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kaiarose
09-11-2008, 08:54 AM
My two cents.
And it's turned into a Rant.
You know, I see more than ever the girls who avoid me, regardless of my giving a $10 stage tip. And the more I hear this bullshit about "Fuck female customers, kick them out" and all this other bullshit from some of the girls here, I wonder why the fuck I ever gave some of you people money (You being general). I go to the strip club with my husband. My husband and I take a sizeable chunk of our budget to strip clubs when we go, so we can have a good time, tip appropriately, and get dances. It's not as much as some people can take, but it's HUGE to us and to know that the cash my husband makes putting his life on the line is snubbed just because it came out of my hand really makes me wonder where some of the more...vocal people on the issue of women in clubs work so I can be sure to never EVER go there and make the mistake of throwing a couple hundred dollars down on some women who is going to prejudge the size of my wallet based on the fact that I have a vagina and tits. How're you going to know I'm a dancer and I'll treat you with respect if you don't get off your goddamned high horse and treat me like any other customer? Sorry that my puss puts you off so much that my cash doesn't spend the same in your mind.

Jesus, some of you are unbelievable.



Um, if you had read the whole thread then you would see that we were ranting about the bitchy, slutty girls that come into the club. If you come into the club and respect us by not calling us names, dancing for OUR customers, etc...then we don't have a problem. So don't come onto this thread and insult us. We didn't mean YOU. Thanks.

Dottie Rebel
09-11-2008, 04:55 PM
it's HUGE to us and to know that the cash my husband makes putting his life on the line is snubbed just because it came out of my hand really makes me wonder where some of the more...vocal people on the issue of women in clubs work so I can be sure to never EVER go there and make the mistake of throwing a couple hundred dollars down on some women who is going to prejudge the size of my wallet based on the fact that I have a vagina and tits.

Oh, god. How dramatic.

Well, one of the dancers with issues with SLUTTY, ATENTION-SEEKING, BAD-TIPPING women in clubs is here in Indianapolis. So, if that describes you, stay away. PLEASE! If it doesn't, why are your panties in a wad?

Oh, by the way, you're not supposed to post in here so I reported you.

PinotEvil
09-11-2008, 05:21 PM
I went with my girl friend to the Hustler Club in NYC last weekend with our man friend and it was the first time I've ever been to a SC as a customer since becoming a dancer. I've only been stripping for three or four months myself, so I took extra care to be my idea of the perfect customer. I did notice that a lot of girls bypassed us at first, but when they realized we were spending, everything got better. I think everyone had a blast and I even learned how to climb a pole :-) So I do believe I'm going to go into work now with a different attitude about female customers. Just like all customers, if they think they deserve special or free treatment, I'll have my words with them... but from now on, I'm not going to avoid them like the plague.

On another note: It's pretty awesome to go as a customer and realize why some customers do what they do.... i.e. I always get mad at guys for reaching out to grab me, but when I was in their shoes I felt like doing the same thing. I just have self control. But hey! When a hot butt is in your face, it's your immediate reaction... so perhaps I'll cut these custies a little slack. But only a little.

jaizaine
09-11-2008, 09:01 PM
Oh, god. How dramatic.

Well, one of the dancers with issues with SLUTTY, ATENTION-SEEKING, BAD-TIPPING women in clubs is here in Indianapolis. So, if that describes you, stay away. PLEASE! If it doesn't, why are your panties in a wad?

Oh, by the way, you're not supposed to post in here so I reported you.

yey!!

Djoser
09-11-2008, 09:47 PM
How're you going to know I'm a dancer and I'll treat you with respect if you don't get off your goddamned high horse and treat me like any other customer?

I think she's allowed to post here, since she is a dancer.

mild2wild
09-11-2008, 11:32 PM
more details? was it between custie and dancer?

Jai - it was a custie and custie; they were friends and drinking all night together....;D

Dottie Rebel
09-11-2008, 11:57 PM
I think she's allowed to post here, since she is a dancer.

Ok, even better. Then she should understand the shit that strippers go through and the need for a place to bitch in peace.

However, her profile says she is "curious about being a dancer", but I'd say "clueless" applies as well.

Hey, Crys, c'mon. You gotta admit you had it coming, barging in on a stripper's rant thread with your venomously stated customer opinion. That's like, "Hmmm...I wonder whatz gonna happ'n?"

hot4ablackchick
09-12-2008, 12:02 AM
In just a matter of weeks we had 3 different sets of female custies come in and display dispicable behavior. The first one was giving male custies that they did NOT come in with lap dances. We actually saw the guys hand them $20 and stick their hands up their skirts. MGMT saw and pulled them aside and they left.

The 2nd group was sitting with custies and was caught trying to leave with custies. They were told by mgmt to never come in again and they were all like, "Ah well fuck you, I will just come in when the other boss is working." Women should not be allowed to fraternize with the other custies.

The third group was dancing around the club drunkenly. Doing all their cool moves and grinding all over each other. All the guys at the stage were facing the other way watching the attention whores instead of the dancers. I am sick of this bullshit.

I've also danced for TWO women in three weeks (and our club gets a lot of women) Both of which were couples, and one of the women touched my vagina.

This also reminds me of the wedding party we got in on Sat, where the bride asked a dancer if she wanted to die because the dancer asked her hubby for a dance.

Of course we have the usual cheap ass bitches who spend NOTHING and worst, hog the tiprail and of course why would they tip right.

This thread really made me examine female custies and wonder if I was too harsh with them. The answer is hell no, I have been too easy on them. They are cheap and stupid. If you are a female custy in my club then fuck you, fuck you all to hell. The "good" female custies are practically extinct in my area.

Crys
09-12-2008, 01:06 AM
Oh, god. How dramatic.

Well, one of the dancers with issues with SLUTTY, ATENTION-SEEKING, BAD-TIPPING women in clubs is here in Indianapolis. So, if that describes you, stay away. PLEASE! If it doesn't, why are your panties in a wad?

Oh, by the way, you're not supposed to post in here so I reported you.


I'm not? I am a dancer, I've been dancing for the last 8 months. I've contributed information on my club here in Denver.

Sorry that you reported me for nothing.

Crys
09-12-2008, 01:15 AM
Ok, even better. Then she should understand the shit that strippers go through and the need for a place to bitch in peace.

However, her profile says she is "curious about being a dancer", but I'd say "clueless" applies as well.

Hey, Crys, c'mon. You gotta admit you had it coming, barging in on a stripper's rant thread with your venomously stated customer opinion. That's like, "Hmmm...I wonder whatz gonna happ'n?"


Yeah, the last time I played with my profile, I WAS curious about dancing. That was, what, several months ago?

My point was that I spend money just like everyone else when I'm a custie in a club. I don't feel "Entitled" to anyone's attention. My husband and I spend cumulatively thousands of dollars in clubs around the country when we travel. I know what we go through with customers, and men customers are just as bad as women customers. So why is it ok for men to try and stick a finger in your ass? Men and women both try to step over the line, and as someone who DOES spend a lot of money in clubs, I think it's ridiculous that some of you would judge me immediately because I don't have a penis. I don't think I have ever tried to take advantage of a dancer.

And hey, Dottie? Try having a husband who deals with people attacking him, running from him, and generally trying to be tough shit on a daily basis. My husband puts his life on the line, and someone like you wouldn't understand it unless you've ever been the wife of a police officer. It's dramatic, yeah, but he puts up with a lot of bullshit for that cash, and when someone like you sneers at the money he makes, well...

[I edited this post because I would prefer to be able to continue posting here]

hot4ablackchick
09-12-2008, 01:46 AM
Yeah, the last time I played with my profile, I WAS curious about dancing. That was, what, several months ago?

My point was that I spend money just like everyone else when I'm a custie in a club. I don't feel "Entitled" to anyone's attention. My husband and I spend cumulatively thousands of dollars in clubs around the country when we travel. I know what we go through with customers, and men customers are just as bad as women customers. So why is it ok for men to try and stick a finger in your ass? Men and women both try to step over the line, and as someone who DOES spend a lot of money in clubs, I think it's ridiculous that some of you would judge me immediately because I don't have a penis. I don't think I have ever tried to take advantage of a dancer.

And hey, Dottie? Try having a husband who deals with people attacking him, running from him, and generally trying to be tough shit on a daily basis. My husband puts his life on the line, and someone like you wouldn't understand it unless you've ever been the wife of a police officer. It's dramatic, yeah, but he puts up with a lot of bullshit for that cash, and when someone like you sneers at the money he makes, well... then you never deserved that dollar in the first place.

::) I know this wasn't directed at me but......can't help myself. I LOVE going to SC's with my hubby too. Anytime we travel/go out we go to see dancers. We spend money and tip VERY well. Even though I am a "good" female custy and we spend $$, I know that I am NOT the majority. I am one of very very very few. I am also a dancer, so that changes me from most of the "regular" female custies. Using yourself as a basis for why female custies are cool just ain't gonna fly. I know that I am gonna be judged when I enter and that most girls probably won't approach me. I will approach the dancers if I want a dance. Once they see the tips flowing and that hubby is getting multiple LD's they come around. Most women DO NOT SPEND MONEY. It is smart of dancers not to waste time on women, including myself, because this is sales. I and most dancers go first to who we believe will give us the most profit for our time. I go to whoever I beleive is the most interested. Women are rarely interested. Some girls also do not like dancing for women. I will dance for women, but I do not like it (even if she is nice), therfore they avoid women. No reason to get all offended because you have a vagina. This is sales for chrissakes and most women are cheap and rude so are therefore avoided. Even when women do get a dance they are hardly good for multiples which is what a lot of dancers are looking for. Stop whining.

The sappy crap of the "Blah my hubby almost dies for his money and stripper won't even take it," is LAME.

Don't tell me I don't understand because my dad is a cop, so I have a great respect and admiration for cops. My father also CHOSE that job and UNDERSTOOD the possible consequences of having said job. He CHOSE to put his damn life on the line so give it a rest.

PinotEvil
09-12-2008, 02:08 AM
And hey, Dottie? Try having a husband who deals with people attacking him, running from him, and generally trying to be tough shit on a daily basis. My husband puts his life on the line, and someone like you wouldn't understand it unless you've ever been the wife of a police officer. It's dramatic, yeah, but he puts up with a lot of bullshit for that cash, and when someone like you sneers at the money he makes, well...

[I edited this post because I would prefer to be able to continue posting here]

YOU try dealing with people attacking YOU.
YOU try dealing with people running towards YOU.
YOU try to be tough shit on a regular basis....

I don't want to belittle your husband's position as a police officer, but we ALL do something important to society with our jobs. He protects and serves, doctors heal, strippers make HAPPY happen. I can't believe you, being a stripper for 8 months, SRSLY, would come up in here with this drivel. You should know what this whole thread is about. It's not a personal attack against you, but against female customers in general. Have you NOT felt the same way????

Dottie Rebel
09-12-2008, 02:22 AM
My father also CHOSE that job and UNDERSTOOD the possible consequences of having said job. He CHOSE to put his damn life on the line so give it a rest.

I agree with everything you said, as usual. ;) Especially this last part. It's a fucking choice. Don't act like a goddamned martyr.

hot4ablackchick
09-12-2008, 02:54 AM
I agree with everything you said, as usual. ;) Especially this last part. It's a fucking choice. Don't act like a goddamned martyr.

:D I know being a cop is dangerous, but it is a damn choice, with many people choosing to do it in my area, since they have no problems ever hiring any.

Crys
09-12-2008, 02:55 AM
Pinot, actually, no I don't get upset with female customers. I'd prefer to see them come in. It's a potential for more money circulating in the club. And frankly, Pinot, if strip clubs completely disappeared, I highly, HIGHLY doubt that society would be crippled. My being a stripper doesn't make what I do important. You being a stripper doesn't make you important. Because as a whole, our profession is expendable. The biggest issue I had with this thread were the folks who said, yeah so what if there's a few good chicks who come in, and banning them all is what should be done. A lot of us suggest to newbies that they go to the club they want to work at and scope it out as a customer. A lot of us were customers before dancers. I would be a customer long after I am a dancer. So I take offense. Because someday, somewhere, I could be on vacation, and one of you could sit there and sneer at me because I'm a woman in a gentlemen's club. Sure, this is personal to me because I continue to be a customer when I travel, and I don't think this whole....mindset is fair when I'm a good customer. And I know a lot of other women are better customers than I am. I just don't think some of you are being fair.

Dottie, if there is ever a time that you complain about ANYTHING on here, just remember...don't be a martyr, ok? Next time you think about complaining in general, shut up, because god forbid you be a martyr. And if your significant other ever dies, just suck it up, ok? Don't be a martyr. Or if you get shitty service in a restaurant, don't complain about it. You don't want to be a martyr.

And I know my posts have come off wrong in this thread, but I've been responding while I've been pissed off, so I'm sorry. But I also don't appreciate this bullshit attitude toward me when I voice that I'm offended that some of you don't give any thought of how hard some people work for their money, and I especially don't appreciate this whole, "My daddy was a cop, I know what it's like." Sorry, but you will never know what cop's wives go through when you're afraid the man of your dreams won't come home. I appreciate what level of understand you do have because of being part of a cop's family, but until you loved a cop as a man and woman, not as a child to parent, you will won't understand.

Anyway whatever. It's not really worth arguing over, I guess.

hot4ablackchick
09-12-2008, 03:28 AM
Crys, this thread isn't about who works hard for the money and who puts their life on the line. I may not understand because I am not a cop's wife, but he still chose the damn job. I understand your worry, hell I worry about my hubby making it home safe and his job is not dangerous, so I know I would worry if he was a cop. He still chose the job and understood the dangers of the job. You are just making it sound like his money is somehow on a higher pedestal than say a mailman, because he chose a job with more possible dangers.

Anyway, this thread is about cheap, dumb ass female custies, which 99% of female customers are. I can only speak from my personal experience. If you feel great about female custies in your club, and you don't get the same jackass women I, and a lot of the other posters get at their club get, then fine. Good for you. At my club they should not be allowed in without a gentleman. It is unfair that I have to "compete" with the dumb ass attention whores ITC. I think women should have to pay a higher entrance fee to discourage them from coming in. Due to most club owners being greedy and uncaring I don't think you have much to worry about anyway. I can count 1 female custy in 6 years who spends decent money, and wasn't an asshole or touchy. She is a girl's regular.

hot4ablackchick
09-12-2008, 03:43 AM
My significant other dying or getting shitty service at a restaurant are not choices I have made.

And lol at loving a cop as a man and woman. Girl, you're off the chain. :D

I'm sorry, but I don't work at a donut shop. I don't care if you're a cop or a robber. You get the same service as long as you're paying and not being a tool.

;D Dottie, I love you. How is shitty service, SO's dying relevant to the thread!?

I would also like to add that in my hometown, which is semi big, 2 cops have been killed in the line of duty since 1981. 2 late night convience store clerks have been murdered in the last 8 months. Therefore it is technically more dangerous in my area to ring up people's fuel all day than to be a cop! What isn't funny is that my hubby is GM of a major truckstop/convience store......:'( The girls better be treat him right next time we hit the SC, because he is "putting his life on the line" ringing up truck drivers for deisel and overpriced twinkies ::)

Gawd when did I become such an asshole :P

pogocat
09-13-2008, 11:05 AM
I started a thread about this not long ago on here. I basically just ignore them or if they start dancing i make sure to go up to thier man while their humping each other so that they get put in thier place. Sometimes if i see one with her arms crossed i make sure to ask her whats wrong and if she says nothing like usual i ask her man if he wants a dance and basically just wait to wave as they walk out the door.

AznExtasy
09-13-2008, 01:51 PM
I don't care what people do for a living to get their money to pay me while I'm at work. Really, I couldn't care less. When I go home, all I care about are my numbers... not how some heroic cop put his life on the line to earn the money to come in and see me. Female custies that have spent on me give me the kind of money to pay my tipout. So they are not my #1 target audience in the first place. Customers who spend less than 500 aren't really worth remembering, and I usually don't.

hazel_eyes
09-13-2008, 07:02 PM
Crys,

I'm sorry you're getting your head chewed off for putting your two cents in, but it was kind of offputting the way you wrote it. Your rant should've been posted under "Customer Conversation."

However,
I love when custies of any gender/race come in and are spending money, whether on me or not, as long as they are respectful of club rules and personal boundries. You will see other threads generalizing the crappiness of certain stereotypes. We just want to rant about them sometimes, whether it's right to generalize or not.

I, like the rest of the gals on here, absolutely HATE people who come in for a free show minus the price of a cover charge, and the people who come in just looking for attention from potential custies.

If you ever come to Nashville, look me up at Anthony's Showplace, and I will be sure to make your evening pleasant!! Especially if you tip! ;)

pinkpvc
09-13-2008, 09:38 PM
I made all of my (measly) money off of 1 female lesbian customer tonight. She had a great time, and made my otherwise shitty night a lot more pleasant.

Saying that I have also had a woman threaten me for talking to her hubbie, and been sneered at throughout my whole set.

Wish there was some sort of gay test women could take at the door :P

Bunny
09-14-2008, 12:32 AM
Damn, it sucks that so many female customers are so awful. I wouldn't want them banned though because I'm a female and like SCs but I wouldn't dream of acting like that.

Malena
09-14-2008, 10:04 AM
I'm sorry jaizaine, that sounds miserable. I'd be pisssssed. I guess my club is too small to attract the slut hordes (for now -- eek!)

Part of the problem is I don't think a lot of people know strip club etiquette in general -- especially women, since this is supposed to be a "man's world" to which they are just gaining access. I wish there was a way to broadcast the finer points of how to be a good customer...to guide those that already mean well (but are clueless) and shame those that act stank (by calling them on their stankness). For example, when I was a custie but not a dancer it didn't occur to me that it's a good idea to dress demurely and have body language that makes sure I don't get any attention...or redirect it to the stage (not that I ever dressed hoochie or flirted, but I'm just more aware of the proper role now). I know, sounds obvious now but I swear as a well-meaning customer who loved to watch dancers it never occurred to me. (yeah, i know).

However, the kind of shitty stuff described in this thread (bitchy comments, dancing near stage, mean looks, blatant flirting with men, non-tipping) are quite obviously outside the bounds of etiquette. I wonder if these girls would be so bald-faced about it if someone called them on it. I think almost everyone has some small quantity of shame/"my bad" when some authority tells them they've done wrong.

Malena
09-14-2008, 10:08 AM
That's really wrong of your club. If they were allowed at mine I would go out of my way to make them feel uncomfortable by talking shit about them or bending over and checking my asshole in the mirror. HAHA Im a bitch but I hate them.


OMG...I cried laughing...

retiredangel
09-14-2008, 11:12 AM
I understand how the OP feels...I was in LA a few weeks ago at a "known club"...lots of cute young girls,some trying/working VERY hard and trying to make a bit of cash but the butthead-men at the rail were hanging onto those freakin' dollar bills like they were tickets to heaven or something.
Seriously,the men weren't tipping...at all!

My female friend and I were the ONLY ones showering the girls,sometimes with 5's and 10's.

There was also a "party" going on,mixed with girls and guys but the girls were all grinding on the guys and when certain songs came on,they'd get right in front of the tip rail and block the guys from even getting close to a dancer.

I am embarassed to say that I was rude to them,I squeezed in and made some VERY verbal comments about the guys being cheap f.... and the girls being skanks,LOL! They ignored me mostly but a couple of the guys DID hear me and threw out a few ones.
I was secretly hoping the girls would hear me,LOL! Not to make a scene but just so I could make a point that THEY were dirt on the floor to me.

It is funny now but I was pissed at the time,we went to watch a couple of the girls who were reckless but cool on the poles...

jaizaine
09-14-2008, 10:26 PM
Been dancing 8 months well I dunno maybe u need to learn a thing or two Crys. Seriously if u think that women in the club = more money, u must not know much about making $$$$

jaizaine
09-16-2008, 01:38 AM
I make enough money to keep me comfortable. You can view women however you want, I just think you aren't fair to them. But whatever. Screw off.

I dont give a shit about fair. I'm there to make money.

kaiarose
09-16-2008, 09:25 AM
I make enough money to keep me comfortable. You can view women however you want, I just think you aren't fair to them. But whatever. Screw off.



It's a GENTLEMEN'S club, we're not supposed to be "fair" to the women. Beside this thread, for the 100th time, is about the women who are disrespectful to US. If that is of no relation to you then why do you care?? If it's because we said we wanted all women banned, chill out. The only reason anyone said that was because the only way to keep out the bad would be to ban the good ones too. But don't worry Crys, it will NEVER happen. and you'll still be able to spend yours and your husbands money til you're broke, k??

AlexisXTC461
09-16-2008, 11:17 PM
I HIGHLY dislike these women also...they are very obnoxious

juliet85
01-15-2009, 03:28 PM
Hmmm...female customers in the clubs.. well for one thing i think they come in to "prove" to their bf's that they're not jealous and maybe they're trying to get a perspective on what men do/get out of it in our work environment.. some are actually interested in dancing...in my club they are only allowed in with a male.. because the club assumes theyre prostitutes looking for customers to take outta there otherwise...I dont have a problem if theyre spending money and not eyeing their husbands suspiciously when i gotta work but...when they get drunk and start offering dances to people....then i get pissed off..seriously, leave it to the professionals! lol. i've given dances to three females and 2/3 we're more grabby than any male that night..go figure. so im done with that..

davka
01-15-2009, 04:41 PM
exactly as Juliet says. They are in there for all sorts of wrong reasons. Not all, but the majority. I have never ever had a woman buy repeat dances. All the girls I've danced for were butch lesbians and were polite and nice, but were not there with boyfriends or anything. But they didn't spend a lot.

Now the majority of girls do exactly as you say and I think are so rude and worthless I wouldn't be opposed to a serious restriction of women allowed in the club and I am very feminist, thank you.

Harlow
01-15-2009, 06:55 PM
Hmm...I'm a little scared to play the devil's advocate here and I feel badly for you dancers who are having your money undercut by roaming hordes of drunken, scantily clothed, private dancer wannabes. Yet as a dancer, I've experienced the snotty custy who would say loud enough for all to here "Oh,I'd never do THIS,it's too demeaning!" I was just thinking to myself "Never say never!" Sure I've been at work when couples came in and gals wanted to dance for their man,but no one really paid any attention to these chicks other than her date.

As a dancer,I've had nice female custys and not so nice and as a custy I've experienced nice dancers and not-so nice. And as a dancer, my friend Robin and I ALWAYS approached couples. We are the only ones who did. When/if I come out of retirement, I will look forward to being able to dance for men,women,and couples. My experiences as a customer varied too.At a club in Greensboro,NC(Christy's),I was welcomed with open arms by several dancers. At a club I used to dance in NYC,I came in with a female friend and a male friend just to check out the old job and I had barely gotten in the door and my former coworkers were saying "Oh! Harlow must be working the street now!?" So there are good and bad female customers just like there are friendly and less friendly dancers.

In Boston, the trend for bachelorette parties is to go to drag clubs like Jacques.(I do love Mr. Lady aka Ben McCoy who looks like Dita Von Teese with SOMETHING EXTRA!!!) So maybe this will become an international trend and you great dancers won't be bothered with afore mentioned traveling hordes of drunken slags. Luv & Smooches to dancers and custies!!!! Harlow PS I do love the quote(paraphrase) "We're supposed to be the whores here!" Good one!!!

brazenpeach
01-15-2009, 10:16 PM
I'd been reading this thread since it started. And now that I started dancing, I thought, "eh, well, I'll just see what these girls are talking about. Surely this won't happen at my club.

Bah! The other night I was ready to KILL all the female "customers". Oh my god! I made sure to talk to them, be sweet to them...but holy shit...if looks could kill! I mean, they turned into lemon sucking bitches when I'd so little as walk by! They weren't buying dances from anyone...then I had two couples where the guy was going on and on about how hot the woman thought I was, that she thought I was so sexy...blah, blah, blah...would I go home with them?? Hell no! Meanwhile, while the dude is telling me how bad his woman supposedly wants me, SHE is turning her back to me, making sure I get her "eat shit and die" looks loud and clear.
ugh. god. what. fuckin. gives. WE did not make them come to the club with their lame ass men. And now I have seen it for myself...all of what you are saying is true.
They sit there with jealousy, insecurity and disdain...they should be charged triple to get in and then required to buy at least two dances. Damn. They need to stay home in their moo-moo's.
Sorry. This just pisses off the newbie. >:( Would it be bad form for me to directly ask them this weekend WHY they are at the club?

likewow
01-16-2009, 12:04 AM
Would it be bad form for me to directly ask them this weekend WHY they are at the club?

I did this once to a woman who was being a heinous bitch to me while I was being sweet as pie and she burst into tears. :O I think that tells you a lot right there.

Pretty_Penny
01-16-2009, 12:32 AM
completely off topic, but is "crys" supposed to be sounded "chris"? because -my- name is actually chrys, spelled that way (with the y). without the h it looks like it should be pronounced cries. i'm not being a cunt, i was just honestly wondering.

DeluxxeIt
01-16-2009, 04:37 PM
My dilemma is this, when i go to the stripclub as a patron I do not spend super mega cash. I make sure to tip a few ladies. And buy some dances. I don't think its a place to go hang out. Or I would go to a regular club. That is annoying, women who come in to get with male custies! Also females who come in dancing while the DANCERS are clearly dancing. I think you should leaving full out dancing to the DANCERS, its pretty rude if you ask me.

dance77
01-19-2009, 12:33 PM
I think that the majority of the kinds of women that are recently frequenting the strip clubs with thier boyfriend or whatever, should just start going to swingers clubs, they would cater more to what they are looking for .
Maybe the clubs should start having a minimum dance rule for these couples, so they don't become such an overwhelming force in the clubs in their apparent attempt to change the whole purpose the clubs serve, which is to cater to the fantasies of MEN.

UV69
01-19-2009, 03:14 PM
No stripclubs work on the the strip for tip catering last I checked. The fanasty of men might be that we will have sex with them, but that's not why we are there. We are there to be paid for getting naked and dancing soo take that thoery of catering to the fanasty of men being why we all work out the door. I work for money and all I'm willing to do is dance and get naked...and I really don't care for who as long as money is involded becuz that's what pays my bills.

Swingers BTW those active in the lifestyle here atleast do spend bank at stripclubs. I would dare say they have more to spend then the adverage joe since most I've meet are highly sucessful. I really have nothing but nice thing to say about my customers in the lifestyle. They go to tip the dancers, get rooms, dances, and appericate female nudity just the same as other customers.

Yes swingers can always go to thier clubs(which they do and those have heavy memberships so you know they have the money), but those are generally only open from weds-sun certin hours and SC are always. Plus sometimes it's like you spent the day on the yatch you want to go to the Sc and warm up before the next orgy. lol Really they party hard and I can't keep up with how many nites partying with them that was my shedule. Ofcourse they took time out for the heat games, shopping ,or trips but trust me if you filled a SC full of swingers (which generally we book solid gold here from time to time without the dancers minding any)then you would realize what disgusting amount of money that is in thier buget for adult entertainment.

Swingers are far from low class customers in the adult entertainment industry. As for male fanasty how many men don't fanasty about 2 women?? swingers or lesbians hardly threaten male fanasty any.

dance77
01-20-2009, 10:52 AM
No stripclubs work on the the strip for tip catering last I checked. The fanasty of men might be that we will have sex with them, but that's not why we are there. We are there to be paid for getting naked and dancing soo take that thoery of catering to the fanasty of men being why we all work out the door. I work for money and all I'm willing to do is dance and get naked...and I really don't care for who as long as money is involded becuz that's what pays my bills.

Swingers BTW those active in the lifestyle here atleast do spend bank at stripclubs. I would dare say they have more to spend then the adverage joe since most I've meet are highly sucessful. I really have nothing but nice thing to say about my customers in the lifestyle. They go to tip the dancers, get rooms, dances, and appericate female nudity just the same as other customers.

Yes swingers can always go to thier clubs(which they do and those have heavy memberships so you know they have the money), but those are generally only open from weds-sun certin hours and SC are always. Plus sometimes it's like you spent the day on the yatch you want to go to the Sc and warm up before the next orgy. lol Really they party hard and I can't keep up with how many nites partying with them that was my shedule. Ofcourse they took time out for the heat games, shopping ,or trips but trust me if you filled a SC full of swingers (which generally we book solid gold here from time to time without the dancers minding any)then you would realize what disgusting amount of money that is in thier buget for adult entertainment.

Swingers are far from low class customers in the adult entertainment industry. As for male fanasty how many men don't fanasty about 2 women?? swingers or lesbians hardly threaten male fanasty any.


You obviously toke my statement far too seriously , nothing in your highly extreme reaction to my response to this thread in ANY way relates to my intention behind this statement, everyone has thier opinion and PERSONAL experience in this business, are you REALLY a dancer? if so and you are offended by other peoples opinion , maybe consider another job???

UV69
01-20-2009, 12:56 PM
What why would u ask if I was really a dancer??? Who r u to tell me to get another job??? I think you are the one with customer issues not I.

I just happen to go to other stripclubs as a customer from time to time , but I have been in the bizz long enough. Thanku. If I want to speak from both view points I can.

Since when do we question dancers who post here like we need proof of our experience. If you want proof PM me privately and I'll give you my hours to show you a thing or two.

Maybe it's homophonic dancers who think they set the rules and can tell me what to do I can't deal with, but cash paying customers I can deal with.

tempest666
01-21-2009, 08:51 AM
I personally don't enjoy the roving hoardes of drunk, scantily clad drunk girls going in the club to meet men. That particualr demographic is bound to piss everyone off. They take attention away from us. I think its just plain annoying and disrespectful. When I go into the club as a customer, even if its just a recon mission to scope the joint, I tip and I usually just hang back and watch.

Another type that I have encountered is an oddity. In Albuquerque there was this very nice blonde lady who seemed a bit odd. she tipped all the girls, but she would sit there by herself, until a man approached her. Then they would quietly leave together. She always left with a different guy.

I don't mind female custies as long as they are polite.

dance77
01-22-2009, 05:10 PM
I feel bad for whoever you are that posted a reply to my comment, can I recommend some mental health therapists to help you overcome your rage and fear?

davka
01-22-2009, 07:10 PM
dance, chill- she didn't respond with fear and rage. She responded with some good points about swingers and money, until you insulted her. You don't have to call her crazy. Sheesh.

Elvia
01-22-2009, 08:20 PM
^^^^ second that. You need to calm down dance, she didn't say anything to provoke the response you gave her.

UV69
01-23-2009, 10:52 AM
I suggest a moderator remove all personal slams in situations like this. I come here to post on topic not for some1 who can't express her points without making refferences to my dancing creds or sanity here. That's clearly disrespectful and uncalled for. Plus it's uncomfrontible for me as a lesbian woman to be in an industry that is filled with baised views on the sexuality of others.

I do understand from experince that many female customers are not the best and can be among the worst. That however is not always the case and maybe not all dancers make money with female customers , but for me and others I know that is not always the case. I also know that a statement of killing a group of customers baised on sex is a statement of frustation, but very offessive to those of us who fall in that group at times that have not done anything to you.

However fine express it and we will agree to disagree, but I totally have to disagree strongely about those in the lifestyle having to go to thier clubs when I don't read many ads for stripclub in all the local mags that advertise for them that don't say "couples welcome" and I feel there is a very good reason that is actaully encouraged being that over all those in the lifestyle are very respectful and generious customers. Not saying all, but not all hetero males are good customers either.

We all work at stripclubs and make our money dancing stripping for the fanasties of others. I frankly don't care who my customers are my job is my job and the only men that pay my bills are Franky, Thomas, Benji. As long as my customers have those faces I don't complain becuz I don't go to work thinking I live to turn on old rich white men or to get a date. We might all have different reasons for dancing, but I do it becuz I'm sexy, a good dancer, I enjoy turning people on and I make money at it. I don't think I need to come here and be questioned on if I dance when I know what I'm talking about.

If another dancer disagrees with me fine, but I don't feel I should have to take personal attacks on this board.

firemaiden04
01-23-2009, 04:17 PM
I don't think anyone here is saying they hate the female CUSTOMERS--they hate the chicks who come in to get drunk and get hit on by guys, making a huge show out of it, thus taking attention away from us. Those are not our customers. Those are silly girls who don't understand what we do, and think we're all rampant sex addicts, and get some kind of high from having guys slobber all over them.

And I agree with Davka...people need to chill.

Vesper
01-23-2009, 08:44 PM
I know that this is already a bit old thread (unfortunately the problem probably isn't), but I only now read it and when talking about the discrimination of customers because of their gender, this thing came to my mind:

What if the club was a gay club and sometimes they'd get customers like frat boys and athletes, whose appearance is usually very traditional hetero. But sometimes when they're drunk they find it funny to dry hump each other in the ass or grab each other or slap each other. Despite this kind of behaviour it isn't seen as pro-gay, more like enforcing the straight manly hetero buddy image. So I bet that the gays in the gay club would feel threatened/offended by them. Would it be understandable to ban them from coming there? -I think there's no question about it.

I just think the situation with a SC and non-positive female customers is similar to that of a gay club preferring only gay or pro-gay customers. The "only if escorted by a man"-rule doesn't prevent a bitch coming in, rather the door people should be the ones knowing how to decide who is ok and allowed in and who isn't.

bellaitalia
01-23-2009, 09:46 PM
I'd just like to chime in here for a second and say that over the years I have had several female customers who were awesome...and regulars. . . and I enjoyed them immensely. However I do realize that these women were the exception and not the rule!

rusdancer
01-24-2009, 09:07 AM
^^^Right on Vesper!
I can't stand how these women behave in the clubs nowadays as well.
I remember a long time ago,when the clubs were true gentlemen's clubs,there were hardly ever any women in,they really had no interest it seemed,and the ones that did very occasionally show up,did so mostly out of curiousity,and sat there with their men,quietly,very respectful to the dancers,behaved like ladies.We surely never any problems dealing with sweet people like that .

Now most of them come in just to "have a laugh" and a lot of them go out of their way to be nasty,grabby,loud and disrespectful,and they seem to enjoy themselves when they act that way too,sadly.These type of female patrons are often worse then misbehaving men.Sure,where else can they act like that and get away with it?

UV69
01-24-2009, 11:33 AM
I know that this is already a bit old thread (unfortunately the problem probably isn't), but I only now read it and when talking about the discrimination of customers because of their gender, this thing came to my mind:

What if the club was a gay club and sometimes they'd get customers like frat boys and athletes, whose appearance is usually very traditional hetero. But sometimes when they're drunk they find it funny to dry hump each other in the ass or grab each other or slap each other. Despite this kind of behaviour it isn't seen as pro-gay, more like enforcing the straight manly hetero buddy image. So I bet that the gays in the gay club would feel threatened/offended by them. Would it be understandable to ban them from coming there? -I think there's no question about it.

I just think the situation with a SC and non-positive female customers is similar to that of a gay club preferring only gay or pro-gay customers. The "only if escorted by a man"-rule doesn't prevent a bitch coming in, rather the door people should be the ones knowing how to decide who is ok and allowed in and who isn't.

LMAO that scene of drunk fratboy and jocks grapping and dry humping eachother doesn't sound like they would offend gay men. To me sounds like a group of gay men coming out of the closest or just being themselves(ever heard of the term str8 looking). Either way heteromen being all over eachother would not offend, threaten, or intimate gay men any.

BTW I take my str8 friends with me to gay clubs and events all the time. There is no law or rule agaisnt it and as long as my friends behave with the same level of respect expected of every1 else there is no problem. Now guy or girl gay or not graps my gf's ass unwelcomed then if I don't take care of it personally then the bouncers will just like in any other club I go to.

The real issue here is that in SCs certin female customers feel are allowed to get away with behavor anywhere else they would be shown the door --which is wronge , but it's not properly addressed by management or bouncers so in a way they do get away with it and it continues.

I've been to certin clubs where they made sure female customers knew the rules as well as the men and they were intop of making sure customers didn't distract from the stage..ect..ect I sort of went after a fetish party w/ a date becuz I heard it was a custom contest, but I was wronge about what nite it was soo I came in expecting to be part of the show however they were nice about letting us know it was the day after and that we had to tone down our inter action since we were there as customers on teh wronhge nitye for thier contest. So We sat tipped, had drinks, got a few dances and then left shorty to continue our interaction and it was a shame she had to fly out to Cali before the contest.

Had it been many other clubs I visit they never would have said a word to us --not that we were doing anything to disrespect any1 , but seriously ofcourse we caught alot of attention even though we came in with her boyfriend and we had no interest in any of the customers in anyways it was just about us possibly gettting in the contest they promoted and going to spend money on other hot girls for us to enjoy watching flirting playing with.