View Full Version : Confused about a fling w. a custie
Aubreyyy
06-05-2008, 05:46 AM
Stiletto, I saw something on TV today about home improvement scams being the WORST scams in the country.
They pave people's driveways and other things very thin and shitt-ily, and then scram and are nowhere to be found when the pavement starts crumbling away after the first time you drive on it...
Please RUN from this guy. He IS ripping off old ladies. Apparently its a GIANT GIANT HUGE thing right now, with a lot of people doing it. They're going around saying they had leftover materials and don't want to waste them, but really they're promising a good job, delievering something that looks good on the first day when the cash gets handed over, and jumping ship.
Sirona
06-05-2008, 04:43 PM
To be clear, I don't believe he's scamming anybody, or ripping off little old ladies. Just operating where he's not licensed to operate.
You really think he'd tell you if he was?
I mean come on, you know this guy how well?
VegasPrincess
06-06-2008, 01:54 PM
You seem to have almost a fantasy that this guy is rich an exotic....umm..
Okay, honey, anybody who goes around ringing people's doors and asking them if they want their driveway paved is not rich. Maybe he makes a "decent living" but rich enough to treat you to some exotic lifestyle, No.
It was one night as I said in my first post, you had fun, leave it at that....
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red red red
06-28-2008, 07:09 PM
The $20 to the bum thing is where you lost me, babe... HE DID NOT!
At worst, he's running a scam on you. At best, you have a married con artist for an occasional sex partner. With many shades of gray between the two.
I'd change his name in your phone to "DO NOT PICK UP"
madmaxine
06-29-2008, 07:05 AM
To be clear, I don't believe he's scamming anybody, or ripping off little old ladies. Just operating where he's not licensed to operate.
:-\ Good luck hon.
Clara_M
06-30-2008, 02:50 PM
I would be insulted by the $50. The only time I wouldn't be would be if all the following were true:
- We went way out of the area we originally met.
- He knows I don't have any money on me.
- He knows I'll have to take a cab home.
and even then... it would have to be done in a very appropriate way, like asking me if he'd like him to get me a cab or something like that.
ex-stripper75
07-07-2008, 08:27 PM
Forgive me if one of you ladies has mentioned this before....
He could be one of those dudes that has that gets his jollies by "paying for it"
I know a girl who dated a guy a long time ago, and he had this thing where he would always hand her money after sex....THEY WERE IN A COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP. He said the hooker/john thing was hot to him.
Not that youre a hooker luv, just pointing something out.
As you were.
Stiletto135
07-18-2008, 07:12 PM
We only saw each other that one time, and never since. The scam thing bugs me. And the married thing.
I told him (at least a month ago) that I don't feel comfortable continuing any kind of sexual relationship due to his marital status, and he said he was cool with that but asked if he can call me still just to say hello and keep in touch. I said sure, because why not. Well he's been calling me once or twice a week for like 5 minutes a pop. Says he just wants to hear my voice. Doesn't even try to make plans. It makes me feel all giddy...but it is so hard to believe that he's this into me. And it's also really confusing me...like...why is he doing that? We live 7 hours away from each other now, and he knows I won't see him.
dallylama
07-19-2008, 06:37 AM
why is he doing that? We live 7 hours away from each other now, and he knows I won't see him.
Actually, he's betting that you WILL see him since you agreed to keep talking to him as opposed to unequivocably putting him out of your life. Which of course gives him the opportunity to work you all up over the phone.
NicoleR
07-20-2008, 06:00 PM
i agree w/love&luxury. i would recommend staying away. . .even if you met him for casual sex--eventually your emotions will get in the way--and then you'll be in a mess.
it sounds like he had a gf. i wouldn't want a gf/bf situation w/someone who didn't think twice about cheating. what they'll do with you, they'll do to you.
madmaxine
07-20-2008, 08:02 PM
Well he's been calling me once or twice a week for like 5 minutes a pop. Says he just wants to hear my voice. Doesn't even try to make plans. It makes me feel all giddy...but it is so hard to believe that he's this into me. And it's also really confusing me...like...why is he doing that? We live 7 hours away from each other now, and he knows I won't see him.
He's manipulative and he knows how much you like him. Meathooks, he has them in you!
Stop talking to him and leave this as an entertaining memory.
lola85
07-23-2008, 04:24 PM
yikes! I don't know you girl but... it sounds like you gave it up to a custy & are sprung. YUCK! Consider it a very weak moment, a poor decision & a lesson learned. wow, I thought the title was a joke or something... the custys get a fantasy not the goods THATS THE GAME. Looks like he got you, good luck & I hope you bounce back soon.
HoolaTwist
07-26-2008, 10:26 AM
He is playing you sooooooooooooooo bad girlfriend!
Stiletto135
07-27-2008, 02:47 AM
Wow, pretty unanimous responses on this one. OK, I'm taking the advice, not calling him, letting it go.
I realize it sounds silly now, but I was just holding out some hope that a hot sweet boy was actually falling for me for once. Damn it.