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Luke34
07-24-2008, 05:34 AM
It was that paying that much money to sex workers isn't usually simply for conversation.

Now, if you want to state that when men give sex workers large amounts of money more times than not what is taking place is simply conversation then you do that, but we both know it would be stretching the lines of the believable. .

Think the difference Golden Rule is that most people in Australia who have been around the clubs would not really term a dancer a sex worker and probably because prostitution is legalised here.

You buy a fantasy and you buy entertainment. Whilst extras, OTC and the like happen, it is like any other industry, some people will bend the rules with certain clients.


The VAST majority of the time when men give women in the sex industry large sums of money they, at the very least, expect or anticipate sex. They may not get it but that is what they are looking for. .

When was the last time you wined and dined any woman, in excess of the norm (the standard business transaction) sent her flowers, jewellery or whatever and did not at the very least expect or anticipate sex.


I'll even go out on a limb here and say that the when goodly amounts of money changes hands more often than not there is some form of sex that takes place. Making the "dry hustle" the exception and not the norm in when large amounts of money are changing hands.

If you throw large amounts of money anywhere some women will party with you and others will not. I guess IMO it is less likely that a dancer who has had numerous men at some stage or the other give her large sums of money in pursuit be as swayed as someone who has not had that happen before. I can assure you that there are plenty of non dancers who will help spend your money if they think they can, with no intention of sleeping with you.

Many guys pay for the fantasy and they and the dancer are happy with it. As yoda said " to each their own".

In summary, it really depends on the person, their value system and not the profession they are in.

jaizaine
07-24-2008, 05:46 AM
Think the difference Golden Rule is that most people in Australia who have been around the clubs would not really term a dancer a sex worker and probably because prostitution is legalised here.



So true. Great post.

yoda57us
07-24-2008, 07:40 AM
Not your observations, which are uniquely your own. The opinion you drew from them.

Wishing well... :)


Um yeah, whatever....there is a difference between opinion and fact GR. I know it's a gray area for you....

Golden_Rule
07-24-2008, 07:32 PM
maybe where u r from but that doesnt apply here. if that were the case and the guy wanted sex, he would go around the corner from the club and pay the meager $60 for it at the brothel. prostitution is legal here so thankfully our strip clubs are pretty clean. an extra might be letting a guy touch your boob or something.

Good point. I should qualify my remarks as pertaining to US strip-clubs and specifically those of NY/NJ/PA/CT/Fl/LA-CA and Vegas, where I have had my experience.


i know it's hard for u to believe and i truly dont care whether u believe it or not but men where i'm from pay huge amounts of money just to spend time with us ladies. on sat night a man paid my friend who i work with $515 in total to sit and laugh with him. he wasn't even interested in a dance.

I didn't say I don't believe it. I said it wasn't the norm. I am sure some guys do it, but do MOST guys do it? I would think not.

jaizaine
07-24-2008, 07:36 PM
I didn't say I don't believe it. I said it wasn't the norm. I am sure some guys do it, but do MOST guys do it? I would think not.

No most guys dont do it. I never said they did. It's certainly not uncommon in my club. Most guys buy at least one $50 dance. Many guys buy lots of dances and many others just come in, pay the door fee and get whatever the can for free.

Golden_Rule
07-24-2008, 07:39 PM
Think the difference Golden Rule is that most people in Australia who have been around the clubs would not really term a dancer a sex worker and probably because prostitution is legalised here.

You buy a fantasy and you buy entertainment. Whilst extras, OTC and the like happen, it is like any other industry, some people will bend the rules with certain clients.

Yes, Luke. I have qualified my remarks since then to reflect that I am only referencing US strip-clubbing.


When was the last time you wined and dined any woman, in excess of the norm (the standard business transaction) sent her flowers, jewellery or whatever and did not at the very least expect or anticipate sex.

I will be very candid and stipulate that when ever I have spent large amounts of money on romantic endeavors it is because I desire the woman. I would consider it strange to wine and dine a woman, in the strictly romantic mode [not just taking a female friend out to eat] and not want to have sex with her. [Doesn't mean I am going to get it though, and frequently my expectations are deliberately set low as to not come off a lust filled, knuckle dragging, ape-man.

Luke34
07-25-2008, 04:15 AM
[Doesn't mean I am going to get it though, and frequently my expectations are deliberately set low as to not come off a lust filled, knuckle dragging, ape-man.

LOL... you are not alone.