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SteveSmith
05-19-2009, 05:07 PM
I don't notice one thing about the dancer; my eyes just scan the whole package, but my eyes tend to gravitate towards her ass and thighs.

The most oddball compliment I ever gave: I went up to this dancer on stage to tip her and told her that she had a very sexy forehead. She said, "What?" Then I said, "Your high forehead is a sign of intelligence; that's very sexy." She laughed and said, "I've never heard that one before."

Hey, that was a sincere compliment, and yes, I was totally wasted at the time. :D

Earl_the_Pearl
05-19-2009, 05:26 PM
I'm still not going out with you, asshole.

All PLs should remember it is a business.

^ Harsh, but that's what it boils down to for me, too. I've seen it all. Only man I'm going home with is Benjamin.
It is a business so dancer's should understand when a PL wants value for his Benjamins a value that is honestly ::) agreed upon.

charlie61
05-19-2009, 05:30 PM
^ Yes. No lying.

FBR
05-19-2009, 05:34 PM
^ Harsh, but that's what it boils down to for me, too. I've seen it all. Only man I'm going home with is Benjamin.

Well, Franklin was a lecherous bastard. He was one of our most interesting Founding Fathers in my opinion. He spent most of the War of Independence banging hot French women. And the irony is that, based upon his pictorial representations from those days, he wasn't anything to write home about looks-wise.

FBR

Earl_the_Pearl
05-19-2009, 05:41 PM
And the irony is that, based upon his pictorial representations from those days, he wasn't anything to write home about looks-wise.


He has the look dancers want.
http://thepilver.files.wordpress.com/2008/07/100_dollar_bill.jpg

SteveSmith
05-19-2009, 06:05 PM
^ Harsh, but that's what it boils down to for me, too. I've seen it all. Only man I'm going home with is Benjamin.

I've never given a compliment in order to get something out of it or as a run up to asking a dancer out. Most customers give them and don't expect anything out of it.

The most common denominations for dancers to have is the $1, $20, $5 and $10. So, you could say that dancers go home with:

Washington
Jackson
Lincoln
Hamilton

I don't think many dancers actually go home with Benjamin.

JayATee
05-19-2009, 06:17 PM
Was that what's behind the compliment in terms of the OP? I didn't think that's what he was getting at.

charlie61
05-19-2009, 06:21 PM
I've never given a compliment in order to get something out of it or as a run up to asking a dancer out. Most customers give them and don't expect anything out of it.

The most common denominations for dancers to have is the $1, $20, $5 and $10. So, you could say that dancers go home with:

Washington
Jackson
Lincoln
Hamilton

I don't think many dancers actually go home with Benjamin.

::) Okay, if you want to get super technical here, then yes: there are more of the others in the bunch than Benjamins. Didn't realize anyone would actually analyze such a statement that was obviously intended to be humorous.

And clearly, in my answer, I was referring back to the OP, who was wondering if dancers were more inclined to give their numbers to customers who give them compliments such as "I like your eyes." My answer was No. Clearly.

(I can't believe I'm actually taking the time to clarify this, but there you go.)

SteveSmith
05-19-2009, 06:29 PM
::) Okay, if you want to get super technical here, then yes: there are more of the others in the bunch than Benjamins. Didn't realize anyone would actually analyze such a statement that was obviously intended to be humorous.

And clearly, in my answer, I was referring back to the OP, who was wondering if dancers were more inclined to give their numbers to customers who give them compliments such as "I like your eyes." My answer was No. Clearly.

(I can't believe I'm actually taking the time to clarify this, but there you go.)


My comment was meant to be humorous, too. ;D

Earl_the_Pearl
05-19-2009, 06:30 PM
The most common denominations for dancers to have is the $1,.. So, you could say that dancers go home with:

Washington
...

http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/customavatars/avatar72614_1.gif :hyper: :yes::dance:

charlie61
05-19-2009, 06:33 PM
My comment was meant to be humorous, too. ;D

Mmm-hmm. Suuure. Steve be back trackin' now....

:P

Andy08
05-19-2009, 07:56 PM
I'm sure some compliments are sincere...but given the place and context, I don't take them personally. Strip clubs are about lust, sex, and fantasies...so its not really about "me". I stay as detached as possible... My work is one part of my life and my "life" is another, and 'never the twain shall meet'. ;) Besides, most strip club guys are drunk, high, trying to get laid, or just plain misogynists...so I don't have much respect for them, anyways.

I may come off as pretty harsh at times, but I spend enough time at work smiling and lying and just "letting things go"...this is one of the few places I can be totally honest as a dancer. Sorry to any of the gals I ever offend...the guys...eh, you deserve it. lol.

charlie61
05-19-2009, 08:01 PM
^ Definitely not offended! I feel the same way, after all. :)

Earl_the_Pearl
05-19-2009, 08:01 PM
I may come off as pretty harsh at times, but I spend enough time at work smiling and lying and just "letting things go"...this is one of the few places I can be totally honest as a dancer. Sorry to any of the gals I ever offend...the guys...eh, you deserve it. lol.

Fer'get'a'bot'it. Those of us who know forget soon after we get in the door and most will never know. That is why this thread started in the first place.

SteveSmith
05-19-2009, 08:07 PM
I'm sure some compliments are sincere...but given the place and context, I don't take them personally. Strip clubs are about lust, sex, and fantasies...so its not really about "me". I stay as detached as possible... My work is one part of my life and my "life" is another, and 'never the twain shall meet'. ;) Besides, most strip club guys are drunk, high, trying to get laid, or just plain misogynists...so I don't have much respect for them, anyways.

I may come off as pretty harsh at times, but I spend enough time at work smiling and lying and just "letting things go"...this is one of the few places I can be totally honest as a dancer. Sorry to any of the gals I ever offend...the guys...eh, you deserve it. lol.


You and Earl_the_Pearl would make a lovely couple. :laughing:

Earl_the_Pearl
05-19-2009, 08:13 PM
You and Earl_the_Pearl would make a lovely couple. :laughing:
I have never meet anyone on this board but I do get along with women just like them. We have what the other needs.

Hopper
05-19-2009, 11:07 PM
I'm sure some compliments are sincere...but given the place and context, I don't take them personally. Strip clubs are about lust, sex, and fantasies...so its not really about "me". I stay as detached as possible... My work is one part of my life and my "life" is another, and 'never the twain shall meet'. ;) Besides, most strip club guys are drunk, high, trying to get laid, or just plain misogynists...so I don't have much respect for them, anyways.

I may come off as pretty harsh at times, but I spend enough time at work smiling and lying and just "letting things go"...this is one of the few places I can be totally honest as a dancer. Sorry to any of the gals I ever offend...the guys...eh, you deserve it. lol.

First I'll have to earn it.

commanderadama
05-21-2009, 07:02 PM
No. It's simply that you don't know what you're talking about. When I have to wear women's sizes I wear a 0 or 00. When I can find girls clothes that fit they're a sz. 12. Many women wear more than one sz since clothing is cut differently. To base a woman's attractiveness on her pants size is absurd.

It's no more absurd than men who like big tits. How do I not know what I'm talking about? How else should I express my disinterest in "bigger" women? Or how should someone I've never met descibe themselves to me? Women know what dress sizes are in and that big girls aren't desirable. Now my tastes are a bit extreme, but can we agree that it's my right to have them?

Besides, Zero is my hero, so I'd probably buy dances from you. :)

JayATee
05-21-2009, 07:14 PM
It's no more absurd than men who like big tits. How do I not know what I'm talking about? How else should I express my disinterest in "bigger" women? Or how should someone I've never met descibe themselves to me? Women know what dress sizes are in and that big girls aren't desirable. Now my tastes are a bit extreme, but can we agree that it's my right to have them?

Besides, Zero is my hero, so I'd probably buy dances from you. :)

Don't do me any favors.

It's men that don't have a clue as to what size women are was my point dear.

Hopper
05-22-2009, 02:35 AM
^Seems he'd be doing himself a favour. Wasn't "zero" the size that was newly introduced only a few years ago, for especially small and thin women? I recall a newspaper column at the time denouncing it as an affront to larger women, like it's the small woman's fault what size she is or she starved herself to that size.

charlie61
05-22-2009, 02:24 PM
First thing I notice about a women is size. This is because if she's over a size four she's invisible to me and thus I don't notice anything else. Dismissed. LOL



I definitely see what you're saying about some men preferring women with big boobs, etc. etc. and comparing it to your situation.

In the future, perhaps a more PC way of stating your preferences would be to say that you prefer "petite" women, instead of saying that you will dismiss the 'invisible' women who don't fit into a very specific size range. I think your preferences would be better received if you put it like that. Then again, perhaps you simply don't care how you come across to people. Shrugs.

Hopper
05-22-2009, 06:52 PM
^CA said above that he can still be friends with other kinds of women. He meant they are invisible only in terms of romance and sex. Maybe "petite" sounds better, but it still means the same thing, so I'd say there is something wrong with PC people if they are sensitive about that. Perhaps you could say it sounds more polite and less definite. However, CA was telling us what sizes he personally likes. What size women a particular man likes shouldn't put anyone out.

I don't care about how I come across to PC people. The fact that I even have to change how I speak means that they are the intolerant ones. Politically Correct isn't the political ideology I subscribe to, so why should I talk like I do?

lopaw
05-22-2009, 07:04 PM
I've heard from more than a few dancers that when I compliment them on their looks, they give it more credence because I'm a woman. At first this seemed strange to me, and I didn't believe it, figuring that they were just saying it to be nice or to get me to buy dances.


?? for the ladies here:

Is it true?
Do you put more credibility to a (sincere) compliment given to you by another woman than a man? Especially if you know the woman is gay? Would that matter?


OK....I've maxed out my allotment of questions for the day! :D

FBR
05-22-2009, 07:09 PM
OK....I've maxed out my allotment of questions for the day! :D

Ha! You have no allotment:) Your insight as a knowledgeable female customer is always appreciated as far as I am concerned.

FBR

Lexi_Girl
05-22-2009, 08:05 PM
^CA said above that he can still be friends with other kinds of women. He meant they are invisible only in terms of romance and sex. Maybe "petite" sounds better, but it still means the same thing, so I'd say there is something wrong with PC people if they are sensitive about that. Perhaps you could say it sounds more polite and less definite. However, CA was telling us what sizes he personally likes. What size women a particular man likes shouldn't put anyone out.


Personally I think the exactness was what was throwing people off. Most men don't know what a size 4 looks like at all.

JayATee
05-23-2009, 12:37 AM
I've heard from more than a few dancers that when I compliment them on their looks, they give it more credence because I'm a woman. At first this seemed strange to me, and I didn't believe it, figuring that they were just saying it to be nice or to get me to buy dances.


?? for the ladies here:

Is it true?
Do you put more credibility to a (sincere) compliment given to you by another woman than a man? Especially if you know the woman is gay? Would that matter?


OK....I've maxed out my allotment of questions for the day! :D

Women in general tend to be more critical imo. I tend to take them more seriously bc I think it's less likely they're trying to pick me up than a guy. If the woman is gay it might change it slightly but I think it's still the same overall.

charlie61
05-23-2009, 01:27 AM
^CA said above that he can still be friends with other kinds of women. He meant they are invisible only in terms of romance and sex. Maybe "petite" sounds better, but it still means the same thing, so I'd say there is something wrong with PC people if they are sensitive about that. Perhaps you could say it sounds more polite and less definite. However, CA was telling us what sizes he personally likes. What size women a particular man likes shouldn't put anyone out.

I don't care about how I come across to PC people. The fact that I even have to change how I speak means that they are the intolerant ones. Politically Correct isn't the political ideology I subscribe to, so why should I talk like I do?

Come on. Without some level of political correctness, everyone would walk around dropping racial slurs and being general assholes to each other. Some part of you must care about how you come across to people. And anyway, there are ways of saying things directly without saying them offensively (which was my original point).

For me, CA's declaration that these women are sexually invisible to him was bordering on offensive (in the way he said it). I'm merely suggesting that he re-phrase his opinions in way that means the exact same thing, yet will elicit more understanding responses.

glambman
05-23-2009, 05:35 AM
^CA said above that he can still be friends with other kinds of women. He meant they are invisible only in terms of romance and sex. Maybe "petite" sounds better, but it still means the same thing, so I'd say there is something wrong with PC people if they are sensitive about that. Perhaps you could say it sounds more polite and less definite. However, CA was telling us what sizes he personally likes. What size women a particular man likes shouldn't put anyone out.

I don't care about how I come across to PC people. The fact that I even have to change how I speak means that they are the intolerant ones. Politically Correct isn't the political ideology I subscribe to, so why should I talk like I do?


Come on. Without some level of political correctness, everyone would walk around dropping racial slurs and being general assholes to each other. Some part of you must care about how you come across to people. And anyway, there are ways of saying things directly without saying them offensively (which was my original point).

For me, CA's declaration that these women are sexually invisible to him was bordering on offensive (in the way he said it). I'm merely suggesting that he re-phrase his opinions in way that means the exact same thing, yet will elicit more understanding responses.

Charlie, my dear, you beat me to it.

Hopper, do you know what decorum is? How about civility? As Charlie (bright wonderful girl.....errrr young woman, her) pointed out, sometimes it's not what you say, but how you say it. When you bad mouth people because your 'freedoms' et. al.allow it, it shows not the level of ones freedoms, but the level of ones ignorance.

Hopper
05-23-2009, 05:57 AM
^I'll leave it to the women here to decide how offensive CA's wording is to women. I wouldn't have said it that way myself. Perhaps it wasn't CA's wording which was offensive so much as his narrow limitss on what he will even consider attractive. If I said "obese women are sexually invisible to me", would you be offended?

My point about political correctness was that it has it's own narrow, ideological definitions of what is racist, sexist etc. So it is possible to not be PC and also not be racist or sexist, or an asshole. Most PC people I know are assholes. They are also racists and sexists - they blame whites and males for every social ill, with no regard for individuals. They say whites and males should make up for thousands of years of oppression with thousands more years of "positive discrimination". Their own ideology justifies discrimination.

I care about how I come across to people, but I don't have to follow PC guidelines to avoid being offensive, except where the people I am talking to have been exposed to PC brainwashing. Which is most people these days to some degree, but that's not my fault. PC people show no regard for how they come across.

Hopper
05-23-2009, 06:01 AM
^CA wasn't badmouthing anybody and nor was I justifying badmouthing myself.

glambman
05-23-2009, 06:13 AM
This is not about PC (I actually agree with you about what you said about PC) this is about civility, courtesy, being human, et. al..

So what if someone is fat. I hate to break the news to you, but if he treats them that way in a SC, he is treating them that way out of the SC. Plain and simple. It's like alcohol, it only brings out what you believe when you are trashed.

This reminds me when I was in NY (first time after 9/11 happened). There happened to be a gay pride parade. These 3 guys, were walking down the street in these outfits....miniskirts, etc., llike S&M women. But they were buff. bwahahahahaha That's not making fun of someone because of who/ what they are. It was because of the actions they chose. If I strapped a dildo to my head and went to the mall, I'd expect to be made fun of. lol

Hopper
05-23-2009, 06:43 AM
^Charlie was talking aboout PC. You said she "beat you to it" so I assumed you were equating PC with civility and decorum as well. I wouldn't say that obese women are sexually invisible to me to an obese woman and CA probably wouldn't say it directly to a woman who was too big for him (probably not even in a SC), though there are probably many women that size here.

glambman
05-23-2009, 06:51 AM
Do you always take everything literally? When she said
some level of political correctness, it is easy to tell that it was not what we call PC. Dude, don't be the bunny. (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FltuZTdauGs)

Hopper
05-23-2009, 07:47 AM
^She should say what she means. If she doesn't mean PC, she should say inoffensive. Charlie61's first post was ambiguous about what she meant by PC, but her second post she was responded to my comments about what I thought about PC, so in that post I assumed she really was talking about PC. I made the distinction because there is a big diff between PC civility and real civility.

Both you and Charlie61 were "bunnies" to think that I was excusing not being considerate of other people's feelings. I wouldn't tell an obese woman she is "sexually invisible" to me (unless pushed) and CA probably wouldn't say it to a girl above size zero. But it should be okay to say it here. Especially considering some of the things I hear from the dancers about PLs. Like this:


...

I may come off as pretty harsh at times, but I spend enough time at work smiling and lying and just "letting things go"...this is one of the few places I can be totally honest as a dancer. Sorry to any of the gals I ever offend...the guys...eh, you deserve it. lol.


^ Definitely not offended! I feel the same way, after all.

What's PL stand for again? Is it a PC term? Wouldn't be surprised if it was.

glambman
05-23-2009, 09:31 AM
Context context context. Why not quote the whole post. And I'm sure there are men here who feel the same way about dancers, and have voiced there opinion (both in an abusive way and in a nice way). If one is in an industry where they deal with mostly assholes, one can understand why they would think as they do (even if it's not correct). Geeez, I get the feeling that you're going to quit going because of the things that are said on this board.

So, why do you go to a SC? To get a date? C'mon dude, it's not even real. Who cares what the other thinks, it's about the money and the entertainment. I'm sure you've been jaded by the enemy, I have, but I don't let the actions of some be the basis for judgment of all.

Also, it's not about what you tell her in person, it's what you say to your friends with you (do you make snide remarks and laugh at her).

JayATee
05-23-2009, 11:19 AM
Come on. Without some level of political correctness, everyone would walk around dropping racial slurs and being general assholes to each other. Some part of you must care about how you come across to people. And anyway, there are ways of saying things directly without saying them offensively (which was my original point).

For me, CA's declaration that these women are sexually invisible to him was bordering on offensive (in the way he said it). I'm merely suggesting that he re-phrase his opinions in way that means the exact same thing, yet will elicit more understanding responses.

Truthfully, I think he really doesn't give a damn how he comes across at all. At least in terms of this particular situation. Which is why I've said what I said. It is ridiculous and at this point and it is also offensive to constantly keep reminding us all how feels.

mediocrity
05-23-2009, 11:34 AM
Women in general tend to be more critical imo. I tend to take them more seriously bc I think it's less likely they're trying to pick me up than a guy. If the woman is gay it might change it slightly but I think it's still the same overall.

Fact: A customer once said he would give me an 8, but my lesbian waitress called me a 8.5 . I was flattered because I also tend to think the lesbian scale is way harsher. Holds more clout for me, even though I don't like girls.;D

Hopper
05-23-2009, 07:11 PM
Context context context. Why not quote the whole post. And I'm sure there are men here who feel the same way about dancers, and have voiced there opinion (both in an abusive way and in a nice way). If one is in an industry where they deal with mostly assholes, one can understand why they would think as they do (even if it's not correct). Geeez, I get the feeling that you're going to quit going because of the things that are said on this board.

So, why do you go to a SC? To get a date? C'mon dude, it's not even real. Who cares what the other thinks, it's about the money and the entertainment. I'm sure you've been jaded by the enemy, I have, but I don't let the actions of some be the basis for judgment of all.

Also, it's not about what you tell her in person, it's what you say to your friends with you (do you make snide remarks and laugh at her).

That was my point: Context. CA made his remarks in a certain context and Charlie61 was worried about how the words sound by themselves. Okay, then can't I ask Andy08 and Charlie61 to pick a nicer way to say what they said? Oh, but she was being funny and she was tired of customers etc. Well I took CA's comment with a bit of comic license too and he's told us at length that his own attitude to women is due to experiences with women in the past. What's the diff?

I picked those comments out only because it was in the same thread in which Charlie61 complained about CA and because Charlie61 agreed with it. It bothers me that dancers have that attitude, but there is nothing I can do about it and no point complaining - my choice is go to the SC or don't go, live and let live. Other people's hang-ups aren't my problem. I can understand their attitude in it's context. Still - is it actually fair to lump all patrons in with the bad ones? Sort of like being racist or sexist, isn't it?

I haven't been jaded by the enemy, I just understand what to expect and how to deal with it. I know it's business and entertainment and that it's not real and about all the problems associated with the whole scene. The dancers' own jaded behaviour has actually become part of the entertainment for me in some ways. I take each dancer individually, though I also have to be wary.

Don't understand your last sentence. What would it matter if I made that remark about a girl to a friend? It's not snide or even a joke. It's just blunt.

charlie61
05-23-2009, 07:31 PM
Honestly, there aren't many compliments that will flatter me at work...I hear so many of them over and over...they go in one ear and out the other. Eyes, hair, back, smile, tits, stomach, ass, legs, feet, intelligence, personality, humor, dance moves...blah, blah, whatever...I'm still not going out with you, asshole.



^ Harsh, but that's what it boils down to for me, too. I've seen it all. Only man I'm going home with is Benjamin.

If you contextualize the conversation, my comment wasn't what it seemed. We were talking about our reactions to customer compliments from guys who are trying to get us to go home with them! Totally different from how I feel about my customers in general.

Hopper
05-23-2009, 08:18 PM
^Glad to hear it. The OP actually was about getting a dancer's number, different to asking her to go home with hem for a one night stand. If you don't think all of your customers are assholes, then why wouldn't you possibly give you number to one of them? Assuming you were a single dancer. Are they assholes just for asking you ITC?

Earl_the_Pearl
05-23-2009, 08:21 PM
Are they assholes just for asking you ITC?
They are a holes for just being in the club. Most dancers would never date a customer.

Hopper
05-23-2009, 08:29 PM
^Charlie61 said she doesn't feel that way about customers in general.

Interesting that the dancers themselves work in SCs and want men in SCs so they can make money, and girls IRL don't mind their boyfrineds going to SCs and even go to SCs themselves (with or without BFs), yet male patrons are assholes for just going and most dancers would not date customers because of it.

Earl_the_Pearl
05-23-2009, 08:36 PM
^Charlie61 said she doesn't feel that way about customers in general.

Interesting that the dancers themselves work in SCs and want men in SCs so they can make money, and girls IRL don't mind their boyfrineds going to SCs and even go to SCs themselves (with or without BFs), yet male patrons are assholes for just going and most dancers would not date customers because of it.
That is how dancers feel not me. You are welcome to believe otherwise. It is called a hustle.

If you go to SC looking for a relationship you will get hustled big time. If you should actually get what you seek you well be hustled bigger time.

charlie61
05-23-2009, 08:39 PM
I love my customers, and I absolutely enjoy partaking in professional relationships with them. That being said, when I'm working, I'm not thinking about sex (for me, my job has nothing to do with sex). I'm not working to potentially date people: I'm there to make money. That is it.

I find it incredibly superficial when men ask for my number (perhaps even more so than those who ask to fuck me: at least these guys are honest about what they want). Clearly they are only interested in me for my appearance (nothing wrong with that unless you want to date me), which I find quite unappealing. When I'm working, I'm putting on a performance of my sexuality (Charlie dances naked on stage. (my name) does not dance naked on stage). I want them to be attracted to me (for monetary purposes), but them asking for OTC favors is crossing a boundary. Hopefully this answers your question better, H.

Earl_the_Pearl
05-23-2009, 08:47 PM
I find it incredibly superficial when men ask for my number (perhaps even more so than those who ask to fuck me: at least these guys are honest about what they want). Clearly they are only interested in me for my appearance (nothing wrong with that unless you want to date me), which I find quite unappealing.

Men seeking a superficial relationship? Shocking.

This is one reason dancers find men disgusting, we are men.

charlie61
05-23-2009, 08:53 PM
Personally, I couldn't find men less disgusting (I understand them better than I understand women), and I don't find my customers disgusting unless they disrespect me by crossing my boundaries.

Hopper
05-23-2009, 09:33 PM
That is how dancers feel not me. You are welcome to believe otherwise. It is called a hustle.

If you go to SC looking for a relationship you will get hustled big time. If you should actually get what you seek you well be hustled bigger time.

charlie612 said it here, not in a club I met her at. Not looking for a relationship - that wasn't my point.

Hopper
05-23-2009, 09:44 PM
...That being said, when I'm working, I'm not thinking about sex (for me, my job has nothing to do with sex). I'm not working to potentially date people: I'm there to make money. That is it.

I find it incredibly superficial when men ask for my number (perhaps even more so than those who ask to fuck me: at least these guys are honest about what they want). Clearly they are only interested in me for my appearance (nothing wrong with that unless you want to date me), which I find quite unappealing. When I'm working, I'm putting on a performance of my sexuality (Charlie dances naked on stage. (my name) does not dance naked on stage). I want them to be attracted to me (for monetary purposes), but them asking for OTC favors is crossing a boundary. Hopefully this answers your question better, H.

Of course you don't strip to get dates. I was asking why you would absolutely never give any customer your number. Of course they eventually want to fuck you - that's one reason guys ask girls for numbers IRL too. Nothing dishonest about that. They don't expect you to think it's for conversation. Men largely go on appearnce IRL also when asking a girl out. And ITC, your personality is not entirely hidden. How appealling you are in-character is some indication of how appealling you are IRL. A girl with a poor personality would find it hard to assume a false one which is appealling, or she'd do it all the time IRL. Nor am I talking about OTC favours. Like I said, the OP specified asking for numbers, not taking home the same night. Getting a girl's nuimber can lead to anything from a one-night stand to marriage.

So, you still haven't answered my question.

charlie61
05-23-2009, 09:50 PM
^ Have I EVER said I wouldn't give a customer my number?

Hopper
05-23-2009, 10:13 PM
^You kind of did...


...I'm not working to potentially date people: I'm there to make money. That is it.

I find it incredibly superficial when men ask for my number (perhaps even more so than those who ask to fuck me: at least these guys are honest about what they want). Clearly they are only interested in me for my appearance (nothing wrong with that unless you want to date me), which I find quite unappealing...


...Only man I'm going home with is Benjamin.