View Full Version : I wanna KILL female "customers"
Rockell
08-25-2008, 07:58 AM
^^
they are allowed in your DR?? that's outrageous!!!
Oh yes they are allowed lol. Although one girl the other night stormed out and used the freaking mens room instead because she "felt uncomfortable" using the bathroom while we were in there. WTF? I hope a dude walked in while she was in there haha.
jaizaine
08-25-2008, 08:00 AM
Wow no custies are allowed in our DR. There is a female toilet in the club (two actually) but it's for patrons and dancers. If they were allowed in our DR I would flip the fuck out. All our belongings are in there and it's where we go to get away from customers!!
That's really wrong of your club. If they were allowed at mine I would go out of my way to make them feel uncomfortable by talking shit about them or bending over and checking my asshole in the mirror. HAHA Im a bitch but I hate them.
hot4ablackchick
08-25-2008, 01:25 PM
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they are allowed in your DR?? that's outrageous!!!
:eek: I don't know what I would do if custies were allowed in the DR. NO way I could deal with that. Even when a female "accidently" enters our DR, she is immediately told to get the fuck out.
txchick008
08-25-2008, 02:38 PM
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they are allowed in your DR?? that's outrageous!!!
There are several clubs in Dallas where the female custies use the DR bathroom. I remember the old Penthouse/Executive club being that way...
hot4ablackchick
08-26-2008, 06:22 AM
There are several clubs in Dallas where the female custies use the DR bathroom. I remember the old Penthouse/Executive club being that way...
I worked a club like that too, but the female custies were still need not allowed to enter the DR, or bug the dancers back there with questions and shit. Ugh, I couldn't imagine.
Wild_Flower
08-27-2008, 10:20 PM
I totally agree with jaizaine on only letting couples into strip clubs. Just this weekend we had a bunch of girls come in and while i was giving a dance on stage they were screaming and making rude comments on how they wouldn't do that for $20 because they were better than that. Yet they aren't too good to try dancing around our collumns on the floor? Do we go onto their workplace and treat them like that i don't think so so either learn to have some respect for the girls or find somewhere elce to go
jaizaine
08-28-2008, 03:54 AM
^^highfive!!
Sveta
08-28-2008, 04:48 AM
BYOB (bring your own bitch)
:rotfl: :rotfl:
jaizaine
08-28-2008, 05:58 AM
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I missed that somehow. Fuck I love Hot4ablackchick!! you rock!!
hot4ablackchick
08-28-2008, 06:02 AM
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I missed that somehow. Fuck I love Hot4ablackchick!! you rock!!
You rock too baby!!!
brazenpeach
08-31-2008, 02:12 PM
I was in Dallas this week and I checked out two clubs (as research for my upcoming career of course!). Before the dancers knew I was there because I wanted to be a dancer, they wouldn't approach our table (I was with a man) and appeared very leary. So we asked some gals to come over and of course I tipped, tipped, tipped, bought probably ten dances and was sure to tell them why I was there. They completely changed their demeanor when they realized a fellow woman was SUPPORTIVE of them. By the end of the night I had emails from a couple girls asking to stay in touch and two offers of a place to stay if I decide to fly down and work in Dallas. Seriously, a fantastic and very nice bunch of women. They told me if I wanted to work that night they would introduce me to the management and loan me an outfit. How freakin cool of them, huh?
Anyway, I did see two other women there...and it was very clear that they were drug their by their boyfriends...they sat with bitchy scowls on their faces the whole time until they left. I was glad they left because they had shitty attitudes and had no business there.
kitty69
09-01-2008, 07:07 AM
I think I win this one....
As well as the stupid girls who think our job is easy and try to get on stage to swizzle round the pole, on Saturday night one of the female customers took it upon herself to take a guy in to VIP close the curtains and start having sex. Full sex on the floor with a random male customer, now thats class!
jaizaine
09-01-2008, 07:11 AM
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wow
what was the outcome? did they get kicked out in the middle of it? thats so disgusting and we are whores?? ::)
kitty69
09-01-2008, 07:33 AM
The door man sometimes looks in just to check that the girl that is in there is ok, he popped his head in and caught them at it, thankfully he dealt with it all behind the curtain so the other customers couldn't see anything. They both got kicked out and as far I know won't be allowed back in. We (the girls) couldn't understand if she was just easy or was trying to 'prove' that she was sexier than all of us by taking our customers? :shrug: Anyway ewww!!
kitana
09-01-2008, 07:35 AM
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wow
what was the outcome? did they get kicked out in the middle of it? thats so disgusting and we are whores?? ::)
We have had "couples" kicked out of our bar for having sex too; only they were caught in the bathrooms!:O
The one I remember the most was this TINY lil dude; like 5'6" and 115lbs or so and his girlfriend who was every bit of at least 225lbs if not bigger. Our mgr felt so bad for the guy (who was sitting on bottom on the toilet in the tiny stall, BTW!), he let em finish first, lol!
And girls like that say WE have no class.....::)::)
jaizaine
09-01-2008, 07:37 AM
LOL. I think they try to out-do us or prove they are hotter than us.
On a similar topic, our bouncer caught two male customers in the male toilets, one was giving the other head.
NewMoon
09-01-2008, 07:39 AM
On a similar topic, our bouncer caught two male customers in the male toilets, one was giving the other head. OMG that is soooooooo weird :O
jaizaine
09-01-2008, 07:41 AM
^^^
I LMAO at that one. I felt sorry for our poor bouncer he was shocked.
kitty69
09-01-2008, 07:48 AM
I wouldn't be AS grossed out if it had been a couple, this was a random guy she didn't know. Unprotected sex with a stranger lovely. Can I also add that this guy was UGLY, very, very ugly lol. We had all avoided him like the plague as he had been stood at the bar earlier talking to himself!
NewMoon
09-01-2008, 07:52 AM
^^^Was she a prostitute?
jaizaine
09-01-2008, 07:53 AM
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Aside from being grossed out, what they did breaches the licence of the premises. As we are considered strip clubs it becomes illegal for certain activities to take place inside the venue. That's what is so fucked up aout these idiots. My club wont allow customers to kiss eachother (if they get caught) because the dancers are not allowed to kiss customers and therefore that activity cannot take place inside the venue. Couples get all offended about it.
kitty69
09-01-2008, 08:09 AM
She wasn't a prostitute, just very drunk and silly.
Jaizaine I agree thats how it should be. We have a hard enough time telling guys that under no circumstances do we do extras and then you get girls giving it away for free.
I did have a couple that I was dancing for and the guy kept trying to put his hand in her pants to finger her while I was dancing. This is not a brothel or a swingers club save it for home. >:(
jaizaine
09-01-2008, 08:11 AM
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same thing happened to me. I turned my back on them to wiggle my ass and when i turned back he was fingering her. then they told me they were both married to other people and he was her client from work (she worked in recruiting or something) and they were out cheating on their partners. Pretty appauling behaviour.
kitty69
09-01-2008, 08:18 AM
^^^ Nice.
Yeah these two had only just met in town and then come into the club together.
Like it has been said before "And we are supposed to be the whores" ::).
krystalpink
09-01-2008, 08:23 AM
I used to work at one of the King st. clubs (hung up my g-string last year heh) and I agree with you Jaizaine!! the women that go to strip clubs here are f***king bitches!! not all but most have no respect and act like it's a competition... sad..
HoolaTwist
09-01-2008, 09:10 AM
When I wasn't dancing I use to go to strip clubs as a costumer and the girls loved me. But I guess I wasn't a bitch.
Andygirl
09-01-2008, 09:18 AM
Sat. night I was sitting on the steps to the stage putting my outfit back on and this female custie walked by me and stroked my face. Seriously, wtf is that? And then a few minutes later the same girl walked by me and touched me again. THIS IS NOT A PETTING ZOO---DO NOT TOUCH ME!
jaizaine
09-01-2008, 09:23 AM
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that reminds me. I was on our smaller podium on friday night and this female custie was sitting at my podium. Her group got up to leave so she stands up and I see her starring at me but I keep dancing and the next thing I know she grabs my butt cheek then walks off. Like wtf?? umm are we not people? Seriously how do they think that is ok. I didnt even have a chance to call security coz she walked out the door and I was stuck up on the podium. I was shocked.
kitana
09-01-2008, 10:18 AM
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that reminds me. I was on our smaller podium on friday night and this female custie was sitting at my podium. Her group got up to leave so she stands up and I see her starring at me but I keep dancing and the next thing I know she grabs my butt cheek then walks off. Like wtf?? umm are we not people? Seriously how do they think that is ok. I didnt even have a chance to call security coz she walked out the door and I was stuck up on the podium. I was shocked.
I had a bitch just walk up to me one night while I was at the bar cashing in $1's and just grab my boobs. Then she had the balls to get mad at me when I told her that was wrong and to not do it again.
I got her back though, she ended up being at the casino after work that night and 1 slot machine away from me, so when I cashed out my winnings, I walked straight up to her and honked her tits and said "doesn't feel too fucking nice to be treated like a fucking piece of meat huh?", then walked away leaving her and her boyfriend in shock.
She came back into the bar the next weekend and apologize to me for being a drunken sklunt.
Wild_Flower
09-01-2008, 08:23 PM
i had a female custie back me against a wall and started dancing and rubbing herself all over me. I was so shocked that she could even think that that was ok to do. If she had been a guy she would have been kicked out.
mild2wild
09-02-2008, 01:55 AM
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same thing happened to me. I turned my back on them to wiggle my ass and when i turned back he was fingering her. then they told me they were both married to other people and he was her client from work (she worked in recruiting or something) and they were out cheating on their partners. Pretty appauling behaviour.
Sounds like she is a hooker with a creative story (or she is following on with his fantasy request) ??
mild2wild
09-02-2008, 01:58 AM
there was a bitch fight at my club over the weekend it was funny, but god I would of got scared if it got out of control, she was a big girl...
Darcy Foxx
09-02-2008, 03:11 AM
i slapped a chick across the face once when i was doing club work, many years ago. i was in the WORST mood ever and was bending over a table talking to some young guys, and there was a mixed group of older people at the table behind me. suddenly out of nowhere, this dumb fat drunk slut sitting behind me reaches up and full on grabs me right between the fucking legs. i turned around and screamed at her, "don't fucking touch me!" and she's just sitting there laughing and goes "whatever!" and grabbed my boob and squeezed it. i absolutely lost it and slapped her and she tried to hit me back and the bouncer had to run over and separate us.
i am sooo not the fighting type but that chick just pushed me the wrong fucking way.
Wild_Flower
09-02-2008, 03:25 AM
Serves her right for acting like that in the first place. They just think they can get away with things like that because they are girls as well. And to grab you after you said not to is even worse
Andygirl
09-02-2008, 04:15 AM
i slapped a chick across the face once when i was doing club work, many years ago. i was in the WORST mood ever and was bending over a table talking to some young guys, and there was a mixed group of older people at the table behind me. suddenly out of nowhere, this dumb fat drunk slut sitting behind me reaches up and full on grabs me right between the fucking legs. i turned around and screamed at her, "don't fucking touch me!" and she's just sitting there laughing and goes "whatever!" and grabbed my boob and squeezed it. i absolutely lost it and slapped her and she tried to hit me back and the bouncer had to run over and separate us.
i am sooo not the fighting type but that chick just pushed me the wrong fucking way.
Something like that would definitely make me break my personal no fighting rule. I don't think I'd be able to help myself if some bitch grabbed me like that. She's lucky you didn't knock her ass out.
blueberry_fox
09-02-2008, 04:39 AM
"I think it would be a huge step backwards if our governments allowed establishments to ban entire groups of people based on race, gender, ect."
Actually there is no reason why they can't, it is private property and the owner can decide who they want in and who they do not. Sure it may not be ideal and heck if could get you a bad name, but if this were not the case then they would not be able to kick out people who are not behaving with out the risk of legal action.
Lysondra
09-02-2008, 05:00 AM
"I think it would be a huge step backwards if our governments allowed establishments to ban entire groups of people based on race, gender, ect."
Actually there is no reason why they can't, it is private property and the owner can decide who they want in and who they do not. Sure it may not be ideal and heck if could get you a bad name, but if this were not the case then they would not be able to kick out people who are not behaving with out the risk of legal action.
Um.... no it's not.
jaizaine
09-02-2008, 06:07 AM
there was a bitch fight at my club over the weekend it was funny, but god I would of got scared if it got out of control, she was a big girl...
more details? was it between custie and dancer?
jaizaine
09-02-2008, 06:07 AM
i slapped a chick across the face once when i was doing club work, many years ago. i was in the WORST mood ever and was bending over a table talking to some young guys, and there was a mixed group of older people at the table behind me. suddenly out of nowhere, this dumb fat drunk slut sitting behind me reaches up and full on grabs me right between the fucking legs. i turned around and screamed at her, "don't fucking touch me!" and she's just sitting there laughing and goes "whatever!" and grabbed my boob and squeezed it. i absolutely lost it and slapped her and she tried to hit me back and the bouncer had to run over and separate us.
i am sooo not the fighting type but that chick just pushed me the wrong fucking way.
what a nasty bitch. at least u made her look stupid in front of her friends.
kitana
09-02-2008, 07:59 AM
Um.... no it's not.
My club IS private property.
cutey5032
09-02-2008, 01:09 PM
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same thing happened to me. I turned my back on them to wiggle my ass and when i turned back he was fingering her. then they told me they were both married to other people and he was her client from work (she worked in recruiting or something) and they were out cheating on their partners. Pretty appauling behaviour.
This must be an international trend or something. I can't tell you how many times at my last club (which caters to businessmen/corporate types) there'd be a couple in one of these groups fooling around. I figured they were married....but then they'd always blurt out they were married to other people.
Like it has been said before "And we are supposed to be the whores" ::).
I think I am gonna use that line next time a female custy is giving a lapdance, making out with a male customer, etc. *tap on the shoulder* "Hey....aren't WE supposed to be the whores here? Teehee!"
reese_x_c
09-02-2008, 02:56 PM
There was a mixed group that came in one night and a girl and a guy in the group happened to be exes. They apparently had been broken up for a long time, but she was still after him. They were all sitting at the tip rail and you know how some clubs have the bar in the ceiling above the tip rail that you can grab on to and stand on the the side of the stage/tip rail, wel I grabbed on to that and was dancing in front of him and she comes over and pushes me and then storms off. I told the group "Tell your friend DO NOT put her hands on me again..I'm dead serious" They all apologized and told me to keep dancing, so I did. Here she comes again so I looked at her stopped dancing and said "Touch me again if you want to and I'm going to beat your fucking ass" She was like whatever and tried to push me away again, so I went told my manager, flew upstairs (it was the end of the night anyway) and changed into my clothes and went downstairs and sat with my I'm gonna fuck someone up look on my face. She saw me and started crying and came over and apologized, then got put out.
hazel_eyes
09-10-2008, 02:06 PM
At my club, women are allowed in, but they are not allowed to talk to the male customers they didn't come in with. They are also not allowed to dance in the club. If they ignore the bouncers warningm they are thrown out just like a male customer.
haha. one time, our bouncers had to carry some drunk chicks out because they were trying to get on stage and dance, and they took tip money off the tip rail. It was the funniest thing I've ever seen in my life.
Damn, you guys have some horror stories about female custies. :O Once again, I pray that I don't ever have to deal with some of the shit you gals have dealt with.
AznExtasy
09-10-2008, 06:11 PM
I've been around some female custies that really didn't know how to act. Those who start pissing off the dancers need to get dragged and thrown out.
raptura
09-10-2008, 06:19 PM
Hey now, I spend more money than the guys when I go to the club. Usually put the money out in front of the boys unless I really like the girl, but..
And I'm just a girl, not a dancer..yet...
My two cents.
And it's turned into a Rant.
You know, I see more than ever the girls who avoid me, regardless of my giving a $10 stage tip. And the more I hear this bullshit about "Fuck female customers, kick them out" and all this other bullshit from some of the girls here, I wonder why the fuck I ever gave some of you people money (You being general). I go to the strip club with my husband. My husband and I take a sizeable chunk of our budget to strip clubs when we go, so we can have a good time, tip appropriately, and get dances. It's not as much as some people can take, but it's HUGE to us and to know that the cash my husband makes putting his life on the line is snubbed just because it came out of my hand really makes me wonder where some of the more...vocal people on the issue of women in clubs work so I can be sure to never EVER go there and make the mistake of throwing a couple hundred dollars down on some women who is going to prejudge the size of my wallet based on the fact that I have a vagina and tits. How're you going to know I'm a dancer and I'll treat you with respect if you don't get off your goddamned high horse and treat me like any other customer? Sorry that my puss puts you off so much that my cash doesn't spend the same in your mind.
Jesus, some of you are unbelievable.
Lysondra
09-11-2008, 12:16 AM
I agree Crys. My friend and I actually had a dancer REFUSE our money because we were girls.. and then she got really fucking bitchy when the next girl who came up to us and rolled around in our money got rained on with hundreds of dollars. UGH.
jaizaine
09-11-2008, 04:51 AM
My two cents.
And it's turned into a Rant.
You know, I see more than ever the girls who avoid me, regardless of my giving a $10 stage tip. And the more I hear this bullshit about "Fuck female customers, kick them out" and all this other bullshit from some of the girls here, I wonder why the fuck I ever gave some of you people money (You being general). I go to the strip club with my husband. My husband and I take a sizeable chunk of our budget to strip clubs when we go, so we can have a good time, tip appropriately, and get dances. It's not as much as some people can take, but it's HUGE to us and to know that the cash my husband makes putting his life on the line is snubbed just because it came out of my hand really makes me wonder where some of the more...vocal people on the issue of women in clubs work so I can be sure to never EVER go there and make the mistake of throwing a couple hundred dollars down on some women who is going to prejudge the size of my wallet based on the fact that I have a vagina and tits. How're you going to know I'm a dancer and I'll treat you with respect if you don't get off your goddamned high horse and treat me like any other customer? Sorry that my puss puts you off so much that my cash doesn't spend the same in your mind.
Jesus, some of you are unbelievable.
This is a rant on a dancer support site. THIS IS NOT CUSTIEWEB. So if it offended you as a customer that's just too bad.
It's not your pussy that puts me off, it's all the other fucking behaviours that many of us has described in this thread that comes from the female custies.
You dont have a right to our attention just coz you walked into the club. If female customers treat me with respect and act cool, I will be nice to them, I'll dance for them and I'll take their money.
But when all is said and done I'd rather just deal with men. It's a gentleman's club and Im there to dance for men. They ARE better customers in general.
It's a case of the majority spoiling it for the few.
As for being judged. Dancers who know how to work the floor and earn good money will approach customers who they know or suspect will spend money first and ignore customer types who usually are time wasters or unpleasant. It's called getting the maximum $$$$ for the time you spend at work.
My two cents.
And it's turned into a Rant.
You know, I see more than ever the girls who avoid me, regardless of my giving a $10 stage tip. And the more I hear this bullshit about "Fuck female customers, kick them out" and all this other bullshit from some of the girls here, I wonder why the fuck I ever gave some of you people money (You being general). I go to the strip club with my husband. My husband and I take a sizeable chunk of our budget to strip clubs when we go, so we can have a good time, tip appropriately, and get dances. It's not as much as some people can take, but it's HUGE to us and to know that the cash my husband makes putting his life on the line is snubbed just because it came out of my hand really makes me wonder where some of the more...vocal people on the issue of women in clubs work so I can be sure to never EVER go there and make the mistake of throwing a couple hundred dollars down on some women who is going to prejudge the size of my wallet based on the fact that I have a vagina and tits. How're you going to know I'm a dancer and I'll treat you with respect if you don't get off your goddamned high horse and treat me like any other customer? Sorry that my puss puts you off so much that my cash doesn't spend the same in your mind.
Jesus, some of you are unbelievable.
Don't take it personal lots of dancers prejudge thier way out of money and end up only making money of this type or other type of customer for many reasons including bad experiences unfornately it happens alot and it's more common with some dancer to have bad experiences with female custies soo they take it out on them in general.
I don't think that should stop you from enjoying yourself becuz you shouldn't generalize dancers based on those that might ingore you or feel strongely that you shouldn't be there as there are many dancers who actaully like entertaining couples and female customers --which I have heard from girls I work with and it's not just myself. I know I still go almost weekly /monthly to other clubs and either I'm spending my money or some1's and I'm out there having a blast w/ the girls that see me and do thier thing becuz thats why I came in the doors and dancers can hate all the want(which actaully rarely happens w/me), but if they like that I'm there or not no1 is taking away my vipcards or stopping me from having a goodtime.
I've been a dancer long enough to know that the house doesn't want to turn away any of it's money and the club is there for the customers becuz they are the 1's bringing it in so as long as females are paying cover and drinking and not turning off men with thier presence which doesn't happen female customers will be walking thur those doors.
Not for nothing, but interms of money just give me a lapdance with a female customer and I know I sold the whole room in line after if I'm not to busy with her. I do make money from female custies and I find female tippers great for stage becuz the guys around them ussauly tip triple to encourage them. I've had husbands watch me give dances to thier g/fs and just empty thier wallets on me. The richiest customer who has ever walked in the door came in with his wife and became my reg even though his wife got stupid jealous, but ya know I didn't get her deal she's bi and hott I didn't want her husband in anyway--I just like his money and can't help that he's attracted to me even though I didn't cross anylines and tried to focus on her. Whatever point is she got pissy and almost rude katty becuz she was jealous and dragged him out. Still am I glad she was allowed in the door--ofcourse I made bank and he still comes back every blue moon when he can exscape the wiffie and that's money in my pocket when he does. Ofcourse he tries to get me to meet him-them outside the club fly off on his jet so he can buy me a princess lol and he has enough money where if I was that type of girl I would jump at that chance, but whatever I'm just a stripper inlove with his money which I wouldn't have made to have made my nites if his wife was not allowed in the 1st place.
Anyhow so what i'm saying it's all about how you work it. I make my money off alot of different customers, but unless the customer was disrespectful or cheap with me even if I was busy I do my best to make more so money talks and bs I just found I didn't have time for. That is how I max out my money and when I do my math female customers have help me directly and indirectly make good money and the 1's that were unpleasant and rude didn't cost me anyting soo I'll have to say the money is in thier favor and I won't be treating them any differently then any1 else who's a customer and who's money is green.