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BrodieLux
07-04-2008, 01:41 PM
No they're not the same, because both are are different levels of the same concept. Pretending that you've had an orgasm is just taking "getting turned on" a bit farther. I'd say the levels are stratified something like this: smiling at a guy, flirting with a guy, overtly flirting with a guy, dancing or moving sexily for a guy, taking your clothes off for a guy, dancing and moving sexily while naked for a guy, telling a guy your turned on, acting that your turned on for a guy, acting like your getting turned on for a guy, acting like your getting off for a guy, actually getting off for a guy, having sexual relations with a guy, getting off during sexual relations with a guy.

But seeing as how we are strippers and not prostys we can only go so far... (well most of us are at least - i have no hate to the prostys either... they do things i wouldn't do just like how there are girls that wouldn't do things that i do... but the truth of the matter is that prostys can make more money than me by taking it further than i do - just like i can usually make more money than the girls that wont fake an O because i take it further) and acting like we are getting off is usually the farthest we can take it.

If you can actually get off from dancing then good for you damn it. I spent a lot of money on my vibrator to do the same thing that you could be getting paid for.... lol. but when money is the end goal actually getting off isn't necessary and not always possible. Just acting is good enough to take it to the crescendo lol the "climax" if you will (lmao no pun intended)

You get what I mean? everything we do as strippers is showing varying interest levels for a guy from the time we smile at them to the time they see us move our hips and make eye contact... we are showing different degrees of interest. taking it to the point of pretending to get off is just taking it further than you already are by taking your clothes off.

So yeah, it's not quite the same... just like i could argue that taking your clothes off and telling a guy that your turned on is not quite the same. But it doesn't make it any worse to take that extra step farther if it's legal and your comfortable with it. I mean there are girls that work at hooters that would look down on you for actually taking your clothes off but the truth is that they are doing something very similar to you to make money (getting guys turned on), they just haven't taken the concept as far as you have.

BTW adelina you never answered my questions from my last post

And I'd like to remind you that the best way to pull off the fake O is to be innocent or classy about it and discreet. Good Luck ;D

OMG i need to stop posting in this thread already! lol

I think this is a really good explanation. It all comes down to comfort levels. I think personally pretending to orgasm feels a bit too intimate for a lap dance, but just maybe I might try it.

ScarletPhoenix
07-04-2008, 05:07 PM
My 2 cents:

Getting "turned on" during a dance is a wonderful way to sell multiples. Guys are more sensitive to "sexy noises" than women are, I think, so what sounds a little silly to us sounds pretty fucking awesome to them. Ever watch porn? God the girls make a lot of noise! I think after a while it sounds dumb, but every time i've watched porn with a boyfriend they eat that moany whiny stuff with a spoon!

PaigeDWinter
07-08-2008, 06:10 PM
This thread makes me cackle. A lot.

bronzeboute
07-13-2008, 10:14 PM
I really enjoyed reading this thread. PrincessParis and iseestars, you guys really put a lot of things in perspective so that I wouldn't feel silly displaying an "orgasm" if I interpret that the customer may appreciate it.

The best part of my job is when I lapdance because I get to use mostly my body language to express myself. I'm not really that good at the bullshit talk so when I get a paying customer, I do all I can without saying words that I'm enjoying the dance. I constantly have a smirk on my face because the customer is totally buying into my interest in him. I totally enjoy it.

I don't see any reason why I shouldn't take it one step furthur by orgasming. I have a feeling that I would totally love my job if I tried.

cinammonkisses
07-13-2008, 10:19 PM
I don't see any reason why I shouldn't take it one step furthur by orgasming. I have a feeling that I would totally love my job if I tried.
Yeah...ummm I'm so done with this thread now since reading this. :bedtime:

dancerchick
07-29-2008, 12:11 AM
I don't give dances with enough contact to be able to fake an orgasm. At the end of the songs that he's paid for I will sit on his hard on for a few seconds and flex my kegels (this is in a topless club mind you). Then I say " do you feel how warm my pussy is? I'm so excited that my pussy is throbbing. We can't stop now!"

msonyxorb
07-29-2008, 03:34 AM
I don't give dances with enough contact to be able to fake an orgasm. At the end of the songs that he's paid for I will sit on his hard on for a few seconds and flex my kegels (this is in a topless club mind you). Then I say " do you feel how warm my pussy is? I'm so excited that my pussy is throbbing. We can't stop now!"
um do guys ever respond negatively to this? i would think some guys would freak out

ColetteCalahan
07-29-2008, 04:10 AM
^ummm... wait... Dancerchick, you sit on his "hard___ (missing a word)" or you sit on his HAND? Why the fAck would you admit to doing something like that, esp. while flexing your muscles??

Thank you for telling us how you invite genital contact. I think I'll continue to get multiple dances without faking O's OR physically showing guys that it's ok to play with my pink parts.

what. the. fuck.

ColetteCalahan
07-29-2008, 05:42 AM
oh. my bad... i'm used to seeing a dash and my brain read it differently. but still.... eeew. that's VERY intimate...

Chrissy68
07-29-2008, 09:17 AM
Wow. I can think of 126452910 better ways than kegel flexing to sell a 2nd dance. :O ::)

michele_b
07-29-2008, 10:41 AM
Yea, I just couldn't do that...

cinammonkisses
07-29-2008, 10:43 AM
Wow. I can think of 126452910 better ways than kegel flexing to sell a 2nd dance. :O ::)

Girl......

(great minds, great minds) ::)

NewMoon
07-29-2008, 10:45 AM
That is too far for me, not to mention not allowed at my club.

However, I will blow lightly on his ear and sometime breathe so that he can hear it and that works well for me to turn up the sex appeal without getting nasty.

Jenny
07-29-2008, 01:05 PM
Ladies, this might be one of those things that is appropriate for a higher contact city. I could not possibly say to a customer "my pussy is throbbing for you" because... well, I just couldn't. But a lot of grinding is normal here, so I could see it working for some girls. And I don't get the apparent distaste - I mean she is sitting on his lap, doing the exact same thing every other girl in the club is doing; what is the big deal if she flexes some internal muscles at the same time? It's not like she is raising contact levels or doing anything she shouldn't be doing.

txchick008
07-29-2008, 01:41 PM
I have had three different dancers orgasm with me over the years. How do I know? Well cold sweaty skin, shaking, moaning, heavy breathing - all can be faked although I think I can tell the difference. What cannot be faked is that they sat with me for the rest of the night and did not ask for any additional money. Great conversation and a different attitude than, just another customer. Of course I tipped well, but money is the ultimate motivation ( stripping is a job after all) so that is the best indicator.

Funniest thing I have read on SW to date.

LMFAO. :D

Chrissy68
07-29-2008, 03:26 PM
Funniest thing I have read on SW to date.

LMFAO. :D

Oh I should link you to the Danielle/eyez drama. THAT tops this tenfold!
;D

txchick008
07-29-2008, 03:26 PM
Please do :)

Chrissy68
07-29-2008, 03:34 PM
So I can't find the recent one, but this is the BIG one from a while ago. She came back as something like Tattoo Goddess. That MAY have been deleted, I know it was locked. But it was funny! (if you see someone misspelling seriously as cerousely, or saying lepord instead of leopard, she's why.)

http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=30684&highlight=danielle+eyez

Perry
07-29-2008, 11:33 PM
^^ OMG I freaking love your ass for this! I laughed so hard my cat hid under the sofa! :rotfl: :rotfl:

BrodieLux
07-30-2008, 12:08 AM
^^ I want to see the ebay page!

Perry
07-30-2008, 12:14 AM
We were a good deal nicer back then. Today, she would have been eviscerated before page 2! I almost want to bring it up on the this site (http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=121661)thread.

txchick008
07-30-2008, 05:08 AM
OMFG. That was an awesome start to my morning!!! Too f'ing funny. I checked out her little webpage she made on Angelfire...

"danielles dream has been smashed by others so page has been destroid and danielle has killed her self. thanks!"

You guys...I'm CEROUS!!!!! <----bwhahahaha
After I lose 100lbs, I'm gonna start stripping and my boyfriend that I moved in with after a week, is going to get TATTOO SLEEVES.

Literally LMFAO. Literally.

SweetPetite
07-30-2008, 07:24 AM
there's no way in hell i could do that. i mean, props to those of you who can. i would just feel like an idiot.
haha! me too.

Chrissy68
07-30-2008, 09:46 AM
OMFG. That was an awesome start to my morning!!! Too f'ing funny. I checked out her little webpage she made on Angelfire...

"danielles dream has been smashed by others so page has been destroid and danielle has killed her self. thanks!"

You guys...I'm CEROUS!!!!! <----bwhahahaha
After I lose 100lbs, I'm gonna start stripping and my boyfriend that I moved in with after a week, is going to get TATTOO SLEEVES.

Literally LMFAO. Literally.

cerousely, the second time she came back, tattoo something or whatever, that was a priceless thread. I lmfao-ed for like an hour. Yup. You're welcome. ;D

CherryLollie
07-30-2008, 06:01 PM
BTW, the lonely guy usually is a bigger spender that the guy who is impressed if you "come", imho.;)

Although I aim to entertain either way, I will second that "lonely guy" vote. For a long time, I had a "lonely guy" who gave me $400 every half hour just to keep me at his table talking to him, and this is when I was a SC cocktail waitress wearing a thong, stockings, and a corset before I started dancing.
;D

You just never know!

XxAmber89xX
08-05-2008, 06:43 PM
they pretend that grinding on a guy is getting them off and they fake orgasms.

well i must be special because i can often have real orgasms by grinding. i usually try to hide it though, as i don't want the dancing to end after my ecstasy... lol... i usually can only handle about 1 orgasm every few shifts as it is sensory overload for me. i rather just focus on the work.

no, i never fake an orgasm at work and i am a top earner. my secret? i ask more than any other dancer and here NO THANK YOU more than any other dancer. it's a simple numbers game.

Lysondra
08-05-2008, 10:42 PM
^ You know, I was believing you up until the part you said your customers say 'no thank you'. Orgasms are one thing.. but manners?

kitana
08-06-2008, 07:10 AM
Wow, I do my dances with zero to close to zero contact. And never had to go beyond what I am comfortable with to make more money. I'd rather pass on the money from the guy who wants more than I can deliver.
I think it's all about your attitude. Remember, when you are dancing for one guy, others are watching. You'll know from the expression of their faces if they are impressed. You'll make more by dancing with class. Guys with money do not need cheap "faking".
Wear a beautiful and classy gown, act like a lady who knows her worth, be polite and articulate, and you'll be noticed without too much extra effort.


Maybe where you are at, but if you tried that gig^^^^ at my club, you wold OWE the bar every night.

ViolaStrings
08-06-2008, 10:43 AM
^ LOL

laurcon
08-06-2008, 01:12 PM
Although I aim to entertain either way, I will second that "lonely guy" vote. For a long time, I had a "lonely guy" who gave me $400 every half hour just to keep me at his table talking to him, and this is when I was a SC cocktail waitress wearing a thong, stockings, and a corset before I started dancing.
;D

You just never know!

wow you wore that waitressing?? sounds like most dancer's outfits, no wonder you made the transition! :D

TheSexKitten
08-06-2008, 03:02 PM
OMFG. That was an awesome start to my morning!!! Too f'ing funny. I checked out her little webpage she made on Angelfire...

"danielles dream has been smashed by others so page has been destroid and danielle has killed her self. thanks!"

You guys...I'm CEROUS!!!!! <----bwhahahaha
After I lose 100lbs, I'm gonna start stripping and my boyfriend that I moved in with after a week, is going to get TATTOO SLEEVES.

Literally LMFAO. Literally.

Call me crazy, but when I read the archived thread and saw that she posted up that guy's number, I just HAD to call. And it was the correct number, too! rofl }:D Ijust hung up though.

kitana
08-06-2008, 06:33 PM
^ LOL

I know right?!

In places you can get away with gowns and rhinestones and all that crap, but this is the coal field/farming midwest, we don't do gowns unless it's Prom or a Wedding, rofl!}:D

Hell, to tell the truth, I personally LOVE being able to go onstage in a baseball cap, and cut off shorts and just have fun at work.

Chrissy68
08-08-2008, 01:01 PM
Call me crazy, but when I read the archived thread and saw that she posted up that guy's number, I just HAD to call. And it was the correct number, too! rofl }:D Ijust hung up though.

did you really?? lmfao!!! ;D