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Golden_Rule
06-06-2009, 08:37 AM
Do you expect them to enjoy it or congratulate you? Why should they? You do it for men. I would probably behave in a similar way at a male strip show, if someone were able to force me to go.
Makes me wonder why they were there though. Maybe just snooping.
Now it might be because the women I go to clubs with are usually dancers themselves, but I can assure you not only to they appreciate a good stage show they tip rather handsomely when they note the effort taken to entertain them.
Golden_Rule
06-06-2009, 08:44 AM
^Not for us it isn't. Personally I don't like lesbian shows either.
I differ here from you in this.
I totally acknowledge that while two men together SHOULD [sauce for the goose and all] be as beautiful as anything else I can't pretend to understand it. I know that's because, not being attracted to men, I just can't see what each brings to the table for the other. Not that its a bad thing [Jerry Seinfeld :) ].
Two women I can readily understand why they would be attracted to each other as women are decidedly beautiful.
Thumbs up on well crafted and "pretty" [meaning not an outright porn show] girl-girl shows.
Golden_Rule
06-06-2009, 08:51 AM
^ I was more just pointing out the difference in social acceptability levels of female/female vs. male/male physical interactions. The former is definitely more lenient as far as judgment goes...whereas the implicit 'rules' of male homosociality are much more rigid (generally).
/end threadjack. :)
Agreed. Men are so much more easily threatened by this stuff though, in general, so you can see how it might happen.
For instance, take the reaction of guys to trans-sexuals.
Now I've seen guys at some of our shows recoil when they find out that the pretty Lady paying attention to them is a TS. [if they bothered to check wrists for the purple band used to identify the different entertainers at the parties their would be no cause for surprise but guys seeing pretty women tend to lose their outward senses as the blood flows south ::) ].
Some of these TS women are very much female in outward appearance. In street clothes you couldn't tell the difference between them and a naturally born woman.
It is obvious these men are reacting to their internal alarm at having had an attraction reaction to a woman with a penis, but think about it.
If it walks like a duck, quacks like a duck, and looks like a duck ...
So if a very attractive woman flirts with you [that you have no way of knowing without checking for the bracelet is not a CIS gendered female] and you don't have an attraction reaction... wouldn't that be the more "gay" response?
Earl_the_Pearl
06-06-2009, 01:22 PM
So if a very attractive woman flirts with you [that you have no way of knowing without checking for the bracelet is not a CIS gendered female] and you don't have an attraction reaction... wouldn't that be the more "gay" response?
I can smell the difference between a castrated man and a women.
lopaw
06-06-2009, 06:17 PM
I don't like when women come to the club, women seem to critique you. And women, tend to be extremely critical. Like oh look how skinny she is she must be anorexic or I know those are bolt ons etc etc.It's just a hassle that I don't want to deal with.
You unfortunately don't have the RIGHT kind of women frequenting your club.
'Tis too bad.
aeternus
06-09-2009, 01:50 PM
Probably common practice. I never been to one. How is it there?