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StarryEyes
08-24-2008, 11:36 PM
EE you've done right. And I'll bet you are way stronger for it.

ExoticEngineer
08-25-2008, 08:06 AM
Thanks girls, I am stronger for it.

Altough, I think that's a huge reason I had to quit dancing and everything with it for a while. I was starting to feel powerless against a guy (any guy) because I thought I needed something form him or some sort of twisted up logic...blah. Done with THAT!

As for the ex...I left him a house, a car, money, everything pretty much. He screwed it all up, is currently behind bars for god knows what (last I heard he got busted for selling his ass to guys for drug money) and will be there for quite a while.

I honestly don't regret any of that, and it's not nearly as horrific as what some of you other women have gone through, not that this is a contest, lord no...but I learned from that time in my life. It didn't make me cower from men, it didn't give me a reason to behave badly or any other negative outcome...I grew, I took that time and used it to make myself stronger, happier and realize "I sure as fuck wont do THAT again!" ;)