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minnow
06-14-2008, 09:57 PM
We've all probably had "one of those nights" (or days) where things just aren't going as hoped for in club visit. You know, fave dancer(s) tied up for great lengths in VIP, subpar dancer crew, too crowded, totally ignored by wait staff, etc. Like the gambler that says "It's gonna happen next pull/deal", she'll be out of VIP any minute now can drag out into wasted time. These kinds of situations can suck if its the only decent club in town, but even an area with many clubs may not be panacea. Rather than give hard & fast rules, I'll give some actual case examples where I've stayed, and where I've bailed, and been happy with my decision.:) Real club names have been altered to protect the innocent & the guilty.

Stay Case #1- I was at club BF and was having a subpar night. Stage shows/interactions were customarily good, but 3 hot prospects were "VIP Hogged" over the course of 60-90 minutes. >:( (One of the downsides of bargain VIP prices). I was debating bailing, and going to club PT when a new dancer came into stage rotation. Stageside vibes were good, and she was available after her set. I may have missed 3 faves, but I found a new one that served me well on some subsequent visits. This case was the luck of the draw as it was after 10pm with no new dancers coming in.

Stay Case #2- I had somewhat limited time on a Saturday afternoon prior to catching evening flight. I naturally spent it at Club MV. This club normally has good shift, but this 1 was subpar, with desired dancer being tied up. My secondary choices (2 different) just didn't float my boat. There was still time to try Club YS like I'd always been promising myself. Looking at my watch (3:30ish), I knew from prior experience that a few midshifters should be coming in, sure enough, 3 arrived. One short, well toned blonde caught my eye. On her 1st lapdance with other customer, she had the sensual intimate style that I liked, and gave the guy a good massage on the 3rd & last dance. I wasted no time asking her for a series of LD's with massage. I left in a good frame of mind for my flight back home. . Hint- if decision time is close to shift change, or known transition hour, it might be worthwhile to stick around a little longer.

Bail Case #1- Wish I hadn't gone extra distance, or read reviews more thoroughly..... OK, I confess. I am a Tuscl member, and have what I think to be a fairly reliable method of scoping out clubs in a new city. Basically, I stick to the most highly rated clubs. In this case, clubA had a rating of, I think 7.5. ClubB was also rated well, but something like 7.2 on 10 point scale. A coworker that travelled to club spoke well of it, but then there were those good writeups on club #1. This club was further away- 7 miles past #2. My plan was to try "A" first, then "B" on way back to hotel. Experience would determine which club I'd emphasize on remaining nights of vacation.
Well, I got to club "A" and determined that it wasn't for me.. Too "Ghetto". I'm not really into "Phat Booty" contests. So, I went to club "B" and basically was glad that I did, and wish that I'd gone there in the 1st place.** Dancers Take Note Of Rule Exception**** In one thread here or CC, the consensus was that guys normally like to settle in for a few minutes first, and not be "pounced on" for dances. BUT, in this case, upon entering club, a well sculpted very attractive brunette grabbed me by the arm & said "I'd really like to take you to the VIP room". Normally, I don't do that, but after frustration of wasted drive to other side of town, I was "ready".

Bail Case # 2 & 3: Both of these cases were crowded Saturday nights, for different reasons. Bailing, and going to secondary club can be a tricky proposition, because THAT club may be just as, or even more crowded. Despite crowds, some enjoyable lapdances can be had, and there's a higher % of hotties.
BUT, when there's a line outside waiting to get in, as there was at Club N, that's a sure sign for me to say "screw this". Club O was an option, but it had lukewarm reviews compared to Club N. Oh well, nothing ventured, nothing gained. There was no line to get in club O it still had a good crowd and plenty of breathing room. Dancer attractiveness wasn't up to Club N, but dancers were down to earth, friendly, interactive... in short, "in the zone." I won't say that I discovered a hidden gem, or was driven into a state of wild ecstasy, only that I was happy with my choice.
In Case #3, I went to Club SR to see Big Name Pornstar. There was no line outside, but inside was :eek: "standing room only". Fave house dancer was busy, had some good LD's with secondary choice prior to feature show. Feature was very attractive, but her show wasn't that great, and coterie of photographers was another distraction. Chalk up 1 more thing on a list of things NOT to do on a Saturday night. Immediately after features show (10pm), I bailed, and drove back towards familiar Club BE. That club almost never gets too crowded- familiar vibes were refreshing, as were the customarily attractive dancers.}:D

There have also been times where I've just cut my losses, and exercised non-stripclub option. Sometimes, acting on gut instinct is best, other times, patience may be a virtue. Hopefully, this post provided some useful insights. I'm already curious about others experiences ............

AudreyLeigh
06-14-2008, 10:23 PM
You can come to my club and I promise Ill make sure me and VIP are open for ya! Actually, Ill drive to Reno just to see you! :D

doc-catfish
06-16-2008, 06:23 PM
Good thread minnow. :thumbsup:

My rule of :thumbsup: in these situations:

1. Favorites are wonderful, but they're also often a lot of guys favorites. If they're tied up with other customers, always leave the door open for a new prospect.

2. With respect to above, if you have any means of contact with a favorite, use it to your advantage and try to pre-arrange your play times. Aim for her non-peak hours/shifts if they're available to you. If they are open to alternative arrangements OTC, you can go that route too. (With my local fave, alternative arrangements are all I do any more since her club...well....sucks).

3. Avoid "features" nights unless you're going specifically to see the feature. Their mere presence changes the ambiance of the place.

4. If you're not good at blowing off an ROB-ing or other bad experience, head for the door when one occurs. Its going to take a super good time to salvage the evening. Your money will always be good on another night, or at another club.

5. Timing is a variable of the SC experience that you can't always control, but when things are hectic, you've sometimes got to take the reins. If you want a specific gal, don't wait for her to find you. Actively seek her out, even if you gotta flag down a waitress or bouncer to do it.

UtahMike
06-17-2008, 10:24 PM
I don't avoid feature nights, although I have no interest in most featured dancers. But while Miss Feature 2008 is up on stage playing boobie-ball, and most of the guys in the club are tossing up wadded up dollars at her, there is less competition for the attention of the OTHER dancers.

Biggieman
06-18-2008, 12:22 AM
I pretty much go to the same club every time, and I have to say anytime I feel like I wanna bail, when I stick it out I always end up having a good time somehow. I have a bunch of favorites there (probably 7 or 8 of em), so at least a couple are working any given night. If one's busy, I find another. If they're all busy, I'll make the effort to 'discover' another one. If that fails, I sometimes just end up hanging out and having interesting conversations with other customers. It just always works out, one way or the other. I go to this club twice a month, and I can honestly say I've never left thinking, "I just completely wasted my f'n time and money." I hope it stays that way.

azdd
06-18-2008, 05:50 AM
I have had it happen many times where I've been sitting in a club, not having a particularly good time, thinking about leaving, then WHAM, out walks an absolute goddess of potential lapdance perfection, I chase her down before the other PLs get in line, and all is well with the world.

The other side of the coin is how many times the above scenario doesn't play out, but past good experiences fuels the dream that it will happen again, which keeps me in my seat many times when I really should fold my tent and go home. So far, the good outcomes outweigh the shitty ones, which is one of the reasons that strip club junkieness is such a strong and rewarding addiction!

bem401
06-18-2008, 06:57 AM
I only visit clubs I'm familiar with and haven't danced with a new girl in 4 or 5 years, so if the person or persons I'm looking for aren't there on a given night, I tend to bail ASAP.

Chili Palmer
06-18-2008, 08:38 PM
I've said it before, it only takes one dancer to turn a crappy experience into a fond memory. I was at a club yesterday afternoon. Wasn't particularly busy, maybe 15 girls on shift at the time. Only one even remotely struck my fancy, and she locked herself down with a regular for over an hour (while getting only four dances from him).

One thing I always do in this club is check out who is coming in. Sure enough, at 2:00 PM, new meat shows up and there are possibilities once they get all stripperfied. I wait half an hour (I was ready to bail) and sure enough, this smokin' hot Filipina with oversized bolt ons walks out right to me. We do one dance (it's excellent), she gets called onstage (doesn't ask me to pay her first, always a good sign), comes back and we do two more before heading off to VIP. 8 or so songs later, another fun GFE+ experience, I am a bit poorer and she can't believe the tip she got.

When I am in a club I've never (or rarely) been in before, I'll usually check the rotation out twice, while scanning for who is hanging out by the dressing room. If the club is dead and/or dancers are just not lapworthy, I'll bail out with 45 minutes to an hour, maybe a little longer if the cover charge was high.

I'm always hoping for a good time but I never expect it. I always want lapdances but I don't have to have them. There's always another club, another day, another shift.

CP

rlams2000
06-19-2008, 05:00 PM
"stripperfied" That's classic.

FBR
06-19-2008, 06:29 PM
I'm always hoping for a good time but I never expect it. I always want lapdances but I don't have to have them. There's always another club, another day, another shift.

CP

QFT

This should be inscribed on the stone tablets by the hand of our Stripper God, whoever he is.

FBR

Casual Observer
06-20-2008, 01:36 PM
Last good example I had was when I was heading toward the airport and debating if I should return the rental car early or stop into a nearby club. I figured I'd just get some lunch and then head out if nothing was interesting. And that's when I met one of the most amazing strippers I've ever PLed on in my life.


I'm always hoping for a good time but I never expect it. I always want lapdances but I don't have to have them. There's always another club, another day, another shift.

Agreed, though frankly I'd been on a long string of really shitty club visits until I went on a few business trips to Michigan; the girls at Flight Club single-handedly restored my faith in strippers.

yoda57us
06-20-2008, 03:10 PM
I'm not likely to bail when I go to one of my regular clubs. Going during the day generally means that I won't have to wait long for quality time with my ATF. If I am traveling I don't go with the intent of buying dances. If an interesting lady comes along I will indulge. I may even wait a while for her to be available provided I like the atmosphere of the club.

Perry
06-24-2008, 08:58 AM
Agreed, though frankly I'd been on a long string of really shitty club visits until I went on a few business trips to Michigan; the girls at Flight Club single-handedly restored my faith in strippers.

They have been known to do that. ;)

VegasPrincess
06-24-2008, 07:02 PM
I've said it before, it only takes one dancer to turn a crappy experience into a fond memory.

Totally, and same for us, one awesome guy can turn a crappy depressing night into a fun one!

(not that anyone asked for the commentary lol)

Fairbay
06-24-2008, 08:37 PM
Totally, and same for us, one awesome guy can turn a crappy depressing night into a fun one!

Yet I got flamed like crazy when I asked about guys who did this. :'( Strippers have hearts too. Somewhere near the motorboat engine.