View Full Version : I wanna KILL female "customers"
davka
01-24-2009, 01:51 PM
Vesper, excellent, excellent point. I love you. Totally gay clubs would and do not tolerate this kind of behavior. I have a lot of friends who do drag and people get kicked out very quickly when they interrupt the performances or disrespect the performers. There is no reason we should tolerate this kind of behavior the bad female customers.
UV69- Gay men are bashed and sometimes killed by hetero, jock men every day in this country. I am sure that a lot of them would not like this behavior in the clubs an would be offended, if not feel physically threatened and scared by it.
You can't speak for all gay men as if they are a monolith and you represent them all. At gay bars I go to it is known that people have had enough dealing with that shit on the every day scene and it isn't tolerated in clubs. But as women, we are expected to put up with everything and not speak up.
I agree that I wish management would do more about it, but with drink sales and cover costs, they are making their money and so, it's up to us to school women who are acting like assholes, just like we school men who are.
I don't speak for all gay men. Never claimed to. Neither does those that believe jocks treaten gay men by gropping eachother. Which sounds to me like a popular gay male fanasty if anything.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0rex1ub5VJo
However I do know about the rules of gay bars. Trust me unless some1 breaking standard rules that apply to everyone they do not gaydar people at the door and say only homos allowed.
Drunken gropping however if not unwanted by the person being gropped hardly shocks or scares most people at any bar. Thats what goes on in most bars gay str8 or lesbain.
Now no1 mentions during a show as that is completely a different story, but still the same rules would apply no matter what some's sexuality or gender was during a dragshow and yes str8 people do go. I ran my own show trust me our kings and queens had a very diserve audience.
All I'm stating if that same rules apply for everyone at gayclubs and that str8 people are infact allowed.
Anyhow I agree if unwanted harrassment happens then they should be tossed out of any club and since at sc's it doesn't generally happen when a dancer is gropped by a customer exspecailly when the customer is female then yes it's up to us to put the customer in check.
I do that everynite with both male and female customers. I have to set the lines or respect and if they cross it I don't deal with them.
It sucks as I wish bouncers and management did exscort them out for acting in ways that cross the lines of respect, but unfornately it's up to me for the most part to keep my cool and not react to this by killing those customers who earned my anger and aggression by disrepecting me. I also have to seperate those customers that did from the rest so I don't wake up hating all men or all this or that type of person in the mourning for the few I had bad experiences with.
Sugarmama
01-24-2009, 06:54 PM
Well ladies I am not a dancer yet but have so much respect for you and admire you I wish I could come in and see you dance I don't want to roam around and be all on the men I just like watching you guys I find it artistic and erotic.
I am in the adult industry and spend my time defending all of us to insane women or either telling them **** off so I can understand how you feel.
vonniestarrr
01-24-2009, 09:40 PM
um...sorry, but i just have to make it known that my very BEST customer is female lol...she comes in about twice a week tips me very very well. since we don't do dances at our club, she will just throw hundreds of ones on stage. she paid my tuition this week and got me everything i wanted for Christmas...love her
however, MOST females.....well...suck. a few weeks ago on a wednesday night, there were maybe....40 or so obviously gay BROKE ass bitches. they were ALL sitting aroundd our main stage and NONE of them were tipping. i refused to go up until they were gone. im sorry but im not gonna bust a sweat for the 2 dollars i would have gotten collectivly.
just my two cents :)
davka
01-25-2009, 09:46 PM
With that ass, Vonnie, it's no surprise you get your tuition paid for. Damn!
Evan86
01-25-2009, 10:32 PM
Yeh I know but STRIPPERS are good customers. Civilian hoes are not.
Wow im mad right now. Ive just written to my manager about this coz Im so mad coz lately they have been letting big groups of females in and we have to put up with the hating, the dancing near the stage, bitchy shit and them slutting over our customers all night.
Seriously the odd good female custie that comes in is outweighed by all the negative.
What I like to do is flirt with them. While I'm dancing, I'll lick my lips, and make smoochie lips at them. }:D Then when I'll go ask her/them if they'd like a private dance in the VIP. :D They will either get embarrassed and leave or they if they give me a lot of shit, I'll have them thrown out.
vonniestarrr
01-25-2009, 10:46 PM
With that ass, Vonnie, it's no surprise you get your tuition paid for. Damn!
thanks, much
lots of people are liking my new signature pic lol
Vesper
01-26-2009, 08:51 AM
Davka: Thanks :)
UV69: Maybe you haven't witnessed this kind of behaviour but I can speak from my own experience that the hetero men I've seen acting like I pictured are definitely not expressing anything gay or pro-gay. If a gay man tried to take part they'd stop immediately. They're trying to be manly men, just like the (some) women in clubs try to be overtly feminine -which to them equals being super slutty and raunchy.
The proposition of being really flirty and pushy to them sometimes works, but it can also end up with them attacking you.