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whitelight97402
09-13-2008, 02:20 PM
This one regular got off on dancers who would fart in his face, lol, he was pretty open about it too, nice guy, wonder what happened to him, lol...

GSWRD
09-13-2008, 03:24 PM
actually, I take it back. I do have one:

--> a human slip-and-slide event, with lots of KY Jelly, with 3 girls :O

cinammonkisses
09-13-2008, 04:36 PM
actually, I take it back. I do have one:

--> a human slip-and-slide event, with lots of KY Jelly, with 3 girls :O

LOL, that sounds more like a fantasy than a fetish lol...but still..very nice fantasy though. By chance, could i possibly participate? }:D

GSWRD
09-13-2008, 04:39 PM
LOL, that sounds more like a fantasy than a fetish lol...but still..very nice fantasy though. By chance, could i possibly participate? }:D:O




;D

doc-catfish
09-13-2008, 04:49 PM
You can participate in my fantasy Cin. How good are you at wielding a frosting spatula?

cinammonkisses
09-13-2008, 05:01 PM
You can participate in my fantasy Cin. How good are you at wielding a frosting spatula?
Pretty damn good actually ;D Depends on which hand we'll use. Does my left or right hand turn you on more :P

doc-catfish
09-13-2008, 06:04 PM
Depends on which hand we'll use. Does my left or right hand turn you on more :P
Ahh, so you've had specific side of body requests before? (Yeah, I kinda have one of those kinks).


Checking airfare rates to southern Ohio.

So does this apply to anything you have a 'left' and 'right' of? /:O

bsteve
09-13-2008, 11:17 PM
Fetishes are not a well understood field in psychology. There are only theories on how they're formed and how they function. Even less about how to cure them.

Cure them? Why would you want to cure them? What is there to cure?

If a person prefers a certain sexual act or is turned on by a certain personal attribute, why should that be considered something worthy of curing?

Fetish is not a dark side; it is just a sexual preference. If it feels good, just do it.

Sorry, but trying "to cure a fetish" sounds like something from the 1950's.

bsteve
09-13-2008, 11:41 PM
Just wondering if any of you boys have a fetish that you like when you enter the strip club. ...

Yeah, I do. They are not as extreme as the two that you've described. My fetishes are generally pretty common. And some of them can be performed (or sufficiently simulated) by a dancer giving an LD, for which I would pay handsomely.

However, I've never had any fetishes fulfilled by a dancer. To me it just seems a little strange to ask. For two reasons:
(1) I feel awkard asking -- it would make me even more of a PL then I am. I would be too self-conscious about it. It would make me think that the dancer would laugh with other afterwards, or she would shake her head in amazement, etc.
(2) It appears that dancers have a routine with which they are comfortable. In my mind, asking a dancer to do something else may be taken as a sign of disrespect of her profesionalism, or criticism of her performance, or making her do something uncomfortable.

However, I would not mind if a dancer would towards the second or third dance (or whenever I am wavering in continuing her dancing), whisper to me something like "Hmm, Steve, I am enjoying dancing for you. Now that you are warmed up, I do have a question: Is there any think out of the ordinary, anything special, anything .... uhm kinky, that you think that I could do for you or we could do together? Anything you want to ask me?" Although some fetishes a dancer may not be comfortable performing, and she could easily turn me down, there are others which would not be too problematic for most strippers. I think that I'd be dropping some serious cash rather quickly. Alas, it is always a push for a VIP room / CR.

VegasPrincess
09-14-2008, 03:16 AM
I have a fetish! I think about pure sex, deep sex, hard sex, rough sex...GO!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R86-dQvmz8c

hehehe.

Twin Tattoo
09-14-2008, 09:20 AM
Cure them? Why would you want to cure them? What is there to cure?

If a person prefers a certain sexual act or is turned on by a certain personal attribute, why should that be considered something worthy of curing?

If you read over again what I have been posting to this thread, you'll see that I and most psychologists are saying that the majority of fetishes shouldn't be "cured". However, some people have fetishes (or required intensity level for it) that have a major negative impact on their social life, job, relationships, and such. Some even have fetishes where consent by the other is purposely not sought. And that's saying the other person is even an adult. If that's the case, their fetish isn't a benign one to them and/or others. It is then that all psychologists will try to help them (or refer them to a psychologist that has that as their specialty that can) either modify their fetish if it can be made benign or eliminate it if it cannot be made benign. As I've previously said, the success rate is very poor but for the patient, it is needed thus the attempt is made.


Fetish is not a dark side; it is just a sexual preference. If it feels good, just do it.

First, I was telling a joke. The person I was talking to obviously got that. Too bad you couldn't.

Second, fetishes are not preferences. Not the clinical definition of a fetish. If you can gain climax without it, it isn't then a fetish. It is then merely a preference. Something that adds to your enjoyment but isn't a requirement for it.

Third, I would disagree that if it feels good, you should "just do it". If you do it without the consent of the other, that's wrong.


Sorry, but trying "to cure a fetish" sounds like something from the 1950's.

Not if their fetish is making the rest of their existence worse.

cinammonkisses
09-14-2008, 09:22 AM
Yeah, I do. They are not as extreme as the two that you've described. My fetishes are generally pretty common. And some of them can be performed (or sufficiently simulated) by a dancer giving an LD, for which I would pay handsomely. Now, I'm curious..what are they?


"Hmm, Steve, I am enjoying dancing for you. Now that you are warmed up, I do have a question: Is there any think out of the ordinary, anything special, anything .... uhm kinky, that you think that I could do for you or we could do together? Anything you want to ask me?" Although some fetishes a dancer may not be comfortable performing, and she could easily turn me down, there are others which would not be too problematic for most strippers. I think that I'd be dropping some serious cash rather quickly. Alas, it is always a push for a VIP room / CR. Hmmm that seems like something new I need to start selling to upsell my VIP's TY Steve! :D

Chili Palmer
09-14-2008, 10:52 AM
I have this fantasy where my university absolutely crushes and embarasses (on national television) bloated, overrrated large midwestern universities...oops, that's not a fantasy, it's happened the last EIGHT TIMES. http://img2.mysmiley.net/imgs/smile/happy/happy0045.gif (http://www.mysmiley.net)

CP

cinammonkisses
09-14-2008, 11:13 AM
I have this fantasy where my university absolutely crushes and embarasses (on national television) bloated, overrrated large midwestern universities...oops, that's not a fantasy, it's happened the last EIGHT TIMES. http://img2.mysmiley.net/imgs/smile/happy/happy0045.gif (http://www.mysmiley.net)

CP
Hey now...are u referring to the Buckeyes...yeah that was a sad, sad, sad day..

rlams2000
09-15-2008, 06:10 PM
Hot pic Rlams. ;D

I actually do have some pics (on my computer that I'm away from currently) from when I did a bondage/fetish photoshoot. I was tied up with rope, had lotion squirted on my feet, I had a gag in my mouth..awesome and fun shoot!

Well? We're waiting.

doc-catfish
09-15-2008, 06:25 PM
Country music minx Taylor Swift will have to entertain you in the meantime rlams.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7vRJy0uoW24

You get the peds. I get the legs they're attached to.

rlams2000
09-15-2008, 06:44 PM
^^ now that's what I'm talking about.

PatheticLoserCuckold
08-14-2009, 03:28 AM
SchoolGirls SchoolGirls SchoolGirls, seperates me from my money fast.

I'm also into financial domination, its very hot especially from demanding women.

rubberstarlet
08-19-2009, 01:08 AM
I'm into electrosex O_O fetish to me is hardcore abnormal stuff. kinky to me is what others are shy about............which i consider normal haha. just realy on the person and there limits.

jack0177057
08-21-2009, 02:07 PM
My three fetishes:

(1) I have a stripper fetish, of course... If a dancer acts like a stripper, I get very aroused... I love hot young dancers with their "clubwear" mini-dresses, 7-inch heels and long stripper hair. I love pole-dancing, though sadly,... the clubs I go to don't have them.


As hard as it is I wear latex at work every once in a while and its a big hit with some men.

(2) Yes! I would give anything to see dancers wearing latex and rubber mini dresses or mini skirts. Fetish clothing really turns me on.

(3) Stockings or pantyhose and high-heels or thigh-high boots on a fine-looking woman have a strange power over me. If a good-looking dancer wears stocking, specially fishnet stockings, I cannot resist her...

silk55
09-02-2009, 04:56 AM
i'm into feet. but nothing crazy like some of the other posts.

Earl_the_Pearl
09-11-2009, 03:45 AM
I have a fetish for pussy; warm, wet, tight, pulsating pussy. I find that pussy has a fetish for Earl; a true symbioses.