View Full Version : What exactly is a bad boy?
Cyril
06-25-2009, 06:43 PM
He's neither. He gets his own category. ;D
You're too sheltered and you need to get out more.
You may be a bit more knowledgeable than I am on the strip club issues. But when talking about life in general, I have seen some storms that will make you faint. I am not sheltered at all.
xdamage
06-25-2009, 06:47 PM
Don't piss on my leg and tell me it is raining; you may be pissing on your own leg. Procreation is the prime objective.
It is not so simple. As Richard Dawkins pointed out long ago, if reproduction was the only goal, all creatures would have evolved to self-reproduce and just replicate as fast as possible. But that isn't the way it is because it just doesn't work. It is a strategy that fails for multiple reasons.
At best you end up with dumb plants or simple creatures that replicate so fast they run out of resources.
The splitting of the sexes is what worked, and there is a complex dance at play that has our genes self-competing, and self-striving. It is what works. You don't have to like it, nor does anyone else who thinks the other half is unnecessary, but who cares. Just cause our genes didn't give us self-awareness of the bigger picture doesn't mean there isn't one. In the bigger picture, a woman (or a man) is often playing a better strategy by holding out for a better partner, yea eve often trading their bodies (sexual exclusivity) for a better partner. It is what works, and is basic instinct, not a game or manipulation.
lopaw
06-25-2009, 07:08 PM
LOL
You straight people are very entertaining when you compare gender roles.
Makes my lifestyle seem simple in comparison. :D
JayATee
06-25-2009, 07:09 PM
You may be a bit more knowledgeable than I am on the strip club issues. But when talking about life in general, I have seen some storms that will make you faint. I am not sheltered at all.
Yes I know, because Im just soooo young and inexperienced. ::)
Don't piss on my leg and tell me it is raining; you may be pissing on your own leg. Procreation is the prime objective.
LoL. For who? I for one didn't marry my husband because I wanted to have children. They are the last thing that I want.
Earl_the_Pearl
06-25-2009, 07:12 PM
It is what works, and is basic instinct, not a game or manipulation.
With the long term provider she has to keep him around; with a gene mixer 10 minutes is all that is needed. I know the score; I watched the five hour special on doing it on the Discovery Channel.
You and me baby ain't nothin' but mammals
So let''s do it like they do on the Discovery Channel
Do it again now
You and me baby ain't nothin' but mammals
So let's do it like they do on the Discovery Channel
Gettin' horny now
Earl_the_Pearl
06-25-2009, 07:18 PM
LoL. For who? I for one didn't marry my husband because I wanted to have children. They are the last thing that I want.
Marriage is not necessary to have children. Are you really that old school?
Earl_the_Pearl
06-25-2009, 07:23 PM
LOL
You straight people are very entertaining when you compare gender roles.
Makes my lifestyle seem simple in comparison. :D
That is why I'm in favor of gay marriage; that will kick simplicity in the ass.
JayATee
06-25-2009, 07:24 PM
Marriage is not necessary to have children. Are you really that old school?
No dear Im not. Go back and read your comment. I didnt date guys before I got married with the idea of having babies with them either. Procreation is no longer the prime objective, as you stated. That's what Im commenting on. ::)
Earl_the_Pearl
06-25-2009, 07:42 PM
Procreation is no longer the prime objective, as you stated.
It is not my statement; it is the creators or the evolvers if you prefer. If your decisions do not replicate your genetic code it will cease to be.
My genetic code will go on many of them. I have some left wink wink, nudge nudge. ;)
lopaw
06-25-2009, 07:42 PM
That is why I'm in favor of gay marriage; that will kick simplicity in the ass.
Gay marriage would hamper my wanton promiscuity.
I'll have none of it.
Earl_the_Pearl
06-25-2009, 07:47 PM
Gay marriage would hamper my wanton promiscuity.
I'll have none of it.
What will you do when you are presented with the ultimatum; marry me or I must move on?
JayATee
06-25-2009, 07:51 PM
It is not my statement; it is the creators or the evolvers if you prefer. If your decisions do not replicate your genetic code it will cease to be.
My genetic code will go on many of them. I have some left wink wink, nudge nudge. ;)
It is because of ppl like you that make me positive that I do not need to worry about the human race dying out soon, so I have no reason to contribute.
And I fully believe it's only males that feel the continuation of genes is so important. I for one, couldnt care less.
Gay marriage would hamper my wanton promiscuity.
I'll have none of it.
Lopaw, you are a very bad girl. You will have a lot to explain to St Peter at the Pearly Gates 50 years from now ;)
FBR
Elvia
06-25-2009, 07:55 PM
^ Shouldn't the idea of Earl reproducing make us more concerned? This conversation is starting to remind me of the movie Idiocracy.
lopaw
06-25-2009, 07:56 PM
What will you do when you are presented with the ultimatum; marry me or I must move on?
Well...short of running screaming out of the room, my immediate response would be "See ya, toots! It's been fun but I gotta GO!"
I'm obviously not marriage material.
lopaw
06-25-2009, 07:59 PM
Lopaw, you are a very bad girl. You will have a lot to explain to St Peter at the Pearly Gates 50 years from now ;)
FBR
LOL
I think that I might make St Peter blush with all the acts of sexual depravity that I've explored in this life (so far).
Earl_the_Pearl
06-25-2009, 08:12 PM
And I fully believe it's only males that feel the continuation of genes is so important. I for one, couldnt care less.
You are young; when the ticking of your biological clock becomes unbearable we will be there for you; we are so easy.
Cyril
06-25-2009, 08:17 PM
Yes I know, because Im just soooo young and inexperienced. ::)
LoL. For who? I for one didn't marry my husband because I wanted to have children. They are the last thing that I want.
Based on your posts, it seems like you see life as black and white. You are unable to understand a simple fact that someone may love you and yet may not want the whole world to know about it. That trait is usually a sign of youth.
Earl_the_Pearl
06-25-2009, 08:17 PM
^ Shouldn't the idea of Earl reproducing make us more concerned? This conversation is starting to remind me of the movie Idiocracy.
I thought you had me on ignore; I knew you would be back. :wave:
Earl_the_Pearl
06-25-2009, 08:22 PM
Based on your posts, it seems like you see life as black and white. You are unable to understand a simple fact that someone may love you and yet may not want the whole world to know about it. That trait is usually a sign of youth.
Cyril my man; that is a sign of a "nice guy". A "bad boy" doesn't give a flying f what others think. He takes what he wants and makes panties wet in the processes.
Cyril
06-25-2009, 08:26 PM
Cyril my man; that is a sign of a "nice guy". A "bad boy" doesn't give a flying f what others think. He takes what he wants and makes panties wet in the processes.
I get the feeling they were jerking my chain about liking good guys. I mean it is a bulletin board and all that but still we should show at least some degree of sincerity.
JayATee
06-25-2009, 08:34 PM
You are young; when the ticking of your biological clock becomes unbearable we will be there for you; we are so easy.
Umm... no.
Based on your posts, it seems like you see life as black and white. You are unable to understand a simple fact that someone may love you and yet may not want the whole world to know about it. That trait is usually a sign of youth.
You are truly clueless, so stop trying to analyze me because you have no idea what you're talking about. The types of questions you ask, and some of the statements you make seriously lead me to believe you're considerably younger than I am, or severely sheltered which would make all your "life experience" non-existant.
Earl_the_Pearl
06-25-2009, 08:42 PM
Umm... no.
No you are not young or no your biological clock will not sound an alarm? You are obviously young; we will have to wait a few years for your biological alarm to sound. We will be there for you. :propeller
xdamage
06-25-2009, 09:54 PM
Cyril my man; that is a sign of a "nice guy". A "bad boy" doesn't give a flying f what others think. He takes what he wants and makes panties wet in the processes.
The irony is that the overriding symphony is that we all are just trying to one up each other, to show the others we have a better hand, which of course would be moot if we were the only one's left on the planet. The only point of one upping is good old human instinct, to demonstrate to others our value and have an effect on others. Which btw was disturbing to you that women might behave in ways that improved their standing with others.
Ah well that is us people. It is what we do. Instincts drive us to it.
Also our genes BTW don't give a shit if we are comfy or even care if any of us individually spreads our seed. Why not? Cause we all share 99.9% of the same genes anyway. The vast majority of us have nothing new of value to add to the gene pool anyway. Even the beautiful, if stripped of makeup and cosmetics often have very little significantly new to add.
Hell even mice have 97% of the same genetic sequences as you and I. As crazy as it all appears, our genes do survive and thrive, even in the face of people over breeding and dying painful deaths, the genes live on.
Personal procreation is really not the ultimate goal. In fact if it would help the genes survive, it would be just as well if some people can't/don't and only contribute an ancillary ways. Yea, sounds cold but among many types of animals not all get a chance to breed personally, but they do contribute something to the survival of the group.
Life is complex ;)
Earl_the_Pearl
06-25-2009, 10:16 PM
The irony is that the overriding symphony is that we all are just trying to one up each other, to show the others we have a better hand, which of course would be moot if we were the only one's left on the planet.
I do hope I cut the b.s. at the proper point.
Earl_the_Pearl
06-25-2009, 10:18 PM
The irony is that the overriding symphony is that we all are just trying to one up each other, to show the others we have a better hand, which of course would be moot if we were the only one's left on the planet.
I do hope I cut the b.s. at the proper point. I am drinking Mosolon XXX and will get back at you when ever.
JayATee
06-25-2009, 11:36 PM
No you are not young or no your biological clock will not sound an alarm? You are obviously young; we will have to wait a few years for your biological alarm to sound. We will be there for you. :propeller
No Im not THAT young, and no my biological alarm will not sound. Thanks for the offer though!
Britney_B
06-26-2009, 06:16 AM
Definition of Bad Boy-the boys that I always seem to fall for, and they aren't your typical thug, UFC fighter tated up guys. I have dated lawyers, doctors and stock brokers that were bigger bad boys than the thug type guys. With worse problems like huge cocaine addictions, wives, anything imaginable. Ex) the manager of Hustler the one married with two kids. Ha ha at least I can laugh at my poor judgement.
Cyril
06-26-2009, 07:44 PM
Definition of Bad Boy-the boys that I always seem to fall for, and they aren't your typical thug, UFC fighter tated up guys. I have dated lawyers, doctors and stock brokers that were bigger bad boys than the thug type guys. With worse problems like huge cocaine addictions, wives, anything imaginable. Ex) the manager of Hustler the one married with two kids. Ha ha at least I can laugh at my poor judgement.
You are correct. There are lawyers, engineers and doctors who are bad boys. Thank you for your valuable inputs.
Our bad boy in question can be a guy from a good home or he can be a trailer trash. Good point!
hockeybobby
06-26-2009, 07:54 PM
The ladies couldn't resist luke.
http://johnnyvengeance.net/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/cool-hand-luke.jpg
Earl_the_Pearl
06-26-2009, 08:16 PM
And I fully believe it's only males that feel the continuation of genes is so important. I for one, couldnt care less.
I was not thinking about replicating my DNA; in fact I wasn't thinking. As you know when the little head gets the blood there is none left for the big head.
Cyril
06-26-2009, 08:22 PM
The ladies couldn't resist luke.
http://johnnyvengeance.net/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/cool-hand-luke.jpg
Thank you for keeping it real! :)
xdamage
06-26-2009, 08:31 PM
I was not thinking about replicating my DNA;
DING DING DING, we have a winner.
Hey, even the dumbest animals manage to find mates, go through various mating rituals, have sex, get excited, cum, eat, take care of their young to varying degrees, and so on. It is doubtful any animals says "yea well I'm doing this to propogate my DNA". The reality is, none of needs to know why we do what we do. That is instinct. Just as long as we do what works over the long run, no awareness is needed why we do it, the essence of instinct.
The only amazing thing is people assume they are free of instinct, because they can't see it. Reminds me of those glasses we got as kids that were colored say, blue, and if you looked at a red and blue drawing through them, it was like we could see the red, but not the blue. Imagine if you were born like that. It might never even occur to you there was such a thing as blue.
Likewise there are endless human behaviors we people engage in but are utterly blind to; our brains are just not wired to see it. It is right there in front of us but we can't see our own instinctual behavior with each other. To what degree we do see it, it makes no sense, and we blame it on society, on deception, on personal flaws.