View Full Version : Number one fantasy is being one of us!?
AlexxaHex
08-13-2008, 04:30 PM
I want to fuck Marilyn Manson too! Not so much Twiggy anymore. Not since he cut his hair.
I have a lot of fantasies involving the woods and being blindfolded, tied up and left there for someone to find me and get me off.
I fantasize about humiliating rich and powerful men and fucking them in the ass.
Another one involves an architect and a gazebo in the 1950s....I'm really weird. I'll stop before it gets weirder. lol
ultra_manic
08-13-2008, 06:55 PM
^OMG for a minute I was gonna yell at lestat for posting in LO... whoops!
P_P, you made me think of something... has anyone else ever sat on their bf's/hubby's belly (while they were laying down) and positioned their dick upward to make it look like it was yours??? I must say, I really like doing this. It's fun stealing someone else's dick to play with as your own for a bit and stroking as such. Especially if they have the exact same coloring as you and it seems uber-realistic.
HAHA I did this and we took a picture cuz it looked so real. I was born to be a stripper... seriously I always thought I was was really out there and demented until I started dancing now I've found my home lol
holiday
08-13-2008, 11:14 PM
Lately I've been a guy in my fantasies :O :-\ wanting to fuck a real big tittied girl (woman) and not being able to. And I have a real big cock.
Aaaand, there are usually a bunch of other guys around with real big cocks too.
sexyjasmine
09-03-2008, 07:21 PM
http://www.askmen.com/dating/heidi/26c_love_secrets.html
What's yalls number one fantasy?
Mine is being kidnapped and turned into a sex slave over a really long period of time (years). Then I eventually get him to trust me and run away and come back to my family. It's full of failed attempts to escape and punishment. I never get brainwashed though. It's pretty elaborate.
lol if thats seriously your fantasy and you want to fulfill it then just let a pimp know this. He can and will seriously make that a reality
Optimist
09-04-2008, 04:18 PM
I'll get him one of these days when he's drunk or something i'll come in with a strap on and scream," It's rape time, bitch!!!" or like in Blood in Blood out "Gimme some chon chon!!!" hahaha J/k
OH LAWD, please don't do that!!! :rotfl: He will run screaming into the street!!!!;D
DarkMoon08
09-04-2008, 06:51 PM
Tying a man up, torturing him, and having my way with him. Stuff involving candle wax, paddles, feather, whips, water...that sort of thing.
:devil:
Mandy_Wood
09-04-2008, 07:10 PM
it's not my fault he has the perfect cock sucking mouth and a beautiful face. also, i already know what he looks like covered in blood (28 days later) so it's easy to imagine. :P
OMG, my boyfriend looks just like Cillian Murphy! I love watching Red Eye just to watch his doppelganger get stabbed in the neck with a pencil and laugh hysterically. I's evil. }:D
I really hope I don't catch any shit for this but I like fantasizing about incest. I TOTALLY DON'T WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH A FAMILY MEMBER!! Just wanna make that clear. But I get really turned on thinking about like, a daddy-daughter situation or a teenage older brother and younger teenage sister. It's just so freaking taboo, it's hot. Am I weird? :-\
moll_flanders
09-04-2008, 07:41 PM
In the past several months it has been about my "husband" (doesn't exist) and his friends and family punishing me for something bad I did - usually cheating on my husband, because I like to retain the fantasy that he's a really good guy who loves me but who wants to teach me a lesson. Everyone joins in enthusiastically, from his friends who all make me go around the room and give them blowjobs during Monday night football to his mother (sick I know) who spanks me and makes sure I stay out of trouble while he's at work. And that's just scratching the surface of the whole thing.
Would I want this in real life? Uh, I would much rather have a loving relationship with whomever I marry where nobody cheats on anyone, and if his friends or family treated me with anything less than respect I would be pissed as hell. Roleplaying can capture some of the good parts of my fantasy though, while keeping it in the bedroom.
I don't think this really is a rape fantasy. It's more about how I am very repentant for hurting my husband and am willing to become a sex slave in order to regain his trust. (Yeah, pretty illogical.)
Also, if I am super attracted to someone in real life, I will fantasize about them taking charge and commanding me to strip, spread my legs, put my mouth on their cock, etc., and I docilely obey. This is partly because it takes away the guilt of "cheating" on my boyfriend and partly because I am a bottom anyway. Would I want this to happen in real life? Hell YES but there's no way I would let it happen because I'm with my boyfriend.
Lysondra
09-04-2008, 07:46 PM
I want to fuck Marilyn Manson too! Not so much Twiggy anymore. Not since he cut his hair.
I have a lot of fantasies involving the woods and being blindfolded, tied up and left there for someone to find me and get me off.
I fantasize about humiliating rich and powerful men and fucking them in the ass.
Another one involves an architect and a gazebo in the 1950s....I'm really weird. I'll stop before it gets weirder. lol
I have one that involves being an angel found in a heap on the side of the road who can't talk or understand communication....
YES i've gone THAT far into my fantasies.. hahah.
Pretty_Penny
09-04-2008, 10:48 PM
OMG, my boyfriend looks just like Cillian Murphy! I love watching Red Eye just to watch his doppelganger get stabbed in the neck with a pencil and laugh hysterically. I's evil. }:D
dude.
.................................................. ......................................
DUDE.
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r.u.fucking.serious?
AlexxaHex
09-04-2008, 10:56 PM
I have one that involves being an angel found in a heap on the side of the road who can't talk or understand communication....
YES i've gone THAT far into my fantasies.. hahah.
That's pretty hot, actually.
When this thread came up again, I remembered that I want Lil' Kim and I to wear full latex catsuits and pee on R Kelly while we blackmail him and take all his money.
Perry
09-05-2008, 03:28 AM
Number one fantasy just changed! It's now, Mr. Perry, myself and another guy. And I'm so much closeer to it
}:D God bless coca cola and vodka!!!
lazydaisy
09-05-2008, 06:18 AM
I want to kidnap and dominate Anderson Cooper doing all sorts of unspeakable things to him lol. I have no idea what about him pushes my buttons. I certainly could care less about his journalism.
(And be a voyeur in Alexxa's fantasy...)
txchick008
09-05-2008, 05:19 PM
all my fantasies involve my ex. he has an amazing dick. :-)
:rotfl:
StrawberrySwitchblade
09-05-2008, 05:48 PM
My current one is the man I'm seeing locking a Tiffany choker around my neck (they make ones with locks) and makes me his pet/slave, the kind that sits on cushy pillows in nice lingerie and always available, always beautiful, fucktoy for display, punished thoroughly, even if I don't deserve it...;) The most prized possession bound with luxury silver.
It's been in many of my fantasies, especially after losing my collar not too long ago when I split with my ex. I miss my collar. I miss it like I miss my claddagh. :(
JPremium
09-06-2008, 04:41 AM
Mandy_Wood, I am so there. Why do you think so many ladies call their man "Daddy"?
Let's not call it RAPE, let's call it RAVISHMENT. That's a more accurate term, really.
So my guy actually tested out the waters the other day by talking dirty about fucking one of my friends while I helplessly watched on. It was weird. It kinda turned me on and made me feel a little jealous and actually kind-of bad, like maybe I should ask Tiffany's permission before my fiance fantasy fucks her? Is that weird?
Lysondra
09-06-2008, 05:59 AM
My current one is the man I'm seeing locking a Tiffany choker around my neck (they make ones with locks) and makes me his pet/slave, the kind that sits on cushy pillows in nice lingerie and always available, always beautiful, fucktoy for display, punished thoroughly, even if I don't deserve it...;) The most prized possession bound with luxury silver.
It's been in many of my fantasies, especially after losing my collar not too long ago when I split with my ex. I miss my collar. I miss it like I miss my claddagh. :(
That's a lot how my angel one ends up. It usually starts with the guy really caring but the angel just doens't understand.. she's innocent and pure and doesn't understand the spoken word... after a bit of treating her special he starts to train her to become his 'pet'. he can never tell people about her because they'll take her away.. so he uses her innocence and naiveity for his own pleasure - all while making sure she has everything so she doesn't run away.
Mandy_Wood
09-06-2008, 06:35 PM
dude.
.................................................. ......................................
DUDE.
.................................................. .......................
r.u.fucking.serious?
Totally! I was looking around for a photo where he especially looks like Cillian but no luck so far. The resemblance doesn't show up in photos as well as it does in real life, but seriously, they look so alike it's scary. They could be brothers. I mentioned to my boy that he had "perfect cock sucking lips" and he was just like, "WTF?! Where did that come from?" and I told him, "it's a compliment, don't worry!" LOL.
*Whew* :relieved: Good to know, JPremium. Thanks!
Pretty_Penny
09-07-2008, 01:15 PM
well then.
i probably want to have sex with your boyfriend.
roxanna
09-07-2008, 02:06 PM
Mine is pretty damn elaborate, but its basically time period, being kidnapped by someone totally rich and powerful, and ending up with total stockholm syndrome, and trying to run away but coming back on my own.
I have issues. :P
carmenlove
09-30-2008, 01:24 AM
i have been pretty lucky and got to live out lots of my fantasies.
because of this i think i have some (maybe) pretty hardcore ones?
here are some-
DP
do a girl w/a strap on
i was with my man outside today, and he ducked round a corner to take a piss. i saw his dick in is hand, and i don't know why it looked sooo hot, just pissing. i fantasized of him peeing on me, then fucking me. my man is so sweet and passive though.
i love to fantasize about my man, he is so hot.
i noticed a lot of the posts here are either to be dominated, or humiliated/degraded in some way. i wonder why? i fantasize about both, but i'd rather be submissive
It says whats your number one fantasy. Then I see they're all sexual. Hell, mine is to just get on a horse and ride off into the sunset and never go the same way twice. Must be under stress- escapist fantasy.
Intravenus
09-30-2008, 04:35 AM
My number one would be going out with a femlae friend and doing really filthy stuff really obviously in public.
A threesome with 2 guys is also pretty high up there, Id like to see my boyf with another guy.
Nuclear Martini
10-02-2008, 07:40 PM
My fantasy is falling in love or lust with a guy about 15 years older than me (I'm 20) and being spoiled rotten by him in every way possible. We would have marathon sex in $800 per night hotel suites, in jacuzzis, in his car, out in public and I would be his trophey girlfriend and attend black tie events with him. We would take weekend vacations, drink and smoke really good weed until the sun rises.
Mandy_Wood
10-03-2008, 10:50 PM
well then.
i probably want to have sex with your boyfriend.
Given that you're a gorgeous red head, he would definitely want to have sex with you!! ;D Should you ever come to Seattle . . . ;)
Fenriswolf
10-06-2008, 12:12 AM
I'm very uncomfortable with rape fantasies. Basically I acknowledge that it's entirely possible to fantasise about rape in a healthy way but since I have an incredibly strong reaction of horror to it I have to talk myself through being accepting. I mean, there have been times reading books where rape/borderline rape scenes have turned me on but I always felt slightly ill as well.
OTOH I am all about rough sex. I would love to play with both subbing and domination, though mostly sub. I would love to be tied up and beaten and fucked. Not so keen on humiliation. I also love the idea of fucking multiple men and women in one night and have had very elaborate fantasies about being one man's sub and being "lent out" to other people at a party.
Unfortunately my partner and lover of five years is a very gentle man. He likes to touch you softly and go down on you for hours, he was willing to let me sleep with women separately from him but won't have a threesome. He will not hit me (except for sparring lol) and generally is not as into fucking hard in multiple positions in lots of different places as me. Not quite sure how to work on him because he is stubborn :P
carmenlove
10-11-2008, 12:18 AM
Unfortunately my partner and lover of five years is a very gentle man. He will not hit me (except for sparring lol) and generally is not as into fucking hard in multiple positions in lots of different places as me. Not quite sure how to work on him because he is stubborn
man i am having the same problem!!! what to do?????:confused: :beady: :bomb: :banghead:
i don't want to cheat but. . . . i need to get mine.
Fenriswolf
10-11-2008, 10:06 PM
WTF? I totally posted a reply, not sure how I messed that up :(
Personally I have no clue because honestly my sex drive has disappeared basically from having the same vanilla sex with the same person :-[
I feel like such a bad person for even saying that! Hell, I would leave him before I would cheat because that's life - if I can't handle monogamy then I don't get to have my cake and eat it. But I am having exactly no luck with convincing him to play the dom, or even let me! :-\
MsClaireVoyant
10-13-2008, 09:48 PM
Whats my number one fantasy?
Stripping! :)
I see it as this big dark empty room with just a pole and a chair in front of it, spotlight on the pole, maybe a red light or something. And Id handcuff the hot guy to the chair so he can watch me but not move.. then I do a really hot dance to a sexy song, something preferrably slow and dark. Then it moves to lap dance.. then I undo his pants and start sucking his cock, really getting into it you know? And from there it goes..
lol..other fantasies.. getting fucked by a really hot cowboy.. I got to live this one out in real life the other night.. damn it was good. Cowboys are my fetish now!
Threesomes. I've done this before too a couple times and it's really hot. I've only done threesomes with two guys though, I'd love to try one with another woman!
It's just such an intense experience.. the heat and energy between three people instead of just two.. the high is incredible. Such a rush.
Shia Labeouf is my other fantasy.. I'd want to be in some big house with him, and we'd just drink wine and eat each other up all day.. fuck in every room of the house, on the table, in the shower, etc. I heart Shia. *blushes*
I also like Dr. House from that show on fox.. he's so hot. I want to strip for him too. In fact I could insert him into the scene from fantasy number one.
Sex in public places, like a beach or something.
Sex at all. Fuck it, I'm so horny.
LOL!
jaylynn2240
10-14-2008, 02:44 PM
Rape fantasies are not cool, period. The only people who even THINK that a rape fantasy is acceptable are the people who have never been raped. There is nothing sexy about someone taking your body and using it against your will. There is nothing sexy about sitting in an interrogation room with your mascara running down your cheeks, pouring out your heart to two cops who you know aren't going to do anything to help you. There is nothing sexy about lying on a hospital bed, praying that your pregnancy test comes back negative because you don't know how you're going to raise a child that is a product of your degradation. And there is nothing sexy about the years of therapy that you have to undergo to get the nightmares to stop and to make the depression go away. I know that I am not the only rape survivor who visits this site, and because of this I ask that the women who frequent these boards be a little more sensitive to those of us who have been through this horrible ordeal. Rape is an act of violence, not a creative way to spice up your love life. And it is a huge slap in the face to rape victims when you try to make such a devastating, soul crushing experience into something as trivial as an erotic fantasy.
MsClaireVoyant
10-14-2008, 05:15 PM
I don't get rape fantasies either. Not good for me at all. Even thinking about it is like a complete turn off.
Fenriswolf
10-18-2008, 12:56 AM
jaylynn, for some rape survivors rape "fantasies" are something that help them get back in touch with their sexuality. Obviously any rape scenarios are going to be not at all rape, simply in the fact it is not non-consensual!
Honestly the human mind is a strange and twisted place and if some women need to play with non-consent to feel alive and push their boundaries in a safe way I'm not going to judge that.
I am sorry for your experience.
I have never been raped but my mother was gang raped when I was very young and to try and protect me my mother told me about it, and tried to teach me not to trust men. Hence I had nightmares of being raped, over and over again, from well before I understood sex. So yeah, even the slightest hint of non-consent or sexual violence in porn or even mainstream movies makes me want to vomit, shake, cry, and hurt myself. I am not a rape survivor but I honestly think I can say I understand how you feel. I hope that does not upset you.
jaylynn2240
10-19-2008, 01:02 PM
^^^
I SERIOUSLY doubt that a rape victim will EVER fantasize about being raped. I'm sorry, but it just isn't going to happen. Most of us spend the rest of our lives trying NOT to relive that horrible experience. And when we do, it's completely involuntary and traumatic (flashbacks). I know that you've never been raped, so you can't even begin to understand what it's like, but I do want you to know that rape is a damaging, disgusting thing, and it is in no way therapeutic for a rape victim to imagine that they are being violated again. No. Just...no.
And I still feel that it's very hurtful and insensitive for people to make light of such a horrible experience. Because everytime you say that rape can exist as a fun, playful fantasy, you're taking away from the seriousness of it. And you're trampling on the experiences of others. It's the same as saying
"Oh yeah, rape is totally hot and me and my significant other like to experiment with it all the time. Nevermind that you actually WERE raped and that the experience has COMPLETELY FUCKED YOU UP FOR LIFE, I say that rape is harmless and nothing's wrong with it at all. So what if my misguided opinions of rape are part of the reason why people don't take rape victims seriously, and so what if I'm contributing to the belief that rape victims secretly WANTED to be raped, I don't care about any of that. I'll just hold on to my warped views and maybe pass them on to a son who will think it's okay to force himself on women and to a daughter who won't go to the police when she gets raped because she'll believe that somehow she was asking for it."
jaylynn2240
10-19-2008, 01:22 PM
I'm sorry for my long rants and threadjacking, but I'm getting a little tired of the complete ignorance and lack of understanding. And I'm surprised that these attitudes about rape are coming from women. For some reason I imagined that we'd all be a little more enlightened about the subject of rape, but I was wrong.
I just want to say that there is no such thing as a rape fantasy. It just doesn't fucking exist. Because when you say that you have a "rape fantasy" you probably mean that you have a fantasy about having sex against your will, but in a controlled, safe environment where both parties have agreed to participate. Soooo, do you see why this doesn't make any fucking sense? Rape is not safe, controlled, or consensual. It is the exact fucking opposite of all those things. It isn't an agreement between two people, it's a violation of someone's human rights. So when you say "rape fantasy" you really aren't making any sense. What you mean to say is that you have a fantasy about being dominated. Period. You do not have a fantasy about being raped, because being raped means that someone has intentionally and willfully ignored your right to say no. I hope I'm getting through to some of you here.
Flick6
10-19-2008, 08:31 PM
jaylynn , what happened to you is horrific and no one should have to suffer what you did.
But I dont think it gives you the right to say what others should or should not fantasise about, and whether or not that means they have or have not been hurt in the same way you were. It is actually a VERY COMMON response to sexual abuse, for women (and men) to fantasise about it to get sexually aroused. And unfortunately it is something that makes a lot of people hate themselves even more and feel even more shame after their abuse. Our minds are very very complex and respond to things differently.
And yes when people role play rape, it is consensual, that is why it isnt rape, it is a fantasy and that is all. Just because it disgusts you personally does not make it wrong. Taking your clothes off for money disgusts a lot of people to, but that doesnt make it wrong.
Again I am sorry for the pain you have experienced, but it doesn't mean that you know more than everyone else. What a person does in the privacy of their own mind is their own business and it is not for you or anyone else to judge.
jaylynn2240
10-19-2008, 09:09 PM
^^^ I have never said that I know more than anyone else, and I have not said that people aren't entitled to it, so please refrain from misrepresenting my point of view . And please don't feign an interest or concern for what I've been through right before you proceed to attack me. It's tasteless and I don't appreciate being patronized that way.
What I am saying is that a rape fantasy is an anomaly. There is nothing erotic, sensual, or fun about the act of rape. And when you reduce the act of rape to a form of role-play, then you are taking away from the seriousness and disturbing nature of the crime. The very definition of rape is at odds with the possibility of it being a fantasy. And I think that if more people understood the mechanics of rape and what it means to actually BE raped, then they wouldn't include it in their daydreaming.
Also, I hope that I remain alone in my point of view and that no one on here will agree with me, because only someone who has been raped themselves can truly appreciate what I'm trying to say. And I don't wish that on anyone. I hope that you continue to disagree with me and that you continue to hold onto your current belief, because it means that you've been fortunate enough to have been spared the same harsh realities that I myself have to contend with everyday.
jaylynn2240
10-19-2008, 10:00 PM
I've re-read my posts on here and I do sound like a jerk, and I'm sorry for that. But it angers me when I see something that's so close to home being taken so lightly. I mean, how would you feel if you were brutally raped and the people around you started saying that it was their fantasy to be in your shoes? Wouldn't you be hurt/disgusted/angry? Wouldn't you want them to see that there is nothing appealing about your experience? I used to have rape fantasies too. I used to think that it would be sexy if a man that I loved simulated the act of raping me, but now that I've actually been raped I guess I just can't help but wonder wtf I was thinking. The only explanation that I've been able to come up with is that my version of events was NOTHING like the real thing. And now that I really do know what it's like, it's hard to even imagine that I felt anything but revulsion and contempt for such a heinous act.
Fenriswolf
10-20-2008, 12:35 AM
jaylynn, there are most definitely rape survivors who act out rape fantasies to help work through their trauma. I acknowledge that you find that repugnant, and the idea makes me feel physically sick but for some women it helps. It's a reclamation of power.
Did you actually read what I said? Perhaps, you read "not actually a rape victim" and not any further but let me elaborate: I was never raped, but I have flashbacks to trauma that didn't even happen to me. I've had insomnia from fear, dreamt of my father raping me, orgasm is still difficult for me because I disassociate from my body so much that the first time I nearly did with my partner I had a panic attack. I have PTSD from my mother's rape so I bloody well know what you're talking about and you can disbelieve me or disregard me all you like but given how hard I've had to work to avoid killing myself over it I think my experiences are worthy of consideration.
Flick6
10-20-2008, 01:25 AM
I agree with you that a rape fantasy is a contradiction in itself. But that doesn't change the fact that there are people that have been brutally raped that do not respond to it the same way that you have. Thats what I meant when I said you 'don't know everything'... I hope I am making myself clear? I don't mean to misinterpret your words.
I am not feigning sympathy, I am expressing real sympathy, and I dont think you sound like a jerk, I think you sound like someone in pain. And I honestly am not trying to attack you, I'm showing you another side of the coin.
Just because someone fantasies about something, doesn't mean they are taking it lightly, it means that it is tied up in one of the most fundamental parts of their mind, their sexuality. It doesn't mean that they don't understand or have respect for how much pain you, me, or anyone else may have experienced.
I don't want to sound like I am lecturing you, so I'll just stop.
jaylynn2240
10-20-2008, 09:12 AM
^^^fenriswolf and flick6, I understand now. It's just that I see red whenever the subject of rape comes up, because I'm still dealing with the trauma. And now that I'm calm, I can acknowledge that everyone will react to the experience of rape differently, and not everyone's ways of coping will be the same as my own. And now that I've thought about it, I can see how having rape fantasies after you've been assaulted can be therapeutic. By having fantasies, it might desensitize you to the actual event and therefore lessen the severity of PTSD symptoms. Thank you both for being patient and helping me to reach this conclusion, because it had honestly never occured to me before.
jaylynn2240
10-20-2008, 09:37 AM
Fenriswolf, I do believe you when you say that you have PTSD symptoms from what your mother went through, and I'm very sorry that you have to deal with that. I know firsthand that it's possible for someone who's never experienced any actual trauma to suffer the same as someone who has. My brother-in-law is in the military, and even though he never saw combat he still came home with PTSD symptoms. I guess the very threat of him being harmed was enough to scar him, just like the very threat of being raped was enough to scar you. Again I apologize and hope that things get better for you :hug:
Scorpia
10-20-2008, 10:37 AM
A full body cock massage, being used by him to fullfil his every need. Tieing me up rubbing his dick all over my face, and body. No penetration, just blow jobs, tit fucking and ass humping until he's about to cum, he grabs my head and cums on my face. I dont think its that big of a deal but my boyfriend has this thing about cumming on my face. He'd rather just do it in my mouth. And he's not big on the humping thing. Oh well...