View Full Version : If you have quit stripping, how did it change you?
Brooke
09-25-2008, 10:08 AM
You asked your gf what he problem was and she told you. What more do you want?
DING DING DING
I usually see women make this mistake, so it's refreshing to see that men can fall into the same trap.
Just because you don't like the answer doesn't mean you don't know or need a second opinion. If your partner gives you a plausible explanation - and she DID - accept it and see where that leaves you.
Searching for an answer you already know only shows her that you don't trust her to tell you the truth about how she feels. Give her more respect than that.
Paris
09-25-2008, 10:33 AM
I haven't read the other replies yet, but just my guess:
Your girlfriend is depressed. This may or may not have to do with her recent career change, but that would be normal for anyone experiencing job displacement.
Also, the newness of the relationship is wearing off, and many women feel less inclined toward sex after the honeymoon period. Add in depression and any sexual interest even in masturbation will disappear completely.
Men seem to think that their amazing love making skills should "cure" a woman of a hormone imbalance brought about by life changes. As if their skill at cunnilingus should change a mental health or medical issue.::)
Just remember that women don't need sex to feel content and happy in life like men do. That's why you don't hear about nuns molesting alter boys, only priests.
Paris
09-25-2008, 10:37 AM
I'll chime in here...
Quitting dancing really did a number on me. I did gain a good bit of weight and I stopped feeling as sexy. My sex drive did really start to plummet. Maybe you could encourage her to go back to dancing part-time, 1-2 nights a week?
yep. Me too. It took me the better part of a year to feel normal again and another 3-4 months before I felt vibrant again. I loved dancing and still miss it very much.
Bianca O'Blivion
09-25-2008, 10:40 AM
Just remember that women don't need sex to feel content and happy in life like men do. That's why you don't hear about nuns molesting alter boys, only priests.
I am glad Paris chimed in, I was going to keep tormenting the OP via electrons.
OK, listen to her, OP. Now go away.
whitelight97402
09-25-2008, 11:24 AM
OP, this is YOUR fault. Since you made her feel like what she was doing was not "respectable" she decided to teach you a lesson by growing a furburger and acting like a frigid bitch. WOW, I guess strippers look much better to you NOW compared to having to weedwhack to the pink pocket and whack off in the bathroom because she doesn't feel sexy anymore..........
You remind me of my loser ass ex and it makes me want to reach through my laptop screen and punch you. I hope The Karma Goddess gives you Erectile Dysfunction for dissing a hot woman who fucked you for free. INGRATE
Since when are 'Fur Burgers' not sexy? Have I been living in Eugene Oregon for too long? Full bush is hot!
PS, Bianca, I find your posts curiously arousing.
davka
09-25-2008, 12:09 PM
Just remember that women don't need sex to feel content and happy in life like men do. That's why you don't hear about nuns molesting alter boys, only priests.
I need sex to feel content and happy. :)
Bianca O'Blivion
09-25-2008, 12:23 PM
Since when are 'Fur Burgers' not sexy? Have I been living in Eugene Oregon for too long?
Yes.
& The OP pissed me off. I want to go full-fledged Joe Pesci on him.
keith905
09-25-2008, 04:21 PM
I haven't read the other replies yet, but just my guess:
Your girlfriend is depressed. This may or may not have to do with her recent career change, but that would be normal for anyone experiencing job displacement.
Yes, she has told me that she generally feels depressed even after being with her after a couple of months. And I would like to have known what I could have done to be more patient and more supportive.
yoda57us
09-25-2008, 04:25 PM
Why isn't this in customer convo?
keith905
09-25-2008, 04:28 PM
I never said "fur burgers" are unattractive which I think is a derogatory term.
She was actually the first girl I was with that shaved all the way on a consistent basis in the beginning.
I, personally, did not care whether she shaved or not. All I cared about was whether I was with her: mind, body and soul.
Bianca O'Blivion
09-26-2008, 12:36 PM
All I cared about was whether I was with her: mind, body and soul.
Even if her soul was...fat?
Hahaha keith905, you are out of luck. If you really cared this thread wouldn't exist and she'd still be with you. If you're so loving and wonderful, go sit on her doorstep and tell all this to HER. If she'll talk to you.
holly07
09-26-2008, 02:25 PM
When I stopped dancing for ten months. I never felt hotter, I wanted sex with my husband all the time. Our sexual relationship almost felt more sacred, i guess because he was the only one seeing me naked, plus i loved being on the same schedule. My only complaint was losing tone and weight gain. I had to work a little harder at the gym, but