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Fairbay
06-06-2008, 10:56 AM
I'd say, if you'd ask the pizza delivery guy "Can I get 5 back, please" you might as well push the issue for the OTHER financial interactions in your life. If not, don't fret it....money's not a big deal and life is too short to worry about missed change.

snow white
06-06-2008, 11:18 AM
If you asked for change and she never brought it to you, then yes you should remind her. If you just handed her the 20 and didnt ask for change then thats a diff story! :) I personally hate it when people ask me for change. Mostly because they NEVER tip and they are wasting my time. I dunno if guys dont know this, but you can indeed break your larger bills at the bar or with a waitress. At least at most clubs you can. I cannot tell you how annoying it is to do 1 $5 dance for a custy and then he hands me a $100 bill and asks for change >:( The fucked up thing is I'll tell them I dont have change and they'll reach into their pocket and pull out a wad of change! Get off you lazy fatass and walk 20ft to the bar and get your own goddamn change! I AM NOT A FUCKING CHANGE MACHINE ASSHOLE! Okay /rant :D

kaiarose
06-06-2008, 12:15 PM
It just baffles me that some of you seem to think that its okay to keep someone's change! Great way to make dancers look like scandalous bitches.It's still a business people. In any other business you'd be fired for shit like this. Why? Because it's stealing.

hot4ablackchick
06-06-2008, 01:19 PM
Agreed^^

NewMoon
06-06-2008, 01:32 PM
I hate giving change. I think the custy should pay exact or get change himself at the bar.

made_of_sequins
06-06-2008, 01:36 PM
I hate giving change. I think the custy should pay exact or get change himself at the bar.

...or just TIP.

doc-catfish
06-06-2008, 02:13 PM
/:O How many customers do you think walk through the door of that club in a night? A week? I doubt she's losing sleep over "losing your business" or pining for a "second chance".
Ahh, with "cart before horse" attitudes like this, its no wonder the SC business is in the shape thats its in right now.
::)

If the incident in question is indicative of her behavior, perhaps she should start losing sleep, for its her own bottom line that she's cutting. Some of those people she's leaving a bad impression on might otherwise not just buy a second dance, they might become repeat customers, possibly regulars in due time.

I can't think of any favorite dancer of mine who didn't start out doing 1-2 dances at a time. It was often their "what can I do for you?" attitude that separated them from the pack. They didn't adopt that attitude to soothe my feelings, they did it because they knew it was good business, and have been handsomely rewarded since.


I hate giving change. I think the custy should pay exact or get change himself at the bar.


...or just TIP.

Why? A gratuity of any kind is supposed to be an added bonus for doing exceptional service, not an entitlement for doing subsistent service. The notion of not tipping is supposed to leave the impression that the service performed was not to the customer's liking.

Every other customer service oriented business I make patronage of, whether or not its something that will involve a tip, understands its their job to make a good impression on their patrons. It puzzles me how so many people in this one think its the other way around, or worse yet should be.

VegasPrincess
06-06-2008, 03:43 PM
Normally I would say this is stealing, but in this situation....since you got dances and all that in between ... she might have felt akward walking up with your change in the middle of the dance, I know I would feel weird doing that.

It wasn't ideal behavior but hey.

bem401
06-07-2008, 08:19 AM
It just baffles me that some of you seem to think that its okay to keep someone's change! Great way to make dancers look like scandalous bitches.It's still a business people. In any other business you'd be fired for shit like this. Why? Because it's stealing.

Kaia gets it. Five years ago it was a lot less true though. The clubs were packed, guys were throwing money around and there was always another customer waiting to replace any who dropped off. In short, it was a dancer's market. Such is no longer the case. There are fewer customers, each spending less money on average. In short, its a customer's market these days. The clubs are offering all kinds of dance and drink specials to get guys in the clubs. Displaying offensive behavior towards customers who do nothing overt to deserve it is bad for the business of the girl, other girls, and the club.