View Full Version : When to drop the 'S' bomb on a new guy I'm seeing...
haleym
07-11-2008, 12:04 PM
I won't wait past date number 3, don't want to put too much time in/get attached if it is going to be a deal breaker. But, I want to wait for the 'right moment', if that makes any sense???
Ferret
07-11-2008, 03:05 PM
Get everything out in the open. You will have greater peace of mind for doing so. I hid things, not so bad things, but things I was ashamed of, I hid those things from a person that became more than a dear friend. And then one day the truth came out and she was hurt badly, not by what I had done, instead, she was hurt by my lies. Avoid that shit. Ain't worth it. Clearly you are a cool kinda gal to be so thoughtful about him. My guess is that he likes you anyway.
StarryEyes
07-12-2008, 12:14 AM
I think the 3rd date is the best time to tell him.
GoldCoastGirl
07-12-2008, 07:06 AM
i dunno. personally, i flat out refuse to lap dance for guys i'm dating. i never have, never will. lap dancing is my job for customers that i don't care about, it is not what i do in my private life for boyfriends that i care about.
i don't find it sexy when they say to me "so when are you going to do one of your xxx shows for me?" ... um.. never.. as i don't actually enjoy doing them. i don't "get off" on doing them.
the only thing i will do for my boyfriend that is any way similar to my work is a strip tease... no lap dancing tho'... or well.. not the kind allowed in any club here in australia :devil: hehehe
haleym
07-12-2008, 09:45 AM
I agree, I have never thought of lap dances as something that turns me on... They are work. Never, ever, ever would I give one to a guy I was dating. That is the last thing I would want my guy thinking about when he's home alone and I'm at work!