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Camillauk
02-16-2017, 10:54 AM
And I'm Black, fat, brunette, and pulled $900 last night. Who cares? It's not about being a classic Blonde. It's about selling yourself. Work on your sales, and you'll see your money double. Thinking that because you're blonde and pretty is self-entitlement and as you see, it doesn't work on your purse. There are hundreds of classic Blondes on SM, some doing great, others not, but what sets you apart from them?

It just goes to show that just because you're a 'beauty standard' (for now) doesn't mean the world owes you anything. You have to work for what you want, Blonde or not. You definitely don't have to change the way you look, but perhaps changing your mindset into thinking that because you're Blonde guys are going to be fawning all over you? You're not succeeding as much as other girls because other girls have the secret of selling themselves.

Sorry if I came across harsh, but it gets a bit tiresome when some of you Caucasian ladies feel entitled to 'bank' because of White Supremacy. it comes off as "OMG, I'm White, skinny, and blonde, why am I not getting easyyyy money, teehee?!" Well, it's not netting you what you want, is it? Guess you got your Blonde wake up call.

ETA: And before anyone gets in their White tears or feelings, I've been married (estranged) to a White man for 6 years, date grew up in a White neighborhood, have White friends, White relatives, and went to White schools and attended a 98% all White church congregation. Thanks, MOM and Dad!

If we can't talk about realness on this site, where else can we? It's just I've noticed that with Women of color on the forums, most are unsure of their position because they're worried about their skin color and how it's going to effect their earnings. But then, I notice a lot of White SW on here are more worried that when their skin color isn't working for them (thus admitting that they've skated through life on the basis of White privilege), they're shocked. That's fucked up.

This girl never mentioned ANYTHING about her race or colour! she just is happy that she is a fit thin blonde girl having fun on webcam! why do people always have to assume people are mentioning their colour to be better than others?! I think you have misread what she was telling everyone, she wasn't being rude or obnoxious!

I am white and I NEVER think like that ever, maybe you have met some rude Caucasian girls in the past but let me notify you we are not all like that!I am proud of who I am and like being who I am regardless of race or colour.

You have some very good points to your posts, you are very motivating indeed :-)

CreativeName
02-16-2017, 12:48 PM
Grabbing popcorn

I'm on Kortney's side here. I mean she might have been rather blunt about what she really thinks, but I am the wrong one to judge. Like the pot calling the kettle black. I'm white and that one girl's comment rubbed me the wrong way somehow as well. That or just overanalyzing. Carry on.

From what I understand, a mainstream look only gives u a massive advantage on mfc and naked. I think Chaturbate has a thing for girls that are 18+ but look 12-15 but what do I know? On most camsites when I check out who is on the front page I see all types of women.

kortneykay
04-29-2017, 12:33 PM
This girl never mentioned ANYTHING about her race or colour! she just is happy that she is a fit thin blonde girl having fun on webcam! why do people always have to assume people are mentioning their colour to be better than others?! I think you have misread what she was telling everyone, she wasn't being rude or obnoxious!

I am white and I NEVER think like that ever, maybe you have met some rude Caucasian girls in the past but let me notify you we are not all like that!I am proud of who I am and like being who I am regardless of race or colour.

You have some very good points to your posts, you are very motivating indeed :-)

Please don't piss on me and call it rain, I ain't buying it. She came on here asking why her PRIVILEGE wasn't making her money. Looking like Barbie, is a privilege because it's White Supremacy in a doll, honey. She assumed that being thin white and blonde would make her MUCH more money.

And I can tell you're white 'and don't think of your color' because you don't HAVE to. You're White, honey! You get a pass already. No one said she thought she was better- she just assumed that her being a Barbie should have guys fawning over her and that's offensive to some people. There are loads of people who have to fight DAILY because they don't look like her. I was explaining that perhaps the reason she isn't making money is because she's assuming classic blonde is and what should be hot. If you're offended by what I said, you're part of the problem.

Please spare me the 'we're not all like that bullshit rhetoric' because it's clear you couldn't even see the point I was making. Yeah, you're proud to be White but if you woke up Black tomorrow you'd probably never leave your house.

kortneykay
04-29-2017, 01:02 PM
My comments were concerning what you said in your last quote. Not sure what your chronic illness has to do with me having an issue with what you said, but I see you're playing the victim card, okay. I didn't call you lazy, I gave you an olive branch and hopefully a different perspective.

en·ti·tle·ment
inˈtīdlmənt,enˈtīdlmənt/
noun
the belief that one is inherently deserving of privileges or special treatment.



I make under 200$ a day. I recently stepped up my marketing game and it works. Been camming for almost a year now. I dont know why I am not 'succeding' as much as any other girls, although I can live a great life off it. I charge 7.99/9.99 on SM. I am thin, fit, blonde, I know how to do makeup. I am not ugly. Some guys would even call me 'fake'. I work 4-6 hours a day, 4 days/week.

So the classic 'porn' look but yet to see any big benefits. I know just one thing and that is that I am not going to change the way I look. I like it way too much and if they dont, well then go to hell with them :)

You can work 24h a day, but at the time of that post you were still not making as much as you'd hope to and were confused by that because to you, someone who is thin, blonde, and had the classic porn look, assumed that you should be making way more based on your look alone. That's entitlement, doll.

You'd only been camming for barely 1 year and were concerned that your classic porn blonde look wasn't seeing big benefits like you'd hope. I found that offensive and entitlement and so did 30 other women who thanked my post.

You can put any spin on it that you want Aurora but you mentioned 'classic porn look'. How many Black, Asian, Hispanic, Native, Pacific Islander, or Biracial have a 'classic blonde porn look'? I'll wait... You're backpeddling but you still said what you said and meant what you said. You know that because of White Supremacy, Blonde is a top earner. You don't have to lie to kick it.

If you're going to tell someone to 'stop attaching the human being to how much money they make' make sure that you don't associate being Blonde with making money and your entitlement to it.

You can't honestly sit yourself down and ask: "Why do I believe deep down that I deserve to make as much money as everyone else, after barely working one year, based on me having box blonde hair, being thin, and White aka 'classic porn star'?"

Answer: Because the world reaffirms your beauty every day in advertisement, camming also reaffirms it.

I googled 'classic porn star' and didn't see not a single NON-"European"/White woman. Please explain what you meant then?

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I love being who I am, looking what I look like and doing what I do. And if I am being treated like a nazi for loving who I am is wrong, well then that is not my fault.

Again. No one said it was wrong for 'loving who you are' but it's clear you still don't quite understand the problem with what you said, which is the problem. Assuming that because you're blonde (like a Nazi, funny choice of words btw, which is where it pretty much started) you're entitled to making loads of money, your first year and have a classic porn look (aka White, Blonde, 'fake') is the exact definition of entitlement.

After all this time, it's clear that you still have a lot of growing to do. P.S. I don't care if you 'admired' me or not. If I smell bullshit, I'm going to point it out. Enjoy your day.

kortneykay
04-29-2017, 01:19 PM
I am NOT. And yes I am white, I was born that way. You can choose to be offended by someone who never had the intention to offend anybody, but that is your choice. You are making this into a racial debate which is putting yourself as a victim right here while you are not, and to be honest I could not care less if someone is black, white, brown, or anything. To me its just skin color, and if you want to play the racist card go off to the porn companies who put us in categories like ' Ebony ' ' Babe' 'MILF' and so on, based on measurements, skin color , age and what not. You should probably focus on that instead of attacking another cam girl who is just trying to make a good living and not here to offend anybody but here to get better at her job. You are acting very, very rude to me, using terms like ' white supremacy'? Do you think I am a nazi or something? I never said I ' deserve more money because I am white'. You are making me look like a racist bitch while I am not.

I am sorry that there are people who ' have to fight daily because they do not look like me' but that is not my fault. I live my life, I am who I am and I choose to look the way I look because it makes me feel confident, and yes I find myself beautiful as a matter of fact. Why should me thinking that conventional beauty and self confidence helps you in a career that is for a big part focused on your appearance make me a terrible person? Maybe I am getting more and more successful in the last few months because I found how to sell myself, but you don't know that because you do not know me whatsoever. So stop judging. There is a reason I am anonymous here.

People, please STOP being offended over NOTHING. And stop being racist. Stop attacking people for being white or black or anything. I am not going to apologize because I said and did nothing wrong.

Again, you're clueless and the bleach has gone to your head. You don't have to apologize for looking the way you do. It's not making you more money than me, so why do I care?

You thought after working on cam less than a year, being a BLEACH BOX BLONDE, being thin, and having the 'CLASSIC PORN LOOK" was going to NET YOU MORE, and it didn't. Period. You're just another "I'm White and I'm proud and entitled and it's not my fault I enjoy and expect the privileges. Enjoy your wake up call, Aurora. Enjoy iggy land, too.

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PhatGirlDynomite!!!
04-29-2017, 01:28 PM
No one was called rascist. No one was called a Nazi. No one is playing the race card. No one is rascist in this debate. At least from where I'm standing. I'm busy and I like you both. So I'm gonna shut down the thread for a bit. Take some time read what was written and try to look at it from a different perspective. It's almost like you too are agreeing with one another on how beauty standards are determined and how we're objectified. But maybe the feelings are too strong right now? I gotta go. I don't wanna see this get any uglier so for now the thread is closed.