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jack0177057
07-22-2009, 08:49 AM
was thinking of doing a double major. astrophysics.
I really, really, don't want to teach. but never say never I guess

Now, you're blowing my mind... If you don't want to teach, is NASA your career path or are there other dream jobs in your field?

Almost Jaded
07-22-2009, 05:24 PM
There are TONS of jobs for different physics and theoretical math majors that I was surprised at until I was around it a bit longer. One of my childhood friends is a very respected mathematician, Math Olympics champion and all that - got a VERY well paying job working for a stock brokerage and asset management firm. Last place in the world he thought he'd be, lol They paid him to sit around and try to create mathematical models of the market, which they knew to be all but impossible - but paid him 6 figures to do anyway...

Physics majors end up in all kinds of places too. Data security anyone? Who woulda thunk the next big leap in secure data transmission would be based on Heisenberg's principle? And so on.

I should quit worrying about making a living and go back to school. I miss that stuff. :(

bluelight
07-22-2009, 05:25 PM
NASA would be a the ultimate. It's very difficult to find a non-teaching job in the field. Even with a PhD it's hard. The are a certain number of slots.
I don't want to be out of a job later

jack0177057
07-23-2009, 09:56 AM
^^^ NASA must be an amazing place to work. I've been to the Kennedy Space Center and the Johnson Space Center and I've been really impressed with them... I think teaching would not be so bad, though,... as long as it was at a university or institution with a strong astonomy department, very hi-tech cutting-edge equipment, and access to cutting edge research. The nice thing about a university position is that it would allow you the time and provide you the resources you to undertake independent research and publish your work.

holly07
07-25-2009, 02:18 AM
Hell yeah! I can relate. I have met some intelligent men at the club, but they are rare. I've realized if you are a beautiful woman w/ a killer body and your educated, most men seem to be in denial, perhaps because they bought into the stereotype that all bombshells are dumb then they meet us, and they realized they could have had it all, but instead they married a fat homely wife with an average brain.

bluelight
07-25-2009, 12:47 PM
^^ HA. I finally started telling guys my major is undecided. Works great!!

Paris
07-25-2009, 03:42 PM
Hi Bluelight, I know this isn't hustle hut and all, but had you considered just telling an outrageous story? Something that you both will know is BS, but is fun and interesting to the customers.

Try answering questions like this:
Cust: "So what do you do during the day?"
Dancer: (looks around nervously) "Don't tell anyone, but I'm an international spy here on a mission from Italy. You won't blow my cover will you?"

Or

Dancer: "I'm a super mutant from the planet Xerces. I have super powers you could never begin to understand, since you are a mere earthling."

or
Dancer: "I'm and understudy for (insert actress name here) in her new Broadway production that features exotic dancers. So I'm here doing research for the part."

or

Dancer: "I'm a vampire hunter and heard that they tend to congregate in this club."

Or whatever you feel like saying. Just make sure that the story is crazy enough that the customer wouldn't believe it unless he is crazy too. I used to play a game with my travel partner when we were working; we'd see who could come up with the most outrageous "real job" story and then try really hard to convince costumers that it was true. She managed to at least get a customer to go along with the "I'm a running back for the San Diego Chargers. They don't know I'm female."

BuxomBeauty
07-25-2009, 04:26 PM
I would suggest that some of the guys who are disappointed or uncomfortable with knowing you're such a smart, educated lady are those who realize you will not be a good target for their predatorial ways ;) I mean, TX clubs are notorious for guys like that...

I think yoda has the best advice overall. Our job is to provide fantasy for customers (no matter how much they might protest to the contrary ::)), and since they generally want us to be sexual objects to provide pleasure for them, the best thing to do is to act like that.

I only tell guys about my education and other interests when they clearly are interested in that. By far most of my conversations go something like this:

Me: How are you?
He: Ok, how are you?
Me: Fabulous! with a big grin and maybe a giggle
He: Well you look fabulous.
Me: Thanks! giggle What's your name?
He: John
Me: I'm BuxomBeauty. giggle Wow it's kinda chilly in here eh?
He: agrees
Me: Wanna go to the back and let me rub all over you to warm up?
He: uhhh, ok

london
07-25-2009, 07:09 PM
I used to get bent out of shape when guys would react in a similar way about my having a Masters degree. Nowadays, the only guys I offer this information to are the guys who tell me about their job and it is obvious that their profession calls for an advanced degree or if they have built up their own successful business (degree or not). They continue to spend and I don't have to censor my own education.

With the rest, well, I just smile, giggle, and behave as though I am their biggest fan....hee hee hee...of their money! lol These guys do get intimidated and feel that their money is no good with you because you don't really "need" it..as if you can pay your bills solely with your intellect, forgetting that, duh, you're in the club to make money just as well as the sob story girls.

Don't let it get to you. You do not have to act trashy to 'get to their level'..Just be fun, charming, and sexy..Save the 3 and 4 syllable words for the guys who show they can and will appreciate them! Most men respond well to visual and tactile stimulation, hold on to the other tools in your repertoire for those men who would be best suited for it.

Think of it this way, if you worked in a department store with both 'popular' brands and luxury brands, you wouldn't start off selling your luxury brand to every single customer, would you? However, if the customer began mentioning how much they love their Armani, Hermes thingamajig, that's when you know right where to steer them!

bluelight
07-26-2009, 04:47 PM
Paris: That would definitely be me stepping outside my box! It's a good way to detour the convo, I'll be playing with that idea this week! ;D

BuxomBeauty: That is what I've been doing lately. I still say I go to school, when asked what major I say undecided "I just can't make up my mind!!" Then change the subject, and act like I reallllly love their company>> and it's been working like a charm. (it's quick too, like a half a song)


Think of it this way, if you worked in a department store with both 'popular' brands and luxury brands, you wouldn't start off selling your luxury brand to every single customer, would you? However, if the customer began mentioning how much they love their Armani, Hermes thingamajig, that's when you know right where to steer them!

That is a great way to put it. Thank you so much!

charlie61
07-26-2009, 05:05 PM
Think of it this way, if you worked in a department store with both 'popular' brands and luxury brands, you wouldn't start off selling your luxury brand to every single customer, would you? However, if the customer began mentioning how much they love their Armani, Hermes thingamajig, that's when you know right where to steer them!

That's a really interesting way of thinking about it. I like! :)

datchapin
07-28-2009, 07:15 PM
To me I usually don't care, but me and my friends have discussed it before and I'll share what some of them said and then my thoughts.

It isn't about disbelief, it's about not understanding. Some of my friends flat out send girls away when they refuse a drink. The reason being that they don't get why girls would work in such an establishment when they don't partake. When they see me buy a chick a water, they'll sometimes quiz the shit out of her. Then when she leaves or I come back from getting dances what I usually hear is why did you hang out/ get dances from that weirdo.

With school it's about what they're trying to accomplish. Intellectually cultured people... that's all nice and all, but, profitting off of such a polar element of the human psyche. On that part it isn't about stereotypes, student/strippers are just as many as dumb/strippers. On that it's you that's stereotyping, because you believe you don't belong there. It's a concept many don't understand and when faced with something one doesn't understand it's hard to find a manner in which to properly proceed. I've had alot of my friends turn down dances for this reason and what they usually tell me is they can't chill with someone how they don't get. Same thing with the army.

Me I don't care. Everybody does what they feel they should do right, so I can usually roll with it. Maybe I shouldn't ask what field they study, but my curiosity is intense, I love learning. Sorry, can't help it. Some subjects though will be convo enders for me. The armed forces are one of them, I've hated them for the longest, since highschool I think. I don't bring it up in a SC ever, but whenever it is brought up, I'm done.

I'm a chapin, so I get the community angle, but you know what. Fuck em' chismosos.

goreantx
07-28-2009, 07:27 PM
Most guys aren't coming to the strip club to hear about what you do. I think that's just a typical "get to know you" question that people learn to ask. If I don't keep the conversation coming back to teehee-sexy-me, it can commit suicide and turn them off.

You might just cut off at the part where you are going to college and then say something like "oh I learn lots of really cool stuff there, like last semester I took sex ed" and start talking about weird sex positions.

My favorite thing to do when people ask about stuff that isn't their business is to deflect the question with a "What about you? What do you like to do for fun?" then say "Oh really? I bet I'm more fun! Let's go party!"

Everyone knows the way a strip club works, guy come in door, guy get drink, guy get swooped upon by super hot (and twice as smart as him) vixen, guy lose all his money. You just gotta keep the script going! 8)

jack0177057
07-28-2009, 08:31 PM
^^^ That's probably true for most, but not all, guys... Brainy sexy women totally turn me on...