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J.D.
02-16-2009, 11:16 AM
No, I tend to fall for a guy based on his personality, not looks. But sometimes a girl needs an ego boost, to know she is pretty and will find many more guys in the near future! And that this is all his loss...

BTW, he has been calling me from a private number, and e mailing me how much he misses me and how sorry he is.... I even caught him driving around the parking lot of my condos. Also, mysteriously, I received an email from ATT saying someone was trying to hack into my cell phone records online. They kept trying to guess my password, which usually is always the same, anyone who knows me knows it, but after too many attempts ATT contacted me. It had to be this guy, although I don't understand why. Maybe he's trying to see if I am talking to other guys....

Oh well, I guess I'll keep on ignoring him, word on the street is he has a new girlfriend, an arab girl by which his and her family set them up. I hope it all works out for him, but more importantly I hope it all works out for me.

Djoser
02-16-2009, 03:17 PM
...after too many attempts ATT contacted me. It had to be this guy, although I don't understand why. Maybe he's trying to see if I am talking to other guys....

Oh well, I guess I'll keep on ignoring him, word on the street is he has a new girlfriend, an arab girl by which his and her family set them up. I hope it all works out for him, but more importantly I hope it all works out for me.

Of course it's him, these pathological liars tend to be control freaks as well.

They want to string along as many women as they can with lies and dazzling bullshit, and control them all. But deep down they worry that the women might be doing the same thing to them, so they never trust any of them. Pretty fucked up and pathetic, but that's the way their minds work.


It sounds like you are doing very well, you are moving on mentally which is the best revenge.

It might be tempting to fuck with him by sleeping with his best friend, keying his car, etc., but what that is telling him is that he still matters to you. The best way to beat this ugly motherfucking monkey-faced liar is to live as though he doesn't exist anymore. And guess what? If you don't think about him at all, for all intents and purposes he doesn't exist any more. The less you think about him (except maybe as a walking joke), the more you win back your life.

Vyanka
02-17-2009, 12:49 PM
Um, no. You are a very attractive woman, and he is one ugly motherfucker...

LMAO :D

Girl, i'm so sorry you're feeling that way. That feeling sucks ass, been there.

threlayer
02-17-2009, 08:44 PM
It would be good to be cautious about your passwords and change them frequently now that you know he is trying to hack your accounts. You can put another password on your account as a whole, as well as on your phone, and your online account itself. Protect any other info he was aware of or can find out by 'social engineering' your friends. Good luck!!

erotictonic
02-19-2009, 08:51 PM
I'm sorry this happened to you. Some guys ARE and will continue to be amazing jerks.

I hope you will find the strength to get through this, learn a lot of good lessons, and move on to someone who deserves you.

Corey
02-20-2009, 12:38 AM
ok, I found one of him.... we kind of look related???

^ ^ ^ ^

I feel kinda bad saying this, but...I burst out laughing when I say his pic/:O;D

I don't mean this as a negative thing to say to you at all. I am so sorry about what happened and yeah, I've been there. I ended up cutting all of my hair off because of that one.

But you can do so, so much better. And you will.