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head turner
09-29-2008, 02:29 PM
no way if you dont like him.

head turner
09-29-2008, 02:32 PM
how old is he?

Ina
09-29-2008, 03:26 PM
Update, it's all booked for the 4 days so 10k. He even said he wants to go to the brothels so I'm good there. Thank god!




Good Luck & Let us know how it goes.

pinkpvc
09-29-2008, 03:53 PM
I hope it goes well. Trust your instincts and be on your toes 24/7!
And remember -just smile and nod (this is my work mantra lol).

oulala
09-29-2008, 06:36 PM
how old is he?

Old.

Now I'm a bit freaked out. Everything is booked, I have the deposit and I'm freaking out... what if he gets overly drunk and gets violent?

Now I feel like a moron.... I'll be OUT $500 if I back out now...

VegasPrincess
09-29-2008, 06:43 PM
He's old. He is flying there so he wont be able to have a weapon. Like I said, he obviously likes you and this doesnt seem like a bad or scary arrangement to me. You'll be okay. If he does anything creepy, calm him down, make an excuse to leave the room and run to the hotel desk and get security.

oulala
09-29-2008, 06:51 PM
He's old. He is flying there so he wont be able to have a weapon. Like I said, he obviously likes you and this doesnt seem like a bad or scary arrangement to me. You'll be okay. If he does anything creepy, calm him down, make an excuse to leave the room and run to the hotel desk and get security.

He's old but he's big. Like 6'0" and kind of heavy so bigger than I am. You're probably right...

CKXXX
09-29-2008, 07:00 PM
Bring something with you...check the laws,but I've brought my Taser when traveling..in checked luggage not carry on obviously. Cant hurt to be safe

Ina
09-29-2008, 07:06 PM
^ That's what i was thinking, or buy mace once you're there just in case. Don't freak out now just stay on your toes, make sure you make arrangements with a friend, like that you'll call her everyday you're there just to touch base or have her call you at just to make sure you're okay & trust your instincts. I'm sure you'll be fine.

VegasPrincess
09-29-2008, 08:04 PM
^^^

There is a place called The Gun Store right close to the strip that sells all those kinds of things. Its kind of a tourist attraction. You could go on your first day there and buy something like peppar spray or a taser if you want one. You can also shoot a Desert Eagle there! Yay!

AudreyLeigh
09-29-2008, 08:21 PM
I have to say it. When you really, really, really CANNOT stand the guy it ends up NOT being worth the money. Trust me on this one. I had a guy that would fly me out to him - no sex but photographs. He would drive me nuts the minute I saw him. Last time I saw him I got sooooooooooo mad and frustrated and irritated with him we were driving and I told him to pull over, I got out of the car and started punching a tree imagining his face.

If this guy frustrates you like that = not worth the $$.

holiday
09-29-2008, 09:55 PM
Can you at least ask for 2 beds in the room? Even if you are having sex with him for the 10K, which you most likely will (and I'm not judging you for) maybe you could at least have your own bed to sleep in. I know I would feel a lot better if I knew I didn't have to cuddle with an icky customer at night.

And good luck. It'll be fine. Just remind yourself to TAKE ADVANTAGE of him. You most likely won't do it again so it's your one chance, try to not be shy. Drag his ass to as many expensive stores as you can.

oulala
09-29-2008, 10:56 PM
Thanks you guys. I'm doing everything I can not to tell him that I'm not doing it and canceling the flights. I'm getting a really bad idea about it I guess, but at the same time, the money... I really need it ... Ahh fuck...

Not to mention I feel sick with guilt just thinking about it.

VegasPrincess
09-29-2008, 11:05 PM
^^^

Just go, it will be fine that's 2500 a day plus shopping and a fun vacation. You'll be okay :)

If you really dont want to go I'll go for you ;)

oulala
09-29-2008, 11:17 PM
^^^

Just go, it will be fine that's 2500 a day plus shopping and a fun vacation. You'll be okay :)

If you really dont want to go I'll go for you ;)

Lol. Don't tempt me.

holiday
09-30-2008, 08:37 AM
Make sure that you get alone time each day. Complain about an achy back, and tell him how much you'd love a massage at a spa, or a facial or whatever. Tell him you want to go walk around, or need to go grab a coffee, anything to get alone for a while. That will really help you a lot. And go to a ton of shows, that way you'll get to escape that way for a few hours without talking to him or looking at him or anything.

It'll really suck, I mean for sure, but it's only 4 days, it's a lot of money, and watching shopping bags of gifts pile up will help you feel better.

achick
09-30-2008, 05:51 PM
^^^

Just go, it will be fine that's 2500 a day plus shopping and a fun vacation. You'll be okay :)

If you really dont want to go I'll go for you ;)

For real! I'm all for helping you out with a bait and switch! Was he a customer from the club? How did you meet?

demonika
09-30-2008, 05:57 PM
gooooooooo! that says GO, not goo. the prostitute thing is hilarious and should go in the advice hall of fame. have fun and check in with us so we know that you are ok.

and make sure you a buy us a keychain.. (ughk!)

charlie61
09-30-2008, 09:45 PM
I dunno, man. If you have a bad feeling about this, then I'm 100% for trusting your gut. In my SD experiences, gut feelings were the name of the game.

IMO your safety and pride aren't really worth $10,000. Anyway, money you've made on your own will always be appreciated more than the stuff that's forked over.

MonicaF
10-01-2008, 01:39 AM
10 K - hmmm, well considering that we're entering very tough times right now I say, just do it.
Definitely play the "I'm on my period" card, drink a lot (I know it's not the healthiest advice but that will help, it will also make time seem to pass faster)
, sleep a lot, go to the spa at the guy's expense a lot, and shop a lot.

Eric Stoner
10-01-2008, 11:19 AM
Thanks you guys. I'm doing everything I can not to tell him that I'm not doing it and canceling the flights. I'm getting a really bad idea about it I guess, but at the same time, the money... I really need it ... Ahh fuck...

Not to mention I feel sick with guilt just thinking about it.

How can you do something about which there are a number of "unknowns" and about which you are so uncomfortable for a number of reasons ?

I'm telling you NOT to do it as a guy who has taken more than one dancer on an all expense paid vacation.

oulala
10-01-2008, 11:57 AM
Is it just me, or does anybody else think that posting about being a prostitute on a public forum, and where you are going and when you will be there is a bad idea?
Or maybe I am just overthinking this.

The laws are different in Canada.

Thanks everyone for your input... I called it off, I was getting really paranoid and it was making me ill.

charlie61
10-01-2008, 02:19 PM
^^ That makes me really happy to hear.

Who knows...maybe it would've gone really well. But now you don't have to worry about it. Go make that money yourself! You can do it!

:hug:

Bianca O'Blivion
10-01-2008, 04:30 PM
I did something similar for less but it fizzled out.

Given how evil the Las Vegas Police Department is & how much money was at stake, I agree turning down this trip was a good idea. Why don't you arrange something different with him in the future. In my past experience, when the customer won't meet you halfway, it's time to walk away.

VegasPrincess
10-02-2008, 07:42 PM
^^^

You should have "sprained your ankle" and been unable to go and sent your hot sister (me) in your place!! Hehehe

I would have gone in a heartbeat, but then again I am from Vegas so I feel safe there, maybe that has something to do with it. At any rate, if it was truly making you sick it's good you canceled.

achick
10-03-2008, 02:47 PM
The laws are different in Canada.

Thanks everyone for your input... I called it off, I was getting really paranoid and it was making me ill.

Damn, I would have gone for you. Well, I hope you get better. I'm sending you warm wishes and hot tea.

mild2wild
10-05-2008, 05:26 AM
i'd do it if there was no sex, and do the $15K option

Ever heard of not ever being able to have your cake and eating it too? ;D

Aubreyyy
10-05-2008, 10:41 PM
How about you give me his number? :D


Just kidding. I'd go. If he really bugs you, just keep couting to $10k- thats what I do when my SD does something funny during sex and I have to tough it out lol (count the money in my head that I'm about to get). Don't get me wrong, I love him to death, but sometimes he's just cuter than sexy lol

BrodieLux
10-05-2008, 11:08 PM
Since you legitimately felt afraid for your safety enough to consider how to protect yourself out there, I think it was a good decision not to go. You obv. didn't trust this guy deep down. You made the right choice.

AmberHoney
10-06-2008, 08:04 PM
Sorry I don't know where to post this!

Would you go to Vegas for 4 days with someone who you don't really like, who you have spent time with in the past who makes you want to bash your head against the wall after 24 hours? But will shower you with gifts and experiences? And yes, sex is involved.

Yes.

Simple answer, lol.

I'd prefer 20k but I'd do it for 10k for the trip, lol.

*Raquel*
10-14-2008, 11:40 PM
I'm sick with bronchitis right now so it might be my body's way of telling me "hell no!" I wouldn't duck out, that just sounds dangerous... But maybe I could get out of having to sleep with him. Hmmmm!

Ducking out is such a rude way to go, so definitely DON'T do that... and to whoever put that, you give sugar babies and strippers a BAD NAME so quit giving BAD ADVICE.

I completely understand the tough to put up with deal, and here's how you remedy that... trust me on this: I've had experience with those guys but the money is soooo good, you have to learn to deal with it. Take a spa day... there's one day out of the way... go to the spa for the WHOLE day, get the works. I'm talking exfoliation, mani/pedi, hair, wrap, massage, etc. Vegas is great for that, I used to do it all the time. Then, when you get back to the room, tell him you're completely exhausted from all the body work they've done on you and you just want to take a nap.

Go tanning during the days... lounge by the pools, etc... go to the exercise room and dilly dally. Tell him you're going jogging... anything to stay out of the room and away from him. Meet up with him for a quick lunch or something, then get him to take you gambling... gamble with his money... get him to do activities... wear him out so he doesn't want sex... keep him awake... skydiving, clubs, gambling, couples spa/massages, shopping, dining out, shows, etc... KEEP HIM BUSY. Vegas is a place with unlimited activities so USE THAT to your advantage!! :) Vegas is also the perfect place to get a guy's money.

Get creative, girl... you can do it.

*Raquel*
10-14-2008, 11:45 PM
Another note on DUCKING OUT: Karma. Do you seriously want karmic retribution following you around with a debt of 10k? I know the opportunity has passed by, but in the future, remember that... karma is a bitch. And just keep my last post as notes for future Vegas or other trips. Trust me, I'm the queen of getting as much as possible and avoiding sex ... that being said, they'll get sex once per trip, lol.

AkashaM
11-21-2008, 04:51 PM
Ducking out would be wrong. I say fake stomach flu. Or do a bait and switch: Say you can't go but a sexy colleague with big boobs would join him. And yes, I'm serious.

Then you can take a comission for booking the date for someone else, lol.

BIGJosh
11-21-2008, 10:41 PM
It was all sounding good til, "sex is involved" maybe you could go, and then be "on your period" wear tampons too lol.

Would you like this done to you if the situation was reversed?

venusace138
11-22-2008, 06:16 AM
To the OP, I'm glad you decided against going. Obviously going would've haunted you.

This whole thread pisses me off though!

Am I the only one who thinks cheating guys out of $ like this is part of the DECLINE of our industry? When girls brag about doing this kind of arrogant shit, it makes us look BAD to potential customers. No wonder so many young guys today view strippers as a mind game they have to outsmart!!!! >:(

What entitles anyone to bait and switch? Just because you're hot doesn't mean you have a right to be dishonest. Fuck that.

Think about how lousy our economy is right now. Think of all the poor people out there BUSTING ASS working minimum wage jobs like Wal-Mart... who *maybe* make $10,000 a YEAR and are just barely scraping by. Do you really think you're worthy of making their years worth of income in a few days, just for strutting around looking cute, and shopping on a guys dime?!?!?

Don't get me wrong, I'm not hating on anyone who's fortunate enough to do just that! Some girls get very, very, very lucky and find guys who will give them the world in exchange for their presence alone. MORE POWER TO THEM. But set ups like that are increasingly few and far between. Get real. Fairy tales don't exist for most of us. We have to earn our $$$.... just like everyone else.

When a customer tells you he'll pay you for company AND sex.... you have NO RIGHT to take that money and run. If you're gonna take the $, put out - don't be a THIEF. Otherwise, if it's not something you're comfortable doing, then maintain your self-respect and just say NO. Let a hooker service his needs instead. Theres plenty of hookers who'd jump at the chance. I knew one that charged only $1,000 per full day. And she lives a good life with plenty of integrity.

I'm sure some of you out there are thinking "Well, he's willing to pay for sex, he deserves the slap in the face". Wrong. He'd deserve a slap in the face if he led you to think he didn't want sex - when he did. But if a guy is being straightforward about his intentions, you need to treat him with the same respect.

</rant>

VegasPrincess
11-26-2008, 08:59 PM
^^^^

I agree, but I don't think there is anything wrong with her saying I don't want to do that, but my girlfriend does. If you're interested here is her myspace, ETC.

And while some people do only make 10k a year, and believe me I have been broke as shit before, it doesn't mean that fucking a rich guy for 4 days in Vegas is NOT worth 10K just because some people make that in a whole year.

But I do think it gives us all a bad name to "con" a guy. If he says sex is part of the package and you agreed to it, it is. That's like when girls feel like it's okay to steal a guys money who pays them to meet them later in a hotel room or what not. Yes, that guy is shady but he was being HONEST about his intentions, and there is no reason to steal, which is what that is, hands down. Stealing.

I had a manager who made me SO mad he would encourage girls to fuck with guys who didn't speak english, specififcally Spanish Speaking guys. He'd be like if they say sexo, and then you take them to the VIP and they want sex, come get me and I'll kick them out (after they payed). After all, he said, you don't speak Spanish. You don't know what sexo means. That to me was just BS, and straight up dirty hustlin.