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Kellydancer
10-10-2008, 09:44 PM
Why do many women judge strippers? Same reason they judge models, jealousy. I'll never forget when I first started dancing and bought dancer outfits at a mall store (this was pre internet). An ugly, obese, sloppy woman started (for no reason) starting calling me and my friend sluts. She didn't know us from adam but decided we deserved her scorn. Of course we all know her husband probably goes to strip clubs just to see attractive girls.

Kabukicho
10-12-2008, 02:30 PM
"After all strippers don't get paid until their clothes come off."

No no no, I always get the money upfront!

scarymary77
10-12-2008, 02:51 PM
women have a problem with us, fine. not everyone can like you. i have more people than i can count that cant stand me. oh well. i'll just focus on those who like me.

people who spend time hating on us are really just doing themselves an injustice by wasting energy that could be used for more productive things.

your boyfriend or husband goes? and you're not ok with it? tell him! if he ignores what you have to say and you cant put up with it then dump his ass.

charliegurll
10-12-2008, 03:19 PM
can someone hook me up with the posts ur talkn about id loe to read this thread get a good chuckle lo

Lady Xplicit18
10-15-2008, 09:11 AM
this link is on the first page.

indianprincess
10-21-2008, 12:53 AM
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Veronica504
10-21-2008, 01:57 AM
Both men and women sell their bodies/sex constantly even if not directly. What we wear, how we act toward others at work in any job. I always enjoy making the comparison that I feel so much more degraded when I bartend or work in an office because people hit on me more as I appear attainable and I can't be rude to them. Whereas, while dancing, they ask me out I can just chuckle. If they offend me I can lecture them on how they must have had a lousy mother to have no manners. Or just tell them to fuck off.

Can you do this in any other job? No. Also when I'm slinging drinks and a dude gives me a $20 tip at the bar expects I'm going to want to rip off his pants like that is something to celebrate. "Really, dude, I'm supposed to get horny for a 20? These days $1000 barely turns me on. Why am I even selling drinks?!" ;)

I feel in control at work.

Kylea2
10-22-2008, 12:15 AM
^ I know, we just lease out visual rights for short intervals.

^^^ This is so true... I love it!



"After all strippers don't get paid until their clothes come off."

No no no, I always get the money upfront!

^^^ I was just about to rant about this too. You took the words right out of my mouth! Seriously though, it's dancing, that's it. People need to get over it. If dancing is so bad they better go shut down all of the dance clubs. Plus, I'm sorry, but according to the statistics I found more than 75% of people are NOT virgins when they get married. So other people are already seeing them nude... FREE. I really think that if being nude was meant to be so shameful we would have been born with clothes attached to our bodies.

As for these college students, I'm really ashamed of most of them. I'm have probably more than 12 college students contact me to ask me questions for their essays or thesis. I've always asked to see a final copy, just to see what else they find. Not even one of the students has ever come back to show me the final copy or even a draft! I've gotten to the point that I just won't talk to them anymore... ignorance breeds bliss and they will twist things how they want to see them rather than seeing the reality of the situation.

Miss_Luscious
10-22-2008, 12:06 PM
It's nothing to get mad about. It's just people speaking on things of which they have no real knowledge. The only way to combat this kind of ignorance is to show them the truth. Either they will accept it or they won't but your job is done.

I kinda wish stripping was more taboo too. It's becoming mainstream and that means more girls with more expected from customers and less money. I also wish stripping wasn't so much about lap dances and more about actually performing but that's a whole 'nother thread.

missmays1983
11-24-2008, 09:05 PM
I must quote one of my best friends in the world, who reads this forum....

..."So they actually think stripping is degrading? You know what's really degrading? Working for minimum wage!" ;)

Well said, love.

HELL YES!!!!!!

Look, all that I know is I did the 'straight' work...at age 18 get a decent entry level position with a mid-size bank and have continued to work there for 7 years...now I don't wanna desk job or management position, I loved my job...but anyone who has had a 'real' (what the fuck does that mean anyway????) knows whether they admit it or not that 'real' jobs come with TWICE THE BULLSHIT!!!!
I'm 25 and can't wait to start dancing in January!!!
Do what makes YOU happy because YOU are the one doin' it.

Peace and Blessings to All.

katsworld
11-25-2008, 12:12 PM
I find that the women out in the world who have issues with sex related type things are just closed minded, jealous and usually fat and they don't take care of themselves.

nychaos99
11-25-2008, 12:59 PM
for all those women who think that

SUCK MY ASSHOLE

LMFAO!!!!!!!

LiveFree
11-25-2008, 02:32 PM
By all means, I hope they keep damning me for dancing. I'll continue to pay for my education, inevitably funded in part by their ignorance. Our jobs teach us interpersonal skills that few other people have an opportunity to develop. Even if they have a degree that matches mine, I'd like to wish them good luck with their job interviews, because I'm going to KILL mine. <3

Well said!

abadvi
11-25-2008, 06:31 PM
Those kids can judge me all they want. Little do they know, their Daddies are paying my tuition too. Muahahahaha! :laughing:

+1 :)

JayATee
11-26-2008, 04:41 AM
I'm pretty much gonna say the same thing as everyone else (and I only got through the first page of posts). While it pisses me off to a degree, I want them to think this about us. I'd rather have the "all strippers are whores" mentality out there because otherwise, they'll all think it's perfectly fine and we'll be all be out our jobs. Personally I find it hilarious that it's all these self-righteous college girls talking about how they feel bad for us and everything when it's their Daddy's coming into the clubs. ;D

pinkpuff
12-04-2008, 12:17 AM
so what do they consider a good job? working at walmart?
lol seriously not all of us could be doctors and lawyers...there are BILLIONS of jobs much more dead end and unsatisfying than stripping- a garbage collector...a store employee...hell a waiter...why dont these people ever talk about how career waiters can do so much more with their lives? You never hear them complaining about dead end non sexual work. so is it better to wait tables your whole life for 20 an hour? I mean come on

oh and the people who say we cant strip for ever....well there are plenty of jobs you cant do forever- such as model, personal training, gymnastics, circus performance, dancing....yet you never see these people getting criticized. some people are just retarded

Xiomara
12-04-2008, 07:30 AM
wow....i wanna join their board and say something...

my childhood sucked and I always said "when I grow up im gonna be a stripper cuz life just--sux"... RIIIIIIGHT....LOL

Otoki
12-04-2008, 02:22 PM
Both men and women sell their bodies/sex constantly even if not directly. What we wear, how we act toward others at work in any job. I always enjoy making the comparison that I feel so much more degraded when I bartend or work in an office because people hit on me more as I appear attainable and I can't be rude to them. Whereas, while dancing, they ask me out I can just chuckle. If they offend me I can lecture them on how they must have had a lousy mother to have no manners. Or just tell them to fuck off.

Can you do this in any other job? No. Also when I'm slinging drinks and a dude gives me a $20 tip at the bar expects I'm going to want to rip off his pants like that is something to celebrate. "Really, dude, I'm supposed to get horny for a 20? These days $1000 barely turns me on. Why am I even selling drinks?!" ;)

I feel in control at work.
Great point. When people talk about how immoral it is to "sell you body" I ask them what they think about construction workers, who get paid to break their fucking backs with manual labor. They're being paid for what their bodies can do. I just think people's hangups with SEXUAL commodification of the body is hilarious.

Symmy
12-07-2008, 11:11 PM
Double that for me ;D
I'm glad stripping is taboo and not accepted by most people, otherwise we wouldn't make so much money.