View Full Version : Does sex feel good?
jennahoff
09-04-2008, 06:08 PM
Sex for me is ok. Sometimes it feels sooo good and other times its just so-so. But thats with anything in life ya know?
My 1st experience was with my then-boyfriend when i was 15.
We did it in my basement and i dont remember it hurting at all, just felt kind of tight.
I had broke my hymen already with a tampon and that hurt like hell however!!!
Anyways i was far too young to enjoy it back then but i was always so damn curious.
teeth_of_the_hydra
09-04-2008, 07:38 PM
These days, sex for me is physically satisfying, but it wasn't always so. I used to not be very demanding about having an orgasm, until I had this revelation that went something like, "Teeth! You fuck men! The singlemost orgasm-focused demographic group in the known universe! If anyone is going to understand how important it is to get off, it will be them!" And then I started pointing emphatically to my clitoris, or pointing emphatically to the vibrator, and the rest is history.
I suspect I might be a pushy lay. But whatever. I think sex rules.
charlie61
09-04-2008, 07:45 PM
^^
I think pushy lays might be the best kind. Isn't that kind of the perfect partner? Someone who knows what she wants and asks for it? If I were gonna fuck a girl, that'd be like...best case scenario!!
kaiarose
09-05-2008, 09:53 AM
As for my first time, it was horrible! We were both 13. (Yes 13!) And had no idea what we were doing. I just laid there, silently staring at the ceiling while he was on top of me huffing and puffing. My best friend at the time was in the house and in the middle of it walks in and sets a bowl of mac and cheese on the dresser and walked out. Yep. That was my 1st time.
charlie61
09-05-2008, 11:51 AM
As for my first time, it was horrible! We were both 13. (Yes 13!) And had no idea what we were doing. I just laid there, silently staring at the ceiling while he was on top of me huffing and puffing. My best friend at the time was in the house and in the middle of it walks in and sets a bowl of mac and cheese on the dresser and walked out. Yep. That was my 1st time.
Damn!! Like...my worst nightmare. But possibly the best story ever!
txchick008
09-05-2008, 05:27 PM
I just laid there, silently staring at the ceiling while he was on top of me huffing and puffing. My best friend at the time was in the house and in the middle of it walks in and sets a bowl of mac and cheese on the dresser and walked out.
LMFAO!!! That is hilarious!!!!!! ;D ;D
StrawberrySwitchblade
09-05-2008, 05:46 PM
My first time was planned like an event. like laid out. Condoms? Check. Lube? Check. Towel in case I bleed? Check. No danger of being discovered? Check. Erection? "I'm a little nervous...gimme the lube real quick..."
LOL
It was awkward and he got off but we lost our virginity to each other so he wasn't sure what to expect, and his orgasm snuck up on him and we went at it like three times. I was 18, he was 16. (I know, I know...but in PA that's legal)
cutey5032
09-06-2008, 06:59 AM
^Haha, I was 17 when I lost mine to a 15 year old!! Younger guys RULE
Corey
09-07-2008, 12:31 AM
My first time was memorable, but I was afraid of pain, so I got really fucked up so I wouldn't feel anything. But he was considerate, and much older and experienced, so it was Ok and I got pancakes in the morning;D
I think it helped that I knew how to make myself cum for a few years before I had penetration sex. (I was almost 20)
I guess I have been lucky these last few years. My lovers have all been in great shape, nice penises and have gone out of their way to be considerate, fun and adventurous during sex.
At first the penetration thing was just something I had to end amazing foreplay with. These days, sometimes I just want a few kisses and a hard dick just rammed in me hard and fast. I am very happy that I can cum pretty easily from penetrative sex.
Good luck to you.
Susan Wayward
09-07-2008, 12:59 AM
It feels good even when you don't come, but hey, as long as you're there . . . trying to explain it is like trying to explain the taste of chocolate. You might get a Hershey bar, you might get some amazing and fine dark single origin, or you might get a crappy piece of carob you thought was chocolate.
Speaking for myself, I found it enjoyable pretty much from day 1, but then, I had just about the best early sex experiences a girl could ask for.
And in return for our insight, I think we'd all very much appreciate a detailed account of any of your future experiences. ;)
It feels real good, and ima get me some tonight. From the same guy for the last 12 years...mmm.
Wow, and here I thought I was something for celebrating my 10-year-sexaversary with Mr. Wayward last month. I would like to point to the two of us as an example that it can stay good for a long time (as long as you're a hot stripper from Texas, apparently).
Lysondra
09-07-2008, 01:00 AM
Susan, I get my chocolate imported to me from a shop in Belgium. Should I be getting my sex from there, too?
Perry
09-07-2008, 06:27 AM
My first time... the condom broke. I was PISSED and he was crying. Merry Christmas! Lol, yeah, it was terribe timing and luck. But with the right guy, place and time, it could have been very sweet and a fond memory.
Lysondra
09-07-2008, 06:31 AM
I just got done for the fourth time today and I am calmed, relaxed, happy and satisfied.
It's like what happens when you've eaten a chocolate cake, lost weight and smoked weed all at the same time.
kitty69
09-07-2008, 06:44 AM
stop bragging haha ^^^^
I think it is one of those things that get better with practice you will have loads of fun finding out X
Lysondra
09-07-2008, 06:46 AM
*shutsup* :cloud9:
Sorry. :blush:
Just been a good day.
kitty69
09-07-2008, 06:53 AM
And may you have many more days like it, just one question why the hell you on SW if you have got a hot boy there ;D.
Lysondra
09-07-2008, 06:56 AM
He went homeeeee.. he has work super early and I have motorcycle racing in the morning.
Which we will both be well rested for :)
kitty69
09-07-2008, 07:02 AM
its great how good sex can make you feel so chilled out. ;)
Lysondra
09-07-2008, 07:05 AM
Like I said - weed and chocolate cake without gaining weight.
Bad sex however is like having someone rip out your arm hairs 10 at time. It doesn't hurt too much but it's really uncomfortable and wish it'd stop.
charlie61
09-07-2008, 11:46 AM
And in return for our insight, I think we'd all very much appreciate a detailed account of any of your future experiences. ;)
Trust me, y'all will definitely be getting a detailed account if anything transpires. You guys have been awesome! I really appreciate all of your input.
:grouphug:
TheSexKitten
09-07-2008, 01:44 PM
It's like what happens when you've eaten a chocolate cake, lost weight and smoked weed all at the same time.
You mean like heaven? :D
PrettyCurlieQ
09-07-2008, 02:10 PM
My first time was horrific. I didn't bleed, but it hurt like a bitch and I cried the whole time (don't ask). But I'll be honest, now that I 'get it' and know what I personally like and need, I'd be really sad if I couldn't have sex anymore. I know you're worried about if you can orgasm, but it feels good without an orgasm, too. The whole experience is what I like, not just the climax. When I went without a boyfriend/sex for a few months, of course I could play with a toy (and I did), but it got to a point where I just wanted to feel the weight of a guy on me. And you can't get that alone.
MichelleJade
09-07-2008, 10:45 PM
I've never really truly enjoyed sex. Yes, I feel like something's wrong with me.
I mean, my ex, it was amazing every time. It was like going to a different dimension. But even then, I never wanted to more than once every 3 months.
Most of the time for me, it's just really uncomfortable and icky and doesn't feel good. I just keep thinking how this could be done with a lot faster if I was using a vibrator instead, and would probably feel better too.
I was in love with my ex and I don't think I'm in love now, so maybe that's what the difference is? I don't know.
charlie61
09-07-2008, 11:45 PM
^^^ Ahh, I'm afraid I'll be like you. But the fact that you enjoyed sex (with your ex) and still only wanted it once every three months makes me think you just have a really low sex drive?
I'm hoping I'm like some of these other ladies who can either 1) come from penetration, 2) get themselves off during sex, or 3) enjoy sex even if they don't get off.
>_<
GoldCoastGirl
09-08-2008, 12:15 AM
I just got done for the fourth time today and I am calmed, relaxed, happy and satisfied.
It's like what happens when you've eaten a chocolate cake, lost weight and smoked weed all at the same time.
Fuck you, I only managed three times in the one day and that was Saturday.
I probably could've done a fourth time if I didn't have to work ... hahaha.
Only managed once on Sunday as it was Father's Day... and yeah... I am so not sexual or feel like doing anything of the sort when his kids are around.
Not until they are much older. ;)
Lysondra
09-08-2008, 12:18 AM
Fuck you, I only managed three times in the one day and that was Saturday.
I probably could've done a fourth time if I didn't have to work ... hahaha.
Only managed once on Sunday as it was Father's Day... and yeah... I am so not sexual or feel like doing anything of the sort when his kids are around.
Not until they are much older. ;)
I did 3 times, went to work (did a duo show with Kiki), came back and did the fourth. Neener. Screw work, I wanna get laid.
GoldCoastGirl
09-08-2008, 12:23 AM
Um.. does Kiki count since you did a duo show with her?
So you got laid FIVE times.. and once with a really hot chick.
:(
I didn't get laid after my booking since I finished 10pm and was.. yes.. tired. I was just over it all by then (it wasn't the most entertaining or stimulating of bookings I had done.. it just seemed to drag on.....) and just wanted to get to bed since I knew I needed to get up early the next day... (as my man wanted to get his kids to go have breakfast with them for father's day).
/end threadjack (sorry!!!!)
Lysondra
09-08-2008, 12:26 AM
Um.. does Kiki count since you did a duo show with her?
So you got laid FIVE times.. and once with a really hot chick.
:(
I didn't get laid after my booking since I finished 10pm and was.. yes.. tired. I was just over it all by then (it wasn't the most entertaining or stimulating of bookings I had done.. it just seemed to drag on.....) and just wanted to get to bed since I knew I needed to get up early the next day... (as my man wanted to get his kids to go have breakfast with them for father's day).
/end threadjack (sorry!!!!)
Lmao I finished at 1030! I make time. Hahaha. And I had to get up early for training, too... 7:30am wakeup for a 9 hour ride. You jus' lazy!
GoldCoastGirl
09-08-2008, 12:50 AM
;D yes. yes i am. hahaha.
plus i'm weird. i find these days i'm just not "sexual" after 9-9.30pm. don't ask me why, i just am.
/honestly this is the end of my threadjack... argh! :laughing:
thechaosfairy
09-08-2008, 03:25 AM
I haven't read most of the thread, but just wanted to say to the OP, I don't know where you got 3% -- I've read it's more like 40-60 %. Certainly not everyone, but a lot more than three percent!
The main thing is, most women don't have all those nerve endings in their *vagina*, but it's very easily possible during het, vanilla, missionary sex to come from having his pelvic bone rubbing your clit the right way. Especially when you're on top. :-)
The "vaginal orgasm" crap came from Freud. It's being revived again by some pseudoscientists -- don't listen to them. We all have a network of nerve endings, but we don't all have the same networks of nerve endings. There's nothing superior about having an orgasm from internal nerve endings over external nerve endings (though I can say that having suddenly discovered a G-spot I didn't have, it can certainly be really novel, which makes sex more interesting at least the first time!)
thechaosfairy
09-08-2008, 03:26 AM
It feels good even when you don't come, but hey, as long as you're there . . . trying to explain it is like trying to explain the taste of chocolate. You might get a Hershey bar, you might get some amazing and fine dark single origin, or you might get a crappy piece of carob you thought was chocolate.
MMmmm single-origin chocolates. :-*
charlie61
09-08-2008, 07:56 AM
^^ No--I meant that only 3% or so can come from penetration alone. Like, if nothing else were rubbing you during sex. I'm sure the percentage is much higher for couples who ensure that the right kind of rubbing is going on.
(I got that stat from my Human Sexuality class, which was anti-Freudian sexual theory, so I don't think it'd be that off...)
minniesoporno
09-08-2008, 01:05 PM
I think with the sex is a very personal thing when it comes to what you feel or enjoy for me even though i mgiht orgasm majority of the time i do not truely enjoy the act or the after act of sex.
Butrcup98
09-08-2008, 04:48 PM
I'm calling bullshit. You're a dancer.....you take your clothes off for money.....in essence, you fake sex for money.....but you've never had sex. How did you get into dancing?
If you really are serious, though.....Most of what you read is true. The tricks to having good sex are:
1)having a great partner-someone who actually cares about whether or not your being pleased.
2) knowing your own body-guys that care will take direction. but first you have to know where to go.
Either way, the first time will probably suck. It hurts. My advice: Find a guy with a small package.
txchick008
09-08-2008, 06:07 PM
^^ No--I meant that only 3% or so can come from penetration alone.
Where did you get that information? I don't think that is true.:O
charlie61
09-09-2008, 12:37 AM
I'm calling bullshit. You're a dancer.....you take your clothes off for money.....in essence, you fake sex for money.....but you've never had sex. How did you get into dancing?
If you really are serious, though.....Most of what you read is true. The tricks to having good sex are:
1)having a great partner-someone who actually cares about whether or not your being pleased.
2) knowing your own body-guys that care will take direction. but first you have to know where to go.
Either way, the first time will probably suck. It hurts. My advice: Find a guy with a small package.
Lol...why the fuck would I lie about this on stripperweb???
I can understand lying about it in a club situation, but I don't gain anything by "pretending" to be a virgin here.
Anyway, it doesn't really matter if anyone believes me. I know that I am, and this information has all been really, really helpful to me. This is the stuff that friends never really tell each other, and that mothers don't pass down. So thank you all (seriously) for sharing.
I got the 3% statistic (that's what my memory says, anyway) from my Sociology 160 class; Human Sexuality. Pretty valuable source. My memory could be wrong though... I know for sure that it was a pretty low percentage because my jaw dropped when I heard the stat.
charlie61
09-09-2008, 12:38 AM
Butrcup98--You remind me of every single guy in the club who finds out I'm a virgin (usually b/c he makes an obscene comment about my sexuality, and I reply truthfully about it). "You CAN'T be a virgin. You take your clothes off for money!!"
And that relates to my virginity...how??
Susan Wayward
09-09-2008, 12:48 AM
I've worked with a couple of virgin strippers IRL so I am willing to take her post at face value. Heh, that kind of reminds me of the guy who said to Paige once, "Strippers aren't married!" If a woman can be/do it, so can a stripper.
ColetteCalahan
09-09-2008, 04:27 AM
Butrcup98--You remind me of every single guy in the club who finds out I'm a virgin (usually b/c he makes an obscene comment about my sexuality, and I reply truthfully about it). "You CAN'T be a virgin. You take your clothes off for money!!"
And that relates to my virginity...how??
just ignore the trolls. it's probably a guy. press 'report' and ignore it.
~Isabella
09-09-2008, 05:34 AM
Either way, the first time will probably suck. It hurts. My advice: Find a guy with a small package.
BAD advice!!! Bad, terrible!
Do you relly want your first sexual experience to be shitty and disappointing?
I lost my virginity to a guy with a penis so small he had to ask if it was in. In subsuquent encounters, I stopped telling him the truth and when he asked if it was in iI just lied and said yes when it was actually just stuck between my asscheecks. he neve knew the difference. I was 15 and to stupid to realize this wasn't what sex was about.
I didn't actually enjoy sex until I was 18 and meet a man who actually tried to please me and find out what I needed to be satisfied. THAT'S the kind of guy you want to lose it to. Someone willing to take the time to find out what gets you off and willing to take the time to give it to you. The first time doesn't have to be a shitty sucky experience. it can be wondrful and beautiful and create lasting happy memories if yo ufind the right guy willing to go the distance...and I think those guys are much easier to find when your a little older and guys are more mature. When I lost my virginity at 15, the guy was 17 and all he wanted was to stick it in a girl and get off, with no regard to me. As guys get more mature ( some of them) start actually caring abotu whata girl needs to be satisfied. Wait for that guy and enjoy your first time.
minniesoporno
09-09-2008, 11:33 AM
Butrcup98--You remind me of every single guy in the club who finds out I'm a virgin (usually b/c he makes an obscene comment about my sexuality, and I reply truthfully about it). "You CAN'T be a virgin. You take your clothes off for money!!"
And that relates to my virginity...how??
If you are a virgin that is a amazing, I know a lot of people have a huge stimga of what someone in this proffesion should be, they assume you have a lot of sex or that you really enjoy sex, and I think they forget you are just a sexual being you do not need to perform the act to be sexual.
Its our natural nature to be sexual even if we do not actually do it. I get that crap too with people finding out I do not enjoy sex, I just do because of nature.
They are just dying to put you into different boxes and catergoeis and labels and if you do not fit into one that they have they think there is something wrong wtih you.
thechaosfairy
09-09-2008, 02:14 PM
I dunno, the size thing depends a lot on how you're wired and the muscle tone of your vaginal canal. If you're primarily a clit girl, a little can go a long way, whereas if you're more of a g-spot person larger is better. I'm primarily a clit girl and when I started I was, well, too tight for my own good, so having a fairly small partner was a blessing.
charlie61
09-09-2008, 03:48 PM
^^ Yeah, I'm really tight. No hymen, but really tight. I'm scared. :-[
Elusive21
09-09-2008, 05:17 PM
I'm calling bullshit. You're a dancer.....you take your clothes off for money.....in essence, you fake sex for money.....but you've never had sex. How did you get into dancing?
Now that is a very ignorant assumption.
I know two dancers that were virgins when they first started dancing. It's not that unheard of, y'know?
charlie61
09-09-2008, 05:26 PM
^^ Exactly.
Anyway, it's not like I prance around my club selling myself off as a virgin. No one would believe me anyway, and I don't like to waste time trying to convince people that I am.
It's a personal issue, and I'm not looking to be respected/fetishized/idealized for it in any environment.