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MissMynxx
07-05-2009, 07:16 PM
TO throw my two cents in, I always tend to avoid younger customers. In fact, it's one of the big reasons I haven't made the decision to start dancing back at a club closer to my house - they have a hookah lounge, and it attracts a very young crowd. I just don't do well with these customers.

I have a look that appeals to some of them, but by and large, I tend to appeal to older men more. I relate better to men who are older as well. I get fed up with the younger custies real fast - give me a "nasty old man" who's there to get his attention from a young pretty girl over a sexy young guy who I'm going to have to field awkward questions about stripping from, deal with them trying to hustle me down because "they only have a 20", and frankly - older men can be grabby and gross, but they (in my experience) listen after I sternly tell them to knock it off ... younger guys just keep after it. Apparently mama didn't teach them that "No means no."

And I'm SO happy that there are girls on this site who appreciate and understand how much better it is to be with older men! Like my dear Almost Jaded said - he's WAAAAY too young for me. lol We're only a little over 13 years apart! And I SWORE never to date a guy under 35 again ... but I guess Jaded is close enough. ;) It's just indescribable - and I appreciate him ALL that much more after I had a total lapse of judgment and dated someone only a few years older than me. Ugh.

I'm sure every one of us who's in a relationship with an older man could launch into lists and tirades about why it's so awesome, so I'm not going to. *raises her glass too* Cheers, girls! :D

stressed
07-06-2009, 07:43 AM
I'm sure every one of us who's in a relationship with an older man could launch into lists and tirades about why it's so awesome, so I'm not going to. *raises her glass too* Cheers, girls! :D

You tell it girl-----------spread the word;D}:D:P

charlie61
07-06-2009, 12:34 PM
I'm sure every one of us who's in a relationship with an older man could launch into lists and tirades about why it's so awesome, so I'm not going to. *raises her glass too* Cheers, girls! :D

Hell YEAH!!!

audrey_k
07-09-2009, 08:29 AM
I avoid them honestly. I feel a little insecure about going after young hot guys I might have been interested in outside of the club, and that I might have felt were "out of my league" or whatever.

They're also not really worth the hustle a lot of the time. Even if they have money they don't think they should have to spend it. A lof them have the attitude that they're so damn sexy I should just want to give them deals and dance for free because I'm going to enjoy it so much. Haha, no way. I'm not paying lap dance fees so I can give you a dance.

There is also not a lot of appreciation from them. Older men-- attractive or unattractive-- usually have more appreciation for my conversational and physical attractiveness. They're less likely to try and get me out of the club and more likely to spend $. And I've never had anybody past 35 expect me to give them a free dance because they're just so sexy.

hot4ablackchick
07-09-2009, 09:39 PM
I don't do well with the younger crowd. I will "wannadance" them 1-3 times depending on how interested they seem, and move on. I ask everyone for a dance at least once. It doesn't seem to matter to really young guys if you sit and speak to them, so I never bother. I do not feel comfortable engaging in convo with them anyway. They also seem to be more "afraid" of black chicks. My club has a very white clientel. If I were single, I would not even consider dating someone under 35. I tease my hubby, who is almost 31, that he is too young for me.

Almost Jaded
07-10-2009, 12:06 PM
and that I might have felt were "out of my league" or whatever.

There is no such thing - or rather, barely any such thing. Any feelings that ANYONE in ANY position has in this way are entirely based on self esteem, or the lack thereof. And that totally goes for the people who think they are "out of" another person's league as much as for anyone who thinks they can't approach someone "out of their league". It's all in attitude and self worth.

Dancer's with low self esteem (not indicating that Audry_K falls into this category) especially bewilder me. If men are willing to pay for your company and to look at you, you are in a unique position to see a hard value put on your person. No, it's not accurate, and yes, there are many other variables (whom you appeal to physically, how you hustle, the clubs clientele, etc.), but really - the stigma that strippers are all desperate women with poor self esteem is odd to me; it takes a very strong woman with significant self-worth to be a successful dancer.

holly07
07-10-2009, 12:51 PM
I don't care what they look like, but years of experience has taught me that typically young guys don't spend money, watch too much MTV and think they can be a "big balla" too, flashing $40 ones and talking"game", most can NOT hold a conversation, and they always try to date you, I will however give LD's if approached. They are fun to watch squirm, but still any day of the week, I would rather dance and converse with an older man