feel fat, but beyond that guys would CONSTANTLY tell me I had the perfect body, etc etc. Things stayed swell and equally good until I hit about 108lbs (in recovery) and I swear my money declined.

This is so sad.

StarryEyes
06-09-2008, 01:08 PM
There was an anorexic-lookng girl at my old club...a few of them actually (one of them did a LOT of coke) and it turned off the people in the audience, even made them feel uncomfortable. Everyone wanted to feed those girls a hamburger or a hot fudge sundae or something. They did not look good. People wouldn't watch them. It was too sad.

Then there is a girl at my club who has a pretty face, big boobs, and is "thicker" and she banks. Like, her whole game is her curves and her smile and her pretty face. Plus, she just has that "money" vibe. In fact, girls of all sizes bank at my club. I'm 5'3" 125 (35-26-33) and I don't have big boobs or anything but I do well too. I really think most of it has to do with your attitude.

Ava Jadore
06-09-2008, 02:01 PM
I really think most of it has to do with your attitude.

couldn't have said it better myself :yes:

justlikejesus
06-10-2008, 02:23 PM
meh.....that guy is a cunt obviously. Forget him.

You do have to keep an objective view of your appearance though. I always check out the competition at a club before auditioning. Maybe that club was anorexic stripper exclusive?

Either way, it's a good thing you won't be dancing there. The girls are probably miserable working under him.

DamSkippi
06-10-2008, 03:09 PM
I used to work with a fat lazy fuck.. He was the harshest critic of girls ive ever met. I think he had a phobia of being a fat guy with a fat girl.. My other fat friend was like that too. while us in-shape guys would be checking out thick girls he would be saying mean things. No one really knows why

I dont like anorexic i like thick girls with big boobs and butt.. even tho im pretty skinny myself

A smart girl is always more attractive to me than a dumb one..