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Hopper
05-20-2009, 07:27 AM
^That's sort of what I was getting at. She's having to live up to what strippers can do. And she could probably do better than some naturally her own way than what many strippers can do. It's not much of a game. It's like having sex while reading a manual.

jack0177057
05-20-2009, 07:51 AM
I still feel sorry for his wife, sounds like an arkward position to be in. If she were to say `Pfft, I can do better than those strippers anyday!`, then give you ANY kind of lapdance then thats cool (and you BETTER like it).
But the DVDs and suggestions? Bit demeaning.

Maybe it sounds demeaning out of context... But, it really wasnt... It was common for us to roleplay as part of our lovemaking... Before being my "stripper", she had also been my nurse, airline stewardess, cheerleader, devil, etc... She initiated most of these roles and some were by request...

Also, the stripper role was my birthday present... It was a special occasion... And the DVDs were necessary because she had never been inside a SC and didn't know what a lap dance was. It was hard to explain to her what I had SEEN at the SC... She had to see it... and it wasn't like she had to "study" it... She just had to watch a few minutes of it to get the idea. Anyway, these DVDs are very popular and strip-aerobics and pole-dancing classes have also been very popular.

We had a creative and fun sex life in the bedroom... and as much as I hate to brag... I was a great lover to her... I gave her lot's of foreplay, sensual massages, cunninlingus, etc... We "coached" each other all the time... and she ALWAYS reached orgasm...

Also, her lap dance really was WAY hotter and WAY better than any I've ever had at the SC (I told her it was better than any I had ever SEEN at the SC).

Jezzebelle
05-20-2009, 08:34 AM
pole-dancing classes have also been very popular.




Ya dont say!


Also paragraph 3? I didnt need to know all that.

Earl_the_Pearl
05-20-2009, 09:42 AM
I still feel sorry for his wife, sounds like an arkward position to be in. If she were to say `Pfft, I can do better than those strippers anyday!`, then give you ANY kind of lapdance then thats cool (and you BETTER like it).

I would like a LD from his wife. :P

jack0177057
05-20-2009, 11:48 AM
I would like a LD from his wife. :P

Ex-wife...

jack0177057
05-20-2009, 11:54 AM
Ya dont say!


Also paragraph 3? I didnt need to know all that.

I'm not advertising my services... But, you made me out to be like I forced her to be my sex toy... Hey, I was her sex toy, too...

Earl_the_Pearl
05-20-2009, 01:02 PM
I'm not advertising my services... But, you made me out to be like I forced her to be my sex toy... Hey, I was her sex toy, too...
You advertised your ex's service, I still want to do a LD with her.

jack0177057
05-20-2009, 01:35 PM
You advertised your ex's service, I still want to do a LD with her.

Go for it!

But, here's an even better offer!... I could coach your GF in the erotic arts of striptease and lap dancing...:D... Satisfaction guaranteed, if not completely satisfied after the first week,... bring her back and I will train her for an unlimited number of sessions until she gets the grinding, rubbing and other dancer skillsets COMPLETELY MASTERED...:D Dude, you will thank me for your new and improved GF...;D

glambman
05-20-2009, 04:19 PM
Go for it!

But, here's an even better offer!... I could coach your GF in the erotic arts of striptease and lap dancing...:D... Satisfaction guaranteed, if not completely satisfied after the first week,... bring her back and I will train her for an unlimited number of sessions until she gets the grinding, rubbing and other dancer skillsets COMPLETELY MASTERED...:D Dude, you will thank me for your new and improved GF...;D

Could you teach her to cook, clean, take out the garbage, mow the lawn, or is that cost prohibitive?

Jezzebelle
05-21-2009, 04:21 AM
I'm not advertising my services... But, you made me out to be like I forced her to be my sex toy...


No I bloody didnt!


Thats not what I meant at all!


I was pissed that you think you can coach a woman to act womanly. Even worse a woman that you loved.

`Forced` AND `Sex toy`? WTF?

Hopper
05-21-2009, 05:36 AM
Jack - I think I was the one who insinuated that you were treating your wife like a sex toy. It sounded to me before like you were making her into a "home stripper". If it was just role-playing and a one-off, I guess that's different. Not that I dig the role-playing to spice up your boring sex life or boring partner scene. There are more subtle, genuine and effective ways to do that. Jezebelle apparently thought you were telling your wife how to be sexy, whereas any woman should know how to dance and be sexy for her man without him directing her. There are regular clubs for that LOL.

I still think you're stuck in the 80s bro.

Jezzebelle
05-21-2009, 07:01 AM
What Hopper said.



As he is better with words than me, and swears less. LOL

jack0177057
05-21-2009, 02:24 PM
Jack - I think I was the one who insinuated that you were treating your wife like a sex toy. It sounded to me before like you were making her into a "home stripper". If it was just role-playing and a one-off, I guess that's different. Not that I dig the role-playing to spice up your boring sex life or boring partner scene. There are more subtle, genuine and effective ways to do that. Jezebelle apparently thought you were telling your wife how to be sexy, whereas any woman should know how to dance and be sexy for her man without him directing her. There are regular clubs for that LOL.

I still think you're stuck in the 80s bro.

No, bro, I think YOU'RE stuck in the 80s...

First off, if "any woman should know how to dance and be sexy for her man" why are there so many strip-aerobics and pole-dancing videos and dance studios offering instruction in this area?

Baywatch actress Carmen Electra has made a whole series of strip-aerobics and lap dancing DVDs and LA Law actress Sheila Kelley has opened up strip-tease and pole-dancing studios (S Factor) in major cities across the US. Maybe you should alert them to that fact that women don’t need to learn to dance sexy.

Yeah, regular dancing with a little sexiness is easy, but you have to see a "professional" strip-tease and lap dance (in the SC or in a DVD) to really know how its done.

As far as roleplaying - nurse, schoolgirl and female cop outfits are the most popular outfits in most adult boutique stores. The most popular toys, aside from vibrators, are handcuffs and other roleplaying accessories.

Are partners who engage in a little roleplaying bored with each other? Of course not, they just like to explore their innermost fantasies with each other. It also frees up a women’s inhibitions because she is "only pretending" to be that naughty character and SHE can take character as far as HER imagination can go... BTW - my observation is that "shy women" have the wildest imagination...

Are you seriously telling me you’ve never bought a girl a nurse, schoolgirl or female cop outfit? Go here my friend - http://www.loverslane.com/shop.axd/Halloween-Lane (http://www.loverslane.com/shop.axd/Halloween-Lane)

vmurphy252
05-21-2009, 03:02 PM
YOU'RE stuck in the '80's.

hockeybobby
05-21-2009, 04:30 PM
Oh yeah!?

vmurphy252
05-21-2009, 07:04 PM
^My dad can beat up your dad.

/end threadjack

JayATee
05-21-2009, 07:12 PM
Ok, wait, you guys dislike your wives stripping for you??

Crow2
05-21-2009, 11:23 PM
Ok, wait, you guys dislike your wives stripping for you??


That's why we have jobs.. and usually the wife is overweight and really gross. Or she won't put out and the poor guy has to pay some lovely young miss to give him blue balls. Once again, why we have jobs.

vmurphy252
05-21-2009, 11:24 PM
^Hey, easy.

Crow2
05-21-2009, 11:28 PM
Truth hurts.

vmurphy252
05-21-2009, 11:29 PM
:crying:

JayATee
05-22-2009, 12:11 AM
That's why we have jobs.. and usually the wife is overweight and really gross. Or she won't put out and the poor guy has to pay some lovely young miss to give him blue balls. Once again, why we have jobs.


Well I mean that I understand of course, but my SO's have always been very excited to have me dance for them even when I wasn't doing it professionally. It still never kept them out of the clubs tho.

Hopper
05-22-2009, 03:17 AM
No, bro, I think YOU'RE stuck in the 80s...

First off, if "any woman should know how to dance and be sexy for her man" why are there so many strip-aerobics and pole-dancing videos and dance studios offering instruction in this area?

Baywatch actress Carmen Electra has made a whole series of strip-aerobics and lap dancing DVDs and LA Law actress Sheila Kelley has opened up strip-tease and pole-dancing studios (S Factor) in major cities across the US. Maybe you should alert them to that fact that women don’t need to learn to dance sexy.

Yeah, regular dancing with a little sexiness is easy, but you have to see a "professional" strip-tease and lap dance (in the SC or in a DVD) to really know how its done.

As far as roleplaying - nurse, schoolgirl and female cop outfits are the most popular outfits in most adult boutique stores. The most popular toys, aside from vibrators, are handcuffs and other roleplaying accessories.

Are partners who engage in a little roleplaying bored with each other? Of course not, they just like to explore their innermost fantasies with each other. It also frees up a women’s inhibitions because she is "only pretending" to be that naughty character and SHE can take character as far as HER imagination can go... BTW - my observation is that "shy women" have the wildest imagination...

Are you seriously telling me you’ve never bought a girl a nurse, schoolgirl or female cop outfit? Go here my friend - http://www.loverslane.com/shop.axd/Halloween-Lane (http://www.loverslane.com/shop.axd/Halloween-Lane)

Yeah, seriously haven't. I wouldn't mind her wearing her original school uniform though, if she has it. Maybe next Halloween I'd like her to wear a Catwoman costume. But I'd like her to surprise me.

I'm not saying that role-playig is stupid. People do all sorts of silly things when they have sex. I was thinking of all those books on spicing up (or reviving) people's sex lives using role-play as a technique. If your sex life is that bad, role play isn't going to do much for you. If your sex life is okay, then role play is just another way to have fun with it and, yes, release your inhibitions.

Yeah, role-play costumes are the most popular things in adult shops - among people who need to go to adult shops. Most of those people don't have any imagination. Again, it's a fad. Used to be for perverts and dirty old men.

There are lots of strip-aerobics classes and stripping instructional videos because it's another mindless money-making fad and people like to think they ar doing something risque. Strippers just happen to be "in", as evidenced by the younger crowd in SCs and the number of women visitting them.

Carmen and Sheila wouldn't care what the rubes need as long as the money keeps coming in. Many women do it for fitness, not to become sexier. They just think it's a risque form of exercise. (Some strippers tell me they got fit from their job alone - and they were very solid and toned girls.) Being fitter makes girls sexier, but it still won't mean they are sexy dancers.

Watcing a professional stripper doesn't make a woman professional or sexy. Many strippers who have done it for years aren't sexy when they do it. Women are either sexy or they aren't. Learning moves with a pole doesn't change that. However, good dancing in a strip-tease is sexy. Same goes for women dancing in general.

Hopper
05-22-2009, 03:22 AM
Well I mean that I understand of course, but my SO's have always been very excited to have me dance for them even when I wasn't doing it professionally. It still never kept them out of the clubs tho.

That's because you are a professional.

Hopper
05-22-2009, 03:24 AM
Ok, wait, you guys dislike your wives stripping for you??

No - but it has to come from her, not a video or a club routine. Sexy girls just know how to be sexy. Where do you think strip-tease came from in the first place?

jack0177057
05-22-2009, 09:27 AM
Ok, wait, you guys dislike your wives stripping for you??
Like I said, when my ex-wife learned to dance like a pro, I stopped going to the SC... at least, until other problems emerged. She was just as hot, if not hotter than the dancers at the SC. She would have made a killing if she had turned pro.

Every GF I've had since has learned to dance for me. One of them even took pole-dancing classes and was very good at it. Because of this, I only go to the SC when: (a) the girl I'm with is pissed off about something and not giving me lap dances and not putting out or (b) when I am in-between GFs.

(I also occasionally go to the upscale Men Clubs in Houston that serves delicious steaks on Thurs for $9.99, but that doesn't count because I go primarily for the steaks.)

Changing the subject a little (I can threadjack from a threadjacker, can't I?) -
Why don't dancers wear costumes more often in the SC? I see it once in a while, but it's rare... Not to sound like I am advertising for these place, but I love the costumes at
http://www.loverslane.com/shop.axd/Halloween-Lane (http://www.loverslane.com/shop.axd/Halloween-Lane) and http://www.yandy.com/Shopping/products/category_19.asp?P=all (http://www.yandy.com/Shopping/products/category_19.asp?P=all)

These are my favorite - really hot:

Cop -
http://www.loverslane.com/Couture+Cop/cid=558/page_no=1/edp_no=28401/shop.axd/ProductDetails
http://www.loverslane.com/Officer+Naughty+Costume/cid=383/page_no=3/edp_no=20916/shop.axd/ProductDetails

Nurse -
http://www.wickedtemptations.com/c7-ra1420j5.html (http://www.wickedtemptations.com/c7-ra1420j5.html)
http://www.yandy.com/Shopping/products/prod_300.asp
http://www.yandy.com/Tank-Top-Nurse-Costume.php (http://www.yandy.com/Tank-Top-Nurse-Costume.php)

Frenchmaid
http://www.wickedtemptations.com/u90029j8.html (http://www.wickedtemptations.com/u90029j8.html)http://www.yandy.com/-Maid.php (http://www.yandy.com/-Maid.php)
http://www.yandy.com/babydoll,thng,hat,apron,ticklr.php (http://www.yandy.com/babydoll,thng,hat,apron,ticklr.php)

Schoolgirl -
http://www.loverslane.com/School+Girl/cid=372/page_no=1/edp_no=20484/shop.axd/ProductDetails
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B001G508P0/ref=asc_df_B001G508P0799277?tag=the004-20&creative=380337&creativeASIN=B001G508P0&linkCode=asn

JayATee
05-22-2009, 11:20 AM
Like I said, when my ex-wife learned to dance like a pro, I stopped going to the SC... at least, until other problems emerged. She was just as hot, if not hotter than the dancers at the SC. She would have made a killing if she had turned pro.

Every GF I've had since has learned to dance for me. One of them even took pole-dancing classes and was very good at it. Because of this, I only go to the SC when: (a) the girl I'm with is pissed off about something and not giving me lap dances and not putting out or (b) when I am in-between GFs.

(I also occasionally go to the upscale Men Clubs in Houston that serves delicious steaks on Thurs for $9.99, but that doesn't count because I go primarily for the steaks.)



Umm ok now I understand what their problem is....

Crow2
05-22-2009, 12:14 PM
Umm ok now I understand what their problem is....


AhHA! I get it too.

No wonder you are in the SC so much.../:O

jack0177057
05-22-2009, 03:51 PM
Umm ok now I understand what their problem is....

Hey, I can't help it if girls do nice things for me...;) I've never held a gun to their head and said - "Strip for me, or else...!" I have more subtle persuasion techniques that usually involve me doing nice things for them... and some begging...:)

But, seriously, I've never offended anyone... It's not like I say - "I want you to act like a stripper and satisfy my stripper fantasy." I just tell the girl I'm dating, at the appropriate time, that I think she dances very sexy and I just love watching her dance... Or, I tell her that erotic dancing is a HUGE turn on for me... Then, it just naturally evolves from there... The DVD comes later, like for a special occassion when I ask for an extra sexy dance - my birthday or our anniversary... I don't mention strippers or SC, though some girls ask me about it, and I categorically deny being a SC enthusiast...

I DO NOT pull out a Carmen Electra lap-dancing DVD while we are seated in a restaurant during our first date and tell her that I want a pro-quality lap dance on the second date...

Hopper
05-22-2009, 07:14 PM
^It just naturally evolves, from your strippers fixation, after a bit of manipulation, followed by begging and a training DVD. And they would never guess that you are a SC enthusiast. Do you actually have a pole in your bedroom or living room?

Having your girlfriend strip-tease is fine, but the way you tell it, it sounds like you are using your girlfriends to substitute for your SC visits. You only stop going to SCs if your current GF does strip-teases for you learnt from a strip-tease DVD. Why not just keep going to SCs instead, if you like strippers?

hockeybobby
05-22-2009, 07:57 PM
Ahh, whatever floats yer boat man.

Cyril
05-25-2009, 08:00 PM
I have tried to convince my wife to role play a stripper but she did not show any interest whatsoever. When I pressed the matter, she threatened to divorce me. So, I never brought up the issue again for following reasons:
- I cannot cook
- I cannot do the laundry
- I get depressed when she is not around

Only solution for me would be to get a stripper mistress. But that sounds like a bad idea after reading this forum.

dreamer1980
05-25-2009, 10:27 PM
So, I never brought up the issue again for following reasons:
- I cannot cook
- I cannot do the laundry
- I get depressed when she is not around

- I cannot cook
solution: del taco, pizza, macaroni & cheese with tuna...the possibilities are endless and easy

- I cannot do the laundry
solution: go to costco and buy underwear, socks and undershirts by the bulk. same with shirts and pants. throw them away when they're dirty

- I get depressed when she is not around
solution: go to a strip club! (preferably one that sells alcohol so you can get shit faced too)

you can thank me later ;) ;D

jack0177057
05-26-2009, 11:58 AM
I have tried to convince my wife to role play a stripper but she did not show any interest whatsoever. When I pressed the matter, she threatened to divorce me. So, I never brought up the issue again for following reasons:
- I cannot cook
- I cannot do the laundry
- I get depressed when she is not around

Only solution for me would be to get a stripper mistress. But that sounds like a bad idea after reading this forum.

I don't think any woman would appreciate being told to act like a stripper just so that you can fulfill your stripper fantasy... It can come across offensive and degrading... Like if she tells you to dress up like a firefighter because she has always wanted to fuck one of the guys down at the fire station...

It has to be real subtle and gradual. What is she comfortable wearing? --- Sexy mini-skirt and high-heels? Sexy Costume? Lingerie? I would start by telling her how hot she looks when she dresses sexy for you... Then, put on some slow music and dance with her... Tell her what a sexy dancer she is... Put on some faster music... Do some dirty dancing with her while you both remove each other's clothes... When she is comfortable dancing, act like you are tired and sit down,... but ask her to continue to dance, because you love how sexy SHE is when she dances... All the focus is on how sexy SHE is, NOT how sexy the strippers at the SC are...

If she is not open to acting like a stripper... Do not buy a stripper DVD... ever!... Instead, wait for her to get comfortable dancing in her lingerie,... and buy her an "erotic dancing" DVD... which is essentially the same as a stripper DVD, but with a different name...

hockeybobby
05-26-2009, 04:50 PM
Cyril...Cyril...Cyril...

Dude?!

commanderadama
05-26-2009, 05:27 PM
I have tried to convince my wife to role play a stripper but she did not show any interest whatsoever. When I pressed the matter, she threatened to divorce me. So, I never brought up the issue again for following reasons:
- I cannot cook
- I cannot do the laundry
- I get depressed when she is not around

Only solution for me would be to get a stripper mistress. But that sounds like a bad idea after reading this forum.

That is so romantic ;D

Cyril
05-26-2009, 07:51 PM
Dreamer,

It is not that easy to part. You develop a dependency on women and they become a part of you. Or, some crap like that.




Jack,

She is too prude. She thinks only bad girls wear garter. The task at hand is truly hopeless.

jack0177057
05-26-2009, 08:07 PM
Jack,

She is too prude. She thinks only bad girls wear garter. The task at hand is truly hopeless.

What about thigh high stockings without garter? Is there anything sexy that she'll wear in the bedroom? Victoria Secrets?

Does she dance at all?

Can you get her drunk?

Cyril
05-26-2009, 08:29 PM
What about thigh high stockings without garter? Is there anything sexy that she'll wear in the bedroom? Victoria Secrets?

Does she dance at all?

Can you get her drunk?

She does not like wearing anything that she considers "whore attire". She is a very good dancer but not the kind I like. She only drinks wine during holiday dinners like Thanksgiving or Christmas.

jack0177057
05-27-2009, 07:39 AM
She does not like wearing anything that she considers "whore attire". She is a very good dancer but not the kind I like. She only drinks wine during holiday dinners like Thanksgiving or Christmas.

What made you marry this girl? Is she a religious radical? Even conservative Christian believe that kinky acts between spouses are sanctioned... I would visit a sex therapist with her, maybe she has some past trauma issues. No "normal" person is that uptight about sex. She needs to understand that men are visual creatures and need visual eroticism... If she is a book-worm type, buy a sex instruction book that has a good section discussing the visual needs of men and also discusses erotic clothes, strip-teasing, role playing, etc.

If you don't have kids yet, you might consider divorcing her. A marriage cannot survive if the sex isn't good. You will end up cheating on her. You are better off divorcing her now, rather than down the road when you have kids in the middle.

lemmiwinks31
05-27-2009, 02:08 PM
She does not like wearing anything that she considers "whore attire". She is a very good dancer but not the kind I like. She only drinks wine during holiday dinners like Thanksgiving or Christmas.


slip her some GHB and take her home and dead horse her.....you can dress her up in some whore attire first if you want.....

hockeybobby
05-27-2009, 03:19 PM
It sounds like a codependent type relationship Cyril. The first step in regaining your manhood will be leaving her. This is a hard but honourable path.

Cyril
05-27-2009, 07:25 PM
What made you marry this girl? Is she a religious radical? Even conservative Christian believe that kinky acts between spouses are sanctioned... I would visit a sex therapist with her, maybe she has some past trauma issues. No "normal" person is that uptight about sex. She needs to understand that men are visual creatures and need visual eroticism... If she is a book-worm type, buy a sex instruction book that has a good section discussing the visual needs of men and also discusses erotic clothes, strip-teasing, role playing, etc.

If you don't have kids yet, you might consider divorcing her. A marriage cannot survive if the sex isn't good. You will end up cheating on her. You are better off divorcing her now, rather than down the road when you have kids in the middle.

It was a gradual process. She was never kinky to begin with. On a contrast, I can be very kinky. Anyway, I think there is a disconnect as far as sexual desire is concerned. It has more to do with her upbringing than her religion.

Cyril
05-27-2009, 07:27 PM
It sounds like a codependent type relationship Cyril. The first step in regaining your manhood will be leaving her. This is a hard but honourable path.

There is a very heavy dependency at least on my side. I just do not want to leave her. I need to become an RIL of a stripper. LOL.

Hopper
05-28-2009, 12:29 AM
Cyril - I disagree with Jack and Hockyeyhobby - sex is not a reason to divorce. There are other things you can enjoy with your wife and possibly doing so will lead to better sex.

A lack of kinky sex does not make bad sex. Normal sex is good on it's own. It's actually the best kind. Many people just don't like kinky sex or are happy enough with normal.

It's the fashion for wives to dress and act like whores but many wives don't like to act like whores; they just want you to appreciate them as they really are. Maybe your just has more self-respect than other wives and so doesn't see why she needs to act like a whore to be interesting. You are judging your wife by your own tastes, which are themselves artificial. If yo want strip-tease, go to SCs to get them.

It's up to you how your wife behaves sexually. It depends how you behave and how you treat her. Maybe the reason she is uptight is nothing to do with you, but don't assume it.

Forget Jack's "book and video" approach - women don't need to be told how to behave sexually, you just have to flip the right switches so to speak.

Otoki
05-28-2009, 10:26 AM
I checked this thread out for the lulz and holy fuck balls, is it full of Fail!

vmurphy252
05-28-2009, 10:31 AM
I checked this thread out for the lulz and holy fuck balls, is it full of Fail!

I love the eloquence with which you expressed this. (Sounds smart-ass, but I really do...)

Otoki
05-28-2009, 10:37 AM
Cyril...Cyril...Cyril...

Dude?!

For serious.

jack0177057
05-28-2009, 02:48 PM
Cyril - I disagree with Jack and Hockyeyhobby - sex is not a reason to divorce. There are other things you can enjoy with your wife and possibly doing so will lead to better sex.

Like playing Monopoly?

Hopper doesn't know what he is talking about... He is probably not old enough to go to SC, except with a fake ID... Ask him how old he is, whether he has ever been married,... and if so, how long...

Sexual compatibility is the MOST IMPORTANT thing in a marriage... If you want to enjoy "other things" with her,... be her best friend and BUDDY, not her husband...

A wife should be someone you love, respect, honor and all that nice stuff,... but, also someone you want to fuck exclusively for the next 50 years.... That's about 5,500 fucks! Needless to say, she must be a GREAT fucker or your stuck with a shitty sex life until you die!

I was married for 12 years... The first 10 years were SOLID because our sex life was SOLID and our mutual lust helped us overcome every other obstacle... But, when my EX-wife started to be sexually unresponsive to me... that's when things deteriorated fast. As a man, you start seeking sexual stimulation, gratification and validation elsewhere... which leads to lies, deceit, concealment... which leads to discovery and pain,... which leads to divorce,... which leads to her taking a HUGE chunk of everything you own... and everyone thinking YOU are an asshole for cheating on her.

The feeling of being "in love" lasts approximately two years... this is scientifically explained by chemical reactions in the brain (nature's way of jumpstarting a family unit)... This should give you sufficient time to cement your relationship with other things... like respect, admiration, trust, friendship, familial love,... but above all SEXUAL COMPATIBILITY. Without SEXUAL COMPATIBILITY, you've got nothing except guilt keeping you together, after the "in love" feeling has worn out!

SEXUAL COMPATIBILITY involves compatibility of sexual drive, but also compatibility in how you express your sexuality... e.g., your levels of eroticism and romanticism... You both have to be equally open-minded, creative and accomodating...

Some sexually uptight people can change over time, but based on her threats to leave you merely for suggesting some roleplaying,... I wouldn't be very optimistic...

JayATee
05-28-2009, 03:08 PM
^ Jack I feel sorry for any female who ever dates you.

Sex fades. When you're old you better have had a lot more than just a great sexual relationship.