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GoLightly
04-11-2009, 12:03 AM
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verfolgung
04-11-2009, 05:49 AM
Why? My simple guess is because it's his nature and because he can.

I would also venture to guess that if he was doing this with the two of you, that he's likely done it with others as well.

It's not your fault. You felt something wasn't right and discovered the truth. You may have initally fallen for his false front, but at least you found out now and can choose to get away. It can some people years to come to a similar realization.

If you are having difficulty detaching from him, it's understandable. Emotions can cause us to think and do crazy things. It's kinda why real love is so great. However, you hopefully see that the person you bonded so well with was NOT the true him, but just an illusion created to draw you in.

Take care and good luck.

GoLightly
04-11-2009, 10:48 AM
You are right. I gave myself yesterday to be upset about it. He is not worth me crying about. Infact, I wanted to cry so bad but for some reason I was so numb I couldn't.

The one lesson I have learned from this is that my intution is dead on. I'm always going to listen to it from now on.

Thanks for the insight : )