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CKXXX
09-19-2008, 09:44 AM
catholosism...we BELIEVED in the teachings of Cathol...


What have you been reading?The Gospel according to Saint Bastard???


I put two of his albums on Cd to listen to in the car and anyone who has never SEEN him(and you dont really GET him until you SEE his facial expressions and body language y'know!) think I'm insane as I'm reciting along to Dressed to Kill and laughing hysterically

echomadison
09-19-2008, 09:46 AM
Oh yeah? I poked a badger with a spoon!

randompisces
09-19-2008, 10:06 AM
I love dressed to kill. I quote some of his stuff from time to time, and always seem shocked when people have no idea who I'm reciting.

kandie_kitten
09-19-2008, 10:11 AM
Can I just say, I LOVE hwo this thread went from,
"Dude. You're an idiot. It's not because she's a stripper, it's because you're scaring her"

To

I like chicken! Badger! Saint Bastard!

anomar
09-19-2008, 10:21 AM
Dudes, get with the program
It's not 'cake or death'
It's

'stripper' or 'girlfriend'!!!

echomadison
09-19-2008, 10:33 AM
Dudes, get with the program
It's not 'cake or death'
It's

'stripper' or 'girlfriend'!!!

Thank you for flying StripperWeb....

Stripper or girlfriend?

Paris
09-19-2008, 10:43 AM
Well what do I do?

How do you make someone trust you when you've done all you can?

I don't even want to have to make her trust me because I've never done anything to suggest I'm untrustworthy anyway!

It took me over a year to trust my (now) husband and open up to him.

You are 20 years old. What's the rush? Just relax and have fun and enjoy the relationship. Life is unpredictable and trying to make long range plans 10 weeks into a relationship is futility.

SunnySingh
09-19-2008, 10:47 AM
Hey Paris, thanks for your reply.

I understand that it takes time but I just wanted to know from Strippers if they faced similar issues in trusting their significant others before forming a relationship... before people started calling me an idiot and conceited...

I know I'm young but I just want her to know that me and her could go far if she opened up a little and that by being evasive it doesn't make me feel as wanted as I think I make her feel.

Ya know?

Brendita
09-19-2008, 10:58 AM
What's all this talk of chicken and cake? I came for HASHBROWNS! Have we all forgotten that all you need to give a stripper is freakin hash browns?! Ketchup too, please!

echomadison
09-19-2008, 11:09 AM
What's all this talk of chicken and cake? I came for HASHBROWNS! Have we all forgotten that all you need to give a stripper is freakin hash browns?! Ketchup too, please!

How do you take your hashbrowns ma'am?

Smothered, covered, chunked or diced? Haha

echomadison
09-19-2008, 11:17 AM
I'm handsome and confident enough to get girls who aren't Strippers

Then go take your sexy ass back to teh Uni and find a nice sorostitute...after a couple rounds they will trust anyone - and it wont take MONTHS.



. I'm the idiot between the rock and a hard place

You called yourself an idiot dude.

SunnySingh
09-19-2008, 11:22 AM
Please relax with the scowling at me. I didn't come here to insult anyone: I'm just a guy asking for some advice and since you obviously have chosen to be quite insulting to me there's no need whatsoever to keep posting in a thread where I'm putting myself out there and admitting I don't have all the answers and just asking for a little advice.

You don't need to be so catty... just relax...

anomar
09-19-2008, 11:26 AM
Well it's pretty unlikely we'll have any new insights for you 3 pages into the thread. Sorry!

Lysondra
09-19-2008, 11:26 AM
We gave you advice but you won't freakin listen.

SunnySingh
09-19-2008, 11:28 AM
I am listening. I know I have to give her more time and I will but all I wanted to know was whether me meeting her where she works was going to caste me as a "customer" in her eyes and therefore make me harder for her to come to trust than if we met, say, at a bar...

glitzy
09-19-2008, 11:28 AM
why would you ask if you already have the answer in your mind & refuse to think anything else?

MeanGirl
09-19-2008, 11:33 AM
I am listening. I know I have to give her more time and I will but all I wanted to know was whether me meeting her where she works was going to caste me as a "customer" in her eyes and therefore make me harder for her to come to trust than if we met, say, at a bar...

Are you just looking for someone to say yes? because everyone who has responded to you already said that's not the case. NO IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH BEING A STRIPPER, it probably has a lot to do with your lack of understanding basic communication though::). If you think she doesn't like you as much as you like her, you are probably right. Stripping is a job, and while you claim to know what that means.. you clearly don't. She is a girl and many many non stripping girls have trust issues. Many strippers don't have trust issues.

SunnySingh
09-19-2008, 11:33 AM
I don't see what I've refused to think...

MeanGirl
09-19-2008, 11:34 AM
^^ yeah that is obvious.

Pan Dah
09-19-2008, 12:07 PM
Basically, I'm a 20 year old University student from London and I'm dating a 22 year old Stripper. We met about 10 weeks or so ago and have been properly dating exclusively for about 2 months.


I don't think she can differentiate between perverts in the club she works at and real men which is a damn shame.


all I wanted to know was whether me meeting her where she works was going to caste me as a "customer" in her eyes and therefore make me harder for her to come to trust than if we met, say, at a bar...
OK, now I'm officially confused. This last post was the first mention I recall of you meeting her in the club. You've given a pretty good impression of a "real man" who would never be one of those "perverts in the club". Like you just bumped into her at a health food store and later found out she was a stripper.

If you started out as a customer at her strip club, then your original post was right, this has been covered thousands of times. And it should be in CustConv. And many of the answers might have been different, though some of the ladies here have formed successful long-term relationships with customers.

monicabi
09-19-2008, 12:11 PM
don't go to see her at her job . i think job and personal life should be strictly separeted . let her be a stripper in a club "work" and to be real outside the club " personal life ". or just ask her straight - how she feels about you comming to a club and watch her dance .

echomadison
09-19-2008, 12:30 PM
OH MY GOOD GHEY GOD!

JUST ASK THE FUCKING GIRL!!!!

We, as the stripper collective, have given you our advice ad nauseaum...you keep asking the same questions over and over and over! BLEH!

WE are not HER, we are not representative of ALL strippers on the planet - we are all unique and different. The only way to know for sure is to just ask her, how hard is that??

You want her to trust you so much yet you come to an online stripping forum instead of just talking to your g/f?

Try this site out, might be a better fit: http://www.relationship-forums.com/index.php

erotictonic
09-19-2008, 01:36 PM
Sunny,

Whether this is a true question or done for some ulterior motive, I will answer it. lol. The trust issues you speak of a lot of times are there before a girl begins stripping (as in my case). If the girls didn't have problems in their families beforehand, they might not end up there. It's the egg before the chicken.

At the same time, I think it's quite possible to enter the stripping world, get screwed and realize that one can't trust people after the fact. Either is possible, I would guess the former being usually true. Trust and faith were lost early on, and now the environment is normal to them.

It could also have something to do with the vibes you are sending. I distrust a whole lot of people, but there are some who envelope me in warmth, and I can't help but give them a little more trust. Frankly, I wouldn't trust you.

ahmeerah
09-19-2008, 02:03 PM
Sunny,

Whether this is a true question or done for some ulterior motive, I will answer it. lol. The trust issues you speak of a lot of times are there before a girl begins stripping (as in my case). If the girls didn't have problems in their families beforehand, they might not end up there. It's the egg before the chicken.

At the same time, I think it's quite possible to enter the stripping world, get screwed and realize that one can't trust people after the fact. Either is possible, I would guess the former being usually true. Trust and faith were lost early on, and now the environment is normal to them.

It could also have something to do with the vibes you are sending. I distrust a whole lot of people, but there are some who envelope me in warmth, and I can't help but give them a little more trust. Frankly, I wouldn't trust you.

Stripping has nothing to do with the "issue."

Sunny, like others have said, just talk to the girl. If the wait isn't worth it - move on to the next girl. You're TWENTY. It's SO not a big deal. This girl just might not be the right one for you right now. Bad timing. Or maybe she's just not that into you. Or maybe she just shouldnt' be in any relationship with anyone besides herself right now.

Tasty
09-19-2008, 05:47 PM
How long has she been dancing for? You love it that she's a stripper and that's all you see every second you look at her. I dated a guy like you, once. But I dump his ass 2 weeks into it cause he couldn't look past the stripper (ur lucky you got 2 months). He picked me up from work and ask me how I really made $1200 in one night. I told him that I jacked off half the club and had a couple fingers play with my sweet ass! We don't have the time nor the energy for insecure men.

SunnySingh
09-19-2008, 06:11 PM
Wow. Er... OK...

Tasty
09-19-2008, 06:33 PM
Wow. Er... OK...
So....How long has she been dancing for?

Scarlett.Oz
09-19-2008, 06:39 PM
What an insight, I never realised all my issues came from my job. I guess that's why the guy who worked at rogers I dated kept trying to sell me new cell phones after sex. It all comes together now.

SunnySingh
09-19-2008, 06:48 PM
She said about a year and a half.

Look, I think I'll just ride this out with her.

Sorry for having bothered y'all.

Bye.

ExoticSummer
09-19-2008, 07:20 PM
AMEN! No offense but seriously, this is the point we have all been trying to get across to you! Talk to her. Can this thread please stop? Well, that is, unless we are going to discuss hash browns! I like mine with lots and lots of ketchup heh heh :)

randompisces
09-20-2008, 10:15 AM
Hash browns or Eddie Izzard... the only way for this to continue.

gingerlee
09-20-2008, 04:01 PM
Hash browns please. If it's possible to get the crispy that'd be great.

echomadison
09-21-2008, 12:17 AM
I already asked! How does everyone like their hashbrowns?

Smothered, covered, chunked or diced?

echomadison
09-21-2008, 12:47 AM
Hash browns or Eddie Izzard... the only way for this to continue.

For you:

So there must be a difference in the level of perjury. Perjury one is when you’re saying there’s no Holocaust when, you know 10 million people have died in it, and perjury…nine, is when you said you shagged someone when you didn’t.

jaizaine
09-21-2008, 04:34 AM
I doubt people go to hospitality forums and blame their relationship problems on the fact that their partner waits tables.

CKXXX
09-21-2008, 12:22 PM
Hmmm..i like hash browns (burnt outside,soft inside and covered in cheese preferably)

but give a choice...I'll take Eddie!

“If you've never seen an elephant ski, you've never been on acid.”

“So the American government lied to the Native Americans for many, many years, and then President Clinton lied about a relationship, and everyone was surprised! A little naďve, I feel!”

“I am an evil giraffe, and I shall eat more leaves from this tree then perhaps I should, so that other giraffes may die”

You notice how they always put the fruit and veg at the entrance to the supermarket? You go in thinking 'this is a fresh shop, everything in here is FRESH! I will do well to shop here' You never go straight to the bit with the toilet paper, loo brushes and such do you? You'd think 'this is a POO shop! Everything in here is themed on POO!'

What shall we call our son so he does not get the shit kicked out of him at school? We shall call him Englebert Humperdink! Yes, that'll work.

Hitler ended up in a ditch covered in petrol on fire...so, that's fun. And that's funny. Because he was a mass-murdering f**khead!

You can't land on the moon and say, "Ooh, it's all sticky! It's covered in jam!"

My father was a beekeeper before me, his father was a beekeeper. I want to follow in their footsteps. And their footsteps were like this. (Runs screaming) AAAAAAAH! I'm covered in beeeeees!

GodivaLady
09-21-2008, 01:18 PM
So she's being good to you even though there are a lot of other guys trying for her. You either love her or you don't. Make up your mind. She sounds terrific, don't waste her time. What are you going to do when you have a really stressfull situation? I think you need to grow a set and do the right thing. You only get one chance in this world.

velvet
09-21-2008, 01:24 PM
this has gone waaaaaaaay off topic. closed