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UtahMike
10-10-2008, 10:13 PM
Threlayer, what you are reading are the VENTS of dancers about particular customers, not customers in general. I believe that is one of the things SW was setup to do--give the dancers a place to vent.

It is the nature of humans to complain. I read that a dissatisfied customer (of any business) will tell 15 of his/her friends about the poor service, but a satisfied customer will only tell two. For instance, I have bought lots of stuff on eBay, but I have seldom bothered to tell anyone about it. But the two sets of headphones I bought that broke the first time I used them, THOSE I have grumbled about to anyone who would listen.

So you are not likely to read about the good experiences that dancers have, because they are, frankly, not that interesting.

threlayer
10-11-2008, 08:03 AM
Yeah, Mike and Jasmine, you are probably right. It just seems that way. Maybe I am oversensitive to criticism in that area, especially since it is such a foreign behavior to me.

Remember the man-hating era in the 70s? Guess that still haunts me too.

Otoki
10-11-2008, 10:51 AM
If that type didn't go the clubs would be empty.
Maybe some of the clubs, but my current club generally has only a few of these guys in a night (not counting weekend bachelor parties)

Butrcup98
10-11-2008, 10:35 PM
The bottom line is: If the money wasn't there, she wouldn't be either. If you'd like to test this, stop spending money on her and see if she will still meet you out.

It's always nice to find a customer who is cool to hang out with AND that wants to give me a lot of money. But the bottom line is: I'm there to get paid.

Not trying to be mean, but it really is sad to see guys that get so caught up the fantasy that they forget that it's just a fantasy.

Earl_the_Pearl
10-12-2008, 12:14 PM
Not trying to be mean, but it really is sad to see guys that get so caught up the fantasy that they forget that it's just a fantasy.

98% of the PLs don't know it is a fantasy in the first place. The other 2% forget. :-[

echomadison
10-12-2008, 02:11 PM
SO....

CAKE or DEATH?

ViolaStrings
10-12-2008, 04:47 PM
^ and we're fresh out of cake.

Earl_the_Pearl
10-13-2008, 01:39 AM
^ and we're fresh out of cake.

We all come out tied in the end.

lemmiwinks31
10-13-2008, 10:43 AM
^ and we're fresh out of cake.


So your telling me my choice is "or death"?!?

Otoki
10-13-2008, 09:55 PM
So your telling me my choice is "or death"?!?
Nice try, but you don't get the luxury of "or". You just get the great equalizer. Enjoy.

lemmiwinks31
10-14-2008, 10:04 AM
Nice try, but you don't get the luxury of "or". You just get the great equalizer. Enjoy.


for those that dont know....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BNjcuZ-LiSY

CG
10-14-2008, 10:28 AM
Seriously. Are these posts a monthly event?

Hey, they're like the menstruation of stripper web.

:laughing: :laughing:

Otoki
10-15-2008, 02:30 AM
for those that dont know....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BNjcuZ-LiSY
Ah, got it. Funny, I've seen that before. Izzard is hilarious.

lemmiwinks31
10-15-2008, 02:22 PM
Ah, got it. Funny, I've seen that before. Izzard is hilarious.

One of the best stand ups I have seen....After that, I saw him live, the routine was pretty good, but not the genius that the 1st one was.
All the great comedians seem to have ONE incredible stand up..and the rest just dont measure up.

hl1986
10-30-2008, 04:39 PM
Seriously threlayer, most of us LIKE the majority of customers. It's the weird, creepy, "I'm in love with you" type that we hate. Really the bad custies probably only are about 5% of total guys we meet, it's just that they are soooo fucking annoying, they really stand out. The rest of you guys, most of us kinda enjoy meeting.

IMO, it's also primarily guys like the type threlayer seems to be, which is someone who wants to "debate" with strippers, and engage them in some (any) kind of conversation, with the objective of getting attention - no matter how negative said attention is...

FBR
10-30-2008, 05:07 PM
^^ I wouldn't be too quick to characterize people. You have been a member here...for what...a minute?

FBR

hl1986
10-30-2008, 05:19 PM
At least a minute and a half ;D

I was just observing his posts throughout this thread. He seems to simply judge us girls.. If he doesn't like what (according to him) stripping makes us become, why go to strips clubs - OR for that matter engage in this board? If he were to stay off the board, he would be able to enjoy the clubs in a more ignorant bliss. Strippers are a certain kind of woman. We are (not to generalize) a culture. It's not always pretty. Many us of do harbor resentment towards men on one level or another. Why debate us about our feelings?

No harm meant, FBR :)

FBR
10-30-2008, 05:43 PM
^^ Hah! I didn't think you were trying to be mean. I am just here to keep good order under the guidance of the site owner.

Let me be a grumpy old mod and suggest how your post could have been written while still getting your point across:


IMO, it's also primarily guys who want to "debate" with strippers, and engage them in some (any) kind of conversation, with the objective of getting attention - no matter how negative said attention is...

Took out the personal and made it general.

Welcome to the board and have fun during your time here :)

FBR

hl1986
10-30-2008, 06:06 PM
^^^ You're my official "learned something new" convo for the day! ;D
You and I are going to be be great friends, FBR - I feel it already! ;)

FBR
10-30-2008, 06:28 PM
^^ I am not allowed to befriend hot women here. It is the cross that I bear ;)

FBR

niceguy2100
10-30-2008, 06:29 PM
It is wonderful to be in love with a stripper - show her your intellectual side but be very generous. I like giving them surprise $50 bills.

hl1986
10-30-2008, 06:55 PM
Hmm, the cross I Bare is somewhat different :-)

cadenceq
11-28-2008, 12:32 AM
Most strippers have a reg or too who believe that they love us, and we all play back because we know we'll get way more money out of them than any other custy.

I have a reg who's pretty much the same, only I don't do OTC with him (not that he hasn't suggested it, I've just said I''m too busy with work). He thinks he gets "special treatment" during LD's because I do floor work and he gets a good look at the kitty. He doesn't quite realise EVERY girl does floorwork for just about EVERY customer, and that's because I told him only he gets it and he doesn't book dances from other girls ever. I'm also very sweet, nice and affectionate towards him, which he thinks is because I like him (ummm, no I like his wallet).

My advice - EMPTY OUT YOUR SAVINGS, GIVE IT ALL TO YOUR GIRL, THEN NEVER SEE HER AGAIN. Basically because you'll end up spending a truckload anyway on her and once you stop, she's going to jack off and you won't see her anymore anyway.

Kylea2
01-19-2009, 03:07 AM
If you think you love her, then why do you want to do anything? Don't set yourself up to be tortured, just keep doing what you are doing and you'll both be happy. If she seriously wants more, she'll let you know.

Marveltone86
01-19-2009, 09:05 PM
I'm happily married to a girl I met at a SC haha.

pixierocksonthepole
01-25-2009, 06:57 PM
I'm happily married to a girl I met at a SC haha.

Yes you are handsome ;D

Lucifer911
02-16-2009, 10:51 AM
I have a suggestion
put 3 padlocxks on your wallet then see if she loves you

ViolaStrings
02-16-2009, 11:13 AM
^ he knows the truth, he's in denial. He won't stop giving her money until he runs out.

*~Angel~*
02-20-2009, 04:03 PM
Thats true. why dont guys like this come out all the time. Hell, id be grateful and happy if you were constantly giving me money. Hell even i would buy you a giftie with your own money.

Sometimes the feelings are returned, but more times then not we are just out there for your money. So please, at least think about it, and if you're ever up in my area come and visit ;)

misslizzy
02-21-2009, 04:08 AM
^^ It was more very brief than just simplistic. Anyway it's definitely the feeling I get here from the more 'vocal' objectors. It may well be justified, but it leaves me not wanting to visit clubs much ,since I feel that I am being pre-judged.

Well yeah. You are. You try working somewhere where 9 out of 10 of your customers are trying to do things to you that you don't want (this applies to touching, kissing, dating, sharing phone numbers, etc...) See if you don't get to expect it.

I'm still always happy to find that one who proves me wrong, though.

*~Angel~*
02-21-2009, 02:45 PM
Thats true. Guys thinking if they spend a lil bit of money on you they can do whatever. Even at your expense too.

maximvsv
02-24-2009, 08:59 PM
Oh. My. God.

I can haz gun plz?

No guns. That would be bad.


SO....

CAKE or DEATH?

I'm not out of cake. For what that's worth.

Now I'm going to go back and watch that Izzard clip again.

Otoki
03-03-2009, 05:25 AM
SO....

CAKE or DEATH?
The cake is a lie.

Harlow
03-03-2009, 05:17 PM
At the risk of sounding silly, what is wrong with a customer falling in love with a dancer and thinking she might return his affections? It's certainly not IMPOSSIBLE,is it? And considering what percentages of relationships IN REAL LIFE that fail,how could one do any worse? I say hope springs eternal and as long as no one is getting hurt,better to err on the side of being too positive than too negative. In the biz,I've met several men who plucked my heart strings and several I saw outside of the club and believe it or not no money was involved...

Otoki
03-10-2009, 03:39 PM
At the risk of sounding silly, what is wrong with a customer falling in love with a dancer and thinking she might return his affections? It's certainly not IMPOSSIBLE,is it? And considering what percentages of relationships IN REAL LIFE that fail,how could one do any worse? I say hope springs eternal and as long as no one is getting hurt,better to err on the side of being too positive than too negative. In the biz,I've met several men who plucked my heart strings and several I saw outside of the club and believe it or not no money was involved...
If you read the OP, you'll realize the dancer doesn't feel the same way about him.

JoJoX
03-25-2009, 10:59 AM
She is totally playing you. If she was that into you, you would of known. PS- She jokes and laughs about it in the dressing room with the other strippers so they are looking at you funny as well. Stop being so naive.

jack0177057
03-25-2009, 12:05 PM
To borrow a phrase from Tina Turner - What's love got to do... got to do... with it?

If you have plenty of cash to throw around and are having a good time... keep having fun... Don't let the negativity of this thread bring you down. She is providing you a fantasy and you are both getting a benefit... Have your little crush, too... its okay,... but, don't buy an engagement ring or start making a list of invites for the wedding...

Anyway,... its not just the dancers that like guys for their money... Plenty of women will see you as Prince Charming while you spend wads of cash on them, and then, you become a frog when the well runs dry... That is the price you pay for dating exceptionally stunning women...

If you want to really test her affection for you, start spending a lot of money and time on other dancers. She will: (a) not care, (b) be pissed of because she is losing your business, or (c) be genuinely jealous. Blame the other dancer for your straying. If your dancer is into you solely for the money, she will not exhibit the female jealousy type of rage (directed at you)... but instead, the losing-my-customer type of rage (directed at her competitor, who is "stealing" her customer).

Crow2
03-29-2009, 11:28 AM
My affection wanes and waxes with the opening and closing of the wallet.

Benjamen makes me hot.. seriously. It's a fetish I have. :D

SteveSmith
03-31-2009, 07:39 AM
My affection wanes and waxes with the opening and closing of the wallet.

Benjamen makes me hot.. seriously. It's a fetish I have. :D

Have you had any mad crushes on any customers since you've been dancing? Is there one "exception to the rule" that you've fallen for?

C'mon, you can tell us. ;)

Crow2
03-31-2009, 07:47 AM
Have you had any mad crushes on any customers since you've been dancing? Is there one "exception to the rule" that you've fallen for?

C'mon, you can tell us. ;)

Your serious right? I'm no angel that's for sure and far from perfect. A little nefarious and infamous but never stupid.}:D

I learned my lesson the hard way and since then. Never again. :O
Work and romance - true romance. Just don't go.

CorpExec
04-21-2009, 01:41 PM
Dude. As an executive, I can tell you that only the $$$ matters. So forget about it. Most of the guys that go into strip clubs are basically losers.

rebekka59
04-21-2009, 01:52 PM
HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! We need to meet.}:D

Elvia
04-21-2009, 02:15 PM
To borrow a phrase from Tina Turner - What's love got to do... got to do... with it?

If you have plenty of cash to throw around and are having a good time... keep having fun... Don't let the negativity of this thread bring you down. She is providing you a fantasy and you are both getting a benefit... Have your little crush, too... its okay,... but, don't buy an engagement ring or start making a list of invites for the wedding...

Anyway,... its not just the dancers that like guys for their money... Plenty of women will see you as Prince Charming while you spend wads of cash on them, and then, you become a frog when the well runs dry... That is the price you pay for dating exceptionally stunning women...

If you want to really test her affection for you, start spending a lot of money and time on other dancers. She will: (a) not care, (b) be pissed of because she is losing your business, or (c) be genuinely jealous. Blame the other dancer for your straying. If your dancer is into you solely for the money, she will not exhibit the female jealousy type of rage (directed at you)... but instead, the losing-my-customer type of rage (directed at her competitor, who is "stealing" her customer).


I don't think this is true. I never get angry at other girls for "stealing" my customer. In those situations, my motto is, If the customer wanted to be with me, he would be with me. Any dancer who's been in the business for even a short time would know how to fake option C.

jack0177057
04-21-2009, 03:55 PM
I don't think this is true. I never get angry at other girls for "stealing" my customer. In those situations, my motto is, If the customer wanted to be with me, he would be with me. Any dancer who's been in the business for even a short time would know how to fake option C.

I've seen dancers snatch away customers from each other (not often, though, just a couple of times)... Not pretty... Masks come off...

Elvia
04-22-2009, 02:39 PM
^^^ If it doesn't happen that often, it's probably not a strategy he can rely on.

Crow2
04-22-2009, 03:56 PM
Dude. As an executive, I can tell you that only the $$$ matters. So forget about it. Most of the guys that go into strip clubs are basically losers.


Awwwe... that's not a nice way to talk about yourself!

Earl_the_Pearl
04-25-2009, 09:17 PM
I'm happily married to a girl I met at a SC haha.

So how is this marriage working out for you; are you locked up or dead? ::)

seekr34
05-17-2009, 07:20 PM
Sorry guy, if you only see her when you go to the SC, then she really isn't into you, only your money. Sad, but true. I remember years ago I'd thought I ask a stripper for a date, since they are more outgoing and not so conservative. Well, we exchanged phone numbers, talked and before we had a date, she asked if she could borrow my credit card. Needless to say, we never dated. Turns out, she been going thru guys and break up when their well ran dry.
Tried again later on, after all, not all dancers are alike. Well, she said yes, we exchanged numbers and said she is in process of moving and in a month we'll have our date. Well, a 1 1/2 months later, she came to work kissing a guy, a new boyfriend.

So, don't get your hopes up when a dancer says she likes you. Don't get me wrong, there ARE a few honest nice ones out there, but most of them, don't get your hopes up dude.

Earl_the_Pearl
05-17-2009, 09:33 PM
Sorry guy, if you only see her when you go to the SC, then she really isn't into you, only your money.
... after all, not all dancers are alike.

If they meet you in the club they will despise you and you are only a $. Don't worry just remember it is a business and get your moneys worth. A stiff dick doesn't care how it got some.;)

Cyril
05-25-2009, 01:12 AM
What is a PL? Thanks!