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Earl_the_Pearl
07-04-2009, 06:26 PM
She doesn't need a website to tell her what is going on in the club she goes to work in every day.

As for the angst factor, lol, sorry, can't help you with that other than to say that the truth will set you free!

The review boards may be 99 and 44/100% B.S. but there is still useful information to be gleaned. If there was a totally 100% B.S. board that posted about where I worked there would be no way I could not read it.

I think I do know the truth but I am not free; the truth is more compacted then I ever could have imagined. /:O

Elvia
07-04-2009, 06:41 PM
^^^ That small amount of info would hardly be worth it. And it's be difficult for a newbie to know what's true and what's not.

Earl_the_Pearl
07-04-2009, 06:48 PM
^^^ That small amount of info would hardly be worth it. And it's be difficult for a newbie to know what's true and what's not.
For some people you are correct; for me I read the fine print on my cable bill and the user agreement on the software I install.

yoda57us
07-05-2009, 09:53 AM
If there was a totally 100% B.S. board that posted about where I worked there would be no way I could not read it.


If you where a woman who just wanted to make a living in a very hard job and there was a board who's posters called you a whore a liar and a cheat every day just for doing that job I don't think you would read it...

Earl_the_Pearl
07-05-2009, 10:35 AM
If you where a woman who just wanted to make a living in a very hard job and there was a board who's posters called you a whore a liar and a cheat every day just for doing that job I don't think you would read it...
If they mentioned me by name I sure would. I would probably recognized who said it and do something about it. Change my hustle or take other action depending on the situation.

Of course that's just me. Heck I'm called worse on Stripper Web and still read it; haven't you noticed the kinder and gentler Earl_the_Pearl. ::)

Earl_the_Pearl
07-05-2009, 10:44 AM
LOL, you think they don't know what's going on in their own club? Perhaps not.

The girl on my shift who makes the most money is also the fattest. She isn't that pretty, and she's huge. She has to at least be tipping 200 pounds. Somehow she makes the most, though, and yes it could be extras but I'm not 100% sure.

Earl_the_Pearl
07-05-2009, 11:09 AM
I found this interesting.

Hi I just got hired in Industry is this area really as bad as it says on SCL ?

xdamage
07-05-2009, 07:49 PM
I realized I was wrong if I ever said (in the past) that dancers could learn how to bank by asking customers. Naive me.

In this, human instinct and experience is what I think would work best now.

Women already basically have the instincts to interest men anyway. Each of us is different though and needs to figure out for ourselves what works when it comes to attracting others. We all have quirks in our personality (and probably also looks) that are unique and we have to figure out on our own or with the help of a few we really trust.

Questions have been asked on SW and feedback given, but there is a layer of subtlety that humans really respond too (versus what they say they respond too) that q&a forums aren't going to reveal.

Posts regarding I want "more for less" are truly useless since it is a duh, and applies to more or less everyones purchasing wants, but it's not really useful either.

lopaw
07-05-2009, 10:29 PM
Unless a dancer is a complete masochist, she'll usually never bother viewing a customer based site, much less joining in on the fracas. While sites like TUSCL & zbone are great customer places (I personally like them alot), every dancer that has ever tried to join in has usually been bullied off of the site by at least one or two idiots. All it takes is one or two of them to scare away even the most tolerant dancer.

And as far as dancers learning anything from those sites - puh leeze.

The only thing most dancers take away from the experience is a confirmation of why they think most customers are complete assholes. Even if most of the posters are well behaved, she will only remember the douchebags, coz they are the ones that (unfortunately) stand out.

And the guys that bag on dancers on those sites the most are always the same guys who wonder why dancers don't come to the boards more often.

Clueless bastids.

Jezzebelle
07-06-2009, 05:06 AM
If they mentioned me by name I sure would. I would probably recognized who said it and do something about it. Change my hustle or take other action depending on the situation.


So, you mean internet drama? The kinda crap that goes on anyway, everywhere online? Keyboard warriors? No one needs that to do thier job properly. No one needs to pay attention to that at ANY time.

Men, just realise, we women are good at this job, it revolves around stuff that comes naturaly to a lot of women. Thats why its become so fcking huge! And lucrative for us. All we need you to do is have fun,relax, spend, on something thats easy to buy and easy to recieve. Thats it. Be good, have fun. Its ok that thats all we need you to do. Its fine.
I guess there are some men who cant stand the fact that thats all we need from them in this stripper world?

Eric Stoner
07-06-2009, 10:30 AM
oh heeeellll yes i was happy about it. so were the majority of girls here.
inferior? i said that? link me please? oh and while we are at links. pleassssssssse link me to those praising you because you never ever have. LOL that NOW it's that they dont want to clue others into where to make money. how convenient for you
oh and as stupid as it seems in your eyes. you are very much the person that people don't like/complain about. surely they are ''lady like" because they send the complaints and reports to the mod lounge. again a area you are not privy to. we ask that they do that rather than respond. girls like to ask the rules first
like i told GR the underhanded swipes at my character is a low blow and funny at the same time.

fuck are you psychic? I'm running for public office as we speak. shhhh

I specifically referred to YOUR post of 6/24. To date, you haven't been able to back it up.

I have already directed you to some kind words sent in my direction giving you the forum, thread and date of post.

Why should G.R. or I take any swipes at you when you are apparently so self defining ? Exhibit "A" is the post that immediately followed the one I'm quoting here.

I'm not privy to any complaints about me that are kept PRIVATE. Obviously. I do know that I follow the rules and avoid personal attacks and name-calling, so I seriously question the actual basis for any complaint about me. Afaic there isn't one .If they don't like my ideas , that's fine. It's a free country. If they want to waste time complaining about my opinions, they are free to do that too. I will say that I have a history of working out my differences with a number of ladies on this board and more than one former antagonist now has a better idea of where I'm coming from and I in turn have a better appreciation of their concerns. And whatever personal issues may have been generated were resolved and at the very least we have reached a state of peaceful co-existence. It's called C O M M U N I C A T I O N and
D I A L O G U E . As I've repeatedly pointed out, it certainly helps to have something resembling an open mind and RESPECT for other people and ideas that you disagree with. From your posts, you seem to favor the Soviet model of approved discourse. I certainly don't lose any sleep worrying about what YOU think.

I'm sorry but I'm not interested in just posting what I think the dancers want to hear. Like a few of the male posters on here. Likewise, I'm not going to change my social and political views just to curry favor. Do you seriously have any respect for guys that do that ?

Btw,being a "public charge" does NOT mean holding public office. What are you running for ? Public Censor ?

Eric Stoner
07-06-2009, 10:34 AM
oh and after you read this? fuck off sanctimonious, patronising asshole. or better yet meet me on the other side of the net, where you know you are not welcome.
even better come do a face to face in florida. i promise i wont beat you up. i'm only 5 foot tall

This is exactly what I'm talking about. How the hell do you get away with such blatant name-calling ? Not that we would because we both TRY to behave like gentlemen, but if G.R. or I did that to you we'd be on the carpet in no time. Possibly suspended and certainly pointed.

Now you're challenging me to a face to face ? How adult ? What did you have in mind ?
What's wrong with defending your posts right here and now ?

"Sactimonious" ? Try looking up a word before you use it. Do you have an example of something I posted that is "sactimonious" ?

"PatroniZing" ( Kindly note the CORRECT spelling. ) Hmmm. To someone as hypersensitive and immature as you appear to be from your posts ? Perhaps. It's not my fault that you make it up as you go along and deliberately misunderstand some of what I post. Nonetheless, I apologize for anything I posted that you found patronizing. The irony is, that I try very hard NOT to get down to your level. Witness your resort to cheap and vulgar name-calling and my refusal to do likewise. Is THAT, by any chance, what you are referring to as my supposed "sanctimony" ?.

yoda57us
07-06-2009, 04:50 PM
If they mentioned me by name I sure would. I would probably recognized who said it and do something about it. Change my hustle or take other action depending on the situation.


Earl, you are missing the point. You can't change anything or do anything about it or act on it because it's all BS. Most of the time when a dancer get's bashed on the internet it's BS either by another dancer or by a guy who asked her out and got turned down. Much more often the former than the later by the way. It has nothing to do with what is actually going on inside the club.

As I've said before, I don't know too many dancers who actually read most of those boards but EVERY dancer I know asks me if their name ever gets mentioned. They want to know, but they don't want to read it.

yoda57us
07-06-2009, 04:53 PM
Of course that's just me. Heck I'm called worse on Stripper Web and still read it; haven't you noticed the kinder and gentler Earl_the_Pearl. ::)

LOL, well, I hadn't noticed but, in any event, it's an entirely different animal here on Stripperweb. It's a moderated forum and you can not post without using the handle that you are registered under.

velvet
07-06-2009, 06:28 PM
I specifically referred to YOUR post of 6/24. To date, you haven't been able to back it up.

I have already directed you to some kind words sent in my direction giving you the forum, thread and date of post.

Why should G.R. or I take any swipes at you when you are apparently so self defining ? Exhibit "A" is the post that immediately followed the one I'm quoting here.

I'm not privy to any complaints about me that are kept PRIVATE. Obviously. I do know that I follow the rules and avoid personal attacks and name-calling, so I seriously question the actual basis for any complaint about me. Afaic there isn't one .If they don't like my ideas , that's fine. It's a free country. If they want to waste time complaining about my opinions, they are free to do that too. I will say that I have a history of working out my differences with a number of ladies on this board and more than one former antagonist now has a better idea of where I'm coming from and I in turn have a better appreciation of their concerns. And whatever personal issues may have been generated were resolved and at the very least we have reached a state of peaceful co-existence. It's called C O M M U N I C A T I O N and
D I A L O G U E . As I've repeatedly pointed out, it certainly helps to have something resembling an open mind and RESPECT for other people and ideas that you disagree with. From your posts, you seem to favor the Soviet model of approved discourse. I certainly don't lose any sleep worrying about what YOU think.

I'm sorry but I'm not interested in just posting what I think the dancers want to hear. Like a few of the male posters on here. Likewise, I'm not going to change my social and political views just to curry favor. Do you seriously have any respect for guys that do that ?

Btw,being a "public charge" does NOT mean holding public office. What are you running for ? Public Censor ?


well FBR already asked a page back to stay back on topic and not make it personal.
since it's you of course you dont think that applies to you.
i will give you one thing. i was not in the right frame of mind the other night when i made that post and did not read and write clearly.
none of this really matters it is after all only the Internet. it is however quite baffling why you care so much about a stripper board. i was trying to explain this silly ass argument to my husband. he had no words for why it even matters to either one of you.
it is a dead horse but you have never pointed out or linked me to these mystery posts. I now no longer care because since i "make stuff up as i go along" i must have just missed them::)
once again, my moderation was not made up as i went along. backed 100% by pryce and agreed to by my fellow mods. just because you keep saying it isn't true doesn't make it so.
you are just an argumentative asshole who just loves to argue for the sake of arguing. i got away with what i said to you earlier because everyone knows how you are and it's deserved. i can say this now because I'm not a mod.
as for GR i NEVER talked about your parties, know nothing about them and don't care either. so don't use that as an excuse to jump in this and back up your buddy. like you tried to say to FBR. I'm sure you conveniently didn't see his request until after you said your piece. ::)

velvet
07-06-2009, 06:43 PM
Unless a dancer is a complete masochist, she'll usually never bother viewing a customer based site, much less joining in on the fracas. While sites like TUSCL & zbone are great customer places (I personally like them alot), every dancer that has ever tried to join in has usually been bullied off of the site by at least one or two idiots. All it takes is one or two of them to scare away even the most tolerant dancer.

And as far as dancers learning anything from those sites - puh leeze.

The only thing most dancers take away from the experience is a confirmation of why they think most customers are complete assholes. Even if most of the posters are well behaved, she will only remember the douchebags, coz they are the ones that (unfortunately) stand out.

And the guys that bag on dancers on those sites the most are always the same guys who wonder why dancers don't come to the boards more often.

Clueless bastids.

nicely on topic and this translates to this board as well sometimes. i'm sure we have had plenty newbs leave or never sign up because of a few "loudmouths" we have here that love to badger women in one form or another.

vmurphy252
07-06-2009, 06:45 PM
Badger? We don't need no stinkin' badger.

velvet
07-06-2009, 06:54 PM
haha!

Eric Stoner
07-07-2009, 08:59 AM
well FBR already asked a page back to stay back on topic and not make it personal.
since it's you of course you dont think that applies to you.
i will give you one thing. i was not in the right frame of mind the other night when i made that post and did not read and write clearly.
none of this really matters it is after all only the Internet. it is however quite baffling why you care so much about a stripper board. i was trying to explain this silly ass argument to my husband. he had no words for why it even matters to either one of you.
it is a dead horse but you have never pointed out or linked me to these mystery posts. I now no longer care because since i "make stuff up as i go along" i must have just missed them::)
once again, my moderation was not made up as i went along. backed 100% by pryce and agreed to by my fellow mods. just because you keep saying it isn't true doesn't make it so.
you are just an argumentative asshole who just loves to argue for the sake of arguing. i got away with what i said to you earlier because everyone knows how you are and it's deserved. i can say this now because I'm not a mod.
as for GR i NEVER talked about your parties, know nothing about them and don't care either. so don't use that as an excuse to jump in this and back up your buddy. like you tried to say to FBR. I'm sure you conveniently didn't see his request until after you said your piece. ::)

You didn't seem to care about FBR's post until you got called on the carpet and exposed as a hypocrite.

Kindly refer me to the Rule that says "No namecalling , unless it's directed at Eric Stoner or any other poster ( YOU) don't like or agree with." Somehow I missed that wording. Btw, that's exactly how you behaved as a moderator. Choosing sides , closing threads when the side you favored got the worst of it, deliberately misunderstanding posts etc. It's my opinion. I'm entitled to it and frankly don't care who you claim backed up your decisions.

You can call me any name you like. I refuse to get down in the gutter with you.
Namecalling just demonstrates how intellectually impoverished you are.
Btw, let's leave your husband out of this.

I have repeatedly directed you where to find the posts in question. That you choose not to read them speaks volumes and is perfectly consistent with your policy of limiting information.

Eric Stoner
07-07-2009, 12:03 PM
The ridiculous irony is that I DISAGREED with "Golden Rule" and AGREED with those who thought male or custie oriented sites were not of any serious value to dancers. Still do.

I only jumped into this when G.R.'s bona fides and motives were called into question by posters who had no basis for doing so.

velvet
07-07-2009, 06:37 PM
Dude everyone knows you have an axe to grind with me and you are just looking more like an asshole if that is even possible. blah blah blah. velvet sucks, velvet is stupid, velvet was a mean unfair moderator. blah blah blah more blatant lies and accusations blah blah blah it's old and really stupid so i have nothing else to say to you.

oh i just realised since I'm not a mod i can put you on ignore now YAY!

PrettyCurlieQ
07-07-2009, 06:39 PM
I fucking hate reading reviews on sites like SCL, I tried that a long time ago, and all I read was "Oh there's this one girl and her nipples were so nice to lick for an extra $20" and bullshit like that. No thanks. Funny that guys weren't afraid to name-drop though.

Perry
07-07-2009, 07:31 PM
I really hate the ones that go, "There was this beautiful blonde dancer there 10 years ago. Does anyone know where she is?" and other non-sense like that. Or, "Where is so-and-so working now? Does anyone know how I can get ahold of her?" Creepy, obsessive fucks.

PrettyCurlieQ
07-07-2009, 07:36 PM
Omg I know!!

Eric Stoner
07-08-2009, 07:13 AM
Dude everyone knows you have an axe to grind with me and you are just looking more like an asshole if that is even possible. blah blah blah. velvet sucks, velvet is stupid, velvet was a mean unfair moderator. blah blah blah more blatant lies and accusations blah blah blah it's old and really stupid so i have nothing else to say to you.

oh i just realised since I'm not a mod i can put you on ignore now YAY!

This is a perfect example of how you deliberately misunderstand people for God only knows what reason.

YOU are the one who jumped into this thread. I didn't even mention your name. Remember ?

I NEVER said any of those things about you except that imho you did a poor job as a moderator because of blatant bias.

Kellydancer
07-08-2009, 12:37 PM
I really hate the ones that go, "There was this beautiful blonde dancer there 10 years ago. Does anyone know where she is?" and other non-sense like that. Or, "Where is so-and-so working now? Does anyone know how I can get ahold of her?" Creepy, obsessive fucks.

Very creepy. On SCL there is a posting for a current club that used to be near a now defunct club (one I worked at for many months). The defunct club has been brought up on the other club's site (because many of the girls went there when the club closed). I'm talking a club that's been closed almost 10 years. Anyway this one guy keeps asking if anyone knows the whereabouts of his favorite dancer, a dancer that hasn't danced in 15 years! If that isn't creepy enough, this same guy frequents every exotic dancer board and posts threads looking for her. I'm surprised he's not here.

WiseGuy_TX
07-08-2009, 08:02 PM
If that isn't creepy enough, this same guy frequents every exotic dancer board and posts threads looking for her. I'm surprised he's not here....i thought Jeff gave up his Search for Bianca?:D

Kellydancer
07-08-2009, 09:09 PM
...i thought Jeff gave up his Search for Bianca?:D

Not Jeff and Bianca, someone else entirely. I would say the name of the dancer or the customer but it would likely bring him here to post thread after thread about her. On a now defunct exotic dance forum I mentioned I worked at the specific club, and he pmed me asking if I knew her. He seems like a decent guy but he has to give up her as a dream and stop searching for her.

yoda57us
07-09-2009, 07:52 AM
...i thought Jeff gave up his Search for Bianca?:D


Hey, the web site is still up...never say never....

BlueJeanBaby
07-18-2009, 09:56 PM
the only thing of value I ever gained from parusing a customer based SC site (SCL) was the reinforced notion that there are a lot, A LOT of asshole guys out there who are pathetic and are not to be taken seriously.

In fact I found no nuggets or gems of valuable information in terms of dancing or money making from a customers perspective on that site whatsoever. Advise from other dancers was invaluable to me when I was dancing, and I will use it again as I'm about to return to dancing.

The only information from a customer that is useful to me is when it allows me to target and hustle you guys better. Every other bit of "advise", I frankly don't give a hot fuck to hear.

Information useful for hustling is nowhere to be found on SCL, because that's not what it's for. SCL is largely a buncha low-life douchetards bashing, lying, and creating drama.

As I said previously, the only useful thing a dancer, especially a newb should take home from that site is to really understand what kind of people she will be dealing with.

Some will insist that no, there is good information for dancers to use from this site, but I haven't heard of one dancer that went "wow I feel like after reading that I can really rake in the dough tonight. I'll be a better dancer now." Not at all. Those of you insisting that we value those random, baseless opinions on that site can insist all you want, but it doesn't change that it's simply not helpful.

How would I know? Because I put on the damn heels. We're the ones who are in a unique position to test any "advise" we get, and know what is useful and what is not.

It blows my mind that anyone who isn't in that position would imply we don't know what is useful to us and what is not by actually insisting on these damn sites.

Thanks for the opinion, which we will hold at whatever value we choose (not much).

pogocat
07-19-2009, 10:08 PM
LMAO Just visited scl and I am dying about what I'm reading. The first post talks about how the less atractive day time girls get rated a 10, but once us evil, hustling night time girls get there then it's a 7. He say's, "...success has ruined this club." He say's he gets $10 dances (which I charge $25 to $30 for depending on business) during the day. I'm glad he's telling people that. After they go in at 2 pm and can't see cause it's so dark and then get attacked by the old fat women that work during the day they can go ahead and discount this sight completely and maybe they'll figure out that there really is a difference between a $10 dance and a $25 one like everyone else is charging. Besides, he's not going to champagne anyway so I want all those cheap ass guys to show up on day shift. What a cheap sleazebag lol.

I also like how they all complain about us hustling them, but they're willing to pay to read the reviews. Who's hustling them again??? lol

Miss L
07-22-2009, 03:05 PM
I can only imagine that looking at this kind of site would be useful for quelling all feelings of sympathy for the dude who tries to sell you a bullshit sob story or waste your time. For me, at least. I sometimes have trouble putting aside my big soft bleeding heart at work. Honestly, it may sound bleak, but learning the ugly truth might make me into a more efficient--and more merciless--earner.

Sophia_Starina
07-26-2009, 03:22 AM
I sometimes have trouble putting aside my big soft bleeding heart at work. Honestly, it may sound bleak, but learning the ugly truth might make me into a more efficient--and more merciless--earner.

Yesssss..... I too, want to be ruthless. Like I said knowledge is power. It is what you make of it.

BuxomBeauty
07-26-2009, 03:55 AM
From my experience, the strip club "review" sites are not a very good source of information for DANCERS. The bragging about extras is often along the lines of juvenile locker room bragging without any real backing. Many of the reviews and comments come from various staffmembers, dancers, disgruntled ex-employees and dancers, and customers who couldn't get laid. Much of the info is way out of date.

The only thing I've found to be consistently true about those sites is that more often than not, a club with several reviews and a low customer rating is generally a better place for dancers to work; a club with a super high customer rating is usually a shithole for the dancers. Imagine that :O

Earl_the_Pearl
07-26-2009, 04:42 PM
The only thing I've found to be consistently true about those sites is that more often than not, a club with several reviews and a low customer rating is generally a better place for dancers to work; a club with a super high customer rating is usually a shithole for the dancers. Imagine that :O
Perhaps Golden Rule's suggestion in the opening post were sincere. /:O

Golden_Rule
07-28-2009, 02:05 AM
Yesssss..... I too, want to be ruthless. Like I said knowledge is power. It is what you make of it.

You couldn't be ruthless. Its not in you. BTW, that's something you ought to be proud of.

[Please be nice to me, my birthday is Friday] :)

Earl_the_Pearl
07-28-2009, 04:30 PM
You couldn't be ruthless. Its not in you. BTW, that's something you ought to be proud of.

[Please be nice to me, my birthday is Friday] :)
Birthdays are common and cheap in your age bracket. What are you 53 and 1/2?:P

Golden_Rule
07-28-2009, 11:23 PM
birthdays are common and cheap in your age bracket. What are you 53 and 1/2?:p

:p

:D

BuxomBeauty
08-02-2009, 02:54 PM
Ehh, I think strip club review sites and having customers and dancers interacting so much has contributed to the ruin of the strip club industry. Customers don't need to know what we think of them - it only spoils the fantasy THEY want, which discourages them from spending. Strippers don't need to know what customers think of us - it only makes us more bitter and resentful toward the men.
;)

There are exceptions to everything, but I think all this customer-dancer out of club interaction has been counter-productive overall.

Earl_the_Pearl
08-02-2009, 04:17 PM
Ehh, I think strip club review sites and having customers and dancers interacting so much has contributed to the ruin of the strip club industry.
This is one of the few sites where dancers and PLs interact. Actually the truth comes out in the areas where we don't interact. The vast majority of dancers do not go online this is true of PLs also.

If you want to know what clubs have a more intelligent PL look at the number of posts about that club on SCL. The virtual brothels in the worst areas have the fewest number of posts.

If I wanted to be a verified dancer I could do it very easily. One really doesn't know who one is online.

Shy_Guy
08-02-2009, 04:31 PM
^ I know the SoCal sc board for men, ZBone, is the opposite. Usually the MORE extra friendly a club is, the more traffic is on the board. That's because if a guy (or girl) is going to a club for extras, he (or she) is going to want to know who is a "sure-thing" so he doesn't waste money and time (haha, sound familiar?) on the wrong girl. I think it also brings out the bitter guys and gals slinging hate.

OTOH, a club where there are no extras to be had doesn't need so much of that. What you see is what you get. You walk in the club and you can decide for yourself which girl tickles your fancy without having to wonder if she really will tickle your fancy.

Although you always get a smattering of love-letters to dancers, and the dancers who use that to hook their regulars.

Earl_the_Pearl
08-10-2009, 09:20 PM
btw links for all the praise you have received here?
http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showpost.php?p=1741611&postcount=29

Perry
08-11-2009, 02:34 AM
http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showpost.php?p=1741611&postcount=29


Oh, no, no, no. You do not get to do that! The thread in it's entirety consisted of a post from a girl asking if she should just deal with high contact. GR took a break from his usual whore-mongering and extras praising and told the girl not to start doing or getting cozy with such activities or she would be sorry. I agreed with him because I'm not a fan of dirty girls. That thread had nothing to do with 'parties'. And you're going a bit far to call it praise.

Earl_the_Pearl
08-11-2009, 03:28 AM
Oh, no, no, no. You do not get to do that! The thread in it's entirety consisted of a post from a girl asking if she should just deal with high contact. GR took a break from his usual whore-mongering and extras praising and told the girl not to start doing or getting cozy with such activities or she would be sorry. I agreed with him because I'm not a fan of dirty girls. That thread had nothing to do with 'parties'. And you're going a bit far to call it praise.
Excuuuuuuuse me. I only posted a link I stumbled upon and remembered the challenge; I have no dog in the fight. :-X The interweb never forgets.

Golden_Rule
08-16-2009, 04:52 AM
Oh, no, no, no. You do not get to do that! The thread in it's entirety consisted of a post from a girl asking if she should just deal with high contact. GR took a break from his usual whore-mongering and extras praising and told the girl not to start doing or getting cozy with such activities or she would be sorry. I agreed with him because I'm not a fan of dirty girls. That thread had nothing to do with 'parties'. And you're going a bit far to call it praise.

The amount I am misunderstood here by certain people just fascinates me sometimes.

I find, though I am sure there must be some exception that proves the rule somewhere, that when this is the case it is almost always because the listener has preconceived notions about me, or people they presume that I must be like, that prevents them from actually hearing anything I am saying.

For the record, I have admitted to getting extras from time to time. I do so because I am honest about myself in these posts. I do not praise the activity. I don't condemn it either. In fact what I have said is that the acts of consenting adults having to do with their own bodies is their own business and no one else'.

Nor do I praise any dancer's involvement in giving extras. In fact, as I clearly pointed out in the post mentioned above, I believe it to be activity that can be particularly harmful to those not prepared for its consequences. For those who are prepared and well suited it can be a source of quick capitalization to reach higher ends. I believe that the decision to sell sex, when undertaken, should never be done without due diligence and always with a plan for making good use of the money generated so as to make any sacrifice made worthwhile.

Now I hope we're all straight on where I stand on the subject.

BuxomBeauty
08-21-2009, 01:27 AM
This is one of the few sites where dancers and PLs interact. Actually the truth comes out in the areas where we don't interact. Yeah, from the stripper point of view, IMO too much truth comes out in places like stripping general and hustle hut where it's open for everyone to read, including customers. It is my opinion that customers don't need to see all that and having it wide open has been detrimental to the industry. I would also say that we girls don't benefit from seeing what most PLs really think of us...we certainly don't benefit from the weekly "how do I get a date with this stripper" posts. lol



The vast majority of dancers do not go online this is true of PLs also.I am aware of that, and I say: Thank goodness most PLs aren't online searching for advice on how to get the most "enjoyment" out of their ever-shrinking strip club dollar!!! :)

ChoclatDiva21
08-24-2009, 08:28 AM
In my experience, albeit short-lived, I've learned a lot from the customer based sites. Like which clubs NOT to work in, how to spot an extras guy (a monger), which areas of town are hooker-laden... I'm gonna be WELL-prepared for the idiots lol

Golden_Rule
08-24-2009, 09:08 PM
In my experience, albeit short-lived, I've learned a lot from the customer based sites. Like which clubs NOT to work in, how to spot an extras guy (a monger), which areas of town are hooker-laden... I'm gonna be WELL-prepared for the idiots lol

As I suggested up front, while I don't think it is the only thing that can be gained, the strongest use for the sites is for newbies to learn the negative aspects of what they'll have to deal with and where they are most apt to run into it.