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StarryEyes
07-24-2008, 01:24 PM
I'm glad you've changed clubs. When I left the drama llama palace (my old club) business was so bad there. The next club I went to was so much better. And the drama llamas had to stay behind at the crappy club. Ha, ha!

Still...my "allies" at my old club noticed how I handled being bullied, and they took the time to tell me that they loved how I handled it.

Ignore, smile, bank. And don't let them drag you down to their level.

happygiggles
08-09-2008, 02:53 PM
didn't wanna start another thread about the same girl. but just thought i'd mention last week, this girl was once again complaining about the damn curlers. absolut did it. she told babydoll she did it. yet she comes out of the dressing room looking at me yelling about those damn curlers. she just doesn't like me. delicious says that she will do that to anybody who lets her. she said it took one girl to fight her for her to stop bullying her. but i'm not really the fighting type

Lysondra
08-09-2008, 05:13 PM
Girls at your work are named Babydoll, Delicious and Absolut? o_o

Miss_Luscious
08-09-2008, 06:04 PM
Girls at your work are named Babydoll, Delicious and Absolut? o_o

Yeah. At black clubs the names can get...creative. I've worked with an Overtime, Low Ryder, Wild Cherry. I've known of a stripper named Oozi (yes, like the gun).

And HG - I hate hate hate bitches like that. Why do they insist on acting like assholes? I'm not the fighting type either and I was just about the sweetest girl at my club but there was one broad who hated and she did in fact make more money than me (only because she had a HUGE ass). But I put her in her place a few times and after that she was sweet as pie to me. I still didn't speak to her but she would go out of her way to try and be nice.

happygiggles
08-09-2008, 06:20 PM
^ see. that's what i'm talking about. you have to set some types of girls straight. ignoring them makes them think they could continue to do it. she doesn't speak directly to me-she never did. but i don't think she'll get physical with me again.

MeanGirl
08-09-2008, 07:18 PM
Girls at your work are named Babydoll, Delicious and Absolut? o_o

That's what i was thinking too:O .

dangerousdiva
08-09-2008, 07:26 PM
^ That's nothing! I work with Yummy, Sway and McLuvin'.

happygiggles
08-09-2008, 07:39 PM
i'm babycakes. i've found that with a fake 'real' name guys will still ask for your real name. so that gives me three real names to remember. for example, if i went by cassie in the club and i gave the name of nikki for my fake 'real' name i'd have to work real hard mentally to not say my real name. but i guess that's just my lazy brain

Andygirl
08-10-2008, 12:22 AM
Lol, these names are killing me.;D

Gabrielle MB
08-10-2008, 01:20 AM
^ see. that's what i'm talking about. you have to set some types of girls straight. ignoring them makes them think they could continue to do it. she doesn't speak directly to me-she never did. but i don't think she'll get physical with me again.


My :twocents:

What you should have done (even though you don't wanna hear advice for past situation) is put her in her place right when she was bitching about the curlers and not speaking directly to you. You believe that she was referring to you, okay, you could have said anything along the lines of, "I turned them off. They've been on for hours. That's a fire hazard. Next time please turn your own shit off, thank you very much." You would have showed her she cannot push you around. Maybe you could have thought of better words then my example. I think, that if you had used the curler insident as an excuse to stand up to her, it wouldn't have escalated later out on the floor and your harsh words in the dressing room would have saved you from cursing her out later. That's what I would have done. I like to nip shit in the bud immediately.

On the other hand... my girlfriend always preaches, "Elevate and Disregard!" You are above them. Ignore them. Easier said then done. She tells me this at least once a night when I start flipping out on somebody, but I am a hot head, I know it.

And on that note... (hehe) Food for thought: I started reading some self help anger management stuff. Something that really jumped out for me was how they explained that most arguements are caused by a misunderstanding.
Maybe, just maybe, the girl thought you didn't like her and that you turned off the curlers to mess with her. Maybe she thinks you're the bully.

Hopefully my suggestions and thoughts might help you in future situtions. Good luck and stay positive HG.

i.breathe.in
08-10-2008, 06:24 AM
Lol, these names are killing me.;D

haha you know? thats it im changing my name to cuppycake.

MysteriousMisty
08-10-2008, 07:26 AM
^ see. that's what i'm talking about. you have to set some types of girls straight. ignoring them makes them think they could continue to do it. she doesn't speak directly to me-she never did. but i don't think she'll get physical with me again.

This is so true! Some fat ugly bitch at some other club I used to work at was notorious for starting shit with any girl that looked better than her. I spoke with 2 other girls who mentioned that she was always giving them dirty looks and trying to start shit with them when they had never said or done a damn thing to her miserable ass. I always ignored her (she had an ass the size of Idaho) and told the manager when she deliberately walked by me in the DR just to shove me. I was ready to use my tazer gun on that cow. Anyhow, after that incident, she would talk all loud in the DR indirectly about me. So one night, just to show her that I wasn't intimidated by her ugly ass, I rubbed my rosin bag ALL over the pole. She got up and stormed off to the dressing room.;D I don't know if the bitch made more money than me or not but that night had started off slow and I wound up getting multiple dances while she got NOTHING. And when it got busy later that night, someone made it rain for me. She gave up talking loud about me in the DR after that. And when she attempted to suddenly play nice with one of the other girls she had always tried to stir shit with, the girl told her ass off!}:D

Miss_Luscious
08-10-2008, 07:13 PM
Yeah, I've noticed that the most hate comes from girls with big asses but ugly faces. It's like they know they're butta faces and they just hate pretty girls.

kitana
08-11-2008, 06:11 AM
i don't wanna connect with other people but like i said if any bitch gonna get physical with me then a problem arises. if yall can read i ignored the bitch till she put her hands on me. ignore that? i think not. yall can get yall asses tore up if you want but me, i think not.

While I feel you have a right to defend yourself until you can reach safety, you don't need go above and beyond in retaliation against this person.

If it is that much of a problem, tell the manager that this girl physically assaulted you, if they refuse to do anything, call the police; it is a crime.

The only time I would not call the police for me being in a fight, is either at class, or in the ring; obviously since we both want to be there.

i.breathe.in
08-11-2008, 06:14 AM
Originally Posted by happygiggles View Post
i don't wanna connect with other people but like i said if any bitch gonna get physical with me then a problem arises. if yall can read i ignored the bitch till she put her hands on me. ignore that? i think not. yall can get yall asses tore up if you want but me, i think not.


damn, why do people always want to beat your ass? first you get stabbed now this stuff?

happygiggles
08-11-2008, 06:47 AM
cuz i'm sexy as fuck and i got what they can never have

Lysondra
08-11-2008, 07:02 AM
Huh... I never stabbed someone who was sexy with anything sharper than a dildo... but okay.

loveandluxury
08-11-2008, 07:09 AM
ahahahahahahahahaha!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!

Holy shit, I can't breathe. This entire thread kills me.

jaizaine
08-11-2008, 07:21 AM
McLuvin'.

That sounds like somethng u would order at McDonalds.

happygiggles
08-11-2008, 07:22 AM
i think that's a character's name in a movie that i didn't see.......

Lysondra
08-11-2008, 07:25 AM
You should totally make your stage napme Giggles. I'd totally buy a dance from a Giggles.