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jaizaine
08-11-2008, 05:54 AM
^^
yeh that's pretty true. when i started it took me a while to realise which guys were a waste of time, i spent too long talking to custies without getting paid and i wasn't enough of a bitch and hustler LOL. actually im still pretty shit at hustling.

I just think telling people they cant post opinions on an internet forum coz they havent been dancing for too long is a little silly. i mean we know whose opinions we respect here coz they have been in the industry a long time and they know their shit. i def know there are certain members whose opinions and insight i always listen to coz I know they are good at this job.

britt244
08-11-2008, 05:55 AM
it's also in the WAY you say it, too. when it comes off condescending, people aren't going to be happy.

jaizaine
08-11-2008, 05:59 AM
I agree.

i.breathe.in
08-11-2008, 06:00 AM
I just think telling people they cant post opinions on an internet forum coz they havent been dancing for too long is a little silly. i mean we know whose opinions we respect here coz they have been in the industry a long time and they know their shit. i def know there are certain members whose opinions and insight i always listen to coz I know they are good at this job.

its not about her posting her opinion its about the way she posts it. ala the i know it allness....

jaizaine
08-11-2008, 06:01 AM
;) Ahh cool got ya.

kittytheflamingo
08-11-2008, 06:03 AM
At least new moon doesn't viciously attack people on this site, like alot of girls seem to.

This thread is a good thing- it shows that some of us do know what manners are and that there are nice people here.

Maybe some will realize you can have a different opinion and express it without getting nasty!

i.breathe.in
08-11-2008, 06:07 AM
Maybe some will realize you can have a different opinion and express it without getting nasty!


point. completely. missed.

you also have to remember this is mainly about one thread in particular. ive talked to her in plenty of threads that we had fine conversations in im sure like many other people.

Andygirl
08-11-2008, 08:08 AM
So where are all the sooper-MODS when this unnecessary drama is going on? Seriously. They'll shut down every other (even legit) threads, but allow this tripe to go on and on? ::) ::) ::)

cinammonkisses
08-11-2008, 08:18 AM
May I add what's up with this tone through SW lately of , "you haven't danced long enough ...you aren't experienced enough...so your insights are worthless". Frankly it's very condescending and irrelevant. All this, "I'm a top earner" crap too. Since when do we have to beat our chests to be taken seriously?

I for one welcome a fresh perspective. Seems to me this know-it-all BS is kind of like the pot calling the kettle black.

Actually, I dont' find my tone on this to be condescending at all. I have told several members on this site that they haven't been dancing long enough. It's fucking true! If you've been dancing 3 damn weeks, DO NOT try to sit back and tell someone how to do their job, especially someone who has been doing it for way longer.

I don't have a problem with new members who have been dancing a while. I do have problems with girls new to this industry who give hustle tips to veteran members. There is a girl at my club, been dancing all of 2 months. I overheard her one night trying to tell a girl (dancing at least 3yrs) how she should start approaching customers. :O What..this chick does circles around that newgirl..but that's neighther here nor there.

Yes, I feel like everyone should have something to share, and add..but being a smart ass and acting like you KNOW THE GAME is utter BS.

DangerousDiva, you know I love you..but you said it yourself that you haven't seen all the threads. I'm not trying to down NewMoon, but I was merely letting her know the deal. There ARE alot (not 1-2% some like someone mentioned) who find her to be a no it all.

It's to the point that I actually try to avoid her threads. Why, because when you try to give her some useful information and it's something that she doesnt' agree with, she totally ignores it, and then throws it off on a whole other tangent.

She made a post earlier this week and mentioned something about Islam and how they must cover, and must shave. I told her, no that isn't right (I didn't wanna get into a debate about MY RELIGION) she comes back with copy/paste of incorrect information to prove her point. Should I have jumped in and told her again she is wrong and why...no of course not because it wouldn't have mattered. She still woudl've been right in her eyes.

She made a post about her regular about to start working with her dad. The regular knows her FIRST and LAST NAME. When everyone got on her abou tit, she totally dismissed it, and basically was like, "it's my decision and I'm happy with it" WTF.

jaizaine
08-11-2008, 08:21 AM
^^^
I think I have missed some of these threads. Which thread is it u r talking about here with the regular working with her dad? I have to see this.

UltraViolet
08-11-2008, 08:23 AM
OK, I'm going to totally be a grammar/whatever stinker, but this has been bugging me this entire thread....


It's "know-it-all" everyone ;)

cinammonkisses
08-11-2008, 08:26 AM
^^^
I think I have missed some of these threads. Which thread is it u r talking about here with the regular working with her dad? I have to see this.
http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=121514&highlight=regular

jaizaine
08-11-2008, 08:33 AM
Thanks. Shit I did miss that. /:O

CherryBomb954
08-11-2008, 08:35 AM
So now she's gonna get bullied in this thread too? For fucks sake. If you don't like someone, there is an option to ignore you know.


Tru.

NM I've never thought anything you have said is offensive. I love how you start a thread to apologize for supposedly starting arguments or "debates"....and people start and argument about you starting arguments! Amazing.

Not that anyone cares, but I think I am going to start ignoring this whole site. It used to be good now it's a constant pissing match about every little fucking thing You can't even get to the resourceful part of most threads anymore without having to scroll through 5 pages of people barking at eachother, then apologizing, then more barking, then UGH

jaizaine
08-11-2008, 08:36 AM
^^
dont forget the "Im leaving" posts in the drama threads.
Hehe no offense I couldn't resist.

UltraViolet
08-11-2008, 08:53 AM
This thread is so ironic.

NewMoon
08-11-2008, 08:57 AM
If anyone has any further problems with me, a PM would be appreciated instead of posting on the board.
I'm very sad with how this thread has turned out and the fact that the above was not respected. There are numerous posts bashing me and I did not receive one PM.

I sincerely didn't think I did anything so bad that an apology could not be accepted.

I was beginning to feel at home here too........ oh well :-\

Kalligirl
08-11-2008, 09:55 AM
I'm very sad with how this thread has turned out and the fact that the above was not respected. There are numerous posts bashing me and I did not receive one PM.

I sincerely didn't think I did anything so bad that an apology could not be accepted.

I was beginning to feel at home here too........ oh well :-\

wtf. girl, its a freaking board. have you not seen all the posts about ppl defending you? and wanting you to stay? :O

dangerousdiva
08-11-2008, 09:57 AM
and sorry, till youve been in the game for a while and worked at more then one club, you dont have anything to compare things to. ignorance is bliss but it doesnt make you out to be very bright online.

I'm not specifically referring to NM but just a general tone I noticed around here, lately. It's detracting from the purpose of SW, imo.

I've danced for over ten years all over the country in many different clubs. I rarely throw that card out there when i post in HH because it's irrelevant.

Aside from this NM drama I think this new pecking order is ridiculous.

but y'anno I love all of you, cuz you add something unique to the culture here :D

velvet
08-11-2008, 10:05 AM
So where are all the sooper-MODS when this unnecessary drama is going on? Seriously. They'll shut down every other (even legit) threads, but allow this tripe to go on and on? ::) ::) ::)

because i'm really the only mod here and i do have a life out of SW. This mostly happened in the middle of the night and early morning when i was spending time with my husband, SLEEPING, and taking care of my household.
I'm here now and the thread is closed. happy now?