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xdamage
07-18-2009, 07:59 PM
Porn has always been around and prostitution even longer. As women became more liberated in every way they became less so in striptease.

True but we had to buy it at the liquor store and deal with the evil eye of the guy behind the counter, and a lot of it was fairly safe, the kink factor was limited.

Now we just go on the internet and endless volumes are at our finger tips, including kink from all over the world, complete with Search boxes making possible neato sorting by fetishes, ratings, etc. Technology is great but I'm thinking that near instant availability of it has had some effect. Like drugs, the more we take, the more we need to get that WOW effect.

Earl_the_Pearl
07-18-2009, 08:37 PM
Like drugs, the more we take, the more we need to get that WOW effect.
Agree but porn is not private dancing. It was permitting contact and private dancing that lead to the situation we have today. The dancers don't want to go to no touch if I believe what they said about the Ohio law.

audrey_k
07-19-2009, 10:17 AM
Owners tell dancers what days to work when to get on stage what kind of clothes they have to wear how much they have to "tip" other employees. They have rules for customers but one of them is not how much to tip dancers. I have seen many a PL asked to leave a club because he did not buy a drink but never for not tipping a dancer.

You are angry but can't do anything about the owner so you take it out on the PL.

I am not angry at the owner about the freeloading PL. The owner is doing his job. I am doing mine.

I am angry about the cheap PL who is taking advantage of the dancers by making them work for free... weird I feel like I've said this before?

Earl_the_Pearl
07-19-2009, 10:26 AM
I am not angry at the owner about the freeloading PL. The owner is doing his job. I am doing mine.

I am angry about the cheap PL who is taking advantage of the dancers by making them work for free... weird I feel like I've said this before?
We will have to agree to disagree as management has the club set up so PLs can as you say have a free show. Of course it is not free as management got money from him.

I find it odd that you like the way management has it setup so a PL can watch you and only management gets money.

yoda57us
07-19-2009, 10:59 AM
I am not angry at the owner about the freeloading PL. The owner is doing his job. I am doing mine.

I am angry about the cheap PL who is taking advantage of the dancers by making them work for free... weird I feel like I've said this before?


We will have to agree to disagree as management has the club set up so PLs can as you say have a free show. Of course it is not free as management got money from him.


You are both right....and ultimately this is the problem...

Management makes most of their money on liquor sales so liquor sales are all they really concern themselves with. If a guy is drinking then the club is happy. As far as selling dances, the best thing a club can do is optimize a dancer's opportunity to try and sell, they can't force guys to buy a dance.

audrey_k
07-20-2009, 12:32 AM
We will have to agree to disagree as management has the club set up so PLs can as you say have a free show. Of course it is not free as management got money from him.

I find it odd that you like the way management has it setup so a PL can watch you and only management gets money.

See my post in Cyril's thread for a better explanation on this.

deuce
07-24-2009, 10:07 AM
I've never told a dancer (or anyone else) that she was too smart for her profession.

But I have been told by a dancer, "Unlike most other strippers, I actually have a brain."

So it ain't just the custies who do the stereotyping.

Otoki
07-24-2009, 08:47 PM
Interesting thought but fortunately I don't count on a web forum to make my life better or worse. I come here for entertainment and, as scary as this may sound, this foolishness is entertaining...
I was using hyperbole. I love drama as much as anyone, but when it's a boring troll like this it's better to just put them on ignore. The really dramatically failtastic trolls are worth it, but this sort of shit is boring.

Earl_the_Pearl
07-24-2009, 09:34 PM
The really dramatically failtastic trolls are worth it, but this sort of shit is boring.

This cuts to the bone; I don't think I can ever post again.
http://users.skynet.be/fa023784/trollmoon/TrollArtistsBlog/files/page20_blog_entry37_3.jpg

Earl_the_Pearl
07-24-2009, 09:38 PM
Just kidding
http://www.twi.fr/images/img_figurines/img/figurines_cc_troll1.gif

Everyman
07-27-2009, 02:11 AM
Because you're too smart for this.

mediocrity
07-27-2009, 05:34 PM
Well. Happened to me again last night. Used the DW sales technique too, and the guy said he couldn't dance with me because I was too smart and on his level.

The kicker?

He was a fucking science teacher.

vmurphy252
07-27-2009, 06:55 PM
^Well, you are a med student. You should be able to keep up with most science teachers. Still don't get why that prevents guys from getting a dance. Makes the dance better for me if I think she's intelligent.

Earl_the_Pearl
07-27-2009, 10:24 PM
I go do not go to a club for friendship.

Almost Jaded
07-28-2009, 10:40 AM
I have a hard time believing you go anywhere for friendship, Earl. :p

Mediocrity - I promise that when I come see you at the club I will properly objectify you. :D

babybambi08
07-28-2009, 10:45 AM
because they are time wasters..
I get that shit all the time, its so fucking annoying!
After they say that I ask for a dance, they usually say ehhh, I donno.. I only dance for about 20% of people that say "Im too smart" swear I fucking hate that.. sometimes I try to act dumb, but it doesnt work!
I tell them, Um I get paid CASH every night, I get to right off almost anything I buy, like clothes, nails, hair, I get to work when I want, I make good money, I still have a life and go to school, why is this a dumb??

Almost Jaded
07-28-2009, 10:56 AM
It's not dumb, you're not dumb. They WANT you to be dumb.

They come expecting a brainless bimbo because in their narrow world a smart girl has a REAL career and wouldn't be dancing, and they are off their comfort zone real quick when they find out that the lovely thing in their lap is smarter than they are. That makes looking at you as a sex object hard for them (which is retarded on SO many levels), and they wanted to come look at girls as sex objects. :shrug:

Stupid, yes. Also pretty much true.

Otoki
07-28-2009, 02:11 PM
Well. Happened to me again last night. Used the DW sales technique too, and the guy said he couldn't dance with me because I was too smart and on his level.

The kicker?

He was a fucking science teacher.
He's a time waster. I get "you're so smart" all the time, and it usually LEADS to dances, it doesn't turn people off. I mean, it's pretty easy to tell if a guy wants a smart girl, an "average" girl, or a bimbo, but sometimes people surprise you.

You might want to avoid showing off your intellect TOO much before getting a dance. It may make the guy uncomfortable.::) Meh.

audrey_k
07-29-2009, 05:28 AM
Nobody's said this to me in the past week... because I have been making a huge attempt to not appear intelligent.

And, funny, I'm making more money than I ever have. So I guess stripper appearing to be dumb = stripper everyones wants to dance with, over and over again.

Maybe it's the clubs in this city... but whatever, I will pretend to be a dumb blonde who just giggles and smiles until I can work in an SC where my intellgence will be appreciated...

It just sucks because it gets boring. I want intelligent conversation :(

Earl_the_Pearl
07-29-2009, 05:30 PM
I want intelligent conversation :(
I offer that @ $200 an hour. :graduate:

audrey_k
07-29-2009, 08:14 PM
Does booty shaking action and some firemen moves come with that?

Almost Jaded
07-29-2009, 10:18 PM
Audrey_k frightened me with that statement.

Earl_the_Pearl
07-29-2009, 10:29 PM
Does booty shaking action and some firemen moves come with that?
I no longer have a professional type booty.

Shy_Guy
08-04-2009, 10:40 AM
^ I guess you'd have not some much a booty shake as a booty jiggle, then?