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Gia2608
07-31-2009, 07:13 PM
I don't think any dancer over 130 lbs is fat. If she's like 5'5'' or taller, that's actually a low body weight.

I don't like to sit on anyone's lap who isn't: my current bf, giving me a ride on his tractor, or Santa Claus, so if someone wants me to sit on their lap they must come bearing gifts.

Keep in mind this is coming from a girl who sat on her Uncle's lap until she was in her teens and got funny look from waitresses.

I think it's a little cheesy

FBR
07-31-2009, 07:55 PM
I like a woman who is soft and looks, feels and acts like a woman with all those skills that make a man perky. And most importantly is fun to hang out with. It's not rocket science.

FBR

lopaw
07-31-2009, 09:19 PM
I love it when dancers sit in my lap, but it rarely ever happens. Some girls have told me that they didn't want to hurt me - like I'm a delicate flower or something. I mean, c'mon - I'm 5'7" and 145 lbs! You're not gonna even make a dent, even if you're bigger than me! Go for it! I can take it! ;D


One thing that totally turns me off (sorry - slightly OT) is if I see a hot girl hanging all over guys in attempts to get dances, but when she approaches me she's physically distant. I don't care how hot she is or how much I may have wanted dances before - she blew it. If she is too uncomfortable to make a little contact with me, then she shouldn't bother hitting me up at all.

3-Legged Man
08-01-2009, 08:27 AM
It definitely will increase her chances of getting a couple of dances as I love to feel these gals. In the past I would literally open my pockets to these gals. If she sits in my lap and goes up and down on it like she is doing me, I will certainy proposition her for extras / otc. Not only are these gals high mileage, but there is more than just dance mileage potential. What I like to shoot for is lots of mileage feeling her while she is in my lap and leading her on as long as I can delaying spending money on dances. I don't believe in buying more than 2 dances per hour I am in the club as I am either there just to chill to see what kinda gals they have on shift in pursuing extras. I am not a dance guy, I am looking to play.

My first thought was that this guy is a cheapo, taking advantage of these girls. Then I remembered my club experience from a few weeks ago where a hot little Filipina really got my motor going with her SS in the general club area, then actually throttled it back in the VIP room. So the game playing goes both ways.

Soth
06-05-2011, 06:48 PM
If a dancer offered to sit in my lap for a bit and chat if I would get a dance from her, then that could increase the chances it would to a dance and also be less likely to lead-on the dancer. Offering lap/chat time along with a dance sweetens the deal tremendously, especially for guys like me who like to socialize.

StormShadow
06-09-2011, 05:04 PM
basically what i mean is.......
you've sat down, you got your first drink, a dancer approaches you and either while saying hello or before saying anything at all, she plops down on your lap. yes i know there are other factors involved in your "buying" or "not buying" but does this specific action help to sway you one way or the other?


In the situation you described, no, would not affect my decision.

On the other hand, if you noticed me looking at you or recognized me from the tip rail during your stage act, some physical contact, not necessarily sitting on my lap, could be even subtle, would let me know that I got your attention and you're ready.