View Full Version : Words of Encouragement or a kick in the ass. Help
NinaDaisy
08-27-2008, 11:13 PM
Scary Nina? Obviously you're thinking of someone other than me.
ColetteCalahan
08-27-2008, 11:28 PM
Sophia... I dunno as though this would help... but I have my best friend who is living in Chicago, and you two have ridiculous amounts in common. He moved out there to be with me. (sound familiar?) Music snob. Can talk about a million different subjects. Outgoing and hilarious. Intelligent, genuine, sweet, caring, knowing, and has gone through a ton of shit. I'm not trying to set you up on a date- I'm just saying- if you're interested, I think you two would be fast friends (not to mention he's a huge guy with lots of connections who might be able to help you move lol...) and it's always good to have friends. I've yet to meet anyone more trustworthy... and that's saying a lot. Also... he is very familiar with a lot of the things you've dealt with in your life.
Sophia_Ashley
08-28-2008, 12:49 PM
I think I might actually go insane-er. I couldn't sleep worth a crap last night. Between the stress headache and the stomach ache I toss and turned most of the night. Oh and the air quit working again. I woke up stuck to the sheets. Shit sucketh.
I'm working tonight and tomorrow. I pray to god a miracle takes place. I'm absolutely stressing this.
Sophia_Ashley
08-28-2008, 07:25 PM
Crap...everything just crumbled. I sit here among boxes and a few things. And I'm screwed.
VenusGoddess
08-28-2008, 09:08 PM
^ What? What happened? What am I missing??
Are you ok?
MissDewdrop
08-29-2008, 04:15 AM
Did you new LL renege on the apt? If you signed a lease, you'd be able to recoup your losses because he breached the contract. This includes punitive damages and expenses you're having to deal with. If this is an issue with stuff or possessions, you can always get more. I really hope you're ok.
Sophia_Ashley
08-29-2008, 05:21 PM
Hey things are okay. I got shit sorted and figured out
Nuclear Martini
08-29-2008, 06:00 PM
You aren't serious about the stalker are you? Sarcasm doesn't translate well through the internet. Ummm, anyway, I'm sure you and your children will end up fine, look you have already made it this far! Just keep you head up and stay strong!! Keep us updated on it all too! I understand stress and anxiety and not wanting to medicate yourself. I used to have terrible panic attacks and could have been on meds but instead I chose to wait it out, pray to God, meditate at the beach, I would write in times of stress, take long walks alone, and just have faith in the universe. Okay, I may sound crazy, but it really worked for me so I know it can work for you too.
I haven't been in that same financial situation before, but I'm sure if you just take it day by day and maintain your sense of humor, you'll be fine
Nuclear Martini
08-29-2008, 06:01 PM
Hey things are okay. I got shit sorted and figured out
Wow, I wish I saw this before I posted. Was there an edit or something?
Sophia_Ashley
08-29-2008, 06:07 PM
no, you would see if there was an edit. It states an edit was made. So Im not sure what you mean
Sophia_Ashley
08-29-2008, 06:08 PM
Wait why did you write about a stalker?! I never said anything about a stalker!
Lysondra
08-29-2008, 06:26 PM
:O Is there a stalker?
virgoamm
08-29-2008, 06:38 PM
Maybe people are thinking about this??
OMG there is a woman standing outside of my building with an suv buzzing all the buzzers on the door and screaming "SOPHIA" "IS thERE A SOPHIA THAT LIVES HERE?" outside my fucking building?!!?! There are no sophias here...
Im actually a bit weirded out
Sophia_Ashley
08-29-2008, 08:38 PM
Ah okay. Hummmmm weird. I hope that's it^...
No there is no stalker to my house lol. NONE. In strip clubs yes.
Sophia_Ashley
08-30-2008, 11:40 AM
Let me just say that moving has been an adventure. I can't wait to be DONE with it already. I've donated and given away the things I cannot possibly lift or carry down 3 flights of stairs (winding stairs at that). The people that have shown up to remove items have went from nice to ..out right weird! I've also started to think that people on Free cycle just like to get rid of and collect junk. Like there's some weird market or whatever.
I'm sorta coping with the loss of the antiques. It was for the best as there was no way in hell I could have moved it, paid for storage or thought the stuff would survive that much moving. When it was taken away it began to fall apart. So truly it was on it's last legs.
I honestly, wanted to move because it's what is best for my children. They need to be able to go outside without running into the homeless hookers that have set up shop in my alley or the other insanities of living where we have been. But, once it became impending and real I got really sad and really scared.
This apartment was a start of many things, and while I hate my neighbors and the high cost of rent for such little area..it's been my home. This has been a rather emotional move for me.
Thank you to everyone who has had encouraging words, hugs and such. It means a lot and i truly appreciate it.