Laurisa
11-05-2009, 12:41 PM
^^^I've done it a handful of times. Is it a big waste of money?
Well let me answer like this.
The escort thing is a risk as it is illegal in the USA. Would suck to fuck up your whole life over it, but okay, putting that aside (there may be ways to mitigate that risk) -
Some of us just aren't going to have sex with a stranger for various reasons including we're in relationships, or just don't have sex casually for various reasons (risk, we want the connection, whatever reasons). It stops at some occasional fantasy in S.C. If that is a waste then really all of SCs are a waste and customers might as well just save their money for sex (but I'm guessing you'd agree there is actually nothing wrong with stopping short of sex).
The VIP rooms can be over priced or equivalently priced to just doing the same thing on the floor. At $20 for a 3 minute song it works out to about $400 an hour, basically the same. The main difference is if after a dance or two it's not working you can more easily walk away. Assuming they don't tack on a bunch of bogus fees, then it's basically just an hour with additional privacy.
OTOH on rare occasion I've relaxed for an hour in VIP and of those, I'd say I was treated amazing for that hour. Was it worth it? Hmm... in a way yes, it's a unique experience and like a mini vacation from self.
Would I do it often? Nope. There is just too much competition for my entertainment dollar and while it is fun, just like an expensive meal is sometimes fun, I'm not an addict or wealthy enough to just blow my money carelessly.
I can definitely appreciate going into the VIP a few times a year for a special treat, or just once to try it out. I just don't get the guys that go into the strip clubs night after night and head into the VIP. Strip clubs weren't designed for women, though, were they? I have never solicited a prostitute, and I personally don't have a need to. (I'm not a lonely, older male, though). I would much rather go to a swingers club or meet someone online for group sex with my boyfriend. Have I had sex with strangers before? Yes, but it was a one night stand and I didn't get paid. :'(
Personally, I don't condone escorting because it is illegal. I can't risk having a prostitution charge on my record, but I don't frown upon the women that do it. Brothels in Nevada are VERY successful, and many of the women only work a few months out of the year. I think that pornography and escorting are not that different. I understand the logistics of the business are different, but in both a porn star and an escort are being paid to have sex with someone. The only difference that I can see is who is cutting them a check. Pornography is legal, which is why I cannot look down upon escorts. Just my $0.02.
Well let me answer like this.
The escort thing is a risk as it is illegal in the USA. Would suck to fuck up your whole life over it, but okay, putting that aside (there may be ways to mitigate that risk) -
Some of us just aren't going to have sex with a stranger for various reasons including we're in relationships, or just don't have sex casually for various reasons (risk, we want the connection, whatever reasons). It stops at some occasional fantasy in S.C. If that is a waste then really all of SCs are a waste and customers might as well just save their money for sex (but I'm guessing you'd agree there is actually nothing wrong with stopping short of sex).
The VIP rooms can be over priced or equivalently priced to just doing the same thing on the floor. At $20 for a 3 minute song it works out to about $400 an hour, basically the same. The main difference is if after a dance or two it's not working you can more easily walk away. Assuming they don't tack on a bunch of bogus fees, then it's basically just an hour with additional privacy.
OTOH on rare occasion I've relaxed for an hour in VIP and of those, I'd say I was treated amazing for that hour. Was it worth it? Hmm... in a way yes, it's a unique experience and like a mini vacation from self.
Would I do it often? Nope. There is just too much competition for my entertainment dollar and while it is fun, just like an expensive meal is sometimes fun, I'm not an addict or wealthy enough to just blow my money carelessly.
I can definitely appreciate going into the VIP a few times a year for a special treat, or just once to try it out. I just don't get the guys that go into the strip clubs night after night and head into the VIP. Strip clubs weren't designed for women, though, were they? I have never solicited a prostitute, and I personally don't have a need to. (I'm not a lonely, older male, though). I would much rather go to a swingers club or meet someone online for group sex with my boyfriend. Have I had sex with strangers before? Yes, but it was a one night stand and I didn't get paid. :'(
Personally, I don't condone escorting because it is illegal. I can't risk having a prostitution charge on my record, but I don't frown upon the women that do it. Brothels in Nevada are VERY successful, and many of the women only work a few months out of the year. I think that pornography and escorting are not that different. I understand the logistics of the business are different, but in both a porn star and an escort are being paid to have sex with someone. The only difference that I can see is who is cutting them a check. Pornography is legal, which is why I cannot look down upon escorts. Just my $0.02.