View Full Version : Knowing what type of custie you attract
Collegegirl
11-05-2008, 04:22 PM
i honestly dont even know.
black and spanish guys like my cause i can shake my thick ass too reageton like wooah. brazilian guys like me cause i speak portugues. i have tons of tattoos so metal head bikes dude like to talk ink with me. i am a full time nursing student so older men like to sit and have an educated convo with me and i'm kind of just hot and awsome so guys my age (21) like me...
it really depends... the average middle aged white guy doesnt really like me... BUT lately I've been wearing my Patriots outfit on Sundays and they look past everything else and tip me souly because of the outfit.
I almost wish I conformed to one type.. I'm such a mixed bag.
Collegegirl
11-05-2008, 04:30 PM
I agree, I have found that Indian men are very handsey! I attract the middle age man white male, usually easily persuaded into multiple dances :-)
Ive never had a problem with Indian men but other middle easter men like the Palastinian(sp?) guy that whipped his dick out.... well they seem to be raised in their country to believe woman are all just piece of shit whores OMG the thought of that piece of shit makes me so mad....
I find it really depends on what country a foreign man is from because I danced for a Jamaican that thought of me as a queen and then that middle eastern guy that thought I was a whore.
Oh and my son just pointed to this smiled --> >:( and said he wants me to put it in
Oh wait he said this one too :'( AND... ;D
Hes 3 humer me..
xxRavenxx
11-05-2008, 04:51 PM
i go for the classy goth girl look...(black everything + short dominatrix style black bob with lots of black and crystal jewellery) which seems to attract the more outgoing/cheeky 40 something business men, nerds (bless them!) and japanese guys...
mediocrity
11-09-2008, 08:25 PM
Mexican guys absolutely love me. It must be the fair skin or something. Also middle aged business dudes. I always make money off of Europeans too. Like a charm, every time.
I have tried every freaking angle though and black guys do not like me! They won't even give me a second look. What's up with that?!
Asians who speak very accented English I tend to avoid. I can decipher almost any accent, but the Asian accents bewilder me. I end up looking like a jack ass because I lean forward and say pardon me so much.
Indian men have consistently given me a bad taste in my mouth. If they are American/Canadian/European/Australian born or something, then they're just like regular guys. But the ones straight from India... they always solicit me for sex.
I do the kind of rockabilly bombshell look: tight, short girlie dresses, curly platinum hair, true red lips etc.
mediocrity
11-09-2008, 08:33 PM
I have unusual grey eyes that apparently are somewhat striking in strip club light.
I do as well! People always ask me if I am wearing contacts.;D
pogocat
11-21-2008, 10:00 PM
I love guys from NY or NJ. I'm originally from around that area and I'm a total smart ass and they love it. I dance in Columbia, South Carolina and even though I've been here most of my life, if a guy says he's from here he usually won't like me. Nerdy guys love me and I usually have the best conversations with them. We're near fort Jackson and Drill Sergents are all about me...I wonder what that says about me. I used to get fetish people too, but haven't in a while and i'm not sure why. I miss them, they paid so much money and didn't give a crap about sex. European guys like me too and always say "You look sooo American!".
Ruby Ruckus
11-22-2008, 02:47 AM
foreign men love me, especially hispanics, middle eastern types, and europeans (i'm told on a regular basis that i have a very european look--whatever that means)
my other best bets are middle aged white men, lesbian or bisexual women, couples, and older black men.
AkashaM
11-26-2008, 10:52 AM
While i will approach anyone who looks good to me, it can help to profile sometimes:
If there is an italian (or italian-american) in the club, they will find me or I will find them. They have always been the best spenders for me.
I can vibe with desis pretty well; they are impressed that I know so much about indian culture. Plus I can say cute little things in hindi, lol.
Civil service people are pretty awesome too; cops, fireman, medis, ect.
Eastern eurpean usually are rude to me--they typically only like eastern euro dancers.
I attract alot freaks too, lol. sometimes i can get a ball kicking session out of them, so its not always a bad thing.
For the most part, everyone else is hit or miss. But I think most gals will bank from the "educated guys in suits," they come with the intentions of spending money anyway.
Victoryx0x0
12-06-2008, 12:11 PM
ugh the turkish guys (hate them)
the italians old an young
the college kids
the thugs
the blue collars
the mexicans an indians try to rape every girl so thats a given
also the flossers the rich ones like me and try to wife me but never give alot of money!
Forever_Fallen227
12-11-2008, 09:25 AM
I tend to attract the lonely cowboy types who wants a "bad" girl for the night. I am gothic all the way so it is weird, but hey they usually have the most money. I even had a business man who was a regular for a few months then asked my management if it was ok to take me on a date. Weird...they said yes. Apparently he had been going to the club for a few years and this was the first time. I said no bc I was engaged. I wonder what would have happened....lol
tempest666
01-21-2009, 09:11 AM
I always get white guys early 20's-mis 30's. I don't do so well with older guys, but i've been trying to change that by toning down my choice in metal.
Stripper Hacks
01-26-2009, 09:27 PM
I think it's a woman's instinct and a mix of social conditioning. There is definite hierarchy of who spends and who doesn't. Especially if dancers have been at it for a while they know who to hit up first. Every once in a while I'm pleasantly surprised who spends a fair amount of money on me or is utterly infatuated but that is not the norm.
My regulars are entrepreneurs/businessmen/lawyer/engineers and blue collar management types. I'm alpha so I attract alpha. That means despite age differences a lot of military guys like me too.
Every once in a while I get guys that make shit for money and they save up for two weeks to be around a domineering woman. Hey works for me. :)
misslizzy
02-05-2009, 01:56 AM
I have a tendency to draw creepy Indian/Pakistani guys who smell like curry and want to touch me inappropriately and/or pay me embarassingly small amounts of money for sex. I somehow manage to get 3-4 dances with these guys when no-one else in the club can get them to tip on stage. This doesn't make me like them; I just like their money.
In most clubs, white collar businessmen generally want little to do with me. In my PHX club, they adore me.
I do well with dorky guys, big metalhead biker types (I'm a metalhead and a geek myself... wonder how this goes together! :D) and most Latino guys.
Not so much on the blingy thug types, unless they're smarter than they look; then, we make fun of their friends together and I make money.
Pretty_Penny
02-05-2009, 11:06 AM
absolutely. sometimes i can't even pinpoint what it is, i just know "thats the guy whos going to like me". oh and lately i've noticed a weird thing about my big spenders (be them few) and face similarities. it took -years- for me to catch it. it's so subtle that i can't even explain it. i've just noticed that a vast majority of the guys who seem to be into -me- specifically have a similar facial structure and even facial mannerisms (the way they make expressions).
i think the customer most attracted to me (in general) is about like this:
late 30s, early 40s somewhat nerdy, usually good sense of humor that tends to be on the dry or sarcastic side. (heres the very specific trait) about 90% of them, once having talked to them are very creative, either with music, art, film, photography, etc. they "gave up" their dream for a "real" job that's usually somewhat related to the dream. like, they do photography for a major political mag, or they do video work for a tv station, or they play music for weddings. they don't "come across" as artsy or anything... it's only after i start talking to them that i hear about it. they also tend to be fans of older alternative music and you wouldn't typically know it just "looking at them".
so yeah, my type is the ex-punk having a midlife crisis because he sold out. :P
Deini
02-14-2009, 03:50 PM
black guys, Asian-because they like womanly. Irish and English because i tend to go for them in the first place. And oldies are often my favs. I stay absolutely away from the young 19s and 20s. I absolutely cannot stand them. Even when I’m just 21.
I do often end up with doctors though, which is really pretty cool. (the ones that show up) They say they like me and my body because I am utterly natural-like a woman should truly be. The ones i know, at least, are not too into smaller girls and boob-jobs. (but then, maybe it’s because this is England. The guys here like the girls to be less Barbie.)
Lately, I’ve been learning to bag and tag the large ego-big shots. the attractive ones to top it too hehehe. I think it's because i usually ignore them and head straight for the vet oldies (i love old army boys)...when i do catch them, i look at them until they look away. In the end they love the hard-to-get thing, especially when all the other girls are buzzing around them.
Still suck at hustling though. I got the attract part up to notch-i need to learn to close the deal effectively now.
Jessamin
02-14-2009, 11:48 PM
For some reason, Indian/Pakistani guys almost always try to touch, want sex and/or extras (and normally don't offer that much money for them)... seems like I'm not the only one who has noticed this. Yuck.
For some reason, I do best with older (40s-70s) white guys - seems weird since I am one of the youngest girls in the club (and have the most peircings of anyone) but I've found that at every club I worked in. Fine by me, they're normally more polite and have more money than the young guys. I also get a fair few middle aged blue-collar working types.
Vyanka
02-18-2009, 01:26 PM
I always no matter where i'm at actually... attract Italian men, of all ages. I've been lucky w/ young Asian men too. But older Asian men don't like me for some reason. lol.
myscza
02-28-2009, 05:23 PM
For me it's Star Wars/Star Trek nerds (I was even voted Hottest Nerd in a club once because I stumped a table full of Trekkies with one question) and military guys. I'm former Army (was even a Drill Sergeant) and a lot of the military guys like the thrill of having a half naked DS in their lap! Go figure!