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Danielle_
07-28-2008, 10:07 PM
I'm so sorry you have to deal w/ this.

Darcy Foxx
07-28-2008, 10:15 PM
it's pretty lame.

i just called my landlord about putting a lock on the door, he said he will think about it and get back to me.

i'm just gonna have a talk to her tonight and be completely upfront and just say, "you steal from me. you lie to me. if this continues i will get you removed from the contract and you can move out, this is your final warning. i will not tolerate this"

GoldCoastGirl
07-28-2008, 11:10 PM
dildos just aren't for sharing. well, not in most cases. i put one of my dildos in a guys ass before, but i sure as hell cleaned it with anti bacterial toy cleaner and boiling water before it went anywhere near my hoohah.


or just keep a vibe separate for this express purpose to never use on yourself.


oh.. and this is why male flatmates are better.. hahaha.............. unless they do like it up the ass. :P

Darcy Foxx
07-28-2008, 11:13 PM
tonight i'm going to give her the whole "i am so calm and placid that it's kind of scary and almost sociopathic" thing that i do and ask her why she took it. it's pretty funny cos despite the fact that i never yell and i never am nasty, i can REALLY freak people out with how calm and psychological i can be. i'll see how much i can make her squirm.

jaizaine
07-29-2008, 02:15 AM
make sure u update us!!

Darcy Foxx
07-29-2008, 02:24 AM
she's not home. no idea where she is. she still owes me money for an overdue phone bill and she's going to sydney for a week tomorrow so i'd say she's avoiding me til she leaves.

Darcy Foxx
07-29-2008, 02:52 AM
okay, placid went out the window. just absolutely fucking flipped and made her cry haha.

Lysondra
07-29-2008, 02:54 AM
How did it go?!

needtodance
07-29-2008, 02:55 AM
OOOOOOOOH whadddiddya say!?

pookie
07-29-2008, 02:58 AM
i wanna know more details!!!!!!!!

Darcy Foxx
07-29-2008, 03:01 AM
she came inside acting like nothing happened and i was in the kitchen and she was like "hey babe!' and walked into her room. then i went into my room and yelled out, "do you have that money?" and she was like "yeah" and as soon as she walked in with the money i snapped and was like "um, would you like to give me an explanation as to why you felt it was okay to take my dildo?" and she just froze and didn't say anything. so i was like, "so you're just going to ignore me then? it was my FUCKING DILDO. MY DILDO. seriously dude! what the fuck were you thinking?! do you think it is okay to take my things just because i have them?! do you think i wouldn't notice?! you fucking stood there watching me look for it like a dumbass and it was under your fucking bed the whole time! what the fuck! do you think that is acceptable behaviour?! do you think that shit is okay?! do you think that is what friends do to friends?!?!?" and she just stood there shaking her head and tearing up.

then i told her i have already spoken to the landlord and said i am having a problem and if she even thinks about stealing my shit again i will go to whatever extremes i have to take to break this lease and kick us all out of this house even if it means taking her all the way to the rental tribunal.

pookie
07-29-2008, 03:05 AM
Good for you!!

Not easy to confront situations like that.

Darcy Foxx
07-29-2008, 03:06 AM
i think i've been building up the rage for 24 hours and eventually it was gonna snap

Darcy Foxx
07-29-2008, 03:13 AM
i wish the guy housemate wasn't home so i could go into the kitchen and make a very elaborate show of cleaning it with boiling water and my anti-bac toy cleaner spray haha.

kandie_kitten
07-29-2008, 08:00 AM
YAY DARCY!

Good for you!

Darling
07-29-2008, 09:50 AM
OMG, just read the entire thread..... this is why I know I could never have roommates! But really good job for calling her out, and at least now you'll always have a funny story to tell.

There is one thing I must say though.... I am also a sex toy lover and collector, and unless the dildo is made from silicone, glass, or stainless steel, there will still be bacteria dwelling in the plastic no matter what you wash it with. That is why they say it is very important not to share anything unless it is made with the above materials or used with a condom.

It sound like a sweet vide I would not want to lose but if someone stole it, the risks would be too much to chance it. I would say it would be best to just throw it out.

Steve likes strippers
07-29-2008, 12:59 PM
There is one thing I must say though.... I am also a sex toy lover and collector, and unless the dildo is made from silicone, glass, or stainless steel, there will still be bacteria dwelling in the plastic no matter what you wash it with.

I'm not convinced that sexually transmitted bacteria that can cause disease can exist too long on a dildo without a live host...?

iambonbon05
07-29-2008, 01:08 PM
Great job Darcy. I have a really hard time with confrontation too. Even if you weren't quite as cool and collected as you meant to be, you still got the job done without being mean or anything.

jaizaine
07-29-2008, 06:50 PM
I think it's better that u lost your temper because otherwise you prob would have stayed really pissed off about it. Maybe now if she starts to respect your personal belongings your friendship can be restored (if u want it to be).

StarryEyes
07-29-2008, 07:01 PM
Go Darcy!

Good. Yoou've set boundaries and you told her what would happen if she crossed them. Awesome.

Now go throw away that dildo...