View Full Version : Dating site pickups... are you kidding?
RoseLeigh
08-25-2008, 02:21 PM
Oh and yet ANOTHER guy who i didn't respond to earlier has decided to hit back with the "you take EVERYTHING so seriously bet your a BITCH to live with".
Wait-you said nothing and that's how he responds? Hot. I'd message back telling him how you love to be called a bitch and you were waiting for the right man to put the beat down on ya. Now he is your true love.:D
needtodance
08-25-2008, 02:31 PM
Yeah, i guess. Like because i dont wanna come suck him off before i keep looking for prince charming means I'm too serious. I guess. His original message was just something of the "ur hot im not looking 4 anything serius but you should get drunk w/me." nature.
lestat1
08-25-2008, 06:07 PM
On the flip side, I've sent 14 e-mails that are articulate, polite, witty, commented on what about her profile appealed to me, asked a few questions, shared a bit about myself, and included no pictures of my genitals or use of Internet-speak, and the only response I've received was someone letting me know she found someone (which was nice of her, it's better than hearing nothing). I even had a site that offers pretty blunt online dating advice review my profile. They found it rather excellent. The worst part is that online dating is my last-ditch back up plan, short of whoring my citizenship status for a wife. :paperbag:
lazydaisy
08-26-2008, 09:38 AM
Chimera- that post really creeps me out.
I had a friend that had some weirdo do that to her and a little worse. She gave her real name and address(dumbass) and he stole her identity. At first, it was funny and and her fault for being stupid. He called her and would tell her he was having gifts delivered to her, and she would get flowers delivered, or a small gift.
Then about a week into that she found out he had opened some credit card accounts in her name and SHE was paying for all those gifts! Many calls to cancel accounts, refusing packages everyday from UPS and then he has the balls to start emailing her threatening emails. Talking about how she better start receiving his packages and forwarding them to him in another country. I even read one of them that he threatened her because "he purchased a gift for his mother's birthday and she better get it forwarded to him or there would be trouble". Hey. Douchebag. Are you kidding me??? How freakin ridiculous.
No major damage to her credit or anything. It ended up a minor annoyance for her more than anything but sheesh. But I think she learned a pretty good lesson. ::)
GoldCoastGirl
08-26-2008, 07:51 PM
I knew someone who got "had" by online dating sites. Poor guy was desperate for a relationship that he got had by some girl in the Philippines or something. He sent her money so she could buy an airfare to meet him in Australia.
Of course that never happened. Hard lesson learnt.
MissTaylor
08-26-2008, 08:24 PM
A friend of mine is on a dating site. She's been dealing with a guy who went psycho because she had to cancel a date last minute. She got called in to work and text messaged him to let him know. Now he's threatening her with all kinds of crap.... her job and stuff. it's nuts.
Chimera21
08-27-2008, 10:59 AM
I have such a hard time understanding this...
Why do so many of these men, when politely told 'no' to whatever - casual sex, dating, drunken blowjobs - get angry, threatening, whatever?
Do they think it will work?
"Hey, come over here let's fuck.'
'No'
'OMG, you are such a lazy, fat bitch I bet! Jesus, no wonder you're single!'
'Oh, well, when you put it that way....'
Half the time the 'no' comes because they couldn't read very clear notes on a profile - no casual sex, just looking for friends - and then get mad because of their own misunderstanding.
I get this all the time on webcams, too. I am a boring girl, I turn it on to just sit there, going about my day. The number of guys who freak out at me for not giving them a free show just because they said 'take off ur top ;)' is astonishing. No, I am not uptight because I don't show everyone (well, anyone) who asks my tits. I will not be your free porn because you went through the effort of typing 'please' fifty times.
Don't go onto a dating site if you can't handle the word 'no'. The correct response to 'no' is not 'You slutty bitch, I'm gonna rape you'. You would not greet a woman on the street with 'You're hot, let's see those titties' without getting a stiletto up the ass, those same women are the ones who are on dating sites. Their preferences do not make a 180 the instant they sit at a computer. =p