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lmiller22134
07-21-2009, 04:31 AM
No, and I say this to customers all the time- My vagina would hurt too much if I did.
audrey_k
07-21-2009, 05:54 AM
I've never done it, I wouldn't be able to handle it.
Like others said $250 is the standard rate I've heard, I know a lot of girls who do it through the internet and charge $250 to show up, then $250 for each hour.
True the VIP rate for an hour at my club is $1200... but that happens, never? I think our dance prices are too low but they're hard enough to sell. It's sad but if you want to make consistent money it seems you have to lower your price tag.
Melonie
07-21-2009, 04:59 PM
Escorting and dancing seem like two totally different worlds to me.
Back in the '90's the two activities were indeed separate and distinct for the most part. Exotic dancing was considered to be 'show business' whereas escorting was considered to be 'sex business'. Unfortunately, with each passing year, increasing contact levels in clubs, increasing willingness by young / foreign dancers to do whatever is necessary to pursuade customers to part with their money, and increasing expectations from customers, has gradually mutated exotic dancing into the 'sex business' as well. Thus at this point in time, with rare exceptions, the vast majority of clubs now qualify as being 'sex business'. In fact, this mutation was the primary reason that I retired from live club dancing.
Not wanting to sound elitist, but from anecdotal evidence the typical SW dancer has an educational and economic level that is well above the average dancer. Even so, 20% of the respondents to this thread's SW survey freely admit to having had sex for money with (certain) customers. It is guaranteed that the percentage of all dancers who have had / do have sex for money with (certain) customers is much higher than 20%. Arguably, in some clubs these days there are only 20% of dancers who do NOT have sex for money with (certain) customers. As such, 'escorting' and exotic dancing are clearly no longer totally separate pursuits.
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MissMynxx
07-21-2009, 05:29 PM
I've certainly broken the cardinal slut rules of fucking someone to get something or fucking someone I wouldn't have anyway (feeling obligated for one reason or another, etc.).
I've never turned tricks in the club. THe worst I've done is ground on a guy until he creamed his pants - which I find hysterical. I get pissed when girls do serious tricks ITC and fuck with my money - I'm NOT about to be a hypocrite. However, I've toyed with the idea of working in a legal brothel over a summer or something. I just have the mentality/personality where I could look at myself in the mirror and not regret it.
I guess I just don't have the view about sex being sacred or sex being reserved for the one you love, etc. It's just sex to me. When I do it with someone I love, it's a wonderful experience and we bond and all the other rainbows and sunshine and unicorns shit. I love having sex with my fiance.
Otherwise, it's sort of just like playing a video game or reading a book. It's just an activity, like any other.
Prisoner201181
07-21-2009, 08:07 PM
I like this thread because it's real. As in everyone is being brutally honest here. Honestly I did something I am ashamed of. Well, first off I have given a blow job for money and drugs.
I also allowed myself to be videotaped with another girl for a $1000 when I went to eat dinner at a customers house and he wanted me to bring a friend. My newly-started-dancing friend gladly accepted as we each got $500 just for dinner. Another $1000 for the girl on girl stuff. I kissed him, but that was it and said I was done. He told me to call him when I "grew up" whatever. But I felt bad bc my friend didn't say that and regretted it later, so I felt like I pimped her out almost. Which made me feel like shit, and even worse he gave me an extra $1000 for bringing her and she only got the same amount even though she's the one that did the work so to speak. I just sat in a bathrobe and did some drugs in the closet and prayed to go home soon. I was really ashamed of myself for that. I know I couldn't mentally handle doing that and she was new, so I shouldn't have asked her.
People do what they are comfortable with and I don't judge them for that. But I was did something unfair by bringing someone I trusted and who trusted me into a situation I was unsure of, so that was wrong on my part.
Prisoner201181
07-21-2009, 08:10 PM
There are days though, that I wish I would have been like his prostitute (or girlfriend he liked to call them), bc the girl that was ended up with a BMW and her school paid for. But still I think the emotionally damage it would have done to my already sensitive psyche would have put me over the edge a bit. But I'm just weird most people aren't so sensitive about it.
KylieS2
07-22-2009, 08:21 AM
Prisoner I don't think it's your fault at all. You might have brought your friend but she had the choice of what she wanted to do. We all make our own decisions.
I think it's really easy to get talked into some kind of prostituting when there is a lot of money and drugs or alcohol involved. You're not thinking clearly when your intoxicated/high and the money is so tempting.
I personally don't see customers OTC and won't even go to a guy friend's house alone unless I really trust him for this reason. When I was younger though I did all the time, and I'm glad I never had to deal with a situation like that.