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Jay Zeno
06-25-2008, 05:26 AM
I like a man who is quirky, stable, intelligent as hell, respectful, trustworthy, educated both in and outside of the classroom, open-minded, and hopefully comes with extensive motorcycle experience. :PWhere were you 40 years ago when I needed you? Sheesh.

Oh, that's right. Still a couple decades away from conception.

In my wet-blanket way, I wonder about the point of poll threads like this. It's not like you can tailor yourself a particular way, and there's no way to build any type of consensus about what the average person who answers the poll. (Let's not even talk about demographic validity.)

Oh, I'm sorry. You're having a good time conversing. Carry on.

TheTempest
06-25-2008, 06:53 AM
Usually my type of guy is skinny (to the point of looking anorexic), tons of tatts, long hair and light eyes. Very intelligent, full of attitude but has to be nice to me at least in private.

Then again, they're usually unemployed uneducated (formally) suicidal alcoholics too.

cutey5032
06-25-2008, 08:12 AM
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Alia_of_the_Knife
06-25-2008, 09:10 AM
Hmm.. There is no category for my favorite guy right now.

He is 22 years old, and born in Sweden. His mom is from Gambia and his dad is from the Senegal. He is of pure Mandinka origin. He's very skinny, tall, and very dark. He is kind of nerdy, he has never had a sip of alcohol in his life (he's muslim), and he is an engineering student. He's also got that vibe that I like of people who were raised in Northern Europe that I like and has the most lovely Swedish accent. He's fluent in 5 languages. So if you would have a category for snoody, European black men I guess that would be him.

My past list has included:
A 6 foot 7 Irishman firefighter,
Several rich, middle aged, sugar daddies,
Bad mofos (who are not really bad mofos, they just appear to be),

So needless to say I like quite a variety of dudes.

I don't like stupid men, men who are bad in bed, or men who don't have at least one "alpha male" characteristic. I prefer black guys but like tall, good looking white guys too. The main thing I can't stand are the suburban, abercrombie type guys. They make me want to puke, and don't act masculine enough for me, and almost always have no ass. Having no ass and being short are deal breakers for me. Everyguy that I have been with since I was 15 has had the nicest of asses.

CherryBomb954
06-25-2008, 04:07 PM
I voted edgy/bad boy but it's kind of a toss up between that and different/other.

Not sure where rockabilly guys (you know, greasers) would fit in.

Some are pretty old school, chill, really calm, don't have alot of tattoos and are straight out of the 50's. Then there's some that are whiskey and Pabst-drinking, hell-raising, hot rod driving wild men that are tattooed from the neck to the knuckles.

My husband is kind of in between those as well. What can I say, my dream guy since I was a little girl was Danny (John Travolta) from Grease.

VegasPrincess
06-25-2008, 04:09 PM
Suave!! Suave Suave!!!

Altho now that I think about it, I tend to date bad boys....bad bad boys...Tall, muscular, kick-ass, heavy druggin' bad ass boys...or I should say MEN...mhmmm.....

TheTempest
06-25-2008, 04:11 PM
Oh, I forgot.

Must have large penis and extra large wallet.

Dixie_Vancouver
06-25-2008, 04:18 PM
I like my guy to

-work in a manly occupation (construction, painter, mechanic, railroad, etc)
-own a pickup truck (a dirty one that he uses for work and stuff, not a pretty one)
-weigh at least 200, big ass muscular arms, but NO 6-pack, you must have a small gut
-eat a LOT and not bitch about calories and protein and shit like that

YES YES YES hotness.
Except maybe the small gut. 6-packs are fine with me. ;)

CherryBomb954
06-25-2008, 04:36 PM
+1 for the manly man option, although its not on the poll :(

I like my guy to

-work in a manly occupation (construction, painter, mechanic, railroad, etc)
-own a pickup truck (a dirty one that he uses for work and stuff, not a pretty one)
-weigh at least 200, big ass muscular arms, but NO 6-pack, you must have a small gut
-eat a LOT and not bitch about calories and protein and shit like that


Pretty much like my signature.......I like big bears and I can not lie

This pretty much describes my hubby, only with a few slightly different aspects...

He works in a "manly" (blue collar) occupation. He's a billboard guy. They bust their ass doing alot of welding, hammering, painting, and whatnot.
Owns a dirty hot rod. Really loud, lots of rust and fast as fuck. Work on it himself, too....which ishottttt Nothing turns me off more than a guy who can't even change his own oil.
Weighs around 210, nice big arms, tattoos for days and the cutest beer gut I've ever seen. I bite it all the time.
Is a "meat and potatoes" guy who personifies the saying "the way to a guy's heart is his stomach" Loves burgers, pizza, pecan pie and Church's spicy fried chicken.


Cutey, r u single? He's got lots of friends just like him! Hehe...j/k :)

Sophia_Starina
06-26-2008, 12:30 PM
My type: Smart & funny with a sense of style.

Everyman
06-26-2008, 04:23 PM
My type: Smart & funny with a sense of style.

Now see, that's the kind of response that is completely disingenuous....like when a guy says the most important thing in a girl is a sense of humor (yeah, right, if it's in her chest).

A guy who looks like ANYTHING, who looks like complete ass, who weighs 500 pounds, can be "smart, funny, with a sense of style." You're not going to go out with anyone just because they're smart and funny with a sense of style, yada, yada, yada....what do you like PHYSICALLY, is the poll.

Jenny
06-26-2008, 04:45 PM
Now see, that's the kind of response that is completely disingenuous....like when a guy says the most important thing in a girl is a sense of humor (yeah, right, if it's in her chest).... yada, yada, yada....what do you like PHYSICALLY, is the poll.
No it's not. Because one might not like someone who is full out deformed-ugly doesn't mean that they have a physical type or that they are fixated on looks. Some of the ladies are saying that they are not that excited by appearance. If "not so ugly that it could be considered a legitimate deformity" is a physical type, I suppose that is mine. Outside of that it really is all about how much the dude amuses me.

G-Real
06-26-2008, 09:29 PM
and hopefully comes with extensive motorcycle experience. :P aw sh|t!, is this a deal-buster? Otherwise i think I meet the CC requirements, unless there is a written test somewhere....?

RoseLeigh
06-26-2008, 11:05 PM
Now see, that's the kind of response that is completely disingenuous....like when a guy says the most important thing in a girl is a sense of humor (yeah, right, if it's in her chest).

A guy who looks like ANYTHING, who looks like complete ass, who weighs 500 pounds, can be "smart, funny, with a sense of style." You're not going to go out with anyone just because they're smart and funny with a sense of style, yada, yada, yada....what do you like PHYSICALLY, is the poll.

That's the point you're missing completely about women. Sure, many of us have a 'type' but that's so variable depending on personality.

Everyman
06-27-2008, 07:10 AM
That's the point you're missing completely about women. Sure, many of us have a 'type' but that's so variable depending on personality.

No, I understand what you're saying, and what Jenny is saying -- that other aspects are so much more important than looks for many of you. This has to be true, otherwise, how to explain how sooooooooo many hot girls are with guys who look like absolute trolls? (In contrast, you'll almost NEVER see a hot guy with an ugly girl or a fat girl).

But in this thread I was trying to determine the different views on initial physical attraction -- if you're saying that just doesn't play a part in attraction for you, well, ok then, but I would have to think that is extremely rare.

Sophia_Starina
06-27-2008, 11:04 AM
Now see, that's the kind of response that is completely disingenuous....like when a guy says the most important thing in a girl is a sense of humor (yeah, right, if it's in her chest).

A guy who looks like ANYTHING, who looks like complete ass, who weighs 500 pounds, can be "smart, funny, with a sense of style." You're not going to go out with anyone just because they're smart and funny with a sense of style, yada, yada, yada....what do you like PHYSICALLY, is the poll.


::) Okay... in that case I'm attracted to any guy that doesn't look like you.

Madcap
06-27-2008, 11:14 AM
Sophia, So that means i have a CHANCE!

drumroll...

Pretty_Penny
06-27-2008, 11:19 AM
You're not going to go out with anyone just because they're smart and funny with a sense of style, yada, yada, yada

you know us all so well.

*rolls eyes*

i once dated someone for 3 years who was not physically attractive at all. i just loved his sense of humor and personality, and he -became- physically attractive to me because of it.

i'm not saying looks don't matter at all. i'd be lying if i said the fact that my current boyfriend is hot in addition to being an awesome person wasn't a huge plus...

but come on. we're not all shallow.

cutey5032
06-27-2008, 11:50 AM
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jennahoff
06-27-2008, 11:57 AM
Im attracted to any guy who doesnt frequent strip clubs :)
Never met a customer i wanted to date!
So theres your answer...

Everyman
06-27-2008, 04:02 PM
::) Okay... in that case I'm attracted to any guy that doesn't look like you.

But...but....but....I'm smart and funny with a sense of style!!! ):

OK I'll admit my sense of style sucks, always has been improved by my SOs.....so even though you have detected that this whole thread was just a ruse to get you to go out with me, I guess we were never meant to be.........

Sophia_Starina
06-28-2008, 03:24 PM
I guess we were never meant to be.........

Thank goodness for small miracles. ::)

greenidlady1
06-28-2008, 03:29 PM
I'd say George Clooney and his likes first then I'd say a nerdy or brainy/weird type of guy.

AzAzn
06-29-2008, 02:25 PM
No, I understand what you're saying, and what Jenny is saying -- that other aspects are so much more important than looks for many of you. This has to be true, otherwise, how to explain how sooooooooo many hot girls are with guys who look like absolute trolls? (In contrast, you'll almost NEVER see a hot guy with an ugly girl or a fat girl).

But in this thread I was trying to determine the different views on initial physical attraction -- if you're saying that just doesn't play a part in attraction for you, well, ok then, but I would have to think that is extremely rare.

When I'm out with my friends and I point out a girl I think is attractive they all tear her apart "she has no ass, she's fat, no boobs, etc" I even had a friend rag on a girls fingernails. They tell me I have low standards or I could do better. I always tell them that they are brainwashed to society's standards of beauty. If you google image Gil Elvgren's pin up drawings from the 40's and 50's all those women are considered fat by alot of ppl today.

Joplin
06-29-2008, 04:48 PM
I picked suave. I like older guys that have their shit together, kind, respectful, "high class".

I have a HUGE fetish for construction workers though. The T.V. shows Black Gold and the logging one.....sooo hot.

golden41
06-29-2008, 06:53 PM
I voted Edgy/Bad Boys. But Im only 21 so when I get to that time when I want to settle down and have some kids my choice will probabaly be different. I love tatts, mohawks, piercings, rough sex, mucsles

Alia_of_the_Knife
06-30-2008, 11:10 PM
When I'm out with my friends and I point out a girl I think is attractive they all tear her apart "she has no ass, she's fat, no boobs, etc" I even had a friend rag on a girls fingernails. They tell me I have low standards or I could do better. I always tell them that they are brainwashed to society's standards of beauty. If you google image Gil Elvgren's pin up drawings from the 40's and 50's all those women are considered fat by alot of ppl today.

I wonder if what these guys say about women and what the women they fuck look like actually matches up. (The biggest asshole guys always had the most unattractive girlfriends.) I see in your profile that you are 35 and I thought most guys were over that stuff already. Very few men are able to be an AlphaMale fuck machiene unless they are incredibly attractive, have lots of money, or have an incredible amount of game. The way some men talk I have to assume that they must be virgins simply due to supply and demand.

It's also kind of gay for a guy to talk about a woman's fingernails unless they were freakishly dirty.

CinammonGirl
06-30-2008, 11:26 PM
I don't see Dave Navarro as an "edgy bad boy".. I get an effeminate and soft vibe from him.

I like something of an edgy bad boy and an eccentric type.

CinammonGirl
06-30-2008, 11:30 PM
It's also kind of gay for a guy to talk about a woman's fingernails unless they were freakishly dirty.


All the guys I know who do that are gay. When I look at girls, I don't even look at their fingernails (T&A comes first).


The fact that his friends have to nitpick kind of reminds me of a bunch of catty girls..I don't know.

TheTempest
06-30-2008, 11:57 PM
All the guys I know who do that are gay. When I look at girls, I don't even look at their fingernails (T&A comes first).


The fact that his friends have to nitpick kind of reminds me of a bunch of catty girls..I don't know.


My FB notices my nails when they're painted nicely. He really likes it for his own very very very straight reason, he explained to me.

Otoki
07-02-2008, 08:39 PM
Why is there no Nerd/Geek/Dork option? They're my main base! :(


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