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rubyredlipsss
08-05-2008, 02:58 AM
i don't know what kind of club you're working in but you must be lucky and pulling in tons of money w/ your technique. or just have one tough vadge.
but, back to topic, when my pussy gets sore, no want s-e-x.
rubyredlipsss
08-05-2008, 03:05 AM
its not low contact but unless you are working at a purely hispanic club where the men are cheap and want the most action for no money, then you dont need to be a heavy grinder to make money. in fact when i was working at a pretty trashy nude club (the customers even told me that this was the dirtier club compared to its sister clubs) i had customers who loved the fact that i wasnt riding their cock during the dance. a lot of them seem to think the grinding most girls do is mechanic and appreciated that i did more carressing and such, which was different from what they are used to. the only people who complain about my lack of grinding are ghetto/hood and redneck people and i couldnt imagine relying on them for my income considering they probably make a lot less than i do.
since you've never seen me at my club then you don't know how any idea of how i grind. also, i work at club where the custies are mixed, predominately white and asian and some hispanics (which is just socal and have also spent money on me) i don't just hump up and down, as it seems you're insinuating. but, the combination of my thong/bikini and jeans rubbing against my pussy (and lack of wetness) makes it hurt, after many many dances. i do other things to make a dance sensual and sexy that isn't all straddle and hump as hard as i can, thank you very much. some of us have more sensitive pussy's...like CC said, hers gets sore in her jeans (as does mine) which i'm thankful for.
ps sorry OP for such a threadjack and such negativity. :-\
kittytheflamingo
08-05-2008, 03:11 AM
^^actually, there are NO unclothed dances in the entire area of San Diego, which is just afew hours south of LA- we have a 6 foot law that makes it so we can only be nude/topless on stage. Maybe u didn't know the laws about stripclubs in cali are by the city or county, but not by state?
And now on the topic, I had a high sex drive for a few years, but now only my husband can turn me on. I could probably see Johnny Depp and not give a fuck unless I saw cash being put in my hand.
msonyxorb
08-05-2008, 03:15 AM
i don't know what kind of club you're working in but you must be lucky and pulling in tons of money w/ your technique. or just have one tough vadge.
but, back to topic, when my pussy gets sore, no want s-e-x.
again, this is the confusing part. what the hell does your labia majora have anything to do with wanting sex?
now i could understand not wanting sex if your labia minora which surrrounds the entrance of your vagina is sore...but your labia majora, which is basically just skin....? i mean you can have sex and avoid grinding against that area. that is why i assumed CC was grinding with her clit and vaginal area.
rubyredlipsss
08-05-2008, 03:23 AM
i didn't mean the entire state of ca. the city i work in requires the 6 ft rule too. so im always clothed for ld's. when i said 'just socal' i was referencing it being mixed (w/ dancers and custies alike), not that there were nude ld's across socal. i just wanted to clarify what i said. ok im done threadjacking, sorry OP :)
ColetteCalahan
08-05-2008, 03:30 AM
Yes, I live in the LBC and work in LA. No, I don't grind for more than 50% of a dance, and if/when I do, it's slow and sensuous; I see no reason for setting a landspeed record with mechanical grindage.
Msonyxorb- how come all your posts show your Puritanical witch-hunting and your desire to make everyone else out to be esteemless whores???
If you have a problem with the majority of what goes on in this industry, then work out your internal battlefield somewhere other than this thread. I don't need to justify HOW long I grind, explain with WHAT part of my pussy I grind with, or listen to your racist equations of what clubs demand heavy grindage.
'cheap hispanic clubs?' Nice. You're more of a multifaceted bigot than I thought, congratulations.
Also- how do you know HOW I have sex?? & for the last time... I said 'soreness really only happened when I did nude dances at a bed-dance club.' Obviously your stripclub experience, your sex life, and your damn vagina are different than mine... so keep your failure to comprehend difference to yourself.
rubyredlipsss
08-05-2008, 03:37 AM
i was waiting for CC to come to my rescue, and say it better than i could have.
jaizaine
08-05-2008, 03:40 AM
Susan has started a thread regarding the grinding :D
msonyxorb
08-05-2008, 04:04 AM
Yes, I live in the LBC and work in LA. No, I don't grind for more than 50% of a dance, and if/when I do, it's slow and sensuous; I see no reason for setting a landspeed record with mechanical grindage.
Msonyxorb- how come all your posts show your Puritanical witch-hunting and your desire to make everyone else out to be esteemless whores???
If you have a problem with the majority of what goes on in this industry, then work out your internal battlefield somewhere other than this thread. I don't need to justify HOW long I grind, explain with WHAT part of my pussy I grind with, or listen to your racist equations of what clubs demand heavy grindage.
'cheap hispanic clubs?' Nice. You're more of a multifaceted bigot than I thought, congratulations.
Also- how do you know HOW I have sex?? & for the last time... I said 'soreness really only happened when I did nude dances at a bed-dance club.' Obviously your stripclub experience, your sex life, and your damn vagina are different than mine... so keep your failure to comprehend difference to yourself.
im surprised anyone who works in LA would consider me racist for saying that. lets be honest, the new mexican immigrants tend to be cheap and grabby. im not being racist for saying that, its the TRUTH.
also i dont understand how you could possibly be getting sore unless you are doing "nascar" or whatever the PLs call it.
ColetteCalahan
08-05-2008, 04:07 AM
^ not gonna explain again.
Your thread that was closed because you insisted everyone who grinds cock is a whore. And trying to get people off. Don't get this one closed- take it to the other thread and STOP already.
pinkkitten
08-05-2008, 04:11 AM
according to several customers "nascar" is not grinding, its the girl grabbing the guy's dick through his pants. Also refered to as stickshifting. Just saying and no, that doesn't mean im endorsing it during a dance. To avoid derailing further, to answer the OP, i think the job has made me hornier, all the naked hot girls onstage outweigh having to give dances to gross guys.
britt244
08-05-2008, 07:12 AM
but you dont need to be grinding all the time...i mean even in LA where its pretty high contact, you dont need to be grinding his cock all the time to keep the guy happy and getting more dances. yeah you arent always with your back to him, but you dont need to be grinding the whole dance. honestly ive found that the ones who like grinding tend to be the cheapest. when i do nude i only grind with my butt and even then its super super light, i could never imagine getting sore anywhere from doing dances. id think that would be a sign that you are doing it a little too roughly. christ i wouldnt want a guy to cum from the dance.
i just wanted to point out that you said in a different thread (where you were also calling girls whores) that all you do in a dance is cuddle with a few slight position changes.
Sirona
08-05-2008, 07:22 AM
but you dont need to be grinding all the time...i mean even in LA where its pretty high contact, you dont need to be grinding his cock all the time to keep the guy happy and getting more dances. yeah you arent always with your back to him, but you dont need to be grinding the whole dance. honestly ive found that the ones who like grinding tend to be the cheapest. when i do nude i only grind with my butt and even then its super super light, i could never imagine getting sore anywhere from doing dances. id think that would be a sign that you are doing it a little too roughly. christ i wouldnt want a guy to cum from the dance.
You don't need to be grinding all the time to get sore.
In addition, just because you get sore doesn't mean you're making guys cum
Thanks for infering that anyone who gets sore is spending all thier time grinding guys to make them cum. That's real nice of you.
its not low contact but unless you are working at a purely hispanic club where the men are cheap and want the most action for no money, then you dont need to be a heavy grinder to make money...
Are you fucking kidding me?
again, this is the confusing part. what the hell does your labia majora have anything to do with wanting sex?
now i could understand not wanting sex if your labia minora which surrrounds the entrance of your vagina is sore...but your labia majora, which is basically just skin....? i mean you can have sex and avoid grinding against that area. that is why i assumed CC was grinding with her clit and vaginal area.
Hey dingbat, if the outer part of your pussy is sore and bruised feeling you aren't going to be feeling your sexiest. Once again, it isn't rocket science.
AlexxaHex
08-05-2008, 11:13 AM
im surprised anyone who works in LA would consider me racist for saying that. lets be honest, the new mexican immigrants tend to be cheap and grabby. im not being racist for saying that, its the TRUTH.
also i dont understand how you could possibly be getting sore unless you are doing "nascar" or whatever the PLs call it.
Not only are you a judgemental holier-than-thou dancer who projects her own issues with dancing onto others, you are also a racist. Awesome.
Sirona
08-05-2008, 11:45 AM
Not only are you a judgemental holier-than-thou dancer who projects her own issues with dancing onto others, you are also a racist. Awesome.
She's a hypocrit too.
In her other thread she talks about letting guys touch her tits and ass...
but if you grind you're a dirty whore! lol