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pixierocksonthepole
10-22-2008, 12:27 PM
^ that's exactly what it is. A public spectacle. The Blue Flame lounge is a ghetto young clientele club, and all these $30K a year millionaires want to hurt and humiliate girls like they're in a music video. It's not about any kind of healthy enjoyment for anyone. I can't believe any woman would let herself be abused and humiliated for a lousy $20. Aside from the ideological argument that it's WRONG to encourage and charge men to abuse women, it's physically impractical because you are going to be fucking SORE and possibly bruised. They want to hurt you! Why else would they sign up for it!

In my opinion it's classless and enables men to participate in misogynistic behaviors.


I disagree. Some women enjoy a little pain. I am one of them. Some women want the humilation. And it is a fetish. It is a thin edgy line to be walking on opinions of the ass slapping bit for the club. But to each club it's own. They aren't promoting hurting women, they are just playing around with something that no one else does. Also I think that is like a choice so some girls don't have to do it if they don't want. If it works for them then oh well. I understand that some women don't want to be apart of it because it makes them uncomfortable or seems classless or even brings back bad memories. But it isn't right to beat down the women that don't mind it. When I am with my fiance I let him get me as hard as he wants because it gets me excited. And there is nothing wrong with that.

Elvia
10-22-2008, 01:51 PM
I disagree. Some women enjoy a little pain. I am one of them. Some women want the humilation. And it is a fetish.

If you want to do that kind of work, then WHY NOT GO WORK IN A BDSM HOUSE??! We tell hookers to go work in brothels, if you want to be a professional sub, then why not go work in the designated business for that kind of play?

I'm really uncomfortable with this happening in a strip club. There are already enough assholes who are confused about what strip clubs are about and think the fact that they're paying means they can be rude an abusive. This reinforces this message and makes it harder for everyone to enjoy a safe and respectful work environment.

People need to stop comparing this to the private play you have with your partners in your own bedroom. That's completely different than inviting a bunch of strange drunken idiots in to smack away at dancers without any sort of negotiation or understanding as to limits, etc.

ViolaStrings
10-22-2008, 02:45 PM
^ Seriously. Guys will think they can slap any girl on the ass as hard as they can, out of the blue, and think giving them a 20 makes it OK.

STRIP CLUB CUSTOMERS ARE DUMB. How do you people not know this?!

DanceLunaDance
10-22-2008, 03:05 PM
I'm really uncomfortable with this happening in a strip club. There are already enough assholes who are confused about what strip clubs are about and think the fact that they're paying means they can be rude an abusive. This reinforces this message and makes it harder for everyone to enjoy a safe and respectful work environment.

This is a great point...

PleasureVictim
10-22-2008, 03:44 PM
I think hip-hop and rap music/culture contain so much more than misogyny. Rap music has a lot of value, although I don't deny the misogyny.

I think heavy metal music can very often be quite misogynistic. Remember that song "the lap dance is better if the stripper's crying." That was a rock group. Now, no doubt there is a lot of misogyny in rap and that certainly needs to be addressed and I see that conversation happening more now than ever and black women rappers and feminists are really holding it down as far as that goes.

But we can isolate misogyny in rap music without making rap music out to be a completely misogynistic thing.

misogyny is so prevalent. people love seeing women hurt. horror movies depend on tits slashed and sexy girls getting all hacked up. These things satisfy men so much. I am right now looking up on tv to see a scene on television where a white woman is getting beaten by a white man and her moans sound more like pleasure than pain to me. This is everywhere. Not just in rap music. It's everywhere and it's fucking scary as hell.

Thank you Davka, that is what I meant to convey.

vivianbear
10-23-2008, 12:07 AM
I think a lot of people are taking this whole thing way too seriously. I don't think its any more degrading than any other kind of contact in a strip club. If you don't want to do it, DON'T DO IT.

I get asked all the time if guys can slap my ass (I'm latina with a BIG ass). I always say no but its because I never think to charge guys for it! Sometimes, I'll let another dancer or a close guy-friend who may be visiting do it, just to cause a scene. This sounds like something I may start trying to charge for. There's nothing that says it doesn't have to be closely monitored and controlled. I'm always really wary of customers and this sounds like something I could just call a bouncer over to stand over me while the guy takes his shot; maybe even pass him a couple extra bucks for tip from it if I make a killing.
I've danced for the most voracious crowds of sailors and marines. They are often very young and anxious to grab and handle the dancers but with experience, they aren't hard to control. I don't see how it could be any worse than the crowds in ATL. I think I may try this as an experiment on my next work-trip.

Rockell
10-23-2008, 12:50 AM
I see it as the male equivalent of the bachelor dances that are held at our club. The guy gets on stage and gets the shit beat out of him for like 2 songs (the guy pays US though, of course). Anyway, it's not about pleasure for either party involved, it's all about humiliating and inflicting as much pain on the guy as you can while his friends watch and cheer you on. Same goes for ass slaps- it's all about inflicting pain and humiliation in public- I doubt that these guys get ANY sexual gratification at all out of it, which is really the entire point of going to a strip club, right?

pixierocksonthepole
10-23-2008, 12:50 AM
STRIP CLUB CUSTOMERS ARE DUMB. How do you people not know this?!



Whoa! That was low. They are not dumb, I admit that some aren't really too intelligent but damn I have met many, many intelligent people on the job. Don't be so hateful towards the people you make/made money from. Don't you want them to come back and spend on you again?

Geeze.

pixierocksonthepole
10-23-2008, 12:56 AM
If you want to do that kind of work, then WHY NOT GO WORK IN A BDSM HOUSE??! We tell hookers to go work in brothels, if you want to be a professional sub, then why not go work in the designated business for that kind of play?

I'm really uncomfortable with this happening in a strip club. There are already enough assholes who are confused about what strip clubs are about and think the fact that they're paying means they can be rude an abusive. This reinforces this message and makes it harder for everyone to enjoy a safe and respectful work environment.

People need to stop comparing this to the private play you have with your partners in your own bedroom. That's completely different than inviting a bunch of strange drunken idiots in to smack away at dancers without any sort of negotiation or understanding as to limits, etc.


Reason 1 why I don't work as a submissive or dom. because I am a trained dancer - get that? trained. So therefore it makes more sense for me to dance not give my personal life to others for money.

If you are uncomfortable with it thats cool, I wasn't saying that there aren't any that wouldn't be honestly. And I understand where you are coming from I agree. I am just saying it's just really rude to beat down on the people that are like that.

And some girls go about their job as dancers seducing men as they would in their bedroom. Some just have that bedroom appeal, does that mean they should stop that too? Or is that ok? Plus in this they are talking about negotiating a payment for an ass slap...are they not?

This isn't meant as some smartass retort I understand where you are coming from but like I said, it's an edgy blade to be walking on. As most matters are in a strip club.

Otoki
10-23-2008, 01:27 AM
I disagree. Some women enjoy a little pain. I am one of them. Some women want the humilation. And it is a fetish. It is a thin edgy line to be walking on opinions of the ass slapping bit for the club. But to each club it's own. They aren't promoting hurting women, they are just playing around with something that no one else does. Also I think that is like a choice so some girls don't have to do it if they don't want. If it works for them then oh well. I understand that some women don't want to be apart of it because it makes them uncomfortable or seems classless or even brings back bad memories. But it isn't right to beat down the women that don't mind it. When I am with my fiance I let him get me as hard as he wants because it gets me excited. And there is nothing wrong with that.
VS clarifies in later posts that she has nothing against people doing this in private, or in a dungeon, but that doing this as a public spectacle at a strip club adds a totally different meaning to the act.

Otoki
10-23-2008, 01:32 AM
Whoa! That was low. They are not dumb, I admit that some aren't really too intelligent but damn I have met many, many intelligent people on the job. Don't be so hateful towards the people you make/made money from. Don't you want them to come back and spend on you again?

Geeze.
VS is making a sweeping generalization while partially being facetious. Her point is that dudes at strip clubs don't always bother researching the rules in each club, and think some of the most outlandish stuff is ok because they saw it somewhere, or heard about it from a friend, WHATEVER.

MoetATL07
10-23-2008, 04:29 AM
Ok this was not to be taken so seriously.

Miss_Luscious
10-23-2008, 04:57 AM
Ok this was not to be taken so seriously.

Right? I mean damn, this turned into a crazy thread about abuse of women when all it started out as was a thread about being paid to have your ass slapped. People are taking it WAAYY too far and these are people who have never even witnessed it. How are they authorities on what goes on at this club during this activity? I'll give you a hint: They're not. And they are spreading misinformation.

Crys
10-23-2008, 02:57 PM
I'd do it. And if they hit me too hard I'd do my best to lay a guilt trip on them and get them to buy dances. "*Sniffle* Why would you hit me THAT hard?"

greggy
10-23-2008, 03:05 PM
Wow, I have so much to say now. But alas, will keep my mouth shut. I do feel like this thread has been taken way too seriously. It was a fun question looking for fun answers/opinions. Everyone's opinion is valid, but it's getting to the point of being insulting. Can't we all just get along?

greggy
10-23-2008, 03:05 PM
I'd do it. And if they hit me too hard I'd do my best to lay a guilt trip on them and get them to buy dances. "*Sniffle* Why would you hit me THAT hard?"
lol, I bet that sh*t would work too!

Crys
10-23-2008, 03:08 PM
Hee hee. :D

happygiggles
10-23-2008, 03:11 PM
ass slaps for 20 dollars? why not? as a stripper i will not call too many things degrading as the whole profession itself is called degrading by other people. but anyway, i personally would not do it. i don't like pain. there's this cheap doctor who always comes and tips me about forty dollars total but could increase my income greatly cuz he wants to spank me WITH A BELT for sixty a pop. can't do it

ViolaStrings
10-23-2008, 05:04 PM
^ what a freak! A belt?! For sixty measly dollars?!

I'm proud of you for not doing it.

happygiggles
10-23-2008, 05:08 PM
i know. he is CRRRRRRRRRRZYYYYYYYYYYY

veronicachick
10-23-2008, 08:05 PM
Wow, I have so much to say now. But alas, will keep my mouth shut. I do feel like this thread has been taken way too seriously. It was a fun question looking for fun answers/opinions. Everyone's opinion is valid, but it's getting to the point of being insulting. Can't we all just get along?

i agree... the question was taken too far.
when I originally read(and answered) the q, I had no problems with the ass slap.

I get my ass smacked all the time at work when I walk around collecting tips... if I could get 20 bucks for each smack that'd be great. :-)
obviously, hurting and abusing me on stage is not cool and not something I would do... but an innocent(not too hard) ass smack isn't a huge deal to me.

what kind of club would support customers hurting their girls? /:O

kandie_kitten
10-23-2008, 08:24 PM
At the club I worked at, the ass slap thing was pretty common.

I refused to do it, but many did.

And many had to leave early, because their asses were seriously black and blue. Many left in tears.

It would start off nice enough, just being playful and fun ...but I don't know. Put a bunch of men in the room, give them some liquor, naked girls, and a little playful violence, and even sensible guys would lose their heads and wail away at these girls with full strength. It was like the male mob mentality came rushing out. It was pretty scary.

Totally fine between consenting adults in the bedroom...I don't feel like it's a smart idea in the club.

Otoki
10-24-2008, 02:51 AM
At the club I worked at, the ass slap thing was pretty common.

I refused to do it, but many did.

And many had to leave early, because their asses were seriously black and blue. Many left in tears.

It would start off nice enough, just being playful and fun ...but I don't know. Put a bunch of men in the room, give them some liquor, naked girls, and a little playful violence, and even sensible guys would lose their heads and wail away at these girls with full strength. It was like the male mob mentality came rushing out. It was pretty scary.

Totally fine between consenting adults in the bedroom...I don't feel like it's a smart idea in the club.
This is how I feel.

I hope the above post qualifies as an answer coming from experience, not spreading misinformation.

Whether or not this thread was started with fun in mind (I didn't get that feel, but whatever) I think it's silly to dismiss some people's reactions that it is degrading or dangerous. The above quote sums up my main feelings about it.

Miss_Luscious
10-24-2008, 05:14 AM
At the club I worked at, the ass slap thing was pretty common.

I refused to do it, but many did.

And many had to leave early, because their asses were seriously black and blue. Many left in tears.

It would start off nice enough, just being playful and fun ...but I don't know. Put a bunch of men in the room, give them some liquor, naked girls, and a little playful violence, and even sensible guys would lose their heads and wail away at these girls with full strength. It was like the male mob mentality came rushing out. It was pretty scary.

Totally fine between consenting adults in the bedroom...I don't feel like it's a smart idea in the club.

Why would these women allow themselves to be hurt like that? In all the years I got my ass smacked, I never had this problem. Why didn't they call over a bouncer the first time they were hit too hard? Or why didn't they reprimand the guys themselves (either with a firm word or a firm fist?) It's not like anyone is forcing girls to be beaten (was management forcing this on girls?), if they get hit too hard and don't do anything but cry and go home...well. When I did it the men knew their limits and they knew the consequences of going past those limits. I can honestly say that I never ever ran into a problem like the above so maybe it's just different clubs and different club cultures but the guys that did it to me just wanted to have playful fun, not hurt anyone. Both my story and Kandie's are ancedotal but you can point to either to prove a point depeinding on whether you think this is OK or not. If you don't then you will think her story is what happens most of the time and if you think it's fine then you'll think my story is the norm. Bottom line - if it's not for you, then it's not for you but please don't assume that girls that don't mind it are degrading themselves in some way (not anyone in particular).

greggy
10-24-2008, 11:34 AM
I was up on stage last night as the party atmosphere in my club was peaking (small place so it's like one big party). The DJ said that he wanted someone to come smack my ass so hard he could hear it over the music(obviously, he meant club staff). First, the bartender (female) came and slapped my ass... not good enough for the crowd. So then the manager (female, very petite girl) came over and laid a very loud, very painful slap on my right cheek. Crowd loved it. Hurt like a bitch but it was fun. Wish I could've gotten $20 for that. :P


Note: As many male custy's that have OD'd slapping my ass, not one has ever hit me nearly as hard as she does. Maybe I'll charge her $30.;)

ViolaStrings
10-24-2008, 11:48 AM
Why would these women allow themselves to be hurt like that? In all the years I got my ass smacked, I never had this problem. Why didn't they call over a bouncer the first time they were hit too hard? Or why didn't they reprimand the guys themselves (either with a firm word or a firm fist?) It's not like anyone is forcing girls to be beaten (was management forcing this on girls?), if they get hit too hard and don't do anything but cry and go home...well. When I did it the men knew their limits and they knew the consequences of going past those limits. I can honestly say that I never ever ran into a problem like the above so maybe it's just different clubs and different club cultures but the guys that did it to me just wanted to have playful fun, not hurt anyone. Both my story and Kandie's are ancedotal but you can point to either to prove a point depeinding on whether you think this is OK or not. If you don't then you will think her story is what happens most of the time and if you think it's fine then you'll think my story is the norm. Bottom line - if it's not for you, then it's not for you but please don't assume that girls that don't mind it are degrading themselves in some way (not anyone in particular).

The point of the ass smacking in this instance is that they give you $20 and are entitled to hit you as hard as you want in front of everyone.

ViolaStrings
10-24-2008, 11:50 AM
At the club I worked at, the ass slap thing was pretty common.

I refused to do it, but many did.

And many had to leave early, because their asses were seriously black and blue. Many left in tears.

It would start off nice enough, just being playful and fun ...but I don't know. Put a bunch of men in the room, give them some liquor, naked girls, and a little playful violence, and even sensible guys would lose their heads and wail away at these girls with full strength. It was like the male mob mentality came rushing out. It was pretty scary.

Totally fine between consenting adults in the bedroom...I don't feel like it's a smart idea in the club.

This is exactly what I've heard it's like from a dancer who switched from the club in question to my last one.

I don't think it's even that bad if it takes place in a private dance area or VIP between two consenting adults, I think onstage it's a recipe for abuse.

Miss_Luscious
10-24-2008, 11:51 AM
The point of the ass smacking in this instance is that they give you $20 and are entitled to hit you as hard as you want in front of everyone.
^^That's not true. Where are you getting that?

Oh wait, I read again. Yeah, they are allowed to hit you are hard as YOU want. What's the problem with that?

Also, I would think that in private the chances of abuse are higher because no one else is around. On stage, if it gets out of hand, there are a lot of pole (bouncers, manager, etc) who can step in immediately.

ViolaStrings
10-24-2008, 11:52 AM
^ I think we have a fundamental disagreement and are never going to agree. You're entitled to your opinion, but I'll never agree that this is OK.

Miss_Luscious
10-24-2008, 11:56 AM
Note: As many male custy's that have OD'd slapping my ass, not one has ever hit me nearly as hard as she does. Maybe I'll charge her $30.;)

Right? I swear, If I could have made $20 off other girls slapping my ass, I would have retired 5 years before I did. The men never hit as hard as the girls. Ever.

Miss_Luscious
10-24-2008, 12:00 PM
^ I think we have a fundamental disagreement and are never going to agree. You're entitled to your opinion, but I'll never agree that this is OK.

Even so, I'd like to understand your position.

If they hit you are hard as YOU want that's not ok because?

You are saying that on stage it's not ok becuase?

In a private dance it's ok because?


I'm not being an ass, I really want to know. Even if I disagree with you, I'd like to understand what you are trying to convey. I don't understand why it's OK in a private dance but not on stage even if they hit you are hard as you tell them to.

ViolaStrings
10-24-2008, 12:11 PM
^ Because they will not listen to your wishes, no matter what you think, and the bouncers at a club like this are not going to do jack shit to a guy who hits you too hard because you agreed to be hit in the first place. They hit you hard onstage to show off, and are going to do it as hard as they can. Like Kandie Kitten said, as I've heard it described the guys cheer each other on like it's a gang rape or something.

In the VIP or a private dance it's ok, because they're not being a show-off male. It's for fun agreed upon by two consenting people. There's no one there to cheer them on to hit harder.

reese_x_c
10-24-2008, 12:20 PM
^ Because they will not listen to your wishes, no matter what you think, and the bouncers at a club like this are not going to do jack shit to a guy who hits you too hard because you agreed to be hit in the first place. .

In my old club a girl used to do this, she loved getting her ass smacked, and if anyone ever got out of line, she corrected them with the quickness and then they were thrown out and they were lucky if they got out in 1 piece. She would tell them ok, you can smack it, but you better not leave bruises and believe it or not the majority complied. This was a small club w/ a good grou pof custys though that knew they couldn't get away w/ any form of disrespect..our bouncers were awesome.

Miss_Luscious
10-24-2008, 12:57 PM
^ Because they will not listen to your wishes, no matter what you think, and the bouncers at a club like this are not going to do jack shit to a guy who hits you too hard because you agreed to be hit in the first place. They hit you hard onstage to show off, and are going to do it as hard as they can. Like Kandie Kitten said, as I've heard it described the guys cheer each other on like it's a gang rape or something.

In the VIP or a private dance it's ok, because they're not being a show-off male. It's for fun agreed upon by two consenting people. There's no one there to cheer them on to hit harder.


How are you and expert on this club and it's patrons? You worked here and saw how the bouncers reacted or are you just assuming (because of what?). At any rate, I guess it's not for and that's fine. But you can't just jump to conclusions based on what you assume to be true about "clubs like this" and speak it as the gospel truth. Unless Moet posts and says that what you have posted is what actually happens in her club, you're assertations about the club are meaninless and you shouldn't post like you know the facts.

ViolaStrings
10-24-2008, 01:47 PM
^ you seriously think that the kind of guys who are going to pay $20 to slap a girl's ass onstage in front of all their friends are going to respect the girl's wishes?

I'm posting what I've heard from a girl who worked at the club in question, and other club's in the area. I think it's been confirmed that it IS onstage and they DO it hard.

reese_x_c
10-24-2008, 01:54 PM
^ you seriously think that the kind of guys who are going to pay $20 to slap a girl's ass onstage in front of all their friends are going to respect the girl's wishes?

As stated in my previous post...I've seen it done.

ViolaStrings
10-24-2008, 02:03 PM
I disagree. I'm not arguing it anymore. I stand by my feelings that the kind of activities that many clubs allow are demeaning, abusive, and make it hard for the girls there unwilling to do such things to make money in their comfort zone. I think it's comparable to doing extras and trains guys that it's ok to lay hands on a dancer. WE ARE A ZERO CONTACT CITY! You have the right to your opinion, I have the right to mine. I know what clubs in my town are can be like, and it's NOT right.

Miss_Luscious
10-24-2008, 02:03 PM
^ you seriously think that the kind of guys who are going to pay $20 to slap a girl's ass onstage in front of all their friends are going to respect the girl's wishes?


Yes? It's not like the only people who like to smack big asses and are willing to pay money for it are guys who love to abuse women. There is nothing to base that on. I've had guys come slap a big bill on my ass before. They didn't do it to hurt me, they just thought I had a nice enough ass that they wanted to tip and smack it. Getting my ass slapped was so common place while I was being tipped that I wouldn't think twice about going on stage and having people do it for $20 a pop (ha ha puns).

I don't want this to be racial but maybe it's a black club thing? Maybe it's not like that in white clubs so you don't understand how a guy could possibly want to smack a girls ass, pay her for it and not be a woman beater?


If you are arguing that it shouldn't be done in YOUR city because contact is not allowed, then that's fine. But what you have been saying is that all the men who do this are women beaters and the bouncers in this club won't do anything if it gets out of line so that's why it shouldn't be done which is wrong.

ViolaStrings
10-24-2008, 02:07 PM
^ Contact of ANY sort in Atlanta is ILLEGAL. I think it creates unreasonable expectations of the dancers unwilling to break the law to make money.

spartaca
10-24-2008, 02:10 PM
I see it as the male equivalent of the bachelor dances that are held at our club. The guy gets on stage and gets the shit beat out of him for like 2 songs (the guy pays US though, of course). Anyway, it's not about pleasure for either party involved, it's all about humiliating and inflicting as much pain on the guy as you can while his friends watch and cheer you on. Same goes for ass slaps- it's all about inflicting pain and humiliation in public- I doubt that these guys get ANY sexual gratification at all out of it, which is really the entire point of going to a strip club, right?

^A similar thought occurred to me. I've had to talk custies out of calling the police and pressing charges of assault - but they would have every right to because what they consented to was some playful interaction, NOT to something that would leave bruised and damaged bodily parts a.k.a Actual Bodily Harm. Whether it is the dancer or the customer ABH should not occur in a SC.

I have smacked my own backside and have had other dancers do it in a double dance, but those dancers know that i will not tolerate hard smacks and that we are indulging in 'cosmetic' smacking and due to our working relationship respect that. You can not exercise mind control over random strangers a.k.a customers as to how much force they exert and personally i agree that the plae for this type of behaviour is a BDSM club - although it sounds as though there is nothing sexual about this act, it's all for bullshit macho appearance and exerises in power and humiliation of a female.

Where i've worked customers couldn't touch anyway, but even if they could i'd happily relieve them of the permanent use of their hands if they so much as raised their finger.

ViolaStrings
10-24-2008, 02:14 PM
If you are arguing that it shouldn't be done in YOUR city because contact is not allowed, then that's fine. But what you have been saying is that all the men who do this are women beaters and the bouncers in this club won't do anything if it gets out of line so that's why it shouldn't be done which is wrong.

I'm not saying all men who want to smack a woman's ass are woman beaters. I'm not saying that all women who like to get their ass smacked are degrading themselves. If it's between two people for fun, cool. For money, OK. But the venue and situation is not that.

Re-read what Kandie Kitten wrote. This is exactly how the ass slapping in question was described to me from a dancer I would certainly believe, like a male mob ganging up on a girl and getting off on hurting her as much as they can. Even a reasonable guy with a little liquor in him, egged on by his liquored up friends can turn into a real monster. It's like if they DON'T hit the girl hard it's wimpy. It sends shivers down my spine.

Let's just agree to disagree. It's not a racial thing. It's not something I would ever do, or I would ever approve of anyone else doing, but to each their own. I would certainly NEVER work in the kind of club that allowed this.

bustybabe312
10-24-2008, 02:19 PM
OOOOOOOOOOhhhhhh Damn!

Why did I immediately get a picture of Kunta Kente after reading that??






ass slaps for 20 dollars? why not? as a stripper i will not call too many things degrading as the whole profession itself is called degrading by other people. but anyway, i personally would not do it. i don't like pain. there's this cheap doctor who always comes and tips me about forty dollars total but could increase my income greatly cuz he wants to spank me WITH A BELT for sixty a pop. can't do it

Miss_Luscious
10-24-2008, 02:22 PM
Re-read what Kandie Kitten wrote. This is exactly how the ass slapping in question was described to me from a dancer I would certainly believe,

But even more people have said that does not happen when they themselves actually participated in activities like this (myself included) yet you disregard those posts. You've already made up your mind so you just want to find the one story that backs up your preconceived idea and ignore those of us that have said it's not like that at all. I guess that's OK if you are just speaking for yourself but when other's start taking your uninformed opinion as gospel truth (because you present it that way), that's a problem.

I'm not sure what kind of men some of you ladies dance for but I would find other clubs if you can't trust customers at your club to playfully smack your ass without trying to hurt you. That's scary.

Ebony
10-24-2008, 02:29 PM
I would never let a customer slap my ass for $20. I don't like customer to have much control over me. I like to steer them. If ever they have slapped my ass it's because I told them to as part of a VIP session or extended lapdance. Guys always ask to slap my ass I say he can but he has to get a VIP or many more dances.

Perry
10-24-2008, 02:36 PM
Seriously?? If a dancer or manager wants to slap your ass - tell them to CUP their hand. It makes a cool loud sound and doesn't hurt.

I will admit there was a phase where some of the girls and I would get a crop whip and take turns hitting each other. To see who could take the hardest wack, but it wasn't done for money - just us having fun and goofing off.

Sometimes I would take it on stage and whip any customers who came up to tip me. It would completely fill the tip rail! They loved it, and I did it HARD.

The moral of the story is... something about people being naturally violent.

nitro7
10-24-2008, 03:05 PM
personally i wouldnt mind it! sounds like good quick cash to me.

pixierocksonthepole
10-24-2008, 03:19 PM
Yes? It's not like the only people who like to smack big asses and are willing to pay money for it are guys who love to abuse women.


You are the shit. I like you. ;D

You are saying everything I was seeing it as too, I just decided it was like talking to a brick wall. Nothing in return. It wasn't meant to be like mean or anything, it's just friendly debate.


But in the end I would let custies smack my ass for $20. Not super hard because where I worked they knew better than to pull that shit with me, I was known for hitting them rather hard unexpectedly. But I could make a lot of money on just that alone, I would totally do it in all good fun! Who knows maybe dressing up like a dom would help, have a whip in hand to keep them in check. HAHA! }:D

Miss_Luscious
10-24-2008, 03:28 PM
You are the shit. I like you. ;D



Thanks buuuuddy.

This is a bit off topic but there was a girl at an old club of mine(I called it my home club and I loved it dearly...alas, it's gone now) would do a stage show where she would dress up in a red leather outfit complete with a whip, dance to some crazy ass rock and metal, do crazy ass pole tricks and then let guys pour hot wax on her ass and pussy. She made VERY good money doing that. And she was a white girl in a black club. I see the ass smacking as something similar. Guys want to do it and and they'll pay because they don't get to do it normally. The behave themselves because they don't want to be stopped in their fun. If you tell them to not do something or else the fun will end, more often than not, they will listen (at least the guys I danced for over my 6 year career did). Those that don't suffer the consequences. Men are simple creatures and they are easily amused (and controlled).

pixierocksonthepole
10-24-2008, 03:41 PM
Thanks buuuuddy.

This is a bit off topic but there was a girl at an old club of mine(I called it my home club and I loved it dearly...alas, it's gone now) would do a stage show where she would dress up in a red leather outfit complete with a whip, dance to some crazy ass rock and metal, do crazy ass pole tricks and then let guys pour hot wax on her ass and pussy. She made VERY good money doing that. And she was a white girl in a black club. I see the ass smacking as something similar. Guys want to do it and and they'll pay because they don't get to do it normally. The behave themselves because they don't want to be stopped in their fun. If you tell them to not do something or else the fun will end, more often than not, they will listen (at least the guys I danced for over my 6 year career did). Those that don't suffer the consequences. Men are simple creatures and they are easily amused (and controlled).



That's awesome! I wouldn't mind the hot wax thing but I don't think I would allow it on my crotch, sounds exciting though. I agree men are simple creatures.

ViolaStrings
10-24-2008, 03:56 PM
If you carry around a riding crop, there's always going to be some dumb ass guy who is going to grab it from you and hit you with it. Most guys do NOT like being the ones pushed around.