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Mily
09-12-2008, 01:22 PM
^^agreed.is it the whole geisha thing? or just the petite body? or the exotic eyes and smooth hair? its like guys cannot tell them no!!!!!


I think it comes from the movie Full Metal Jacket. They got the whole "Me so horny,"... "Me love you long time..." fantasy going. :P

Pretty_Penny
09-12-2008, 02:06 PM
In my experience, whatever is scarce at that particular club. Like the only Asian, the only Latina, the only Black girl etc... Sometimes it pays to be a novelty :) But of course, yes, it ultimately comes down to you and how you sell.

^this.

although sometimes i think (being that you're really hot) sales don't matter "as much" when you're that unique. we have 1 really beautiful asian girl on my shift, and customers will just be like "who's the asian? can you get her?" she's new and pretty timid so far, so she's not a confident or aggressive seller yet.

it happens to me as well for being the only "alternative looking" girl. but, that's far more specific of a preference and happens less often.

CherryBomb954
09-13-2008, 04:14 PM
Hispanic girls definitely do the best here in my town. Asians, not so much. White girls do good but they have to hustle hard. Black girls do pretty good, too.
The Mexican girls just seem to effortlessly make a shit ton more than anyone else.

misspthesweetesttaboo
09-13-2008, 04:19 PM
I never brought up my South American side until i started to dance... it makes me more exotic i think

chanzep
09-14-2008, 05:29 PM
I think that unless u work in a racist area, Race doe's not matter, where I work no race makes more than any other It's all about your hustle.

AudreyLeigh
09-14-2008, 05:43 PM
Asians here too. We have a lot of Europeans come to my club and they always know my ethnicity... Youre Norwegian arent you? I have no idea how they know but they do...

LuckyOne
09-14-2008, 06:34 PM
I think that unless u work in a racist area, Race doe's not matter, where I work no race makes more than any other It's all about your hustle.

I don't think thats true at all. Sexual attraction is a VERY personal quality. You don't have to be racist to prefer one ethnicity over another. If guys prefer a specific "type" then whoever fits that type has an automatic edge, and everyone is entitled to have their own preferences.

Lexi
09-14-2008, 07:48 PM
......

misspthesweetesttaboo
09-14-2008, 07:54 PM
Race doe's not matter, where I work no race makes more than any other It's all about your hustle.

really? i might do an '09 Euro tour then:moped:}:D i've heard it's not a lot of opportunities for Black girls anywhere really, but i usually can slide into one decent club in major cities- after i remember to say i'm half Brazilian after the umpteenth interview:-[

Otoki
09-15-2008, 01:02 AM
Exotic-ness definitely adds to some customer's fantasies, but I make the most money off of guys who like my personality. Asian girls have their fetishists, but that's not going to make you bank on a regular basis. Overall, attitude and hustling is key.

Otoki
09-15-2008, 01:05 AM
I also never go to guys who ask for Asian girls, because I seem to let them all down for not looking "Asian enough" or "authentic" or some shit, since I'm half and my mom's Okinawan. I have very little patience for that sort of customer, anyways. Like I have to have "chinky eyes" (one dude actually listed this as one of his requirements. Awesome :banghead: ) to be worthy of my ethnic background or something. Morons.

Otoki
09-15-2008, 01:50 PM
^^agreed.is it the whole geisha thing? or just the petite body? or the exotic eyes and smooth hair? its like guys cannot tell them no!!!!!
Trust me, stripping has as much to do with geisha as ramen has to do with sushi.

I honestly think it's the size, but also the "safe exotic" view on Asians. We're foreign, but not "threatening" because all Asian women are demure and docile and love nothing more than having sex with non-Asian men. /sarcasm

Honestly, though I think Asian women and Black women, for an example, have very different stigmas attached to them, which turn people on (or off). I think many white men see black women as "taboo" and hot, while they see Asian women as acceptable (seriously, how often do you hear people freaking out about asian-caucasian marriages?) possibly because of the number of Asian women married to American soldiers after WWII.

I also think the history of American occupation in Japan has given many white men a very condescending attitude towards Asian women. I'm mostly referring to men from my grandparent's generation (and some from my parents' generation, I suppose).

/rambling

Lklucky
09-23-2008, 03:58 PM
LOL after my original post I ended up getting guys asking if I was half asian so I went with it/:O

Djoser
09-23-2008, 04:06 PM
Russian and Czech girls, down here, but not all of them. They just tend to do better, especially some of the superlative ones. But a lot of Latinas also do pretty well, especially some of the Argentines. I have worked with two Brazilians who were extremely fine and also very poised and graceful, but they lacked the relentless hustling edge, or they would have blown almost everyone else away I imagine.

Mily
09-23-2008, 04:07 PM
LOL after my original post I ended up getting guys asking if I was half asian so I went with it/:O


...And how did you do?

Djoser
09-23-2008, 04:10 PM
That reminds me of Maria, a fine Latina who demonstrated to me how she could act Russian. She had it down. And that girl always banked.

sexyjasmine
09-23-2008, 06:15 PM
its going to be hard to pretend your latina if you aren't fluent in spanish.

cadencetyme
09-23-2008, 10:12 PM
Unfortunatley i'm not able to pretend to be the customers desires at the moment as i dont work in a fast paced "wanna dance" and then walk away club. ALL of the staff from the managers,to the bartenders, doormen and especially the dancers would "kill" my "personas".LOL. when i travel to dance i may look forward to trying on new ethnicities for a change. Anytime a custie refers to me as that latina or indian girl i run the risk that they will get corrected by others. plus dancers just loooove to bust other dancers in lies like that at my home base :0/

Otoki
09-23-2008, 10:23 PM
Oh, the Eastern European girls bank, alright, but I think it's a mix between "safe" exoticism, and hard core hustling skills.

Sophia_Starina
09-23-2008, 10:35 PM
its going to be hard to pretend your latina if you aren't fluent in spanish.


Hah! All she has to say is "Ay Papi! Ay Papi! Ay Papi.... yo quiero...mmmm...." I knew a Ukranian girl that did that allllll the time and made some good money too. It was hilarious. But the majority of the guys ate it up... and even if they didn't they still bought dances and VIPs.

Sophia_Starina
09-23-2008, 10:35 PM
Russian and Czech girls, down here

Note to self.... go to FL.

Nuclear Martini
09-23-2008, 10:40 PM
I thought the same thing. Say you're Russian/Latina mix.

As annoying as it is, I'll take it as a compliment that people are lying about being something that I am. I'm half South American and half russian and it is true, the guys love it :D

Elyse2007
09-23-2008, 11:36 PM
I hope you know how to speak spanish. I dont' think you'll get very far with it if you aren't fluent. ::)

So true! It's all about the individual girl. I've worked with countless amounts of black girls, white girls, asian girls, and latinas who are drop dead gorgeous who can't close a sale at all...

It's all about skills - getting your point across and having him believe that you're worth his entire paycheck :)

Um, my parents are puerto rican and I don't speak Spanish....Sorry I know it's OT, but why is it that people always expect me to speak Spanish but no one bats an eye lash when my greek, german, or italian friends don't speak those languages.

I agree that it does depend on the individual, but I don't see any harm in telling some guy you're half Brazilian or whatever. It's all part of the fantasy!

Allice
09-24-2008, 12:41 AM
I'm asked what I "am" constantly... even OTC.

Here, it's mixed, we've got white, black, asian, hispanic, european... and for that matter, big boobs, big butts, small boobs, small butts, tats or none... and our top earners seem to be ANY of them.

However, when I worked in Ohio, it seemed to be all about the skinny white burnettes with big fake boobs. There were so many!

Vyanka
09-24-2008, 07:54 AM
That reminds me of Maria, a fine Latina who demonstrated to me how she could act Russian. She had it down. And that girl always banked.

Fuck, I need to learn how to talk like that. I know I can pass for European. Someone teach me, and i'll teach ya' some Spanish. ;D


its going to be hard to pretend your latina if you aren't fluent in spanish.

Not at all. Just say you were born (insert Latin country here) and raised in the U.S. & parents always spoke to you in English. But it wouldn't hurt to learn a couple of easy catchy phrases. ;)


Hah! All she has to say is "Ay Papi! Ay Papi! Ay Papi.... yo quiero...mmmm...." I knew a Ukranian girl that did that allllll the time and made some good money too. It was hilarious. But the majority of the guys ate it up... and even if they didn't they still bought dances and VIPs.

LMFAO. For some reason I hear the voice of that in my head. :laughing:

Mily
09-24-2008, 01:15 PM
I'm sure it depends on your location/city as well. I live in San Antonio, Texas, which is considered "Pocito Mexico" and about 70% of the dancers I work with are Latina. I bank because I'm one of the only Asian/Hawaiian girls in my club. Guys get bored and are always looking for a new flavor.

Mily
09-24-2008, 01:22 PM
DAMN! I misspelled "Pocito." Corrected now. I don't know Spanish for shit! :P

Otoki
09-25-2008, 04:05 PM
I definitely get annoyed when I tell people I'm japanese and American, and their response is "you don't LOOK Asian!" But, the fact that I'm fluent in Japanese definitely helps my case:D

Ina
09-25-2008, 05:44 PM
I can't believe i just noticed this thread, it's so interesting to read everyone's experiences on this subject, anyways i've never really experienced the whole"let down" look/feeling that the OP posted, i mean people do ask about my ethnicity, but i think it's mostly just to get a conversation going for the most part, with that said though of course there are the girls who always seem to bank more than others, but IMO that has more to do with their hustle than their ethnicity. The way i see it is men are men IMO i think they care more about my boob size & ass then they do about where i'm from.

I also think that what Mily said is very true, guys do get bored & are always looking for the new flavor. I also noticed in my club anyway that there is always that man looking for a "specific type" of girl like the innocent looking one or the brunette or the blonde, but not necessarily the white girl,hispanic or asian girl. I notice it's more of a "look" that they look for.

glitzy
09-26-2008, 04:01 AM
asians here. i can't pretend to be asian.



but i'm working on my russian phrases. i'm not ACTUALLY russian (in reality i am german, irish, & cherokee), but since everyone thinks i am/wants me to be, i might as well try & profit off it.

plus i hoop at work a lot. so sometimes it is beneficial to play into the whole communist-russian-girl-circus-training-since-i-could-walk thing. really.
uhhhh, it's really hard not to be racist in this thread.

RoseLeigh
09-26-2008, 06:00 AM
Vat yoo sayee??? Vant too das Naou?

Hahaha. I have to say, that phrase has made all the difference in my slow as hell club recently. I learned how to say 'give me money' in Estonian off Youtube. It works!

Otoki
09-26-2008, 01:12 PM
asians here. i can't pretend to be asian.



but i'm working on my russian phrases. i'm not ACTUALLY russian (in reality i am german, irish, & cherokee), but since everyone thinks i am/wants me to be, i might as well try & profit off it.

plus i hoop at work a lot. so sometimes it is beneficial to play into the whole communist-russian-girl-circus-training-since-i-could-walk thing. really.
uhhhh, it's really hard not to be racist in this thread.
Oh, nonsense. It's about everyone trying to cope with stereotypes by either playing along (profiting from them) or flipping them on their heads (debunking). Either way I think this is interesting and educational;D

AkashaM
09-27-2008, 07:05 PM
I can't believe i just noticed this thread, it's so interesting to read everyone's experiences on this subject, anyways i've never really experienced the whole"let down" look/feeling that the OP posted.

Youre lucky. I would get it all the time and it was the worst feeling. The custies never bought dances after the "let down" look.

I went to dance for the first time in months and EVERY person asked that same damn question, "what are you?" within 10 seconds of the convo. it was so irritating I finally said, "I dont know--im adopted."

Oh but to stay on topic...I'd say brazilians. Men get all ooey gooey over brazilian chicks.
But i think men go nuts over body types more than ethinic groups/nationalities.

fashionista
09-28-2008, 01:23 AM
There is one Czech girl that absolutely banks at my club, we call her the quiet achiever, and she can hardly speak English! And no she is not a dirty extras girl either :) It must be her sexy accent!

Brazilian girls also do very well in Aus

Otoki
09-29-2008, 09:43 AM
There is one Czech girl that absolutely banks at my club, we call her the quiet achiever, and she can hardly speak English! And no she is not a dirty extras girl either :) It must be her sexy accent!

Brazilian girls also do very well in Aus
I'm sure her accent helps a lot, but I've noticed E.E. girls are hardcore hustlers. They will NOT take no for an answer.

lilac666
10-09-2008, 11:54 PM
I do think sexual steryeotypes and strip clubs go hand in hand. It can be negative for society and positive financially for us. I think these stereyotypes hold more water with older men that come from generations that being said I can't say one ethnicity makes the most but beautiful dancers of certain ethnicities can be very popular..if that makes any sense..not because of their ethnicity but their ethnicity adds to them. I think in Minnesota Asian women do really well here, guys seem to really love their exoticness I would say maybe they are too burnt out on blondles but that isn't true because blondes still bank but blonde women pretty much bank anywhere I would think.

tempest666
10-10-2008, 06:01 PM
Wish they dug Latinas out here in Butt Fuckin Nowhere Missouri lol. Guys out here either want to take me home and fuck me, or marry me, but they don't want to get dances from me. Maybe if I gain 30 llbs, reduce my intellectual capcity by 75%, and fuck my male relatives, I may do ok out here. But incest has never been my cup of tea, and I'm still trying to work off the 10 llbs I gained in Florida eating those delicious crabcakes. (let us not forget the peroxide blonde hair) To be fair, Springfield is not Missouri. KC and St. Louis are great. I just happen to be in this shithole till I get my stuff in orde. (i.e get a replacement drivers license, cause now I can't work anywhere)

Djoser
10-12-2008, 06:22 AM
I have worked with several Moldavian (or Moldovan) dancers who did really well, especially one of them, the appropriately named Helen, who became of course 'The Face that launched a thousand ships'.

Moldova is the Romanian name for what was formerly known as Bessarabia, fought over repeatedly by Romanians and Russian/Ukrainians. So naturally I wanted to call this one pair in particular the Bessarabian Babes. Unfortunately no one but the three of us would have understood, though.

I just found out that Melena, who has beautiful eyes, was also from Moldova. I had thought she was a Latina, she kind of had that look!

Lady
10-12-2008, 08:43 AM
im a white girl ... very white. I tan and stuff, but it is obvious I am white. I have only been asked once what I am. It was last night, I was on stage and the black guy tipping me asked me if I was black/white mix. I said no .. so he asked what I was mixed with. .... umm nothing, im just a plain boring white girls,
And i quote his reaction, "DAMN! Your thick for a white girl!"
geee ... thanks ... that is seriously going to help the complex I have developed for gaining at least 10 pounds since the last time I danced .. I didnt say it but I thought it.

Otoki
10-13-2008, 09:45 PM
im a white girl ... very white. I tan and stuff, but it is obvious I am white. I have only been asked once what I am. It was last night, I was on stage and the black guy tipping me asked me if I was black/white mix. I said no .. so he asked what I was mixed with. .... umm nothing, im just a plain boring white girls,
And i quote his reaction, "DAMN! Your thick for a white girl!"
geee ... thanks ... that is seriously going to help the complex I have developed for gaining at least 10 pounds since the last time I danced .. I didnt say it but I thought it.
Just translate it as "voluptuous" and move on.

Corey
10-13-2008, 11:34 PM
exactly.

for the most part, guys don't go for these girls just because they're hot. it's the stereotypes. wasps are greedy ice queens. latinas/asians/russians are just want to get you off and make you happy. it's like renting a mail-order bride for a few songs.

not like we actually are our stereotypes...but guys are simple and stupid.

This is true and good to know. I work in a club that has about 97% Latinas working there. Even if they are thick and not fit, they do bank.

I'm half Mexican but read more Caucasian and next to the girls I work with, I look even more Caucasian and I'm blond.

I lived in England for five years, I sport the accent while working there. My Spanish is ok, but it doesn't really make a difference. The accent does, other wise to them I'm just another white girl from Cali.

MsClaireVoyant
10-13-2008, 11:38 PM
I'm white, jewish and a quarter mexican. My skin is snow white and my eyes and hair are dark. I hope I can bank! lol

Time will tell.

BeBe
10-14-2008, 12:39 AM
Which Ethnicity BANKS? It really depends on the girl, but it doesn't hurt to conform to every man's fantasy...

What works best for me is Sporty Barbie in Black.
I have to work with what God gave me...

CherryRain
10-14-2008, 10:16 PM
I think all ethnicities do equally well ...it just depends more on the club and the individual girls looks, personality, and talent.

I/m kinda lite black colored...i think i do well because i just get along well with people and work at places that best suit me.