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latingod
10-23-2008, 02:22 PM
Ok, I've been wondering what have you experiences been at the different strip clubs in ATL.

I'm a frequent customer at one of the clubs that is supposed to be the classiest one in town. However, every girl I've taken to the VIP, gets pretty loose with Kissing (DFK), Fondling, roaming hands, hand jobs, bjs, some finger fuck, some actual sex... and they all tell you how you're breaking the rules, that they normally don't do this, but I'm just wondering as over the last couple of weeks I've been with 5 different dancers and they all have pretty much given me what I want (to my surprise)?? Are these girls that desperate for money because of the economy?? 2 of the girls I would consider myself a regular, but the other 3 it's been my first time and it was great....They all are top shelf dancers there, amazing bodies, pretty faces....

Please chip in with any opinions....

MoetATL07
10-23-2008, 02:31 PM
What club have you been going to in Atl?

latingod
10-23-2008, 02:48 PM
You would be surprised...welll maybe not if you're a dancer....

See I don't go looking for extras...and I wouldn't mind the kissing part, if I knew them....but I just don't go for all that stuff....

Like I said it just surprised me, as a couple of months ago at the same Club I would not think this is going on...

MoetATL07
10-23-2008, 03:17 PM
Its at the Cheetah isn't it.

latingod
10-23-2008, 03:22 PM
Nope....but like I said, maybe you wouldn't be surprised...So where do you work Moet??

MoetATL07
10-23-2008, 03:44 PM
Not working right now just had a baby.

latingod
10-23-2008, 05:40 PM
Congrats!!

Earl_the_Pearl
10-23-2008, 05:51 PM
Its at the Cheetah isn't it.

Note to self, when in Atlanta stop at Cheetah.

xdamage
10-24-2008, 05:20 AM
If you are asking if you really are getting special treatment, the answer is probably gray. If you are truly revolting most won't, but if you are average or better, and they are already doing more, then you are not exceptional.

I don't think it is just the economy. I think you are seeing a fairly typical social change taking place. This is the way they happen. Slowly, over several generations.

Wind back the hands of time and percentage of people who would say "eww, stripper, is she that desperate to make money?" was a greater percentage of the population. Today though the stigma around stripping has decreased and so more women are doing it, but even they are often still in the same boat when it comes to thinking "ewww, whore, is she that desperate for money?" or "eww, porn star, is that desperete for money". But that is changing too. The degree to which it is stigmatized decreases because newer generations grow up with greater exposure to these human activities than previous generations.

Who knows.. a few more generations and it may be like Holland here; prostitution and brothels legal, strip clubs mostly failed and replaced by sex shows.

Yea, extras break the law, but when did that stop people from engaging in vices or selling them? There is always an underground market selling illegal drugs. Same for sexual contact for money. The money is good so sellers take the risk.

latingod
10-24-2008, 07:43 AM
I underdstand that X....the thing is that I've been to this place for over a year and up to recently this was not the case in the VIP....they have gotten new talent or I've been introduced to other girls and that is where things have changed over the last 3-4 weeks.... I'm not saying I'm special, but what I'm saying is that the girls are going the extra mile trying to cultivate regulars because there is more competition and maybe the main reason is more girls need money and there are less customers trying to spend money because of the economy...

bigmarv
10-24-2008, 12:19 PM
I say sit back and enjoy the ride for as long as it lasts. After all you are playing in their back yard and the dancer knows what is best for you and her. ;D

Earl_the_Pearl
10-24-2008, 01:38 PM
I don't think it is just the economy. I think you are seeing a fairly typical social change taking place. This is the way they happen. Slowly, over several generations.

The change happened quickly with the Hippies and free love. The children of the flower children no longer give it away though.:'(

xdamage
10-25-2008, 05:41 AM
The change happened quickly with the Hippies and free love. The children of the flower children no longer give it away though.:'(

I looked at that as a temporary fad, but you said it yourself, it didn't stick. Once they grew up and became adults, they started acting like their parents again. Fads and short bubbles come and go, but I meant real long term social changes that transcend generations take many generations.

p.s. Besides, the hippies didn't discover sex. The world population is at 6.5 billion. It got that way because people are screwing, a LOT. Hippies, like most young people, like to think they discovered that sex feels good, but their parents already knew it. The rest of the world knows it too. But there are practical reasons why societies and parents teach children that promiscuity is dangerous, because it is!

Well... Or was.

Birth control, DNA tests, and STD fighting anti-biotics have changed the risks some but thank science for that, not the hippies.

xdamage
10-25-2008, 05:52 AM
I underdstand that X....the thing is that I've been to this place for over a year and up to recently this was not the case in the VIP....they have gotten new talent or I've been introduced to other girls and that is where things have changed over the last 3-4 weeks.... I'm not saying I'm special, but what I'm saying is that the girls are going the extra mile trying to cultivate regulars because there is more competition and maybe the main reason is more girls need money and there are less customers trying to spend money because of the economy...

Could be of course.

We've seen it happen increasingly for a long period of time, increased extras in clubs, but I suppose with the latest bank scare and all, there has been a sudden withdrawal of customer spending, and a sudden increase in extra activity.

grindonme
10-25-2008, 05:19 PM
Couple of responses to a Latingod thread on the pink side;D ;D

That's lovely!! You sound like a great customer. Im in Australia xoxo

Wish i could find a customer like latingod

To answer your question i've said this before and will say it again all clubs are the same on the "inside". The classy/upscale label is just something used as a reason to charge more. I'll use these two sadly now closed clubs as examples "The Gentlemens Club" and "Nikkis VIP":'( :'( . GC was labeled as upscale while Nikkis was known as its ghetto or whatever. Both clubs were owned by the same guy, most of the strippers at GC switched between that club and Nikkis and vice versa and both clubs had extras (GC was lowkey and in pvt while Nikkis was more out in the open). Because GC had the upscale label they could charge more for admission, dances, drinks and VIP. The club you're referring to more than likely has always been like that you just haven't seen it. The economy is a reason also but it only made those that were doing it really discreetly more forward with it

JoeUnCool
10-26-2008, 12:10 PM
Its at the Cheetah isn't it.
There are a bunch of really nice clubs in Atl. Cheetah, Pink Pony on Buford Hwy, and Oasis on Peachtree Industrial are the three that come to mind when I think of Atl. While Cheetah is #1, the other two are pretty nice. From my experience, it could be anyone or other clubs.

That brings up the real issue in my mind. I wish this $hit did not go on. I hate it to hit it off with a girl and then she'll ask about extras. It just kills my mood at that point.

safado
10-26-2008, 12:34 PM
That brings up the real issue in my mind. I wish this $hit did not go on. I hate it to hit it off with a girl and then she'll ask about extras. It just kills my mood at that point.

Why does it kill your mood, don't you like extras?

grindonme
10-26-2008, 04:25 PM
Why does it kill your mood, don't you like extras?

lmaooo...i was wondering the samething about killing the mood. I understand that some guys don't do the extra thing but i wanna know why does that kill the mood

mediocrity
10-26-2008, 05:42 PM
Why does it kill your mood, don't you like extras?

I think maybe it creates a negative connotation. Sort of like the "beware she who lets you happily lick her" thread. Like if she does X act for you, how many other guys has she done it for tonight? Does she clean up? Etc etc. I also think if you're a dances+conversation fellow only, as some are, it's a buzzkill. Sort of like a fantasy squash I suppose. "Oh, I thought we were having fun. All you want is to blow me/give me a handjob for X amount and move on."

I know what I am trying to say, but I'm having trouble finding an articulate and accurate way to describe it.

latingod
10-27-2008, 08:49 AM
Ok, just to be clear, I've never paid anything more than the normal room and dancer rate....there has not been any upselling or the dancer telling me...If you want this, is going to cost this $$ more.... I'm not a pushy kind of customer...I just let the dancer guide me through the experience, in that way I'm never the one that crosses any boundaries....

safado
10-27-2008, 04:26 PM
Ok, just to be clear, I've never paid anything more than the normal room and dancer rate....there has not been any upselling or the dancer telling me...If you want this, is going to cost this $$ more.... I'm not a pushy kind of customer...I just let the dancer guide me through the experience, in that way I'm never the one that crosses any boundaries....

I think that you did not pay more because it was already built into the VIP price. How much does the VIP cost?

safado
10-27-2008, 04:55 PM
I think maybe it creates a negative connotation. Sort of like the "beware she who lets you happily lick her" thread. Like if she does X act for you, how many other guys has she done it for tonight? Does she clean up? Etc etc.
I just don't see it, I mean as long as there isn't cum dripping off her body or oozing out of her pussy I don't see the problem.



"Oh, I thought we were having fun. All you want is to blow me/give me a handjob for X amount and move on."

That sounds like my idea of fun.}:D

xdamage
10-27-2008, 06:26 PM
I think maybe it creates a negative connotation. Sort of like the "beware she who lets you happily lick her" thread. Like if she does X act for you, how many other guys has she done it for tonight? ...

I know what I am trying to say, but I'm having trouble finding an articulate and accurate way to describe it.


A think lot of guys go to SCs with the whole "I am special", "She only does this for me" mindset. It breaks the mood to learn nope, he is just one of many, not treated special, and anyone with a few $s can have the same.

Sex with someone who is very selective about who they have sex with (male or female) might be looked upon as special, a triumph, an ego stroke for whoever is so lucky, but sex with someone who will have it with anyone does not stroke our egos. If you are going to get something else stroked maybe it doesn't matter, but if you really want the ego stroke, then I guess that makes it a mood breaker.

Also possibly it raises in us deep seated feelings of eww, dirty. And on some level that makes sense too. The more promiscuous someone is, the more likely to have been infected with a communicable disease. Birth control could limit that, but our innate human nature tells us that promiscuous people are more likely to pass something on to us (even if it is just TB or bad cold they picked up swapping spit with others).

JoeUnCool
10-28-2008, 05:53 AM
Why does it kill your mood, don't you like extras?

Some folks are into extras and sex in the VIP and OTC. I'm not. I'm also not one of the guys that thinks I'm special or anything like that. I like to go into a club, have some conversation (possibly suggestive), have some grinding lap dances (or VIP), and walk out by myself.

The question is why? I hooked up with a bad girl one time. That girl harassed this *hit out of me for about a year. Even then it wouldn't let up as her friend took over harassing me. After all these years, the "friend" recently saw me and wanted to "hook up." It took me a few minutes to realize who it was. My response was literally "Go the f*** away." I don't ever want to go back to that. I don't want to give myself the opportunity to be harassed again. Thus when a girl starts talking about extras, it kills my mood.

grindonme
10-28-2008, 09:22 AM
Some folks are into extras and sex in the VIP and OTC. I'm not. I'm also not one of the guys that thinks I'm special or anything like that. I like to go into a club, have some conversation (possibly suggestive), have some grinding lap dances (or VIP), and walk out by myself.

The question is why? I hooked up with a bad girl one time. That girl harassed this *hit out of me for about a year. Even then it wouldn't let up as her friend took over harassing me. After all these years, the "friend" recently saw me and wanted to "hook up." It took me a few minutes to realize who it was. My response was literally "Go the f*** away." I don't ever want to go back to that. I don't want to give myself the opportunity to be harassed again. Thus when a girl starts talking about extras, it kills my mood.

You must have paid her wayyyyyy more than she usually charges and she wanted some more;D

safado
10-28-2008, 02:35 PM
You must have paid her wayyyyyy more than she usually charges and she wanted some more;D

That is a good one.:rotfl:

mediocrity
10-28-2008, 07:42 PM
A think lot of guys go to SCs with the whole "I am special", "She only does this for me" mindset. It breaks the mood to learn nope, he is just one of many, not treated special, and anyone with a few $s can have the same.

Sex with someone who is very selective about who they have sex with (male or female) might be looked upon as special, a triumph, an ego stroke for whoever is so lucky, but sex with someone who will have it with anyone does not stroke our egos. If you are going to get something else stroked maybe it doesn't matter, but if you really want the ego stroke, then I guess that makes it a mood breaker.

Also possibly it raises in us deep seated feelings of eww, dirty. And on some level that makes sense too. The more promiscuous someone is, the more likely to have been infected with a communicable disease. Birth control could limit that, but our innate human nature tells us that promiscuous people are more likely to pass something on to us (even if it is just TB or bad cold they picked up swapping spit with others).

Hold the presses, but holy shit, I agree. This is an excellent post. Especially the bolded parts.

My big, huge issue with fluid exchange (other than I'm not into prostitution, no problem with it just not my style, and that I am in a committed relationship) is disease. It's just too high of a risk to me. I'm pursuing a career in the medical field currently and know way too much for my own good. Thus I am selective almost to a fault about who I have sexual contact with. My philosophy is you only get one body, you should take care of it. Hey, statistically, one in five adults has genital herpes! Not the most dangerous of STDs, but it IS for life.

Also even if I did get struck 80 times by lightening on a full moon and decide to become an "extras" girl, I am terribly allergic to latex. So that brings us full circle to the disease aspect.

I digress. I do agree that it IS about the feeling special or the ego stroke, and for some men to find out it's just sort of a blasť, everyday act for a girl... I agree, it kills the fantasy aspect for them.

latingod
11-03-2008, 07:26 PM
Mediocrity,
I'll be in Vegas next week...are you at the Rhino?? What is your stage name, I would like to meet one of the dancers from Stripper web...

Ciao

LG

mediocrity
11-04-2008, 04:15 PM
Mediocrity,
I'll be in Vegas next week...are you at the Rhino?? What is your stage name, I would like to meet one of the dancers from Stripper web...

Ciao

LG

I PM'ed you.

JoeUnCool
11-06-2008, 07:32 PM
You must have paid her wayyyyyy more than she usually charges and she wanted some more;D


That is a good one.:rotfl:

It was definitely not my finest hour. :-X

atlmorgan
01-27-2009, 01:09 PM
This is exactly why I QUIT dancing in atlanta! The club I was at for years got worse and worse.On my last day a very much pain in the ass customer who was always bragging about his expensive vacations and would ALWAYS low ball the v.i.p prices and EXPECT XTRAS.He asked me that afternoon if I would go with him and another girl and be with BOTH of them back there-AND the price for v.i.p. was 25 for the room and 100 per half hr. per dancer-he offered 100 total for us to split and wanted us to pay for room out of our money.When I said NOWAY he said WATCH HOW EASILY YOU CAN BE REPLACED!!!!and did.I couldn't take it anymore.I was driving 2 hrs. just to get there and staying at a hotel 2 or 3 nites a week and barley breaking even.Such b.s.I myself am VERY PICKY on who touches me how,when,and where! They even do this UNPROTECTED!!!EWWWW When I think of all the shit u can catch ewww.I quit that day and haven't been back,been 3 years.I tried to go to the NEW pony and I found out things weren't much different there either just fancier rooms-I never saw it just listened to girls talk.I didn't even stay after paying 325 for a permit. I'm not a hooker.

atlmorgan
01-27-2009, 01:13 PM
It's nice to hear a GUY say they were wondering what xtrs they might get from this kind action in the v.i.p. Herpes,aids,........My my my. If I were a guy I'd be wondering who else she.... today,or yesterday....good for you for caring latingod

latingod
01-27-2009, 02:46 PM
I just like to have some clean fun...nothing else....maybe we should hit one of the clubs one night if you're in town (ATL)...

Take Care!!

LG

Earl_the_Pearl
02-08-2009, 09:50 AM
Also even if I did get struck 80 times by lightening on a full moon and decide to become an "extras" girl, I am terribly allergic to latex.
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